A lot of the people come to me and ask me to help them separate, how can they stay friends, how can they clear out the anger, the pain, the injuries that have been caused over time. Of course, when some decisions have not been taken categorically and the personal insult, and pain makes them want to separate, even though they are not entirely convinced of that. There are ways in which we can clear this very painful experience so that we can see the truth inside ourselves, and whether we're willing to move on with that partner or to reveal ourselves in a new way. Because quite often we get stuck in blaming the other, seeing what the other person is lacking and their mistakes, seeing what he/she hasn't given us and what he/she's not changing, so that we fail to acknowledge our true desires, our true pain, for failing to find a way to come out of this accusation, and to embrace the choice of looking for the resources that are found in the couple and in love, and find a way to really thank each other, apologize, admit that we've made mistakes and ask the other person to forgive us. And if we are willing to do that together, we can take the next step to improving our relationship.
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