We survived living in our toxic ass parents house. For years you were told that you were nothing and you made it. Live for your because our parents are damaged and only did their best with what they had and what they knew. Other family members and peers enabled their poor behaviors and meanwhile we suffered and had to pick ourselves up. Now we’re in our 20’s and are emotionally unavailable hmmmm, I wonder where we got that from. You can’t give what you never got.