We tend to see change positive. That’s at least what we say. In theory we know that change is good because something new will come from it. But would anyone agree when I say it’s good when someone dies? Well I highly doubt that (depends on the person…). And I would also say that NO ONE is really immune to this slight discomfort of change. Especially when it’s not a change we wanted or had planned. So I think if we would perceive change as positive, life would look a lot different. We wouldn’t be stuck that long in situations we don’t like but we are to lazy to change. We can’t change the fact that climate is changing or that a loved one is dying. But what we can always change is our attitude towards that. When we focus too much on the bad aspects of the change, we cannot work with it. We will be desperate about the climate situation and desperate about our friend dying. But we can’t change change. We can only work with it. And the first step is to accept change. All kinds of change. I’m happy to hear your thoughts 🤗--- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/experienca/message