Loving someone for who they are is one of the greatest gifts you can give another person AND equally there is no greater feeling than knowing you are loved for exactly who/how you are.  

People are constantly changing but there is a difference between who you are as a person and what you are evolving into and changing yourself for your partner.

Rule #1 I don't wanna be with someone who doesn't wanna be with me.
Rule #2 If I'm not true to me - I'm not being true to anyone