5 Values / Traits That Set A Relationship Up For Failure

1. You value sensitivity, rather than tolerance 

2. You judge others, assume the worst in others, demand apologies 

3. You have no desire for self improvement or introspection 

4. You have unrealistic expectations 

5. You choose to escalate even on little things that don't actually matter.

0:00 5 Values Ruining Your Relationship 

0:26 Judgment 

1:16 Judgment of Others 

2:30 Influencing Others 

3:30 Think Before You Act 

5:45 Reading from Multiple Sources With Open Mind

8:20 Misleading Headlines 

9:26 Be Aware of Your Judginess  

1. Judgment - When you judge others, you minimize self accountability and you put blame on others. You assume the worst in the other person and you jump to conclusions about what they can or cannot do.  To reduce our tendency to judge, we can: 

1) Think Before We Act 

2) Be Open-Minded 

3) Get News From Multiple Sources and Be Aware of Our Natural Biases to React  

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