It was easier to have real friends pre "facebook" ... now we have thousands of "friends" all over social media. But how can you really tell who is real or just finessing?  How do you know when to let a "friend" go and how do you keep friendships alive when you're busy or  dealing with issues in your own life? Or what happens when you getting married - and your husband hates your friends? Real talk. The Perry girls, Aubrey and Pam chop it up. Follow them on twitter: @aubreymariah14 and @pamperry or instagram @aubrey14@pam_perry