So what the heck is the false dichotomy? It's opposing options that are presented as the ONLY options, it permeates absolutely every part of our society, and it harms all of us, even cis people. But don't buy into it! Life doesn't fit into neat little boxes, nor should it. Library Girl Mina Martinez Oldham joins us again, and we also discuss the importance of being seen and how playing is part of experimenting... and also cute non-binary librarians, culinary cruelty, and how trans women go where no man has gone before. Oh, also? I'm sunshine!MINA MARTINEZ OLDHAMlibrary-girl.comminaoldham.comFURTHER READING(topics discussed with essays available at TillysTransTuesdays.com)T*RFs (trans exclusionary radical feminists, aka transphobic bigots), Body HackingSpecial thanks to Daisy and Jane for the use of "Sorry Not Sorry" as our show's theme music.Please stop by and show your support at daisyandjane.bandcamp.com and soundcloud.com/daisyandjane--Please leave us a rating on Apple Podcasts/iTunes!--Website: pendantaudio.com Twitter: @pendantweb Facebook: facebook.com/pendantaudio Tumblr: pendantaudio.tumblr.com YouTube: youtube.com/pendantproductions