This may be uncomfortable, but how often do you think you blame outside forces for why you aren't living your dreams? And the only thing blame does is hold your power...even as you are the one giving that power away to blame. Instead, work on your 'I' thoughts to transform your life into your dreams. Instead of, "it's not working." "I will figure out how to make it work." Gives me back my power and opens up my brain to access the creativity to figure it out.