Divergent Sense: Recent Episodes
Bill Leckie & Ben Shelton
What happens when common sense is common, but just not helpful? What happens when social standards and thought processes leave you stuck? It’s time for a new way of thinking… it’s time for Divergent Sense. Divergent means different, varying, or dissimilar. Divergent Sense is taking a different look at something to gain a fresh perspective and having viewpoints that are dissimilar to that which we know as “common”. This podcast was created to offer alternative opinions on topics ranging from life’s everyday challenges all the way through much more complex topics as well.
The divorce statistics are outrageous for first marriages and even more outrageous for second marriages. Committing to letting wounds heal and walking through the steps necessary to make sure you are not carrying baggage into your next relationship is critical to its success and the sanity of you and your spouse.
The divorce statistics are outrageous for first marriages and even more outrageous for second marriages. Committing to letting wounds heal and walking through the steps necessary to make sure you are not carrying baggage into your next relationship is critical to its success and the sanity of you and your spouse.
Fake it until you make it, is best left to being a colloquialexpression as opposed to an accepted practice. This is especially true when it applies to the concept of being well. Make sure health is never an act, but rather a commitment to achieve an outcome.
You never know where life might find you, but you can probably count on the fact that isn't where you were expecting or even why. To that end, we all have the capacity and the responsibility to make a difference where ever we are.
Join us for this five-episode series featuring beloved guest Debra Leckie as she pulls back the curtain on her career journey and how she navigated some challenging seasons and came out on top every time.
Join us for this five-episode series featuring beloved guest Debra Leckie as she pulls back the curtain on her career journey and how she navigated some challenging seasons and came out on top every time.
Join us for this five-episode series featuring beloved guest Debra Leckie as she pulls back the curtain on her career journey and how she navigated some challenging seasons and came out on top every time.
Join us for this five-episode series featuring beloved guest Debra Leckie as she pulls back the curtain on her career journey and how she navigated some challenging seasons and came out on top every time.
Join us for this five-episode series featuring beloved guest Debra Leckie as she pulls back the curtain on her career journey and how she navigated some challenging seasons and came out on top every time.
Wouldn't it be great if we could plan for every twist and turn and unexpected season of life? Wouldn't it be great if we could always be in control of our next season? Well, surprise. We can't. However, we are not powerless in the storm. Follow this series to find out our options and power plays in otherwise tumultuous times.
Wouldn't it be great if we could plan for every twist and turn and unexpected season of life? Wouldn't it be great if we could always be in control of our next season? Well, surprise. We can't. However, we are not powerless in the storm. Follow this series to find out our options and power plays in otherwise tumultuous times.
Wouldn't it be great if we could plan for every twist and turn and unexpected season of life? Wouldn't it be great if we could always be in control of our next season? Well, surprise. We can't. However, we are not powerless in the storm. Follow this series to find out our options and power plays in otherwise tumultuous times.
Wouldn't it be great if we could plan for every twist and turn and unexpected season of life? Wouldn't it be great if we could always be in control of our next season? Well, surprise. We can't. However, we are not powerless in the storm. Follow this series to find out our options and power plays in otherwise tumultuous times.
Life as we know it is incredibly complex. So many variables factor into whether or not it feels like we are living the life we want to and if so to what degree. But within all the noise and chaos are bits of beauty. Sifting those moments and seasons out from among all the other debris will prove that it truly is a beautiful life.
Life as we know it is incredibly complex. So many variables factor into whether or not it feels like we are living the life we want to and if so to what degree. But within all the noise and chaos are bits of beauty. Sifting those moments and seasons out from among all the other debris will prove that it truly is a beautiful life.
Life as we know it is incredibly complex. So many variables factor into whether or not it feels like we are living the life we want to and if so to what degree. But within all the noise and chaos are bits of beauty. Sifting those moments and seasons out from among all the other debris will prove that it truly is a beautiful life.
Life as we know it is incredibly complex. So many variables factor into whether or not it feels like we are living the life we want to and if so to what degree. But within all the noise and chaos are bits of beauty. Sifting those moments and seasons out from among all the other debris will prove that it truly is a beautiful life.
In this episode we discuss three prominent questions that we can ask ourselves to that help us focus in on becoming better leaders.
Relationships are complex machines and machines require maintenance. The deeper and stronger the relationship is the more maintenance it needs.
Waiting requires patience and when we want to move from where we are patience is typically hard to come by. However, there is value in waiting. Renewing our minds to Christ is not instant but rather a process. Wait on the Lord and renew your strength.
A performance mindset and a learning/relational mindset don't mix. Performance makes you measure what you've done whereas relationships make you measure who you are.
The holidays are times for food, family, fellowship, and fun. Fun? Well not always, and not for everyone. For many, the holidays often bring emotional stressors that diminish or even eliminate the joy of the season.
If we run from struggles we avoid resistance, we avoid doing things differently ultimately running from the resolution we want.
Like it or not resistance builds strength. Struggles create resistance, and properly navigating them builds proper mental and emotional "core" strength.
We all want something to be different in our lives, but often we are resistant to do anything differently.
Stagnate water stinks, and if we become stagnate in life then life can start to stink as well.
Our attitude affects everything around us and challenging seasons are no different. Maintaining the right attitude in challenging times can make or break us.
Being nostalgic and fondly remembering the past is often fun, but make sure that's not a place you live from.
Change is hard, but resisting it can be harder. Focus your energy on accommodating change rather than avoiding it.
Cramps happen to both the athletically inclined as well as the less athletically inclined. If life has you cramping up stop to think if you are exhausted or inexperienced.
Even in the "modern" times in which we live, the topic of depression is still often taboo. Few want to admit they are struggling and fewer still actually do admit it, but even then they are often met with a deer-in-the-headlights look. This is due to misinformation and general stigmas that are attached to depression. Depression does not mean you are sad all the time, depression does not mean you are living in a suicidal state, and depression does not mean that there is something wrong with you. Join us as we talk about Ben's journey through depression in near real-time as he walks out the process and works on himself from the inside out.
Burdens are a part of life. Some are beyond our control, others are within our control, but regardless there are tips and techniques at navigating both successfully.
Burdens are a part of life. Some are beyond our control, others are within our control, but regardless there are tips and techniques at navigating both successfully.
Burdens are a part of life. Some are beyond our control, others are within our control, but regardless there are tips and techniques at navigating both successfully.
There are times to depend on the Lord and there are times to cooperate with Him. Both are powerful, both are needed, but both have their place.
Practice makes perfect, right? Nope. Well, then perfect practice makes perfect, right? No, because perfect practice isn't possible. Practice is good and it makes us better. Enjoy it!
We've all heard the phrase "three steps forward and two steps back", and we tend to focus on the setback rather than the advancement of the one step.
Even in the "modern" times in which we live, the topic of depression is still often taboo. Few want to admit they are struggling and fewer still actually do admit it, but even then they are often met with a deer-in-the-headlights look. This is due to misinformation and general stigmas that are attached to depression. Depression does not mean you are sad all the time, depression does not mean you are living in a suicidal state, and depression does not mean that there is something wrong with you. Join us as we talk about Ben's journey through depression in near real-time as he walks out the process and works on himself from the inside out.
Without realizing it we often make a rash or calculated decision that spells out inevitable sabotage. What can you do to avoid this or should we ask what can you NOT do?
Interruptions come in all forms, shapes, and sizes. This episode discusses how to mitigate interruptions and to minimize their effect when they do happen.
Even in the "modern" times in which we live, the topic of depression is still often taboo. Few want to admit they are struggling and fewer still actually do admit it, but even then they are often met with a deer-in-the-headlights look. This is due to misinformation and general stigmas that are attached to depression. Depression does not mean you are sad all the time, depression does not mean you are living in a suicidal state, and depression does not mean that there is something wrong with you. Join us as we talk about Ben's journey through depression in near real-time as he walks out the process and works on himself from the inside out.
“Many people are too quick to trust someone in the name of forgiveness and not make sure that the other is producing “fruit in keeping with repentance” (Luke 3:8). To continue to open yourself up emotionally to an abusive or addicted person without seeing true change is foolish. Forgive, but guard your heart until you see sustained change.” ~ Dr. Henry Cloud
Conflict... is good. Wait for it! Conflict, handled in a healthy matter helps reduce future tensions by dealing with issues before they become significant problems.
Self-evaluation relies heavily on your mindset. And when it comes to mindsets you have two basic options 1) a performance mindset or 2) a learning mindset. Never stop learning.
Ecclesiastes tells us that there is a season for everything. In fact, The Byrds sang a very famous song about the seasons of life. In this series, we will discuss how to make the most of a challenging season so that when you look back from the other side you will see how much you have grown.
Ecclesiastes tells us that there is a season for everything. In fact, The Byrds sang a very famous song about the seasons of life. In this series, we will discuss how to make the most of a challenging season so that when you look back from the other side you will see how much you have grown.
Ecclesiastes tells us that there is a season for everything. In fact, The Byrds sang a very famous song about the seasons of life. In this series, we will discuss how to make the most of a challenging season so that when you look back from the other side you will see how much you have grown.
Ecclesiastes tells us that there is a season for everything. In fact, The Byrds sang a very famous song about the seasons of life. In this series, we will discuss how to make the most of a challenging season so that when you look back from the other side you will see how much you have grown.
Ecclesiastes tells us that there is a season for everything. In fact, The Byrds sang a very famous song about the seasons of life. In this series, we will discuss how to make the most of a challenging season so that when you look back from the other side you will see how much you have grown.
Even in the "modern" times in which we live, the topic of depression is still often taboo. Few want to admit they are struggling and fewer still actually do admit it, but even then they are often met with a deer-in-the-headlights look. This is due to misinformation and general stigmas that are attached to depression. Depression does not mean you are sad all the time, depression does not mean you are living in a suicidal state, and depression does not mean that there is something wrong with you. Join us as we talk about Ben's journey through depression in near real-time as he walks out the process and works on himself from the inside out.
Even in the "modern" times in which we live, the topic of depression is still often taboo. Few want to admit they are struggling and fewer still actually do admit it, but even then they are often met with a deer-in-the-headlights look. This is due to misinformation and general stigmas that are attached to depression. Depression does not mean you are sad all the time, depression does not mean you are living in a suicidal state, and depression does not mean that there is something wrong with you. Join us as we talk about Ben's journey through depression in near real-time as he walks out the process and works on himself from the inside out.
Many people associate the concept of unity among people the same way they associate agreement. For the purposes of this episode, the two are not the same. Unity is not unison, but unity can be achieved through the submission of our wills. In this episode, we look at how in at least one instance Jesus submitted his will to the Father's and how we can apply this concept in all areas of our lives.
In today's culture leadership is everything... or is it? In this episode, we pick apart the belief that everyone needs to be a leader and take a hard look at the frequently glossed-over concept of serving. You can lead without serving but you cannon serve without leading. If you're a leader, listen. If you are not a leader, listen.
As a leader you will fail, as a leader, you will be hurt, and as a leader you will meet the boundaries of your own humanity. Roadblocks cannot become permanent insurmountable hurdles is fulfilling our purpose in life.
A nod to the church hurt series, after being hurt by a leader learning to trust a new leader can be a challenging thing to do. Though challenging it is imperative that we conquer our fears, tame our emotions and learn to trust those in leadership again so that we may receive what God wants to teach us through them.
True strength cannot occur without the presence of vulnerability. Vulnerability opens up a side of us where Jesus wants to connect; a place where "His strength is made perfect."
Even in the "modern" times in which we live, the topic of depression is still often taboo. Few want to admit they are struggling and fewer still actually do admit it, but even then they are often met with a deer-in-the-headlights look. This is due to misinformation and general stigmas that are attached to depression. Depression does not mean you are sad all the time, depression does not mean you are living in a suicidal state, and depression does not mean that there is something wrong with you. Join us as we talk about Ben's journey through depression in near real-time as he walks out the process and works on himself from the inside out.
The church is filled with imperfect people. So, if you go to church, sooner or later you will have the opportunity to be hurt and offended. In this series, we take a multi-perspective approach to what church hurt is, what it isn't, how to navigate it, and how to avoid it.
The church is filled with imperfect people. So, if you go to church, sooner or later you will have the opportunity to be hurt and offended. In this series, we take a multi-perspective approach to what church hurt is, what it isn't, how to navigate it, and how to avoid it.
The church is filled with imperfect people. So, if you go to church, sooner or later you will have the opportunity to be hurt and offended. In this series, we take a multi-perspective approach to what church hurt is, what it isn't, how to navigate it, and how to avoid it.
The church is filled with imperfect people. So, if you go to church, sooner or later you will have the opportunity to be hurt and offended. In this series, we take a multi-perspective approach to what church hurt is, what it isn't, how to navigate it, and how to avoid it.
A summary episode tagging all four keys we've learned about the last few weeks. Have you ever tried to "start the new year off right" with some "new year new me" resolutions? How long did these resolutions last? One month? Three months? Three days? Ha! We've all been there, but this year try something different. These next few episodes will discuss four keys to sustainable change. So start this year off right with a methodology that is sure to bring success.
Have you ever tried to "start the new year off right" with some "new year new me" resolutions? How long did these resolutions last? One month? Three months? Three days? Ha! We've all been there, but this year try something different. These next few episodes will discuss four keys to sustainable change. So start this year off right with a methodology that is sure to bring success.
Have you ever tried to "start the new year off right" with some "new year new me" resolutions? How long did these resolutions last? One month? Three months? Three days? Ha! We've all been there, but this year try something different. These next few episodes will discuss four keys to sustainable change. So start this year off right with a methodology that is sure to bring success.
Have you ever tried to "start the new year off right" with some "new year new me" resolutions? How long did these resolutions last? One month? Three months? Three days? Ha! We've all been there, but this year try something different. These next few episodes will discuss four keys to sustainable change. So start this year off right with a methodology that is sure to bring success.
Have you ever tried to "start the new year off right" with some "new year new me" resolutions? How long did these resolutions last? One month? Three months? Three days? Ha! We've all been there, but this year try something different. These next few episodes will discuss four keys to sustainable change. So start this year off right with a methodology that is sure to bring success.
Transitions find us in every facet of life. For the next few episodes we will discuss transitions in life, the workplace, and in church.
Transitions find us in every facet of life. For the next few episodes we will discuss transitions in life, the workplace, and in church.
Transitions find us in every facet of life. For the next few episodes we will discuss transitions in life, the workplace, and in church.
Even in the "modern" times in which we live, the topic of depression is still often taboo. Few want to admit they are struggling and fewer still actually do admit it, but even then they are often met with a deer-in-the-headlights look. This is due to misinformation and general stigmas that are attached to depression. Depression does not mean you are sad all the time, depression does not mean you are living in a suicidal state, and depression does not mean that there is something wrong with you. Join us as we talk about Ben's journey through depression in near real-time as he walks out the process and works on himself from the inside out.
Even in the "modern" times in which we live, the topic of depression is still often taboo. Few want to admit they are struggling and fewer still actually do admit it, but even then they are often met with a deer-in-the-headlights look. This is due to misinformation and general stigmas that are attached to depression. Depression does not mean you are sad all the time, depression does not mean you are living in a suicidal state, and depression does not mean that there is something wrong with you. Join us as we talk about Ben's journey through depression in near real-time as he walks out the process and works on himself from the inside out.
Even in the "modern" times in which we live, the topic of depression is still often taboo. Few want to admit they are struggling and fewer still actually do admit it, but even then they are often met with a deer-in-the-headlights look. This is due to misinformation and general stigmas that are attached to depression. Depression does not mean you are sad all the time, depression does not mean you are living in a suicidal state, and depression does not mean that there is something wrong with you. Join us as we talk about Ben's journey through depression in near real-time as he walks out the process and works on himself from the inside out.
Even in the "modern" times in which we live, the topic of depression is still often taboo. Few want to admit they are struggling and fewer still actually do admit it, but even then they are often met with a deer-in-the-headlights look. This is due to misinformation and general stigmas that are attached to depression. Depression does not mean you are sad all the time, depression does not mean you are living in a suicidal state, and depression does not mean that there is something wrong with you. Join us as we talk about Ben's journey through depression in near real-time as he walks out the process and works on himself from the inside out.
Even in the "modern" times in which we live, the topic of depression is still often taboo. Few want to admit they are struggling and fewer still actually do admit it, but even then they are often met with a deer-in-the-headlights look. This is due to misinformation and general stigmas that are attached to depression. Depression does not mean you are sad all the time, depression doesn't mean you are living in a suicidal state, and depression doesn't mean that there is something wrong with you. Join us as we talk about Ben's journey through depression in near real-time as he walks out the process and works on himself from the inside out.
In this episode, we talk about how the podcast came into being, what it is, and what it isn't. Stay tuned... we are just getting started.