Luluology: Recent Episodes
The Lulus
I'm a little bit of a mess but stick with me for small space conversations to unpack, unlearn and unwind
I team up with Rapper and Artist 4everoasis to speak about art, creation, youth, and the digital space. We talk about whether creating and putting yourself out there is worth it.
I am asking the questions I have in my 20s, and today, I speak about feeling like a failure, self-loathing, and feeling like you've messed up your life beyond repair.
Second episode and continuation of the first second burn. Speaking on grooming, exploring, and sex and safety of queer teens.
Today we discuss predators and being queer with my good friend Fidel, they go into depth about dating while being a gay teen. We discuss predators in the queer community and our realizations as we get closer to the ages people where.
We are speaking about not being the perfect victim and being a bitter survivor. Questioning where we go when the harm is caused by people in our communities or our intimate spaces? Speaking about realisation, rage and delving into trust. As well as what healing looks like for me.
This episode looks at the ups and tragic downs of 2022 and rounding the year up in its own box while also looking at the big days ahead of 2023, looking at my fears, hopes and personal joys for the year ahead. The episode also takes a look at what is in store for the podcast in 2023.
This is a follow up episode from last week, speaking about having the theory and ideas of love and community but looking deeply at the realities and my own troubles with putting these theories into reality.
Heavily inspired by Bell Hooks, today we talk about love, the responsibility of love and harm within and by our communities.
Part one of the fatphobia results on social media and mainstream media. What's happening with clothing sizes, the pro-ana community and being happy while fat.
Today we speak about undesirability, dating again, the experiences that come with it and the few lessons I've picked up. There is laughter, tears and frustration.
Taking a look at South African political parties manifestos as we gear up to vote in 2023.
Looking at femininity, the packaging and selling of femininity and how being denied femininity as a undesirable human impacts my thoughts on this discussion.
Let's talk about friendship, making friends as you get older, desirability in friendships and friends who break your heart.
Let's talk about sex, touch on the depictions of black women in mainstream pornography and how I feel about sex in the modern tim. TW// SA
Speaking about navigating being single for the first time since my teens, navigating what it means to move on, how to move on and breaking up with no tangible reasons.
Let's talk about money, how growing up affected our financial "literacy" and how we deal with money as adults and changes we'd like to make and healing our relationship with money
Part 2 of the Y2K resurgence, pro ana and social media. We talk about getting help and some underlying issues and experiences.
Today we're discussing the three headed horsemen of Y2k, the gays and pro-ana. The resurgence of Pro-ana in mainstream culture and how the culture is gonna cause "a massive traumatic event". And How social media is pushing the narrative. TW// fatphobia; weight numbers, disordered eating, body checking, racism.
Speaking about some truths I've admitted to myself coming into this year, hopes, dreams and realization that have come with this year.
Let's get vulnerable. Speaking about 2021 and the experience of the year to round up luluology season 2. TW// suicidal ideation, depression, anxiety, disordered eating and medical fatphobia.
On this episode we will be talking about what community means to us, how to build these communities and what role love plays in these communities. TW//suicidal ideation and jokes.
On this episode we will be discussing luxury influencing, fatphobia, anti blackness and the ethics of influencing in these parasocial relationships
TW// eating disorders/ disordered eating. This episode of fatphobia files will be discussing eating disorders, disordered eating, fatphobia in the LGBTQIA+ community.
Let's talk about body positivity and body neutrality. This episode will focus on the hijacking of the body positivity movement and what this means for fat people. TW// fatphobia and racism
This episode is the first part of the 5 part series called the fatphobia files. It will be discussing important parts and elements of fatphobia. The episode will speak on the racial and religious aspects of fatphobia. The origins of fatphobia will be touched on. This is an introduction to the fatphobia files.
This episode will be stories and lessons learnt from being in the queer community and encountering predators with guest Lerato. TW// grooming, abuse, minors
This episode will be about rape culture, sexual assault and undesirability. How undesirable people are never the faces on the banner
Speaking about desirability and undesirability , experiences of being an undesirable person with close friend Rivoningo
The stars are not wanted now; put out every one, Pack up the moon and dismantle the sun, Pour away the ocean and sweep up the wood; For nothing now can ever come to any good- W.H Auden. In this episode I'll be speaking about my experiences with grief. TW//Grief, Death
Today we have our second guest, Lunga and we will be talking about our highschool experience. The chat will range from experiencing racism to colorism
Hi Boluvie, welcome back. On this weeks episode I'll be talking about how the pandemic came and stole experiences.
"its nice to see yourself in the romance you consume. " as black queer romantics ZamaDotX and I speak about our love for romance and how we just dont have any representation in the movie field. We speak about our wishes for the romantic movie genre.
This episode will be discussing the denial of femininity to black women and my own personal experiences
Molweni boLuvie, this episode is just a small get to know me from the questions you asked. At the end there will be a breakdown of what to expect from the podcast