When you first start to date someone the first three months are amazing , your finding stuff out about each other , then shorting after  thing may change . You start to see redflags but you dont may then any mind then they get worse and then your in spot . But theres hope  though sometimes you can talk to him or her and tell them whats on your mind. Have a relationship review . To where their head and   tell how you feel because   if you dont your stuck a relationships with redflags and thats healthy for anybody