My Purity Is Precious Podcast: Recent Episodes
Precious Joy
My Purity is Precious Podcast is specifically for women who are on the journey of sexual wholeness rather it be through maintaining their virginity, practicing celibacy, abstinence for a few months, or emotional purity. On this podcast we will talk about the standards the church has imposed on us, the world views, how are we holding up as individuals, and the frustrations and rewards of it all. These conversations will be raw and unfiltered. We created this podcast with the principle that no matter what your reason or stance on Purity maybe, it's not something to be ashamed of, NO you are not alone, it's ok to be sexually frustrated from time to time while on your journey, and even in a world where sexual fluidity is celebrated, you are indeed not an alien and ARE worth the wait!
Understand the value your voice carries through having conversations. All conversations do not have to be confrontational. Its about delivery and intentionality. Listen to Nneka Anderson Founder of Reshape the Soul breakdown the importance of finding your voice value!
Do you alway have something negative to say about yourself or someone else mentally? Do you suffer from jealousy, envy, and hatred towards others? It may be because you're not seeing yourself the right way. Check out this episode with Amazing woman by the name Enid Kent as she openly discuss how she was mentally incarcerated by how she viewed herself and others.
Not sure what your tears are for? Confused on why you are crying? Could it be that you are experiencing these emotions based upon unreconciled experiences from the past. Perhaps you are certain that you did heal those emotions. Here's a clue as to what could be the potential cause of your tears.
Pleading with God to give us the strength to do something we was naturally created to do. Have a child....Learn about Evelyn LeVasseur journey after multiple miscarriages to, crying out to God, processing Grief, then on to healing.
Girlfriend let me tell you. You are indeed a purpose that is ready to manifest to its fullest. One of the things that I love is, we all are created for a specific purpose crafted through our shortcomings, experiences, and traumas. We literally hold the key to healing other women like us. Your purpose is to birth healing, transformation and status. You are called to do wonderful things and the good thing is, deep down inside you already know. It’s just the matter of you fully believing it so you can step into it boldly. Let’s live out this journey together after all you are Purpose Alive!
As women we all have a little girl inside us. At some point she’s was bold, outspoken, bursting with personality and then she was broken. She was broken because she was misunderstood when she was younger. Her voice was muzzled, so she found comfort in food, music, sex, and the wrong circles that embraced her during that time. And no matter what she did, it was never good enough, always wrong, and you were forever being disqualified.
Perhaps parts of you are still that little girl, just in adult form. Maybe you are still misunderstood, confrontational, very vocal about your beliefs or perhaps you don’t vocalize at all. You just co-exist… You were not created to co-exist, you were created to thrive, flourish and empower others. Sis, let’s se that little girl free by healing together the little girl within.
Sis, if its one thing that I do know, it’s those untamed sexual desires that roar within each of us. I call it my inner hoe. LOL Truthfully, I do. I believe we all have one, believe it or not, however some of us just aren’t bold enough to admit it or own it. I believe when you own it you have better control over it because you’ve identified it. However, I don’t believe we are suppose to give free reign over to it. One of my pet peeves is a woman with no standards. She doesn’t understand her value, has no self- control for herself, especially her sexual desires, and allows for a man to use her at his convenience. Surprisingly this was me. That’s why I have such a disdain for it. My second pet peeve is women who has made it harder for other women, to receive the proper respect and attention from men, because the standard has been lowered severely. This is why it’s important for women such as you and myself to be truthful with our desires, standards, and sexuality. Honesty breeds healing. Lies only continue to run rampage.
Sis, let me tell you! I know exactly how you feel. I too have had and still do have raging hormones from time to time. A lot of times people underestimate the amount of work that goes into abstaining for someone who’s celibate, still a virgin, and practicing abstinence. Can I tickle your mind just a little at let you know for Virgins its just as hard. A lot of times people think since you've never had sex before or since its been so long that you no longer have desires or should never have desires. Let’s cut the bull crap! Being sexually frustrated is real! An its perfectly ok. The objective is how do we handle these desires.
Take it from me. I’ve been there. I was never considered to be the pretty girl. I was told, I was ugly every single day for years. An guess what! I believed it. I became so discouraged in my looks and the fact, that I never got attention from men, made me feel like I was indeed ugly and undesirable. For so long I went through an identity crisis because I didn’t understand my value beyond the surface. My exterior was everything to me. I thought that was all I had to offer. An then I was forced to come face to face with my truth, my personality, and with my face!
Girlfriend believe me I know. I know how it feels to be tired of waiting. To be tired of doing this thing the “right” way with no reward. The wariness that comes when watching others not even try to walk upright with their sexuality and yet be promoted into marriage or what appears to be a God ordained relationship. I know all about it. I know about the fight to keep your heart right and celebrate others. Nothing about what’s listed above is wrong its natural to have those feelings. What’s wrong is when we try to take matters into our own hands and we think we need to help God…
One of the things we are all in search of at some point is the voice of God. If you are like me you’ve heard yourself ask "God where are you"? I’m encourage that even in moments like that, we know who to call on, or look too, in moments of need. One thing for certain purity, virginity, celibacy is not a walk in the park. There are times when you will get tired of waiting and holding out. There are moments when you will question if this journey is even worth it. I’ve discovered that normally in times like these we have way too much clutter in our life. We have become too busy for our own good and doing so has create chaos and we’re now looking for God to tell us something we want to hear to make us feel good. The good thing is God never left. But we do need to declutter to hear more clearly.
So here’s the kicker. We’ve been discussing purity, virginity, abstinence, celibacy since the beginning. Mainly because I wanted you to know that I am for you, rooting and cheering you on. However, the truth of the matter is purity is not just sexual. Its emotional as well as spiritually. We will not be successful in our journey of purity is we don’t fight to become our authentic self. It’s a battle to keep our thoughts pure, hearts posture right, and to believe the best even when things aren’t shaping up in the way we hope.
Sis, I know the feeling. I don’t believe anyone feel like the purity walk is a breeze and truth be told, I refuse to do you a disservice by acting like it’s nothing. I want to encourage you that these days are necessary. They are necessary because they remind you that you can't do this journey alone. You need community, you need mentors, and you need God. God can and will sustain you. The beauty is in surrendering your purity to Him daily!
This is a question that we all have battled with at some point of time especially if you’re a Virgin. Mainly because the reactions of people can be quite alarming. I’ve come to notice those that even those who are celibate or practicing abstinence all wonder if we should even entertain conversations regarding sex. Its easy to say don’t entertain conversations regarding sex at all. Truth of the matter is sex is natural and our minds will wonder... Let's get real!
They may not say it. But I can assure you they have thought it. LOL Those friends, coworkers, family members, that know your status after you share it with them in confidence, that you’re a virgin, celibate, practicing abstinence etc. They act like they are proud of you and support you then in conversations later down the line, small seeds of jealousy manifests. Yep, I’ve been there. Let's talk about it!
The purpose of this podcast is to create a community of women that have decided to pursue purity through keeping their virginity til marriage, master celibacy and abstinence, while embracing chastity. This podcast was designed to remove the "tabooism" of sexuality, demolish the shame of past and current sexual decisions, receive healing within, and to celebrate the victories as we journey together.