finding and getting to know myself, not the mom, not the girl I used to be, not the girl I thought I was but my true self is when my life turned around. I’m happy, I’m healthy, I’m wealthy, I am loved and I want to be the guidance and the help that I needed back then. Here we’ll have real raw well overdo conversations, we will also focus on all aspects of life improvement including financial literacy, building bonds, accepting and asking for help, education, and mental and emotional health amongst other things & I would love for you to join me on the journey. Me vs ME.
Don't say nothing to me about me! I'm the only person I move for. I'm the only thing that matter. Hey y'all! Welcome back to the Mrs. Everything podcast! Listen to the bed for some kind words from your host to pass along to the ones always watching and worried about you!
Healing or not I’m never gonna come on here and promote that folks be anything other than themselves. Because see me? ima wear this blazer today and get in yo ass TODAY ha ha thought I was gone say you tomorrow didn’t you ? I’m still growing I got a lot of growing to do. I said that I was healing, not healed.🤣🤣
We’re not dealing with all that negative no more. We’re not showing up and showing out for folks no more. we’re not holding on nobody or walking them through life, giving them all the answers when we need answers our d*mn self. if folks I want you to do that and be there for them make them pay you for it. Give me 30 days of consistency that’s all that I ask 30 days dedicated to something, one thing that leave you a better YOU.
I don’t know what it is but birthdays have been of so much more value to me and it’s not a value that I’m placing on them, It’s a value that comes with them. Something about turning 26 feels just as prolific as turning 25. Here are some things that I’m doing differently in my new age my new year my new life. How old you turning & what changes come with your new year?
HEALING IS … CONFUSING!! Remember the story from the Bible about Lot’s wife looking back? God turned her into a pillar of salt & I feel like that pillar of salt right now… The underlying message of this story is that sometimes, we must let go of what no longer serves us. We must trust that there is a better path ahead of us, even if we cannot see it yet. It can be difficult to let go of the past and step into the unknown, but we must have faith that we are being guided towards something better.
Lot's wife's story also reminds us of the consequences of holding onto the past. When we cling to things that no longer serve us, we are putting ourselves in danger. We may not turn into a pillar of salt, but we will face the consequences of our actions.
In this week's episode of the Mrs. Everything podcast, we tackled the topic of overthinking and its impact on our happiness. We explored how constantly analyzing and second-guessing ourselves can steal our joy.
But don't worry! We also discussed the importance of setting realistic and smart goals to combat overthinking. By breaking our goals into achievable steps and incorporating the SMART framework (Specific, Measurable, Attainable, Relevant, Time-bound), we can overcome overthinking and find more fulfillment in life.
Join us on this episode as we share practical tips to break free from overthinking and set goals that lead to joy and success. Tune in to the Mrs. Everything podcast and start living a more fulfilling life today.
I want more friends like me. I want friends that’s gone hold me accountable. I want friends that’s gone check me when I’m wrong I want friends that expect more of me.
This week on the Mrs.Everything podcast we get into knowing our worth, never settling for less, and having our way. Queens are only fit for kings NOT 🥷.
When I first started this podcast, I asked you to join me on the journey of becoming the woman that I dream about. I finally met her. I’m finally her. I’m back in my room. I’m back in my bed. I’m back and I’m better. Thank you so much for being a part of my journey For helping me heal, for helping me put things in perspective, for helping me grow. This podcast has been an amazing experience and a huge part of my healing journey and I love y’all so much and now it’s your turn. It’s your turn to become the woman that you dream about and no amount of journaling, manifesting, podcast, or advice will get you there until you get up and get moving yourself so get up and get out there. You have so much more living to do with so much more life left within you Onwards and upwards my dear. I love you thank you so much for listening.
This year we acting real bad!! Here’s the master plan for the summer!
“Life has no limitations, except the ones you make.”
- [ ] Decide if y’all really coo or not, if not whatever keep going.
- [ ] You gotta give men a chance if you really want one mean ass lady, make it make sense
- [ ] You not all you got. Learn to be apart of things and stop being so fcking weird
- [ ] Looks are that important
- [ ] You said what you said
- [ ] Love ain’t worth going out sad for
- [ ] Quit being a boring ass bitch
- [ ] Drink in moderation that liquor gone have yo back big as hell
- [ ] It hurts at first but will make you feel soooo good, try it ( exercise & anal)
- [ ] You are what you eat
- [ ] Quit forgetting you that btch, I’m not gone say it no more
- [ ] You can afford nice sh*t so get it
Ramadan - everything they said it would be I feel like it was the same as hermit mode
I completely withdrew and fasted from everything and everybody. It help me canceled out alllll of the noise in the world and left me with nothing but the mess I’ve made that I call my life.
There’s been this internal battle in me for a while now and each time I find myself reminding me to not let the layers I’ve buried myself under fool me. I’m still me, I’m stil the same person that I’ve used all these embellishments to cover & hide. I’m still the same me and that’s not growth or development at all. That’s not change that wasn’t becoming the woman I dream
About it was only me putting lipstick on a pig.. & I hate it here. I hate feeling so buried and suffocated by me.
I can’t wait until the day that I get to tell my transformation story of how I went from how I feel today to being prosperous and beautiful and happy and healthy and wealthy & love3: but in the meantime, in between time this ain’t it for me. It’s hard coming from a place where you feel like you don’t like your life and that there’s no real direction to finding your footing in the world and where you feel like you belong and I don’t know what it’s gonna take but I’m willing to try. It’s just that right now. I’m at a point where I just need a break. I need to sit down I need to relax. I need to let go and let God.
The idea of entitlement is pervasive in our society. Many people believe that they are owed certain things, whether it be respect, love, or material possessions. However, the reality is that nobody owes you anything. This concept of unwarranted obligation can be a difficult one to accept, as it goes against the narrative that we are often taught from a young age. The truth is that we are all responsible for our own lives and well-being, and expecting others to fulfill our desires and needs can lead to disappointment and resentment.
In this episode, I share the concept of unwarranted obligation. I talk about why it’s so weird when friends don’t fit in anymore and why everybody should be okay with the lack of culture. I also talk about being accountable and responsible for your actions and the things that you can do to save yourself. Tune in to learn more about this and other exciting topics!
Timestamps
[00:51] Why it’s so weird when friends don’t fit in anymore?
[02:43] Everybody should be okay with the lack of culture
[03:04] Obligation should come to an end
[05:27] Accountability and Responsibility
[07:53] Things you can do to save you
[11:41] Forcing unwarranted obligation
[15:25] Don’t do things that you genuinely don’t want to do
[21:22] Be your own fallback plan
Notable quotes:
● “As people, we should be able to walk away from anything, any situation, and any relationship unharmed.”
● “No one owes you anything. No one is obligated to do anything for you.”
● “Blessed is he who expects nothing, for he shall never be disappointed.”
● “Remember, everything is your fault, and life is what you make it.”
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Hey y'all! This week we talk about escaping the shackles of government assistance and paycheck to paycheck living
Budget : at min you should be making enough to support your lifestyle .. if you are exceeding your budget you need to increase money or decrease bills
50/30/20 budget rule
50 = necessities (housing, car, insurance, food)
30 = wants (personal care, travel, shopping)
20 = savings (emergency, retirement
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I notice that I always find myself either had been knocked back a few steps or having to start over completely soooo often and so I laid there asking myself why? Until I realized that I was the problem not the plan. Hey yall, welcome to the Mrs.Everything podcast in this chapter we unpack how rushing through life can affect you physical, mentally and emotional leaving you feeling unfulfilled and unable to devote attention to the people and things you care for most
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What happened to the village??? Cause there's no reason you should be surrounded by people yet still feel so alone. there is no reason that you should be surrounded by friends and family and still feel like you don't have anyone to call on. This week on the Mrs.Everything Podcast, I want to talk about my friendships. I feel like all my friends be being weird to me. Yall correct me if im wrong or if its me. but are we really family or friends if our kids don't even know each other??
If that boy don't love you by nowwww he will NEVER EVER LOVE YOU!! Hey y'all! 🫶🏽 I'd like to present THE EVERYTHING JOURNAL BY MRS.EVERYTHING now available on Amazon! 🌹🌹🌹On my podcast I speak about journaling a lot & how much it soothes me so I published this journal to mirror the setup of my own personal journals. The Everything Journal will be your one stop guide to helping you grow closer to becoming the woman you dream about. Its a great way to gain clarity and insight into your thoughts and feelings. It also can be used to identify patterns, track progress, and set goals, express emotions, learn financial literacy, work through difficult situations & more! The Everything Journal is a powerful tool to help you stay motivated and organized and a great way to explore your inner self and make positive changes in your life. Y'all are the first to know & gain access to it I love you enjoy! & thank you so much for streaming the Mrs.Everything Podcast! https://a.co/d/hxBS3As
I honestly didn't know what I was doing with my life. I had no real direction and no concrete plan. Dear Younger self, I'm so so sorry.
Sometimes you're not what's best. Hey y'all! 🫶🏽 I'd like to present THE EVERYTHING JOURNAL BY MRS.EVERYTHING now available on Amazon! 🌹🌹🌹On my podcast I speak about journaling a lot & how much it soothes me so I published this journal to mirror the setup of my own personal journals. The Everything Journal will be your one stop guide to helping you grow closer to becoming the woman you dream about. Its a great way to gain clarity and insight into your thoughts and feelings. It also can be used to identify patterns, track progress, and set goals, express emotions, learn financial literacy, work through difficult situations & more! The Everything Journal is a powerful tool to help you stay motivated and organized and a great way to explore your inner self and make positive changes in your life. Y'all are the first to know & gain access to it I love you enjoy! & thank you so much for streaming the Mrs.Everything Podcast! https://a.co/d/hxBS3As
Colloquially speaking, contentment could be a state of having accepted one's situation and is a milder and more tentative form of happinesss....
Shop THE EVERYTHING JOURNAL NOW 💗 https://a.co/d/hxBS3As im a little under the weather bear with me please! This week we take vow to MAKE WOMEN FEMININE AGAIN And this is coming from someone who for majority of my life could have been considered a tomboy. I learned about femininity and how it could make me feel more content with my life and that changed everything for me. I started incorporating more feminine elements into my life as a result I felt like myself once more as my relationships improved and my self-esteem surged. It was a remarkable shift, and I am very happy that have started the journey of finding my femininityI'm now sharing what I've learnt to all of you. insta:Fshnti Facebook: Mrs.Everything
Hey yall, welcome back to the Mrs. Everything Podcast. Today we're going to talk about becoming a High Value Woman. We not just changing ourselves, we changing our lives .& You are what you attract! The way you present and carry yourself really lines up with the type of life and relationships you have. THE EVERYTHING JOURNAL https://a.co/d/hxBS3As
Link to THE EVERYTHING JOURNAL https://a.co/d/dr1VHKT This week on this Mrs.Everything Podcast, I'm finally ready to have a open and honest conversation about my feelings towards parenting. • Parenting Becoming Easier -• Put aside any blocks from your own childhood that inhibit your warmth and acceptance,physical touch, physical presence, and understanding.• Create a safe, harmonious home environment where differences can be worked throughsafely.• Accept that your child needs to play with people of all ages, soothing experiences, and alot of your attention and time• See situations from your child's point of view as well as your own• Help your child's need to find ways to express how they really feel (rather than how youwish they felt) and you can validate and attempt to understand their feelings. (And yourown)• Don't rush in to rescue them but rather help them find their own solutions by allowingthem to brainstorm to come up with answers to their problems and by not rushing totell them what to do• Lay down your boundaries by defining yourself rather than telling them what they arelike• Accept that you will make mistakes. Be non-defensive about those mistakes and repairthe situation by owning the mistake and making any necessary change
Quit talking about it, quit allowing other people walk their fear into YOUR plan. It's yours to build, you're the only one that's gone put in the work so why relay on other people opinions when choosing your life?
Quit looking for change and expecting a different outcome when you only been doing the exact same things. Try something else.
I miss my little brother. I wish he was still here. Losing him taught me gratitude, how to live in the now, how to cherish and appreciate all the things that's are here in front on me. How I respect where I come from just as much as I do where I'm going. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app
Happy holidays and thank you soooo much for joining me on my journey to becoming the woman I dream about. Stay tuned for SEASON TWO! Coming soon! With co host, new topics, giveaways and more! I look forward to seeing & growing with y'all. 🫶🏽 2023 is ours. Socials: @FSHNTI
We've convinced ourselves that we always have to be doing something or always have to be somebody and we've neglected the fact that it's OK to rest it's OK to just be you. it's OK to do nothing it's OK to not know what you're doing or where you're headed or where you wanna go and instead of getting discouraged in those moments, those are the moments that you cherish and you appreciate the most. Take advantage of it because things not always going to be that way. It's not gonna last forever and your time is going to come and and that's when the rest will be over that's when things are really gonna be hard. That's when you're gonna miss the rest, the most, so enjoy who you are & where you are don't compare yourself to others and let other people convince you that you're not enough or you're not doing enough it's gonna come.
This week we talk about lessons disguised as blessings. We talk about settling I had somebody told me that I think that my life is supposed to be some type of fairy tale & I think my relationships are going to be perfect. I know that no relationship or nobody's life is perfect but it's going to be exactly what I wanted to look like and what exactly what feels right to me because this my life and I'm the only person That gotta live it
Hey y'all, I been writing all my life. It's been a complete outlet for me my safe space & today I decided that I'm going to share more of it with y'all. 🫶🏽
Hey y'all! I ran a poll on my Instagram (@fshnti) for this weeks episode topic & y'all chose relationships! Idk how the girlies gone feel about this one but like I said this real raw conversation if we don't be honest with ourselves who will???
By definition, When you are intentional, you choose to make decisions and take action on what's important to you. Being intentional means getting clear upfront about what you want to achieve. You intentionally set an intention to achieve a specific outcome or result in the future that is important to you.
This week we get into self sabotage and the difference between your intuition & fear/anxiety! Want to join the conversation? Text 909-506-3369 or DM me on insta @FSHNTI I'd love to hear your input!
This week on the Mrs.Everything podcast we'll get into what healing truly feels like. People will assume when you say you're healing you happy but that's not even the half. It's a process it's something that you grow through to get to the true happiness waiting on the other side.
. I never fit in. I was never apart of any friend groups, sports, any activities I’ve never really participated in anything. I’ve always been to myself. I was self conscious & insecure at first but today I'm thanking the most high for it. Being by myself allowed me to thrive and grow into the woman I am to. It forced me to get to know ME. So now I show up as ME & only that! I am not easily influenced and there is no one else that is like ME. There's no one else I would rather be. No one else that i "act like". In todays time it's sooo easy for women to get wrapped up in this sh*t or will change themselves to fit in or be liked no shade to those women but I am nothing/nobody but MYSELF. & I'm so grateful for me, im the one that stay giving the girlies good ideas. Im not for everyone and I'll never try to be. I love me. I love me sooooo much. & I love those that love me too just as much. It's been a long time coming but I'm finally here & ima come through taking up as much space as possible. I'll never down play or shrink myself. I'll never go against me to please you. I'll never put me last. I'll never lose sight of who I am. I'll never fall out of love with me.
In this week episode we’ll be having the uncomfortable conversations regarding parenting. Everyone makes it looks like it’s all cute pictures and rainbows. It takes a lot to be a mom, it’s hard, it’s never ending and it does get stressful. Let’s talk about it!
Hey y’all, first episode kinda nervous. in this week’s episode, I talks about showing up for yourself, loving and respecting yourself and more Join me in celebrating and uplifting the Mrs.Everything podcast for its first episode.
Welcome to my podcast. Yay thank you all for joining me, supporting me, loving me. I feel like finding and getting to know myself, not the mom, not the girl I used to be, not the girl I thought I was but my true self is when my life turned around. I’m happy, I’m healthy, I’m wealthy, I am loved and I want to be the guidance and the help that I needed. I’ve learned a lot and my heart and intentions are pure.