There are thousands of how-to videos, podcasts, workshops, and posts on manifesting a “specific person” — It’s all the rage! And you’re told to listen to this meditation, repeat these affirmations, write down those intentions, and to monitor your feelings/thoughts in order to attract your specific person into your life. But is this healthy? Is it really for the benefit of your highest and best? Or is it glorified obsession and manipulation? Let’s discuss it!