In life we encounter a wide array of individuals each with unique personalities, beliefs, and quirky behaviors. We expect that they accept us as we are and accommodate our ways. "This is who I am. I'm not going to change for anyone. Get used to it!" This mindset causes tension, feelings of competition, and alienation because it's ego-based in origin and laden with fear. Modifying ones behavior or approach suggests that we are giving up who we are to appease the other party.

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