In this episode will are exploring the idea is it ok to call the person's ex that you are currently dating? Why or why not? I find that women do this practice to find dirt on the person that they are dating. If you have to find dirt or you looking for dirt then the relationship is probably over. Trust is key in every relationship. Maybe it was something your man or woman did that started the mistrust and you feel the need to reach out to their ex so if that is the case . To not cause more drama, talk about the situation with your mate and hope that they will tell you the truth and if you can't discuss it and you feel it is better to reach out than the relationship is most likely over.