When we employ discipline tactics that counter our children’s motivation and passion, it can lead to frustration and exhaustion. When asking our children to do something, there are three questions to answer.

1.) Can my child do the task that is required of them? 2.) Does my child want to do this task and why? 3.) What does your child have to do to succeed in this task?

Think of these questions like a hamburger. Top bun … meat … and bottom bun.