Finesse Made: Recent Episodes
Jakobi Matagi
My name is Jakobi Matagi and I want to share with you the things I learn on this journey we call life. Finesse For Life!
Why set goals?
Triggers new behaviors
Helps you focus
Creates momentum - positive or negative
What is a good system?
Positivity
- Always speak positive
- Never be negative to others
Growth
- Stepping out of comfort zone
- Learning new skills
- Meet new people
Productive
- Always making improvement or progress daily
- Setbacks are lessons
- The big picture is being accomplished pixel by pixel
Embrace your failures. Let them teach you to progress not fall down.
What do you need to do?
Stop making excuses - everyone deals with shit be the one who handles their shit
Reevaluate your efforts - what didn’t go well that I can make better
Put your head down and go to work all failures are new beginnings - set goals and work efficiently reach out to people who can help
Home
- Clean and declutter
- Get natural sunlight
- Background Music (Playlist Link)
Work
- Good relationship with co-workers (stay out of drama)
- Have a good work mindset (expect a good day)
- Decide your reaction to known problems ahead of time
Friends
- Your friend circle should always respect and support your decision. They should also keep you in check
- You shouldn't leave social hang outs drained you should be energized
- Unfollow people on social media that are affecting you in real life
Getting off the nipple is simply just becoming independent and not dependent from your parents.
I hope that this helps give perspective of how to push yourself to become more independent.
How do you start your day?
This is how I start my day:
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Make my bed
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Shower and Brush Teeth
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Get dressed for work
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Make breakfast (Oatmeal with Egg white and spinach omelet)
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Glass of water
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Get all set up for a day of work
What is your relationship with patience?
Learn your process trust it and enjoy the journey.
What can help you feel more secure in your life?
Choosing to take control of what you do, eat, watch, etc!
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1.Analyze situation
2.Taste Test
3.Stick to your Favorites
4.Educate yourself