In my “Four Tendencies” personality framework, each of the Four Tendencies—Upholder, Questioner, Obliger, Rebel—has its strengths and its weaknesses. And the strengths are the weaknesses, and the weaknesses are the strengths—just depending on the context. (Want to learn your Tendency? Take the short quiz here.) Many people, especially Obligers, have a hard time saying “no” […]

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