RealTLK w/Toya, Lex & Kris: Recent Episodes
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A time to reflect, embrace our past, talk about life, sit back and laugh. RealTLK with Toya, Lex and Kris gives you access into the lives of three lifetime friends and what it is like to be in our girl chat. We channel through topics of purpose, relationships, and just life itself! We are three friends who enjoy laughter, good dialogue, and divine revelation. Although, we are different, our purpose to relate, reach, and help others, is the same. In our podcast, we take you on a journey of how we see things from our own individual lenses. Get ready to relax, listen, and laugh!
How can you get ahead while living pay to paycheck?? You don’t! Become a stripper, find a sugar daddy/momma, or simply sell pictures of your feet online! That’s all we got!
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Toya: @latoyaw_ | https://linktr.ee/eymjusme
Lex: @jblext | https://linktr.ee/jblext
Kris: @29thand11th | https://www.29thand11th.com/
Why weren’t we warned!! What are some things you were not prepared for? Adulting in general is just an unexpected roller coaster.
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Toya: @latoyaw_ | https://linktr.ee/eymjusme
Lex: @jblext | https://linktr.ee/jblext
Kris: @29thand11th | https://www.29thand11th.com/
It’s a new year and a new season! Catch up with the ladies of RealTLK, as we share a glimpse of upcoming events in our personal lives and goals for 2023!
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Toya: @latoyaw_ | https://linktr.ee/eymjusme
Lex: @jblext | https://linktr.ee/jblext
Kris: @29thand11th | https://www.29thand11th.com/
Meet Amber, she is a parent of twins! Listen to how she has navigated dating in this new age world! We dive into questions on how life is like dating with kids? Is dating and talking the same thing? Do you include the other parent when you meet someone you are serious about?
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Toya: @latoyaw_ | https://linktr.ee/eymjusme
Lex: @jblext | https://linktr.ee/jblext
Kris: @29thand11th | https://www.29thand11th.com/
As apart of Mental Health Awareness!! We have a special guest Tari Cox that talks about the depths of her own mental health experience. She also gives insight to what lead her to published her book "The Wilderness: Saved & Suicidal: Enduring the plucking of rooted pain and remaining steadfast in God's promises." Get her book today at www.taricox.com or on Amazon.
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Toya: @latoyaw_ | https://linktr.ee/eymjusme
Lex: @jblext | https://linktr.ee/jblext
Kris: @29thand11th | https://www.29thand11th.com/
We have two wonderful guest on this episode. Lloyd and Kelly. Both are married, (not to each other) and they provide us their take on how they knew their person was the one! They share how they meet, how long it took, and what they do to keep the relationship still working!
For more info about Lloyds foundation visit, https://nicoleenochfoundation.org
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Toya: @latoyaw_ | https://linktr.ee/eymjusme
Lex: @jblext | https://linktr.ee/jblext
Kris: @29thand11th | https://www.29thand11th.com/
Hear Raven's perspective on dating in general, dating as single mom, and life after a broken engagement. She actually shares more of her story on her YouTube page. You can find it listed here.
Raven's Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOgMp5XG0vAWE_rUfpLRC6A
Raven's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/_raebae/
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Toya: @latoyaw_ | https://linktr.ee/eymjusme
Lex: @jblext | https://linktr.ee/jblext
Kris: @29thand11th | https://www.29thand11th.com/
How is it possible to date in this day in time!!! With the power of social media, being your true self is a test that’s hard to pass for some! Why is that?? Find out what we desire in a person, when dating, and still staying true to self.
Follow us on Instagram: @RealTLKpodcast
Email us: www.realTLKpod@gmail.com
Toya: @latoyaw_ | https://linktr.ee/eymjusme
Lex: @jblext | https://linktr.ee/jblext
Kris: @29thand11th | https://www.29thand11th.com/
How is it possible to date in this day in time!!! With the power of social media , being your true self is a test that’s hard to pass for some! Why is that?? Find out what we desire in a person, when dating, and still staying true to self.
Follow us on Instagram: @RealTLKpodcast
Email us: www.realTLKpod@gmail.com
Toya: @latoyaw_ | https://linktr.ee/eymjusme
Lex: @jblext | https://linktr.ee/jblext
Kris: @29thand11th | https://www.29thand11th.com/
Do you have a light switch internally of when you want to be sociable? How often does it come on? Do you satisfy it, if so?
Find out how sociably extroverted we are. What kind of social settings fit our want to be around people.
Email us: www.realTLKpod@gmail.com
Follow us on Instagram: @RealTLKpodcast
Toya: @latoyaw_ | https://linktr.ee/eymjusme
Lex: @jblext | https://linktr.ee/jblext
Kris: @29thand11th | https://linktr.ee/image2911photography
What type of saboteur are you?
We took a quiz that helped us discover just what type of saboteur we may be…hear and see how closely and accurately this relates to who we are as individuals! Can who you are, be the reason you are in your own way?
Take the quiz- https://assessment.positiveintelligence.com/saboteur/overview
Toya: @latoyaw_ | https://linktr.ee/eymjusme
Lex: @jblext | https://linktr.ee/jblext
Kris: @29thand11th | https://linktr.ee/image2911photography
What is your definition of success and by your definition are you successful? Also, hear what grace looks like for us and do we extend grace to others, in the same matter that God extends us grace.
Email us: www.realTLKpod@gmail.com
Follow us on Instagram: @RealTLKpodcast
Toya: @latoyaw_ | https://linktr.ee/eymjusme
Lex: @jblext | https://linktr.ee/jblext
Kris: @29thand11th | https://linktr.ee/image2911photography
Find out how we may live our best life while budgeting. Do you think it’s possible? Also, while discovering ways to budget, we also discuss how important it is to be financially transparent when in a relationship or marriage.
Email us: www.realTLKpod@gmail.com
Follow us on Instagram: @RealTLKpodcast
Toya: @latoyaw_ | https://linktr.ee/eymjusme
Lex: @jblext | https://linktr.ee/jblext
Kris: @29thand11th | https://linktr.ee/image2911photography
Is there a such thing as thing as a girl code? If so, do we honestly stick to it? In this episode listen to our take on if a girl code exist and if we truly abide by it. We use a guide list to help spark different opinions!
Email us: www.realTLKpod@gmail.com
Follow us on Instagram: @RealTLKpodcast
Toya: @latoyaw_ | https://linktr.ee/eymjusme
Lex: @jblext | https://linktr.ee/jblext
Kris: @29thand11th | https://linktr.ee/image2911photography
Can we be vulnerable to the right person? What does that even look like? Becoming transparent and naked leaves you exposed. Exposure to the wrong individual can make you put up walls as your life progresses. This episode is about why it’s hard to be vulnerable.
Email us: www.realTLKpod@gmail.com
Follow us on Instagram: @RealTLKpodcast
Toya: @latoyaw_ | https://linktr.ee/eymjusme
Lex: @jblext | https://linktr.ee/jblext
Kris: @image_2911photography | https://linktr.ee/image2911photography
New habits are super hard to keep going, do you agree?? Once we set our minds on trying something new, adversity likes to follow and knock us off course. Hear our different perspectives on why new habits are hard to keep going.
Email us: www.realTLKpod@gmail.com
Follow us on Instagram: @RealTLKpodcast
Toya: @latoyaw_ | https://linktr.ee/eymjusme
Lex: @jblext | https://linktr.ee/jblext
Kris: @image_2911photography | https://linktr.ee/image2911photography
How has social media influenced you and your outlook of yourself ? In this episode, we explore the start of our social media journey. We talk about pressures, norms, and sometimes even stepping away! Email us: www.realTLKpod@gmail.com Follow us on Instagram: @RealTLKpodcast Toya: @latoyaw_ | https://linktr.ee/eymjusme Lex: @jblext | https://linktr.ee/jblext Kris: @image_2911photography | https://linktr.ee/image2911photography
In this episode we talk about some things we wish to do, aspire to do, and some in which we have already done!!
What are random things you wish to do in life?
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Toya: @latoyaw_ | https://linktr.ee/eymjusme
Lex: @jblext | https://linktr.ee/jblext
Kris: @image_2911photography | https://linktr.ee/image2911photography
We all have areas in our lives we see as crutches, pedestals, and what we call straddling the fence! We expound on strengths and weakness in this episode. We also discuss how can we stay encouraged and seek growth.
Email us: www.realTLKpod@gmail.com
Follow us on Instagram: @RealTLKpodcast
Toya: @latoyaw_ | https://linktr.ee/eymjusme
Lex: @jblext | https://linktr.ee/jblext
Kris: @image_2911photography | https://linktr.ee/image2911photography
Is it hard for you to say no??
For some saying no, can be extremely hard…but why is that? In this episode, we discover that there can be relief in learning to say NO! Find out which one of us, has no problem saying no, struggles with saying no, or needs to be pushed to the edge to say no.
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Toya: @latoyaw_ | https://linktr.ee/eymjusme
Lex: @jblext | https://linktr.ee/jblext
Kris: @image_2911photography | https://linktr.ee/image2911photography
Oh my gosh, we are 30 + and man oh man we can tell! Do you think we are where we thought we would be? Listen to us talk about experiences and lessons, now that we are in our 30s!
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Toya: @latoyaw_ | https://linktr.ee/eymjusme
Lex: @jblext | https://linktr.ee/jblext
Kris: @image_2911photography | https://linktr.ee/image2911photography
Why is it easier to stay in negative energy?
Have you discovered strategies that work, for you? In this episode, we discuss how we try to push and change the course of a bad vibe for that day.
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Toya: @latoyaw_ | https://linktr.ee/eymjusme
Lex: @jblext | https://linktr.ee/jblext
Kris: @image_2911photography | https://linktr.ee/image2911photography
What is a friend? Why are quick to give that label to everyone? Can we have opposite sex friends when in a relationship?
Let’s dive into the perspective of what friendship truly is, what you can take away from friendship, and why it’s good to have a healthy balance of male and female platonic friends, while in a relationship.
Email us: www.realTLKpod@gmail.com
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Toya: @latoyaw_ | https://linktr.ee/eymjusme
Lex: @jblext | https://linktr.ee/jblext
Kris: @image_2911photography | https://linktr.ee/image2911photography
In this episode, the ladies take the love language quiz by Gary Chapman. They discuss what their love languages are and how important it is to communicate those in your relationships. Do you know your love language?
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Toya: @latoyaw_ | https://linktr.ee/eymjusme
Lex: @jblext | https://linktr.ee/jblext
Kris: @image_2911photography | https://linktr.ee/image2911photography
Living alone or with someone can be life changing on both spectrums. Living alone could induce isolation, make you controlling or more controlling, or even hard to relate too. But it also can allow you to find peace, soundness, and discover who you truly are! To live with someone, you find different layers to who you are. The good, the bad, and the ugly! Living with someone can change the foundation of a friendship or a relationship because living with someone allows you to really see who a person is. So would you rather live alone or with someone?
Email us: www.realTLKpod@gmail.com
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Toya: @latoyaw_ | https://linktr.ee/eymjusme
Lex: @jblext | https://linktr.ee/jblext
Kris: @image_2911photography | https://linktr.ee/image2911photography
This is a brief intro of why we decided to start a podcast. In our podcast, we take you on a journey of how we see things from our own individual lenses. Get ready to relax, listen, and laugh!
Email us: www.realTLKpod@gmail.com
Follow us on Instagram: @RealTLKpodcast
Toya: @latoyaw_ | https://linktr.ee/eymjusme
Lex: @jblext | https://linktr.ee/jblext
Kris: @image_2911photography | https://linktr.ee/image2911photography