-       Let’s talk about how we can move from fear, worried about how this is going to destroy marriages,  -       To love, letting this become a challenge that we face together, growing with, and strengthening each other -       We are going to discuss ways to understand and recognize the fear based messages that we offer

-       As we discuss these we’ll talk about how we might discuss address these when others say them and how we can open conversations differently

-       And change those conversations to love, hope, and success

-       Let’s start with somethings that we often hear and see

-       “This will destroy your life?”/marriage

-       You can never forget those images

You will always be addicted/this will be a problem