In this episode, we explore what a Pretender is vs a Contender. Contenders will never take your kindness for weakness and will love you through your mistakes. Pretenders will take your kindness for weakness.  A pretender will make you believe they are there for you and will leave you when that loyalty is tested. Pretenders are like tea bags, when you put a pretender in hot water, they will explode and leave you high and dry. Know the difference between the two to avoid the pitfalls and end up with a broken heart.