In this Episode we Discuss how to have a happy Marriage.
- Invest in your marriage just like your business/career with a weekly meeting with an Agenda- Treat this like you would a valuable client. Make sure you don’t miss it.
No interruptions. In a quiet place. Ask the question. Where can I improve?
2 .Create the Vision of Your Union.
- Who do you see yourself as the significant other?
- Think like premier Romantic
- Cater directly to their love language in a big way on a regular basis
- Look for others to emulate
- Be with others that have marriage you want or others that want the same for their marriage (community)
ALWAYS HAVE SOMETHING GREAT TO LOOK FORWARD TO
- Are you excited about the future
- Give yourself something to be excited about.
- Is there an annual trip you take.
- Is this something you like to do together that you can do on a regular basis?
- Make rules - If I am gone this many days, we do a quick weekend away. Never miss date night, pillow talk on Sunday nights etc. There are so many!! Coffee Day. Get in your 10!
It’s possible to have a great marriage and a great career or business. Yes you can have it all. Envision it, claim it.Use Do Overs - I know i messed up last time.. Only 1 or 2 year
Do you buy more career books than marriage books? Stop saying you're doing it to put food on the table. Put each other first. For 30 days.
14- nights away just the two of you in another town
4- If gone more than 4 days then take days off during the week.
6- no phone after 6pm