Jaime and CA continue their series on insecure attachment styles with a discussion on the anxious-attachment style. This time, Jaime opens up about her experiences as someone who naturally falls under this category.

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Part 1

Ep. 39: The Justification Trap

Notes:

  • The most difficult part of attachment healing
  • How anxious-attachment types deal with discomfort in a relationship
  • The signs of an anxious-attached person
  • Why anxious attachment starts with “never being good enough”
  • Roleplaying anxious-attachment
  • What causes anxious-attachment people to spiral
  • Steps you can take to heal from being anxious-attachment
  • The importance of clear and direct communication

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