What makes a conversation "difficult"?

Parents tell me all the time that they don't like having "difficult" conversations with their teens. 

"I don't like confrontation," some say. Or, "I don't want to make them uncomfortable."

So, let's get curious for a minute. 

What is it that makes a conversation difficult?

It's what we think about it. It's what we think the other person is thinking about it. It's a million other thoughts, but it always comes down to our thoughts. 

It's not that sex or pornography are inherently difficult things to talk about them, it just that we have a bunch of thoughts that make it hard to talk about. Thoughts like:

• "This is going to be weird," or
• "People don't talk about sex or pornography," or
• "This isn't normal."

"Difficult" conversations DON'T have to be "difficult."

And, it's 100% okay to feel some discomfort!

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