Lord, 

Instead of focusing on changing my spouses heart, change mine Father. I ask right now that you begin to turn my heart. Refine my heart. Lord I ask that I forgive, extend compassion, love unconditionally, and glorify you in my marriage. Lord I ask that you search my heart and reveal to me areas where I need to surrender to you Father. Lord I ask to decrease me and increase more of you in my heart and daily actions. Lord I thank you for restoring my heart and healing my heart the best. You are healer and provider. I thank you that my heart is not too much for you. I thank you that you show me how to love, love and love some more. Jesus, thank you for loving me the best. Lord thank you for loving my marriage and my spouse the best. Turn my heart toward my spouse and my spouses heart toward me with you at the center Jesus. I thank you Abba Father. 

In your name, 

Amen