What if someone you love knows that stealing is bad, and yet she will vote for an electoral candidate with known ill-gotten wealth? What happened to the alignment of values with the vote decision? In this video, I give you 5 ways to understand her current hierarchy of values which shows a contradiction in values. Sincerely find out more information as to how she sees realities from her perspectives. 1. When she tells you the reason for her vote, listen for more information or asks “Tell me more.” 2. If she comments on your behavior, repeat the statement with a question mark, and you could know more how you are coming across. 3. Check for information gaps, although be careful with the tone of your voice matters as you are not in a debate but in a friendly conversation. 4. Reframe her statements in a positive way. 5. Expand her realities but helping her to consider other possibilities. It is important from hereon to improve in training and education methods. Be prudent as well in giving her future assignments that will make people question her integrity, when she upholds one value but still is convinced of a contrary value.