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Find your place. Focus your future.

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A heartfelt "goodbye" with a few reflections on how my life has changed while serving at Boundless.

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Frequently asked questions about the sunsetting of Boundless.

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Introverted men, I’m not asking you to be something you’re not.

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While the Bible commands gathering together as believers, nowhere do we find that a perfect church is expected or even possible.

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Social justice advocates, college professors, society, and certainly shaving companies do not get to define what it means to be a man.

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Despite differences and changes in one another, Bob and Maria are on the same page about the things in life that truly matter.

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Let’s take back control, neutralize the bad our phones can do, and then use our device for good.

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How should you and I as Christians respond when we discover we're dating a non-Christian? Here are three things to try:

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The world needs you and your gifts, so get back up and fight back with all you have.

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Fall is perfect to host a dinner party. Here are some steps to get the ball rolling.

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Some important events that happened in my life this year helped me realize these four lessons about maintaining relationships.

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Studying the Reformation has been a good reminder to pay close attention to the condition of my own heart, and re-affirm my confession of faith.

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Passive aggressive behavior drives a wedge between me and others, rather than promoting unity.

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Even if you think your pastor is doing fine, consider “checking in” this month. Pastors have demanding but sacred (and God-given) jobs.

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Do I really believe what I say I do about God and who He is? Even when I don't feel hopeful, do I trust that He is my strength and my shield?

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Do the things on this list make you who you are? If any of them disappeared or changed, what would you be left with?

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Admit it, you’ve wished real life were more like a romantic comedy.

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It occurred to me that nature's rhythms, including the changing of the seasons, can point us to the ways of our Creator.

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Let's go beyond gift ideas and consider how we can bless and encourage our pastors.

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At a concert, I felt a profound truth in a new way. Because truth feels more real when it’s displayed by artists — in a song, book, painting, movie.

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How have you personally been called to touch the world?

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Digital dating methods have morphed in the over two decades they've been around. But younger adults are putting them on pause. What's behind this change of heart?

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You can’t change your height, but you can change your perspective toward life and others.

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Since God tells us we are not to live on bread alone, but on His Word, I think we can safely make that assumption — we need daily spiritual bread.

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Hopelessness tells the lie that something in me is inherently unlovable and that dating is far too hard to yield such a good thing.

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You may not have control over when romance enters your life, but you do have control over how you prepare.

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When you've lost all hope, maybe you need the prayers of another to get you through. The “Lorica of St. Patrick" is here to help.

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A name change is a big deal and God gives us new names when we become His. So, what does this mean for us as Christians?

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For whatever reason I don’t want to tell somebody, “Hey, you hurt my feelings.” And I don’t think I’m the only one who has a hard time with that.

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Whether you’re a master planner or an expert procrastinator, here are three strategies to increase your productivity (and maybe even enjoy the process).

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Waking up in the morning is the absolute worst. But in order to make my way through my daily to-do list, I’ve realized I just might have to start getting up earlier.

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I was ready to give up my school, my major — or both. But I discovered I was right where I needed to be, and God would help me find purpose and peace in it all.

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Instead of trying to avoid inevitable failure, maybe it would be better to learn the right way to handle it. Here are some ideas to get us started.

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If your parents aren’t thrilled about the person you’re dating, it may be a feeling they have, or they may have legitimate objections that you shouldn’t ignore. Here are three ways to navigate a parent’s disapproval.

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Why don't my fiancé and I live together? It's not because it doesn't sound fun, or because we are old-fashioned or don’t face temptation.

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Sometimes seeking out professional help is necessary, but all anxiety requires help on some level — help that God and others around us can give.

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As of yesterday, I am officially old. Yes, I celebrated my 30th birthday this week. Here are three things I recommend working on before you turn 30.

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What do you do in an election cycle where candidates, conspiracies and cancel culture seem out of control?

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"We're all beggars." It's a foundational truth we should be singing as our anthem. Because it's what Jesus was all about.

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Finding a new church home requires answering two critical and practical questions.

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If your friend is in an unhealthy dating situation, it’s possible to share your concerns with both truth and love. After all, what are friends for?

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Maybe part of God’s purpose in giving us earthly romance is to show us His feelings toward us.

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In a fast-paced, changing world, there is value in remembering the past and reconnecting with the values and core beliefs that guide you.

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Sacrifice is a significant part of any healthy relationship. So what are the things we should be willing to give up for the sake of another person?

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For years, I obsessively avoided conflict and worked overtime to cater to the needs of others, whatever the cost.

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God loves me and has a wonderful plan for my life, but the whole “wonderful” thing doesn’t seem to have worked out for a lot of people who believed that.

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Community doesn’t just happen. You must cultivate it. And sometimes you have to get creative.

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If you’re engaged (or you want to be), please understand that you’re very likely to struggle with issues during engagement, and that’s OK.

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Dressing for warm weather occasions can be tricky if you want to maximize your options without showing too much skin. Here’s a trend-savvy summer style guide to get you started.

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Our culture moves very fast, everyone is busy and we have a lot on our plates. Maybe we just need to add a splash of fun.

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I learned that in most cases people aren’t bringing up your singleness to be rude; they’re saying something because they care.

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God was addressing the very thing that was wrong with my heart. I was pandering to the world’s “friendship” at the expense of my relationship with God.

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I wanted to celebrate my friend's wedding, but my mind was plagued with thoughts of doubt, jealousy and bitterness.

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For Christians, our relationships with our neighbors should be different than simply waving hello. And single Christians are no exception.

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How to respond wisely to a celebrity's conversion to Christianity.

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I came home — a fresh college graduate — without a job. I felt shame and fear. And I wish I had known these five pieces of advice.

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Should a woman choose family over career or can she have both? Is there a right answer?

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If you have a day off this Memorial Day, consider spending some time actively remembering. Make this Memorial Day more than just a day off.

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Whether as a mentor, discipler, caregiver or friend, every woman has a role to play in nurturing and training others.

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I want so much to be a better person. I make efforts to be better, then get exhausted and stop and then go back to worrying and try again. It’s a sad cycle.

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Perhaps you or someone you know is looking for the perfect match before pursuing a relationship. This is what I call the Goldilocks syndrome.

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Don’t let your love of comfort or your fear of failure hold you back from stepping into the unknown.

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Those who live with vulnerability and a tender heart in the public eye open themselves up to both admiration and ridicule. But Mandisa persistently praised through the pain.

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I'm determined to memorize larger chunks of Scripture. I want God's Word infused deep down into my life more than anything.

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Your single friends may be feeling lonely. If you're in a new relationship or newly engaged, here's five ways you can love your single friends.

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Two unhealthy people do not equal a healthy relationship.

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We rooted for the show's lead couple, but discovered that age and relational experience don't guarantee marital success.

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I thought I had it all together — until I signed a check for my security deposit and first month’s rent. I realized I was broke.

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When I think back to my life before being on a smartphone all the time was the norm, I realize my interactions with people were much richer.

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Why hasn’t God healed me? I don’t have an answer to that question. And God doesn’t owe me one, either.

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It’s not “if” I make a mistake. It’s “when” and “how often” I will make mistakes.

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There are many good things we can learn from being in relationships, but we can learn just as much from going through a breakup and being single again.

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My years of writing for Boundless have been an education in living life for Christ in all seasons — on mountaintops and through valleys.

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I wasn't making any space to hear God speak into my need for direction and wisdom when I turned to people first.

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Sometimes the most important thing you can do for God is to be faithful in something small.

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Whether you’re asking someone out or rejecting someone you don’t want to hurt, there are good ways – and poor ways – to express your feelings.

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Idol. Yes, hustle is an idol if it draws you into practices that take God off the throne of your life.

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“What are you going to do with your life?” When I answer that question, am I listening to Satan's lies? Or am I listening to God's truth?

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God prepared you for good works — but is there time in your week to do them?

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While these aren't necessarily fatal mistakes, they may be best to avoid.

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Four ways you can be an asset to a friend's budding relationship.

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One man offers his perspective on the dating stalemate inside the church. Maybe it's not as easy to pursue as we always imagined.

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What is God doing in the lives of the people around you? Do you take the time to find out?

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You think you know what you need, but God knows better. He answers prayers on His terms, even if it’s not in the way you’d expect.

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I’ve traveled to 21 countries throughout Europe, North America, Asia and Africa. This most recent trip had me consider four ways that travel has shaped me.

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In a world plagued by brokenness and sorrow, here are four soul-nourishing gifts we can extend to others.

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It should be no surprise that Mister Rogers has regained popularity in the past few years. Mister Rogers did wonderful things by listening to who a person was.

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When I fixate on my single status, I isolate myself from deeper relationships with other Christians whose lives don’t look like mine.

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Encouragement for those times when sadness or struggle seem to never stop.

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Don’t lose hope and never stop praying. You can’t change hearts, only God can do that. It’s your job to extend love and plant seeds of truth.

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I'd accomplished four of the five things on my life "to-do" list. You'd think I was happy. But I wasn't; I was focusing on the one thing I was missing.

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Although our roommate experience got off to a rocky start, God used the friendship we formed to not only bless us, but also to encourage many others.

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We don’t know what happens next in our own stories. How do we handle the tension of not knowing how anything will play out?

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How does having a heart like Jesus help you live authentically?

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Others may not take you seriously as a leader until you reach a certain age or hold a specific job title. Don’t let that stop you from leading.

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Maintaining a loving, fruitful marriage does require work. But in my experience, it’s joyful work.

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Sometimes childhood friendships don’t survive the move into adulthood. After my friend got married, I almost lost my friendship with her.

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What can I learn now by taking a risk? What new opportunities are right in front of me that I’m missing because I stick with what I already know?

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When I embrace unfamiliar and uncomfortable situations, I am invited to find my comfort in the Lord.

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When I project negative facts, motives or thoughts onto other people, it often says more about my heart than it does the person I'm judging.

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Because God has control of my singleness, I am free to pour my time and energy into whatever opportunities come my way, even if they aren’t what I expected.

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It’s crazy to think about how God uses little things to bring about big changes — sometimes even course corrections — for us.

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How do you know if the person you are dating would make a good spouse? Here are 7 qualities to look for in a potential spouse.

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Some days can be brutal. Through the years I have found a few helpful ways to cope with an especially discouraging day.

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They know you, they encourage the development of your skills and passions, and then they help you achieve your life goals.

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I need to build new habits and tear down old ones while still completing my day-to-day work. You, too? Here are a few things we can all try.

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Do you sometimes think you’ve been forgotten or overlooked by God? I sometimes question if God's love for me is sufficient.

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Nastasia was a YouTuber with shopping and fashion tips. But since becoming bolder with her faith, God and the Bible have taken center stage.

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Kindness can be tricky because it's sacrificial. It isn’t just paying for the person behind you in line at Starbucks.

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Am I OK with my contributions going unnoticed? I’m not sure I have that kind of humility.

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If you allow a person you're interested in to catch a glimpse through some friend-like interactions before asking her on a date, you may stand a better chance of getting a "yes."

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When circumstances seem to indicate we’ve stalled, we can trust that God is still at work transforming us into the image of His Son.

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Is it OK that I’m so preoccupied with my own life that I don’t take time to know what’s going on in the world and stop to pray about it?

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Need to get something off your chest? Want fresh perspective? There's good reason to talk to others about your problems.

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“Your turn’s coming!” Now that I’m nearing the end of my 20s, my family seems to be saying that less and less.

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The reason we must speak up is because God commands it — but also, our world needs it. Imagine if William Wilberforce or Dietrich Bonhoeffer had stayed quiet.

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You’re not an impostor; you’re a human trying to navigate through an ever-changing world.

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Marriage and singleness are both gifts and difficulties. It seems every season holds its own challenges and unique benefits.

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Lately, I've seen a lot of Christians get super pumped about alcohol. It's not that alcohol is in their lives, it's that it's become more central to their lives.

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Summer does hold promise for those looking for love and serious relationships.

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Next time you are in a conversation with someone, ask a question. Give them time to think, and thoughtfully listen to their answer without rushing to reply.

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How can we be more present in this age of technology?

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In a sense, I think it’s wrong to give singles the impression that Jesus can satisfy the stab we feel when we look at someone else’s wedding photos.

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If you’re like I was — desiring marriage but walking out the realities of being single — here are four things you can do while you wait.

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The most frustrating moments in my marriage aren’t the tough discussions about finances, future plans and holiday arrangements.

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In a self-obsessed culture, how do we think about ourselves less?

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It’s easy to react to the hatred and division and injustice around us; it’s harder to respond.

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It’s not if we fail, but when. There is simply too much for us to remember for us to actually remember it all. Next time you make a mistake or drop the ball, here are a few things to remember.

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Participation in the Focus on the Family “Heart of God Book Giveaway” contest (the “Contest”) is contingent on your full and unconditional agreement to and acceptance of these Official Rules.

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When it comes to spiritual things, many of us are doing the right things for the wrong reasons — or doing nothing at all. Want this year to be different?

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I recently had another opportunity to exercise forgiveness toward people in my life who have hurt me. As I’m walking through this new season, I’m reminded of three reasons to forgive.

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God shot me the question: If you really love her, you would want what I have planned for her. It was as if a wave of truth washed my clouded mind.

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Only God deserves to occupy the throne of my heart. Anything else is a cheap — and helpless — counterfeit.

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What should we do when we fall into sin? Joshua Rogers has three helpful tips to remember next time we find ourselves sinning.

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How do we set ourselves up for God-honoring romantic relationships and lasting marriages? Here are a few of my ideas.

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Work isn't always fun. But if work is a gift, I am called to receive it with thanks regardless of how satisfied I feel at the moment.

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Valentine’s Day is a celebration of love — particularly the love that leads to marriage — and those of us who are single have at least three reasons to celebrate.

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The shortest verse in the Bible is also one of the most earthshaking: “Jesus wept.”

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Every believer can bear lasting fruit, regardless of relationship status. Don’t wait to be fruitful; start planting today.

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The goal of branding yourself can be as simple as making a good impression so people want to pursue you in person as a friend, an employee or maybe a date.

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We learn most about God from His Word, but He also teaches us about himself through nature and history.

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When I was planning my wedding, I was terrified of being perceived as one of "those" brides. You know, the bridezillas. Here's the advice I wish I'd given myself.

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We're all stories written by God. But it’s easy to hate parts of your story. Maybe your story isn’t panning out the way you expected it to.

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God will work in your life this year. Journaling might help you see His hand more clearly.

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To the young men who want to pursue a woman they will still be glad they married after seven years, here are some suggestions.

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It’s easy to accept that good can come out of suffering—unless you’re the one who’s suffering. It's much harder to praise God when the pain won't stop.

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Conflict is never enjoyable, but I believe there are four hidden options that can come from conflict, as long as we respond properly to it.

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Here are some ideas on how to confidently transition from this year’s reality to next year’s possibilities.

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It's the holiday season, so you know what time it is: time to finally ask the girl you've had your eye on for the past year on a date.

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Feeling in the “depths of despair” doesn’t mean you’re turning your back on God; it can mean you are turning your face toward Him.

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Hallmark movies have a certain appeal, yet we all know these kinds of movies aren’t realistic. So why do many of us like to watch them?

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No, I wasn’t born to be a mom. Like everyone else, I was born to bring glory to the God who created me.

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Be willing to break through your comfort zone. Pick a couple new things to try, and leave those muddy ruts behind.

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“Just because your problem isn’t supposedly as bad as someone else’s, doesn’t mean it’s not important to you,” he explained.

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I need to proactively seek ways to love in quiet and ordinary actions. Do you? Here are 10 ways to love someone today.

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Celebrating Advent isn’t the point. Ultimately, we want all our activity this season — the busyness and the intentionality — to pull us closer to our God.

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This time of year can bring with it feelings of stress, anxiety, depression and loneliness. And for those who have lost someone they love, Thanksgiving and Christmas can be a mixed bag of joy and grief.

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This Thanksgiving, let's celebrate the day by reflecting on our awesome God and thanking Him for the countless ways He cares for us.

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Choosing to surrender is difficult. Yet in the middle of these very real challenges, I’ve found there are blessings too.

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Have you found a new job yet? Are you dating anyone yet? Did you find a place of your own yet? Do you get these questions at Thanksgiving?

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When life is hard or trials come, how do you cope?

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Real change only happens when we change our minds.

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How do we surrender our hopes and dreams when we know there is no guarantee they will come to be?

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Staying busy, working hard and striving to achieve goals aren’t bad practices, but they can’t replace our reliance on God.

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Beyond saying, “I’ll pray for you,” some of us may feel at a loss as to how to help when tragedy strikes. Here are five meaningful ways others have helped me.

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The ability to ask (and answer) questions is a good area to grow in, as well as a mark of mature adulthood.

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The opposite of grumbling over what we don’t have is gratitude for what we do have. Here are a few tips on how to change course from grumbling to gratitude.

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Every time I leave the safety of my car to walk the city streets, I’m afraid. I felt this fear even before a stranger jumped into my car with me.

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God made you. He loves you. You have worth. And you don’t have to earn it.

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When I got rejected, I questioned every detail, which only led to more pain. But I've learned there are better ways to deal with rejection.

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Why should single adults care about kids?

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Investing is confusing and can be risky. But we gain so much by stepping into these new experiences, and our economy is improved by our participation.

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As we live by truth and speak it boldly, we can also show others the grace that has transformed our lives and can transform theirs.

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Breakups can be hard and sad. But we can show Christ’s love to our friends in how we respond.

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It’s really about one question: Am I willing — glad, even — to spend and be spent for someone else’s good?

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But even if we can’t get together on this side of heaven, we’ve given each other a foretaste of it, one that will live on in eternity.

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As I’ve contemplated this idea of singleness fatigue, I think God’s Word has a lot to say about the topic. Here are a few principles to consider:

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Here are a few ideas about how to show up, whether you’re lonely or looking to be a friend to the lonely.

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God has certainly blessed the people around me. But He has blessed me, too.

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"I couldn't help but notice your husband is shorter than you." It's an observation with an implied question behind it of, "How do you handle that?"

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This former runaway has fostered 25 children as a single parent. I asked him five questions about his unusual life and calling.

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When assessing your online dating prowess, it is good to get feedback from the opposite sex. Here are our top 10 online dating "don'ts."

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God says there are blessings for the single person who utilizes his or her single season to focus more on Him. We would be foolish not to take His guidance to heart.

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Recently God has been showing me it’s not that hard to get out of your lane to help those in the lanes beside you.

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Doubt is not the same as unbelief, and doubting is not necessarily sin. A Christian’s doubts can show up in many ways and for multiple reasons.

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When paying with a credit card through a tablet, those preset tipping amounts stare at me almost as awkwardly as the barista behind the counter.

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Don’t pray for your own prayer requests today. Instead, take some time to pray for others’ needs.

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I don't believe it's appropriate for men and women to be buddies after breaking up. Here's why.

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You don’t have to spend a fortune or settle for an uninspired date night. Look for creative ways to take advantage of the many low-cost opportunities surrounding you.

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I was often told “don’t say you ‘hate’ someone —  that’s very strong language,” so I learned to avoid the words “hate” and “enemy.”

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Relationships take work. Time. Effort. Intentionality. But we will eventually find that our efforts are worth it.

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Just a few months ago I was certain I had missed my calling and had chosen the wrong major. Thankfully, the Lord has been working in my heart and for my good as He led me to the Boundless internship.

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Sometimes walking through a dry and barren season of life can drive us to depend on Jesus more.

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You can date someone from your friend group and maintain your friendships with the rest of the group.

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You are not defined by your ability, accomplishments, or lack of both.

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Do your job well. And then, when you’ve done all you can do, let go.

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It’s fine to have preferences and even a list of “must-haves,” but don’t let them be a barrier to God’s creativity in providing a spouse you didn’t see coming.

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Misunderstandings of where our moral decisions come from happen all the time. Are there ways to model our convictions that can prevent these misconceptions?

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As I question my life circumstances or (unwisely) compare them with others’, my God is working out details and preparing me for my future.

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I want my nephew to know I will always love him and be available to him. Here are the ways I’m intentionally developing this important relationship.

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When I experience negative emotions, I can find solace in my relationship with Him and the fact that He is unchangingly loving and gracious.

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I’ve got a confession: I can’t stand contemporary Christian music. It seems like we often let any song that says the name of Jesus pass as quality music.

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Meet five fictional characters who demonstrate courage and can inspire us to find courage and strength in God.

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Speakers and authors from Boundless' past Pursuit conference share learnings from young adulthood.

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This wasn’t the first time I’ve experienced criticism. Here are three positive ways I’ve learned to deal with it.

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As a professional soccer player, I spend a lot of time in locker rooms. And with locker rooms, there are inevitably locker room conversations. While there are times when the locker room is a familiar and comfortable place, I loathe the times when the banter turns to sex and women. That’s not because I’m prudish, […]

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Regardless of my past mistakes or future failures, I can walk into any situation with confidence. My God has qualified me.

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Unless you end up marrying the first person you date, you are going to go through this awful thing. Let me offer some post-breakup self-care advice.

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Living in a place of overcommitment will always cost you. Decide today to clear the deck for all God has for you.

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A lot of dating couples avoid arguing about things they don’t agree on. But what if you’re hurting your relationship by avoiding arguments?

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It’s easy to think we’ll work on something next week or next month or even tomorrow, but assuming isn’t the same as actually doing. Maybe it's time to take the first step.

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Most adults live ordinary lives. Why do we tend to doubt, downplay or despise the average story?

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When a friend gets “two steps” ahead — married with children — it can feel as if the friendship is fizzling. But don’t give up prematurely.

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Every woman I ever dated ended up getting married to another man. How awkward would it be for that man to know I had gotten physical with his wife?

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Does God care when we struggle with the pain of missing out — on marriage, family and dreams? If so, can we trust Him with our pain?

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I want to live a firstfruits lifestyle, where I not only put Him first, but I give Him my best.

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Being "dumped" by a significant other is a topic we're collectively familiar with. But people rarely talk about being dumped by a friend.

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Remember, someday a first date will become your final first date. In the meantime, push through the awkward moments and hone some dating skills.

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Since childhood, I’ve worried about others’ opinions of me. I’m learning God’s promises lessen the power others’ opinions hold on me.

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It’s OK to let old dreams die to make room for the better plans God has for you.

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Striking a balance between mindless small talk and pouring out your heart and soul can be a challenge on a first date. Here are some helpful suggestions.

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No matter what I do, I can’t make everything right. And I wake up every single day to reminders that so many things in this world are broken.

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Everyone needs encouragement - even if it seems like they have it all together. Here are a few tips for how to encourage people in your life.

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Light shines brighter in the darkness. Here are a few ways we can shine our light to the non-Christians around us.

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Here are three insights on how the decisions you make in your life now influence your future marriage more than you might think.

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Many churches are back to their regular in-person programming after the pandemic. But where is the congregation?

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The next time you hear about a new show or new season of your show, ask yourself, “Am I willing to give up my dream for this show?”

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There’s hope for our relationships even in disagreements. Here are three things to consider when your friends are fighting.

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Can the words “healthy” and “singles ministry” be used in the same sentence? Yes, if the ministry has these important characteristics.

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As Christians, we should all labor to grow in knowledge, wisdom and truth. Here are some tips on what it means to be a lifelong learner.

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In the past 16 years, my perspective on my article "Not Your Buddy" has matured. Here are a few critiques I would offer on the article today.

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In close relationships, women and men owe it to each other to be clear about what the relationship means. But whose job is it?

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How can we remind ourselves that we are blessed even when our disappointments or left-out feelings feel so much bigger?

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We all want good, Christian community. But how do we cultivate it? Let's look at how Scripture says we should be in community together.

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Just like the Israelites, we need to remind ourselves that there is power in remembering what the Lord has done for us.

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Until Jesus returns, there will be wars here on earth. Here are three things to remember during times of war.

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Many times, making decisions is more about me trusting God and depending on Him, than what decision I make.

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We live in an opinionated age. Here are some questions to keep in mind when we think about sharing our opinions with others.

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Your days spent in a cubicle and evenings spent watching Netflix on your couch can still be poured out for the glory of God.

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Financial hardship can bring a lot of worry. Let's see what the Scriptures have to say about finances and anxiety.

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If you're looking for deeper community, consider seeking out friendships where you can serve and pour out to others.

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Sanctification takes a lifetime. When we mess up, we can rest in the truth that God is not finished with us yet.

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Our God gives everyone gifts. He certainly does not see those with disabilities as less than, and neither should we.

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The process of learning how to relate to my family as an adult is messy and rarely straightforward.

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The core truth of the Christian life is that it's not about our good intentions. It’s about accepting the grace that’s offered to us at the cross.

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Whether you’re in your early 20s or a decade (or two) past that, consider these reasons getting older is the way to go (as if you had a choice!).

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We were created for community. We can't do it alone. It is beneficial to surround ourselves with a trusted Christian community.

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Whether you're starting out or have been memorizing for years, check out these methods of memorizing Scripture to find what works best for you.

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The more I read my Bible, pray, and share my concerns with those close to me, the less I worry and the more strength I gain to fight my battles.

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How can you know that you’re living a productive life? You can begin by ensuring you understand what God says about productivity.

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When the world makes us feel less than or like we’re not cutting it, God’s Word tells us we are infinitely worthy because of Him.

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If we guard our hearts from emotions, we also guard them from intimacy.

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Even when our circumstances are discouraging or uncertain, we can have hope because our God never changes and will forever be our stronghold.

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Each season of life includes opportunities to trust God with our unmet needs and desires, helping us to grow in godliness and contentment.

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Here are 10 of my favorite verses to pray for your significant other, either the one you have or the one you’re hoping to have soon!

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As we move past small talk, we will discover the joys and rewards of deep conversation.

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Here are four of my New Year's resolutions along with four questions to help you set some resolutions of your own.

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As we return to “the real world,” our hope is just as strong as it was during Christmas fun and celebrations.

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Just as the Israelites waited for the birth of Jesus, we wait for His return. This is our hope — not that we’ll marry or have children or find a dream job.

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Recently, I wrote about how the holidays were always a little difficult for me when I was single. My “aloneness” always felt a little more real at Christmastime. And then, being at home with my family — while warm and wonderful at times — pulled me out of my normal routine and could leave […]

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If you’re thinking of trying out online dating or giving it another chance, here are a few things to consider.

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Let’s talk about why taking a day off is important, because apparently, being the fourth commandment isn’t enough.

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Feelings of alone-ness can pop up more easily around holidays, so there may be no better time to remind ourselves of why we even celebrate Christmas.

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Christmas of 2002 was rough for me. I was in law school, and unlike many other students, I had taken out the absolute minimum amount of loans to avoid years of indebtedness after graduation. I was eventually grateful for that, but in the middle of my second semester, I was literally pulling together change to […]

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This experience dating long-distance has grown both of us in our trust in the Lord and the things that He is doing.

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As you cherish a connection to simpler times, remember that through all times Jesus is Immanuel, God with us.

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What unfulfilled hopes grip your heart this Advent season?

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This holiday season may be very busy, but our friendships are worth the extra effort.

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We’ve all heard that it’s more blessed to give than to receive. That’s especially true when what you give builds stronger relationships.

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God was relentlessly pursuing me — a porn-addicted son, ridden with guilt, trapped in bondage, no longer isolated in fear, but surrounded with support.

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God created us with a need for connection and invented friendship for our benefit.

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The gift of friendship and belonging are beautiful gifts. There is an art to navigating them well.

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What am I willing to give up to know and trust God more?

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I did some cat-sitting last weekend for a family that lives a few blocks away. I only know these folks because I pass their house on walks, and they have an outgoing 8-year-old daughter who’s not shy about engaging passersby in conversation. When I ran into them last week, we got to talking and it […]

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Fasting isn't just about going without food; it's about connecting with the Creator in a deeper way.

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When circumstances seem to indicate we’ve stalled, we can trust that God is still at work transforming us into the image of His Son.

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Not long ago, I was at my favorite coffee shop visiting with an acquaintance who is a recently married, self-professing Christian. He has a new baby girl, so I asked how his daughter was doing. He pulled out his iPad to show me a photo of her, and what happened next was one of the […]