Attention assorted troublemakers and foolish mortals! This week's topic is actually two topics that are intrinsically related, both easy to understand but sometimes difficult to talk about. "Sir" and "miss" can be heavily loaded words, in ways both good and bad. But whenever misgendering happens, remember it's about the people misgendering you and not about YOU. Professor and writer of Stained Glass Woman Zoe Ann Wendler (Doc Impossible) joins us to discuss panopticons, how trans people are always observed, and sticky guesses! Aye Captain? Yes Chef!ZOE ANN WENDLERMastodon: @Impossible_PhD@hachyderm.ioReddit: Impossible_PhDStained Glass Woman: https://stainedglasswoman.substack.comFURTHER READING(topics discussed with essays available at TillysTransTuesdays.com)Trans Rep in Media in 2022, Implicit Queerphobia, Confidence, Trans People Are Human Beings (stop staring at us), Chasers and the Fetishization of Trans Women, Internalized Transphobia, The Constant Fight, The Past and Why it Haunts UsREFERENCE MATERIALGetting (Mis)Gendered: The science behind getting Sir'd, Miss'd, and why things go wrong - https://stainedglasswoman.substack.com/p/getting-misgenderedSpecial thanks to Daisy and Jane for the use of "Sorry Not Sorry" as our show's theme music.Please stop by and show your support at daisyandjane.bandcamp.com and soundcloud.com/daisyandjane--Please leave us a rating on Apple Podcasts/iTunes!--Website: pendantaudio.com Twitter: @pendantweb Facebook: facebook.com/pendantaudio Tumblr: pendantaudio.tumblr.com YouTube: youtube.com/pendantproductions