1:15 this is not about perfection, its about awareness and trusting the process

2:00 tool #1 GEMS “genuine encounter moments”

7:27 tool #2 Pause Buttons with intention to teach

8:08 victor Frankl book “Mans Search for Meaning”

11:08 using fear, force, rewards, & punishments isn’t teaching our kids

11:35 giving kids the gift of intrinsic motivation & ability to follow moral compass

13:16 You can be the source of peace

Book Recommendations:

• Children: The Challenge : The Classic Work on Improving Parent-Child Relations--Intelligent, Humane & Eminently Practical by Rudolf Dreikurs and Vicki Stolz
• Hold On to Your Kids: Why Parents Need to Matter More Than Peers by Gordon Nuefeld and Gabor Maté MD
• Nonviolent Communication: A Language of Life: Life-Changing Tools for Healthy Relationships (Nonviolent Communication Guides) by Marshall B. Rosenberg