TOPIC: What kind of "perfect" can you tolerate?
This week, Dan and Merlin have a big week. A huge week.
Opening with a thank you to generous listeners, the boys then proceed to tackle some FU on the complicated world of H.H. Dorje Chang Buddha III (he is recognized!).
Next up is some preliminary discussion on Pando's recent hit piece on Tony Hsieh, his weird edict for Holacracy at Zappos, and his strange and checkered history with theoretically transforming downtown Las Vegas.
Moving forward, "Merlin's Concern" about his bizarre lightning cable problem is addressed and assigned to further research by the Fun Bunch.
Finally, the meat of the episode is served in an extended meditation on whether and when "perfect is the enemy of good"—and how that concept maybe relates to aspects of Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy.
Links for this episode:
Disqualifying the Positives. "Life feels like one disappointment after another."
Negative Self-Labeling. "I feel like a failure. I'm flawed. If people knew the real me, they wouldn't like me."
Catastrophizing. "If something is going to happen, it'll probably be the worst case scenario."
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* The meeting room hardware virus
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Highly recommended talk that Dan and Merlin both love.
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