What You’ll Hear In This Episode:

  • How do we maintain our autonomy in a relationship?
  • What does it look like to lose yourself and your identity in a relationship, and how do hormones and anxiety play a role?
  • Lisa and Benjamin describe a few typical scenarios that occur when the intimate bond starts prematurely.
  • Once we become sexually or chemically bonded, we can start to lose ourselves.
  • In a relationship where you guard each other's souls, you are able to surrender completely.
  • A good coach can help you identify what you have to offer that a man can’t get anywhere else. Working with Lisa and Benjamin, their clients learn to mirror a man’s masculinity back to him, which in turn makes her irresistible.
  • Why are people afraid to ask for the space they need?

Continue On Your Journey

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Mentioned:

Carl Rogers

Lynn Andrews 

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Quotes: 

  • “A man is attracted to a woman because a woman is his teacher.” - Benjamin
  • “A woman can offer a man things that a man can’t get from anywhere.” - Benjamin
  • “If a woman is in her femininity then a man can be in his masculinity.” - Benjamin
  • “You want to start to allow your reactivity to come up, and then you want to start doing some self-processing work.” - Lisa
  • “Confidence is sexy, and it is super attractive to be in control not of the other person, but of your own reactivity and emotions.” - Lisa