Healing means reinterpreting experiences. Chiron in Capricorn It means going back to the time that the forgotten event happened, (you might have forgotten, but your body has it stored somewhere, and it will give it to you, you just have to ask) and looking at the emotions that you felt at the time. Those emotions created a belief, or a decision, normally against yourself. It is those decisions and beliefs that have to be released and replaced with something else, but only after the experience has been totally understood. If you don't understand why what happened to you happened that way, you will not be willing to let it go!

You don't have to forgive anyone, or condone any harm done. it simply means that you made decisions that were appropriate at the time for your survival, but that are not supportive in your now. If any area of your life is not functioning, it is not because you are unlucky, but because you made choices dictated by a need and by an emotion. These emotions can be guilt, anger, fear, terror, can be different for everyone. The decisions you made could have been that it was not in your best interest to be smart, resourceful, clever, or to be loved, because you were picking up disapproval from one or both of your parents.