In this special bonus episode, CA and Jaime take a deep dive into the Jonah Hill text message situation to explore the importance of standards and boundaries, how and when to have conversations about them, standards versus control, and more.

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Jonah Hill, Sarah Brady Text Messages—Full Transcript: https://www.newsweek.com/jonah-hill-sarah-brady-text-messages-full-transcript-1812193

Notes:

• Background on the Jonah Hill texts
• Why stating your boundaries and standards is actually a good thing
• The differences between boundaries and standards
• The importance of deciding what matters to you before it’s too late
• Core components of standards we should look at in a relationship
• How to have conversations about boundaries and standards
• Clarify! Clarify! Clarify!
• Looking at Jonah Hill’s texts
• Giving away the keys to the car
• Being celebrated vs tolerated

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