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The voting process does not start on the election day. It starts the day one registers to vote.
On August 18, a continued voter registration (CVR) exercise was kicked off by the Independent National Electoral Commission (INEC), but many Nigerians appear to be unaware.
In this episode of The Bearing, we investigate how the exercise is ongoing and why it is important.
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Marriage is often regarded as the beginning of a beautiful journey — and for many, it is.
For some women, the moment the wedding bells fade, a different kind of pressure sets in: the expectation to conceive immediately.
But not every woman is ready. Not because she doesn’t want to be a mother, but because she is unsure of what lies ahead in her new marriage.
How does this decision affect the marriage, the couple, and society at large?
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From the rhythms of ancient talking drums in Yoruba land, to enchanting Igbo highlife and the vibrant Hausa folk songs of the North — music in Nigeria is more than entertainment.
It’s a living archive, a way Nigerians tell their stories, preserve their heritage, and shape their identity.
Join us on this episode of The Bearing to find out the role music plays in promoting culture and identity.
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Many people will remember the days when wearing facemasks was mandatory.
Years later, many women are still holding onto the facemask as a constant companion.
Join us on this episode of The Bearing as we look beneath the mask to find out why.
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The voting process does not start on the election day. It starts the day one registers to vote.
On August 18, a continued voter registration (CVR) exercise was kicked off by the Independent National Electoral Commission (INEC), but many Nigerians appear to be unaware.
In this episode of The Bearing, we investigate how the exercise is ongoing and why it is important.
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Marriage is often regarded as the beginning of a beautiful journey — and for many, it is. For some women, the moment the wedding bells fade, a different kind of pressure sets in: the expectation to conceive immediately.
But not every woman is ready. Not because she doesn’t want to be a mother, but because she is unsure of what lies ahead in her new marriage.
How does this decision affect the marriage, the couple, and society at large?
Join us on this episode of The Bearing to find out.
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From physical side effects to emotional and social impact, women often suffer as a result of their use of contraceptives. Every woman is different, and what works for one may not work for another.
So, how can a woman choose a contraceptive method that best suits her body and health needs?
Join us on this episode of The Bearing to find out.
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Many Nigerians, according to experst, are overusing artificial seasoning and, often, do not even realize it.
But how much seasoning is too much?
And what exactly are the dangers of using too many flavour enhancers in cooking?
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It is hard to find any politician—whether campaigning for office or already in power—who does not use young people as “digital foot soldiers”, more popularly known as "Data Boys".
While some of these young people benefit from the relationship—either through recognition or opportunities—others are increasingly seen by the public as "attack dogs”.
What is driving this digital activism? And what does it say about Nigeria's political future?
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In recent years, more communities across Northern Nigeria have embraced mandatory medical screening before marriage. This includes tests for genotype compatibility, HIV/AIDS, and hepatitis.
Interestingly, this shift is often supported by religious leaders: in many mosques and churches, Imams and pastors now encourage premarital testing during marriage counselling.
Why is this happening? Join us on this episode of The Bearing to find out.
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In Nigeria, schools go on long breaks from July to September.
For some parents, it is the perfect time to "keep the child’s brain active” because, “if they stay at home, they’ll forget everything!”
But experts seem to suggest otherwise.
So what should the ideal holiday look like?
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The late former President Muhammadu Buhari symbolised a rare personification of austere nationalism.
He was one of the very few Nigerians who commanded a cult-like following, especially among the masses in the North, and also influenced the trajectory of Nigeria’s development in many ways.
Seven days after his passing, many are still reflecting on the impact of his towering figure on Nigeria’s political and military history.
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Hope is not denial. It’s not pretending things are perfect. Hope is a decision — to believe in the possibility of change, even when the present looks dim.
So, what does hope look like in Nigeria today? and how do Nigerians keep hope alive?
As International Day of Hope is being celebrated worldwide, join us on this episode of The Bearing to find out.
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Work is important—it gives us purpose, income, and identity. But it’s not everything. Without time to rest, connect, and just be, even the best job can turn into a source of burnout and resentment.
But, how do you separate your work and personal time? and do you prioritize tasks when both work and personal life demand your attention?
Join us on this episode of The Bearing to find out.
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From the rhythms of ancient talking drums in Yoruba land, to enchanting Igbo highlife and the vibrant Hausa folk songs of the North, music in Nigeria is more than entertainment.
It’s a living archive, a way Nigerians tell their stories, preserve their heritage, and shape their identity.
As the World Music Day is celebrated, join us on this episode of The Bearing to find out the role music plays in promoting culture and identity.
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In classrooms across Nigeria, students are increasingly relying on AI tools to complete assignments, raising concerns among teachers about a decline in critical thinking skills.
While some view AI as a helpful learning aid, others worry that it is replacing genuine effort and problem-solving.
Today on The Bearing, we investigate whether AI is empowering or hindering students, and how it can be used wisely in education.
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Every year during Eid al-Adha, also known as Sallah, many Nigerian families are faced with the challenge of preserving large quantities of meat.
While some rely on traditional methods or modern techniques to store the meat for weeks or even months, others end up wasting it due to lack of proper preservation.
In this episode of Nigeria Daily, we explore the best ways to preserve, share, and safely consume Sallah meat.
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Historically, Niger Republic has been a major source of rams and cattle for Nigeria during the Sallah season.
But with the ban in cross-border movement of animals by the military government there, traders are facing supply chain disruptions, delayed deliveries, and fewer animals crossing into Nigeria legally.
With Eid-el Kabir around the corner, this episode of The Bearing investigate the situation.
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In the heart of Abuja, a silent trade thrives; illicit drugs change hands in broad daylight. From Marijuana to Tramadol, Ice and Crack cocaine.
Even with crackdown by operatives of the National Drug Law Enforcement Agency (NDLEA), dealers regroup, shift bases, and carry on with the illegal trade under the shadows of authorities.
In this episode we are looking at How Drug Cartels Operate Under Authorities' Noses in Nigeria’s capital.
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Every year, students at various levels and varying institutions sit for examinations.
For those at the final stage of their level of education, these exams often determine whether they can progress to the next stage.
One such exam that Nigerian students take is the Unified Tertiary Matriculation Examination (UTME), which serves as a gateway into higher institutions.
And, according to the Joint Admissions and Matriculation Board (JAMB), 78.5% of the candidates scored below 200 marks.
Why are so many students performing so poorly in their exams in Nigeria?
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AI is evolving rapidly, although some of its most powerful tools are still very new.
We are still trying to figure out how AI will change communication, education, politics or even our sense of what is real.
With the rise of deepfakes and AI-generated content, it is getting harder to tell fact from fiction.
And what happens when an AI-driven system hallucinates?
Join us on this episode of The Bearing to find out.
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Hausa folk tales (tatsuniyoyi; sing: tatsuniya) wasn't just a form of entertainment – it was a tool for education.
The tales taught moral lessons and cultural values, warning against greed, pride, and other vices and exhorting kindness and bravery.
But, as the world evolves, the older generation – who are the guardians of oral tradition – are aging and few young people are interested in learning and passing down these traditions.
And with more families opting to raise their children on English, the language used in narrating tatsuniyoyi is slowly taking the back bench.
In this episode of The Bearing, we are going to listen to tales about the challenges faced by Hausa folk tales, opportunities for their revival, and their place in the life of modern day Hausa society.
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In the past, marriages seemed to last longer, even though if contract was usually entered into without prolonged courtship.
On the contrary, the wedding nowadays is preceded by a lot of expressions of love and prolonged courtship.
In this episode of The Bearing we are looking into the factors that sustained marriages of the past and the lessons those of today can learn therefrom.
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Traditionally, a typical Hausa woman does not look her husband in the eyes, let alone call him by his given name.
In many cases, even a young woman in a relationship avoids mentioning her fiancé’s name.
However, in today's world, it is not uncommon to find women who can look their husbands straight in the eye and call them by their given names.
Join us on this episode of The Bearing as we look at the evolution of this tradition, its Impact on and benefits to society,and why it is apparently being abandoned.
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Living debt-free in Nigeria may appear like an elusive goal for many due to the country’s economic challenges.
Rising inflation, unemployment, fluctuating exchange rates, and the increasing cost of living have pushed many Nigerians toward borrowing.
Whether it’s securing loans for education, medical bills, or just making ends meet, debt has become a part of daily life for most.
But is it possible to live debt-free in Nigeria?
Join us on this episode of The Bearing as we explore this pressing issue
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Whenever festive seasons approach in Nigeria, changes are observed in all aspects of people's lives.
One of these changes is in the price of consumer goods.
At times, the prices of such goods rise, while at other times the opposite occurs.
What is the affordability of the basic food commodities for those preparing for the Sallah festivals during this time?
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Handicrafts play an important role in boosting the economy of society. Many people, especially in this era, have increasingly realized the benefits of learning a trade for self-reliance, rather than relying on government or company jobs.
However, some artisans are suspected of not keeping their promises when it comes to their work.
These artisans include tailors, who are often accused of failing to meet deadlines, especially during festive periods.
Why do tailors fail to fulfill their promises during such times?
What should they do to avoid the accusations of broken promises?
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In Hausa communities, there are age-old traditions associated with the month of Ramadan, one of which is called “tashe”.
It is a form of dramatic entertainment that involves storytelling, singing, dancing, and acting, which begins with the onset of the second ten days of Ramadan.
Boys and girls and, sometimes, young men move from one house to another or one market stall to another, wearing costumes, playing drums or other musical instruments, and singing traditional songs.
This week's episode of The Bearing will examine this long-standing tradition, exploring its origins, history, and how its impact on Hausa society.
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In many parts of the world, women are still fighting for equal opportunity – but Nigerian women are fighting on a different level.
Whether in bustling cities or remote villages, Nigerian women have learned to carve out a niche for themselves, even as the odds are often stacked against them.
As the International Women's Day is celebrated today, we are looking into the lives of some Nigerian women who dare to be different.
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In Nigeria, ritual killings and practices involving human sacrifice are not new. These acts, commonly linked to witchcraft, black magic, and greed, have been happening for years. But over time, there seems to be a consistent pattern in which women are predominantly the victims.
Why is this the case? What makes women the most vulnerable targets? Let’s unpack this.
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There’s no denying the appeal of cupping therapy’s mainstream success. It’s accessible, often marketed as a way to treat multiple ailments at once. But the practice of Hausa Kaho is unique. It’s embedded in a deep understanding of the local context and personalized treatment.
But, with the global spotlight now on cupping therapy – is this new trend slowly overshadowing the rich, traditional Kaho practice?
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Facial mark is a long-standing history in Northern Nigeria, particularly in Hausaland.
However, this ancient tradition is disappearing, as it is now rare to find people practicing it.
In this episode of The Bearing, we will examine the tradition and the reasons behind its decline.
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In the past, weddings among Hausa speaking communities were celebrated over a period of at least seven days, starting with kamu, followed by sa-lalle, yinin biki, zaman ajo, budar kai and, finally, sayen baki.
However, these customs have been gradually fading away.
What is the reason for this change?
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The desire for male children as against female children continues to dominate the thoughts of people; sometimes, this even leads to clear discrimination.
In some communities, having a male child is considered a source of pride and indicates the continued survival of the family.
Why do some people prefer having male children to having female children?
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Teaching has always been regarded as a noble profession – teachers shape the future, impact lives, and play a vital role in the development of any nation.
But in many Nigerian communities, teaching is no longer viewed as a prestigious profession.
Why is this the case?
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Many people will remember the days when wearing facemasks was mandatory.
Years later, many women are still holding onto the facemask as a constant companion.
Join us on this episode of The Bearing as we look beneath the mask to find out why.
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The Hausa people, one of West Africa's largest ethnic groups, have a rich tradition of naming children.
These names carry meanings that often reflect a connection to family, character, or nature.
But recently, there's been a noticeable shift with some parents giving their children Arabic sounding names that often betray a lack of clear understanding of the meaning behind them.
Join us on this episode of The Bearing to find out when the trend started, why and how?
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In this age, many women sell an idealized version of themselves – from their physical appearance to the emotional availability they offer in a relationship.
Dating apps have commodified human connection, where swiping right or left is an exchange, and the promise of “love” is the ultimate prize.
Why is this happening?
Why do women sell their love, attention, and affection?
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Why does the person you used to call and chat with no more pick your calls or seldom do? Why does the person you used to know now talks and acts differently, sometimes with arrogance and sometimes with a behavioral pattern that suggests you need favour from them?
Why does the person you used to know and relate with freely now seem a bit or fully withdrawn after assuming a position of authority?
Join us on this episode of The Bearing to find out.
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Christmas, a season of joy and sharing, feels different this year as soaring prices of goods like chicken, rice, and tomatoes strain the pockets of Nigerians.
Markets, once buzzing with festive excitement, now groan under the harsh economic reality.
Will this Christmas be as fun as previous years or overshadowed by financial struggles?
In this episode of The Bearing, we visit some markets to feel the pulse as Nigerians attempt to shop for the season.
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There are growing concerns that Nigerians are more loyal to their ethnic groups than the country.
How true is this?
What could be the cause, and how could it be solved?
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For the first time in Ghana’s electoral history, a Muslim is on the ballot as the candidate of one of the major parties.
It is also the first time the two major political parties – NDC and NPP – are fielding candidates from the country's North.
What do these firsts mean for the country, for its people and for its democracy?
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In the past, marriages seemed to last longer, even though if contract was usually entered into without prolonged courtship.
On the contrary, the wedding nowadays is preceded by a lot of expressions of love and prolonged courtship.
In this episode of The Bearing we are looking into the factors that sustained marriages of the past and the lessons those of today can learn therefrom.
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Young boys, barefoot, roaming the streets, begging to survive—these are the faces of a system crying out for reform.
And governments at different levels have, at different times, attempted to reform the ‘tsangaya’ education system but have failed to succeed.
Stay with us on this week's episode of The Bearing as we uncover the reasons for a system in crisis and chart the path forward.
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In Northern Nigeria, the sight of young children roaming the streets, begging for food, is all too familiar.
What was once an esteemed educational journey has turned into a cycle of poverty, vulnerability, and stigma.
What went wrong?
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In the past, the ‘Almajiri system’ was a respected method of education, a way for young boys to gain both religious and practical knowledge under the care of Islamic scholars.
But today, the image of the ‘almajiri’ has changed – we see children roaming the streets, hungry and without the hope that this system once promised.
How did we get here? How did the system work and what were its successes?
Join us on this week's episode of The Bearing, the first of a series, as we dig deep into the issue.
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In Nigeria, marriage is a deeply rooted cultural union that extends beyond two individuals.
However, rising costs of living are making it increasingly difficult for men to fulfill the marriage requirements, be they “lefe” in the Northwest, 'Owo ori' in the Southwest, or 'Ihu Isi Nwanyi' in the Southeast.
This episode of The Bearing will explore perspectives from different strata of society on how these marriage costs are affecting Nigerians today.
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In Nigeria, communal solidarity is deeply embedded in cultural values.
One of the most visible expressions of this is charitable giving, where compassionate individuals share food, clothing, and resources with those in need.
Another widespread form of support, known as “black tax,” places the financial burden on family members with stable incomes, who often assist extended family members struggling to make ends meet.
In this episode of The Bearing, we examine how both givers and receivers are adapting to the economic challenges that test these long standing traditions of support.
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The saying, “Parents are always right” has been passed down through generations, deeply woven into cultural and societal fabric.
But in today’s world, is this long-standing notion still valid?
While parents often have their children’s best interests at heart, does that guarantee they are always right?
Join us in this week’s episode of The Bearing as we dive into this thought-provoking topic and explore different perspectives!
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Traditionally, Nigerian culture holds elders in high esteem, valuing their wisdom and leadership in maintaining family order and passing down cultural values.
However, as society progresses and modernizes, the authority of elders is increasingly being questioned by younger generations.
This development begs the question: have elders lost their voice in the family, or is this a natural evolution in family dynamics?
In this episode of The Bearing, we will find out whether this change signals a decline in respect for elders or something else.
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Living debt-free in Nigeria may appear like an elusive goal for many due to the country’s economic challenges.
Rising inflation, unemployment, fluctuating exchange rates, and the increasing cost of living have pushed many Nigerians toward borrowing.
Whether it’s securing loans for education, medical bills, or just making ends meet, debt has become a part of daily life for most.
But is it possible to live debt-free in Nigeria?
Join us on this episode of The Bearing as we explore this pressing issue
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The idea of the “soft life” has ignited a wave of conversations, challenging how we traditionally define success, hard work, and personal fulfillment. In an era dominated by hustle culture, more people are turning toward a lifestyle that prioritizes comfort, mental well-being, and balance.
Soft life is often seen as a break from the grind, an intentional shift toward a more relaxed and fulfilling way of living. But beyond the Instagram-worthy vacations and luxury aesthetics, what does the soft life really mean?
In this week’s episode of our podcast, we explore the different interpretations of the soft life and its impact on our daily lives. What does the soft life truly mean for people from different walks of life?
How can we embrace this concept while maintaining our ambitions and goals?
Join us as we dive deep into the philosophy behind the soft life, uncover its advantages and challenges, and learn how it is reshaping our understanding of success and happiness.
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Hustle culture refers to the mentality that glorifies constant work, where productivity and financial success are seen as the ultimate goals.
It’s the “no-days-off” mindset that encourages individuals to always be working on something, whether it’s a side business, a freelance gig, or a new venture.
In this episode of The Bearing, we look at the hustle culture in Nigeria and work smart mechanisms Nigerians need to adopt.
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Being a firstborn child is a unique role, one that is often laced with both pride and pressure. Across different cultures, firstborns are expected to be natural leaders, responsible caretakers, and, at times, trailblazers for their younger siblings.
Ultimately, being a firstborn, whether in Nigeria or elsewhere, is a role shaped by expectations, responsibilities, and cultural values.
Join us on this episode of our weekly podcast as we look at what it means to be a first born.
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In a time when globalization threatens cultural identities and indigenous languages are fading away, the Hausa language remains a powerful symbol of resilience.
Spoken by millions, Hausa is more than just a language; it connects diverse communities across West Africa, carrying with it the rich history, identity, and traditions of its speakers. But what makes this language so enduring, even in the face of modernity?
Tune in to this week’s podcast as we explore the secrets behind the lasting strength of the Hausa language.
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“Use your common sense!” It’s a phrase that gets thrown around in everyday conversations, scoldings, and bits of advice across Nigeria, implying that there’s a shared, obvious understanding everyone should have.
But here’s the question: Is common sense really that common?
Tune in to today’s episode of our weekly podcast as we dig deep into what “common sense” truly means and why it might not be as universal as we’ve always believed.
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In a world where connections are often fleeting, the timeless dance of dating and courting holds a unique allure. It's a period filled with excitement, anticipation, and the intoxicating thrill of discovering another person experiencing their quirks, shared dreams, and the chemistry that draws two people together.
Gone are the days when a simple walk in the park or a shared soda at a local diner sufficed as a date. In modern times, dating often entails dinner at upscale restaurants, exotic trips, or the expectation of lavish gifts.
Join us in the episode of our weekly episode as some elderly people reminisce on what it was like dating in the past
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Sibling rivalry is a natural part of family life, but when left unchecked, it can have serious consequences for both individuals and the family as a whole.
It manifests as competition, jealousy, and conflict between brothers and sisters, often beginning in childhood and sometimes extending into adulthood.
While some level of rivalry is natural, it can have profound effects on family dynamics, individual well-being, and long-term relationships.
Join us in this episode of our weekly podcast as we look at siblings rivalry and its long lasting impact on family dynamics.
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Being a 20-something can be both exciting and daunting. Because you would only be 20 something once.
The twenties are a time of freedom, a period where you begin to become independent, take steps in the working world, and look for the partner you’ll have for a lifetime.
It’s the time where you define how the rest of your life will be.
Join us in this episode of the Bearing as we look at realistic expectations from people in their 20s
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Nigerian tertiary institutions are bustling hubs of academic pursuit, social interactions, and, of course, food choices.
Such food choices aren't just about jollof rice and suya – it’s a survival dance with the wallets and the hustle of lecture halls and the bellies.
It’s safe to say that the cost of living in Naija has turned feeding patterns into a Nollywood drama.
Join us in this episode of the bearing as we look at ways Nigerian students can enjoy sumptuous and nutritional meals on a budget.
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The National Youth Service Corps (NYSC), a scheme established to foster unity and development, brings together young graduates from diverse backgrounds to serve in different parts of Nigeria.
While the experience is often enriching, there are many things corps members are not told before they embark on their journey.
What are the things they wish they knew before their NYSC journey, especially when it comes to serving in Abuja?
Join us in this episode of The Bearing as we discover the realities they face that they were not prepared for.
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Whether it’s putting off a project, delaying a personal goal, or simply avoiding a tough conversation, procrastination can be a major roadblock to achieving your dreams.
But how does it specifically impact people in Nigeria, and what strategies can be used to overcome it?
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In Nigeria, turning 18 is a significant milestone.
It's an age when many young adults start to explore their independence, often stepping out into the world on their own.
The lessons learned during this period can be critical in shaping their future.
But where do these lessons come from?
Join us on this week’s episode of The Bearing as we explore this intriguing question.
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Traditionally, many cultures have valued the role of the full housewife, but the world is changing, with women chasing careers full time.
Would you rather marry a career woman or a full time housewife?
Join us on The Bearing this week as we look at this important decision.
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The trend of doing what it takes to have a figure 8 body shape has become rampant in the country.
In this episode of the Bearing, we find out why women are doing what it takes to achieve this Hour glass or Figure 8 body shape.
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In today's fast-paced world, should Nigerians prefer having a degree or a skill?
Given today’s job market, which holds more value?
In this episode of The Bearing, we seek to find out which the Nigerian of today should pay more attention to.
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At least 1.5 million Muslims from all over the world have gathered on the plains of Arafah in Saudi Arabia for one of the most important Hajj rites today.
Among these are 65,000 Nigerians who, despite the grueling economic situation at home, flew to the Holy Land for this once-in-a-lifetime experience.
This episode of The Bearing seeks to discover how they feel about being there and what it means.
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Marriage is a significant milestone, and preparing for it financially and emotionally is crucial for its success.
But how much exactly should a man have before he can get married?
Does taking this big step require financial readiness?
Join us on Today's Weekly podcast to find out.
Trauma experienced when losing someone, often referred to as grief, involves intense emotional, psychological, and sometimes physical distress in response to the death of a loved one.
How do people deal with the trauma of losing someone?
Why is it difficult for someone to overcome this trauma?
In this episode of The Bearing, we listen to the personal story of Hassana with the hope of finding answers to these questions.
Grave Injustice
The makeup of the U.S. Supreme Court and the cases they are hearing are no...
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The days where one needed a friend to connect with a host of other friends are fast becoming obsolete- A little tap on the net does the magic!.
In this episode of The Bearing, we uncover the truth and dynamics of online dating.
Grave Injustice
The makeup of the U.S. Supreme Court and the cases they are hearing are no...
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Aisha is a 24-year-old lady who is heavily pregnant.
Like many expectant mothers, she dreams of delivering a healthy baby safe and sound.
But, unlike many, she faces severe economic challenges that make even the most basic antenatal care and preparations for her baby's arrival seem out of reach.
Join us on The Bearing to hear her story.
Grave Injustice
The makeup of the U.S. Supreme Court and the cases they are hearing are no...
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What would you do if, as a student, you discover that you could make a lot of money on social media, especially if you struggle to find food to eat?What would you do if, as a parent, your child decides to drop out to make money online?
Join us on The Bearing to find out what some students and parents did when faced with the same dilemma.
As they grow older, many people look back on their life and regret certain actions or inactions; missed opportunities or unfulfilled goals.
In this episode of The Bearing, we will be at the most common of these regrets and how to avoid them.
Are you young? Join us as you may learn some lessons you will never regret in future.
Marriage is a new experience for couples, especially young girls.
Hence the need to teach a bride-to-be the things to expect and how to manage them, because how they are approached can make or mar the marriage.
What are those things and why do parents shy away from telling their children about them?
In this episode of The Bearing, we try to find out how ignorance of those things can and does lead to a high rate of divorce in northern Nigeria.
A spec is a list of qualities that a person wants in a potential wife or husband.
Do you have one? How do you craft a spec for a successful marriage?
In this episode of The Bearing, young men and women share with us how discovering their spec led to a successful marriage.
There is never an end to getting to know someone especially when it involves marriage
Is it okay to live with your partner, or fiancé before marriage?
Join us on this episode of our weekly podcast as we find out,
The final of the 34th AFCON edition is set. Nigeria will play hosts Ivory Coast on Sunday, in what promises to be a nail-biter.
The Super Eagles are in the final for the first time since 2013 after beating South Africa in the semi-final on penalties. And are gunning for their fourth win in the history of AFCON
Do they have what it takes?
Join us on this episode of our weekly podcast, as we find out
Marriage is built on the promise of loyalty and fidelity to one’s spouse. But what happens when that promise is broken?
Cheating is a complex and controversial issue that affects many couples in different ways. Some people may consider cheating as any form of emotional or physical intimacy outside the marriage, while others may have more flexible boundaries.
But the question remains: should cheaters confess their infidelity to their partners, or keep it a secret?
In this podcast, we will explore the pros and cons of honesty in marriage, and how cheating can impact the relationship.
A healthy work environment is very necessary to boost morale and increase productivity, but unfortunately just like a healthy workplace exists, a toxic workplace also exists.
In this episode of our weekly podcast, we understand what constitutes a toxic workplace and how employees can identify one.
Water contains no protein, carbs or fats, so does it have any nutritional value?
What are those things about water you’ve never heard about?
Join us on this episode of the weekly podcast as we look at things about water you’ve never heard about.
Thrift shopping is getting recognized and more in vogue nowadays mainly because of the high cost of living in Nigeria.
But could that be the only reason? How many Nigerians can do without thrifting?
In this episode of our Weekly podcast, we look at the thrift culture in Nigeria and share simple tips to boost your thrifting game.
It is common in Nigeria to hear some discouraging words like “making first class doesn’t guarantee good jobs.
But does it?
In this episode of our weekly Podcast, we are asking if graduating with a first class is worth it in Nigeria today.
Gambling online is an appealing extra source of income for more and more young Nigerians struggling to make ends meet in the battered economy.
Is there any young Nigerian that can boast of never playing a football bet at some point in their lives?
In this episode, we find out as we also look at the psychological impact to sports betting on young Nigerians
Getting married is a very important milestone and decision in a man’s life.
Some make that decision quite early and some struggle with it for the longest time, while some never take the marriage step!
What age is appropriate for men to get married?
In this episode of our Weekly podcast, we will be shifting the societal norms and asking what the appropriate age for marriage is for men.
The tussle between the wife and the husband’s concubine is a long standing one that is as old as time.
Many women have been reportedly beaten up, stripped naked or wounded by thugs sent after them because they were having an affair with husbands of other women.
In this episode of our weekly, we talk about best ways a wife should react to her husband’s side chick.
A side chick is a woman one dates in addition to a girlfriend or wife, usually in secret.
Are you one? How did you know you were one?
In this episode of our weekly podcast, young women share with us how they discovered they were the other woman.
Who gets what has caused rift in families.
This can easily be solved with the presence of a will.
In this episode of our weekly podcast, we look at why it’s important to own a will.
Have you ever found yourself working toward an important goal only to spectacularly fail because you did something stupid?
Well that act is called Self sabotage and we are all guilty of it.
In this episode of our weekly podcast, we look at the act of self sabotage and how it affects us as individual.
Ever heard of Autism? Do you really know what it is?
How do loved ones and family members cope with their autistic child?
In this episode of our weekly podcast we look at Autism, the misconceptions surrounding it and how family and loved ones cope
Rape is one of the most horrific crimes that can happen to anyone. It strips away the victim’s dignity, rights, and sense of security. It is also a grave offense that is punishable by law with harsh consequences.
However, not every claim of rape is genuine. Some people may lie about being raped for various reasons, such as revenge, attention, or money. These false accusations can have devastating effects on the lives of the innocent accused, who may face stigma, trauma, and legal troubles.
In this episode of our weekly podcast, we explore the dark side of rape allegations and hear the stories of those who have been falsely accused of rape.
Menopause, a terminology used to refer to just women. But do you know men get menopause too?
In this episode of our weekly podcast, we look at menopause in men.
Menopause is a normal life event for a woman. But how many women talk about it? How many young women know about it or even prepare for it?
In this episode of our weekly podcast, we look at menopause and why it’s an unspoken reality of women.
In marriage, some say love is not enough, some say love covers it all. What about kindness?
Why is kindness important in marriage?
In this episode of our weekly podcast, talk about kindness in Marriage and how important it is.
Every Industry in Nigeria has its pros and cons, Same as the music industry in Nigeria.
How toxic is the music industry? Is it easy for young artists to get in?
In this episode of our weekly podcast, we unravel the real reason why the toxicity in the music industry thrives.
To some people, there is absolutely no difference between work and personal relationships but should it be so?
Can everyone work in the same workspace as their dad or family member while maintaining a healthy relationship?
In this episode of our Weekly podcast, we are looking at how to draw a thin line between work and personal relationships in a workplace.
Work from home is gradually becoming the new norm. Can everyone be productive at home?
In this episode of our weekly podcast the Bearing, we will be looking at how to work from home more effectively.
The days where one needed a friend to connect with a host of other friends are fast becoming obsolete- A little tap on the net does the magic!.
In this episode of The Bearing, we uncover the truth and dynamics of online dating.
Over the years, a great number of properties have been defined in order to reflect on the concept of a livable city: smart, green, resilient, human, sustainable, ecologic, biophilic and many more. Among them, the idea that a livable city has to be a healthy city has been underrated despite its relevance.
In this episode of the bearing, we take a look at how the company Urban Shelter, is contributing to Urban living in Nigeria.
The economic hardship in Nigeria is biting very hard. Factories, shops are closing, even as people are losing jobs. It is seperating homes and increasing crimes. The situation in recent times has pushed many people to take extreme measures, even as worst as taking their own lives.
In this episode of the bearing, we find out how Nigerians are driven into taking extreme measures to survive or give up.
Reactions have continued to trail President Bola Tinubu's cabinet which will help him achieve his mandate of renewed hope, especially with the appointment of ministers.
In this episode of The Bearing, we discuss these newly appointed ministers will help drive his policies
As Important as breast milk is to babies, some working mothers have to struggle to breast feed their infants as one the primary challenges faced by breast feeding mothers is the lack of proper accommodation in the work place.
In this episode of The Bearing, we discuss, their struggles and the need for a conducive lactation spaces for breastfeeding mothers in work places.
The trend of doing what it takes to have a figure 8 body shape has become rampant in the country.
In this episode of the Bearing, we find out why women are doing what it takes to achieve this Hour glass or Figure 8 body shape.
Military coups were a regular occurrence in Africa in the decades after independence and there is concern they are starting to become more frequent.
In this episode of The Bearing, we find out why Military takeover are on the rise.
Anger, frustration, and despondency has been the situation of Nigerians in the past few days as they woke up to yet another steep increase in the price of petrol on the 18th of July 2023 barely two months after the removal of subsidy. From Lagos, Ogun, and Edo in the South West and South-South to Niger, Borno and Zamfara in the north, it was all tales of woe by motorists and commuters.
Japa is a Yoruba coinage, which in its literal connotation denotes ‘to leave for good’. It has become the new catch phrase for unbridled migration by desperate Nigerians in search of better paying jobs or other life supporting means.In this episode of The Bearing, we bring you the horrible tale of a young Nigerian who almost died in search of a greener pasture, plus things you should know before you Japa.
Are you thinking of switching your car's petrol engine to a gas engine? Before you do, there are some important things you should know!
In this episode of the Bearing, we find out.
It is a life saver. All the way through the days in the boarding houses, it ranked number one on tables in the refectory and so many people enjoyed it without an option.
In this episode of The Bearing, we discuss how beans has saved so many student's lives.
Education is critical to every economy around the world, non more so than Nigeria. One of the biggest issue facing education in Africa's largest economy is funding. The president of Nigeria recently signed the student loan bill into law to tackle the issue of funding.
But will the Student Loan Work in Nigeria? In this episode of The Bearing, we find out.
Actions of a Police Officer to arrest a suspect because he was wounded due to Jungle Justice has generated a lot of reactions.
In this episode of the bearing, find out what happened and how the action of the police officer might be encouraging Jungle Justice in the society.
Ever wondered what society would be like without men?
It is believed that men are the highest perpetrators of crime in the society, does it mean they are a problem?
In this episode of our weekly podcast, we are asking what the world would be like without men.
Many adult children are so busy growing up that they forget that their parents are growing old at the same time.
What gender actually takes care of their parents the most? Male or female
In this episode of our weekly podcast, we look at which Gender performs better in giving parental care.
When we were younger, many of us spent a lot of time wondering when we would grow up so we could finally be adults.
Is adulthood what you expected?
In this episode of our weekly podcast, we look at the reality of Adulthood.
Ever heard the term “Why you dey drive like woman?” or ‘Oh na woman dey drive sef”
Is there a particular way women drive?
In this episode of our weekly podcast, The Bearing, we are asking if women are generally horrible drivers.
To be a man they say is not a day’s job like.
What does it actually take to be a man? What makes a man?
In this episode of our weekly podcast, we look at what truly makes a man in a typical Nigerian society, and how these expectations are affecting the men.
Pregnancy is considered a time in a woman's life when she is caught between life and death, thus she should be treated with compassion.
As some women relate their gruesome pregnancy experiences, we will examine why some men treat pregnant women negatively in this edition of our weekly podcast.
Every election has a winner and losers and it’s only expected for the losers to accept their fate with a spirit of sportsmanship.
But in Nigerian politics, everyone believes they won hence no one accepts defeat.
In this episode of Our weekly podcast, we look at why Nigerian politicians are sore losers.
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A popular saying goes, Without Hillary Clinton, there would never have been a Kamala Harris.
Who would pave the way for women in Nigerian politics? Why do women struggle with politics in Nigeria?
In this episode of the Bearing, our weekly podcast, we look at why women fail in Nigerian political space.
It's Election Day again! What are your expectations? Are we going to see more shockers in the governorship election?
In this episode of Our weekly podcast The Bearing, we look at what to expect, from the governorship election, as we took a trip round the 6 geopolitical zones in Nigeria
Recently, the Supreme Court ruled that the old notes are to remain legal tender till December 31st 2023.
Despite this, the old Naira notes are still not accepted as legal tender.
In this episode of our weekly podcast, the Bearing, we look at the real reason why
everyone is unsure of the status of the Old Naira Note.
Asiwaju Bola Ahmed Tinubu, will soon be taking over the seat of president from Muhammadu Buhari as Nigeria’s next president.
Chairman of the Independent National Electoral Commission (INEC) declared him the president elect of the Federal Republic of Nigeria.
In this episode of Our weekly podcast, The Bearing, we ask if the President elect, Bola Ahmed Tinubu truly has what it takes to rule Nigeria.
It’s Election Day, and Nigerians are trooping to vote.
Do you as a first time voter know what to do when you get there?
In this episode of our weekly Podcast, we will be explaining in details of voting procedure.
Its now 6 days to the elections, everyone should be fully ready and eager to vote.
With all necessary permutations in place and intense politicking and campaign, who has won the hearts of Nigerians?
In this episode of our weekly podcast The Bearing, we will be asking who will most
likely win and become the next president of Nigeria?
Humans have different personalities and exhibit different behaviors, some of which are influenced by times, seasons, situations, places, events, other people, and so on.
If so, why is a reaction of anger seen as the true character of an individual?
In this episode of our weekly podcast The Bearing, we would be asking if anger is a true reflection of a person’s character.
One of the most challenging things you will do as a parent is disciplining your child.
Those days, spanking or manual reset cam in different forms, but it happened. but same cannot be said for now.
Has the reduced spanking of children affected our kids of today? Should spanking be brought back?
In this episode of Nigeria Daily, we look at why spanking should be brought back fully to our society.
“A perfect marriage they say, is just two imperfect people who refuse to give up on each other.”
In this perfect imperfect relationship, how best should communication be made, especially when it comes to going out?
In this episode of Nigeria Daily, we are asking of is okay for a woman to take permission from her husband before going out.
It is not a secret that Nigerians tend to associate the wearing of dreadlocks and/or the etching of tattoos on the skin, or piercings especially by young people, as a form of immorality.
How true is this?
In this episode of our weekly podcast The Bearing, we hear real life experiences of people with locs and tattoos and how they suffered discrimination.
We have all been affected by lie, we've been the liar at some point, and we’ve been lied to.
Does that make us all liars?
In this episode of our weekly podcast, The Bearing, we look at real reasons why people lie at some point or another.
Marriage is the union between two people from different backgrounds and upbringing.
What happens when it involves different ethnic groups and languages?
In this episode of our weekly podcast The Bearing, we look at how language and ethnic barriers in marriages can foster national peace.
Matchmaking, is a way of bringing two people together into marriage.
In the olden days, wealthy parents matchmade their children to their friends and acquaintances who were wealthy as they, so that the affluence would stay within the two families.
Are love and romance found in matchmaking?
Let's find out in today’s episode of The Bearing.
Divorce, changes not only the structure of the family but also its dynamics and sometimes values and children’s lifestyle
What effect does divorce have on children in the long run?
In this episode of our weekly podcast The Bearing, we are asking if children raised in broken homes have character flaws or see life differently.
When we first come to the world, our parents are the ones who protect and care for us. One day, the script is completely flipped. Suddenly, we find ourselves in the position of taking care of our parents.
How many children will be willing to look after their parents in old age?
In this episode of our weekly podcast, The Bearing, we look at why some children jettison the age-old tradition of looking after their ageing parents.
The birth of a child brings joy to all and sundry, the method of birth or how the child came about, shouldn’t be a defining factor.
Is there a perfect way to birth a child?
In this episode of our weekly podcast, we look at why most women opt for Cesarean section.
Remember that little dairy you had at 16, where you wrote how you want to be married and 25 and tour the world at 29 with your partner and 2kids.
How’s that coming? Achieved or not? Do we just put pressure on ourselves or the society does?
In this episode of The Bearing, we look why young people feel pressured to achieve in Nigeria.
Keeping yourself pure and staying a virgin till your wedding use to be a bragging right amongst girls in the past and a pride to the parents.
Is it still the same today?
In this episode of Nigeria Daily, we ask if being a virgin is still a thing in Nigeria today.
Trust, they say is the foundation of every marriage and relationship.
But why snoop through chats and text messages on your partners phone then?
In this episode of our weekly podcast The Bearing, we look at the dangers of snooping through your partners’ phone
The dream of every parent is to raise well balanced children who can stand out in the society.
is it possible for siblings raised by the same parents to experience different sides of their parents?
In this episode of the Bearing, we will be looking at why no two children have the same parents.
Genzs are those who were born between 1996 and 2012. They grew up with social media, texting and the internet.
The generation z has been said to have a different mindset and ideology. are they just misunderstood or there is more to the Genzs that meets the eye?
In this episode of our weekly podcast, The Bearing, we are looking at why the genzs are misunderstood in the society today.
Some for love, some for companionship and some for money and Affluence. People marry for different reasons.
Why exactly do some women marry their choice of spouse?
In this episode of The Bearing, we look why some women are willing to marry into polygamous despite the modern day woman ideology.
For better for worse they say, does it mean to endure the beatings and abuse? Which is better? To leave in a body bag or the leave alive?
How do women find themselves in marriage that was once seemingly perfect, to one marred by daily beatings and still stay?
In this episode of our weekly podcast The Bearing, a domestic violence survivor shares her story
Commitment to one’s partner, is a major requirement in marriage.
Cheating in marriage has different meaning to everyone, but in general terms, it’s been unfaithful to vows made to stay committed.
When cheating happens, should couples open up and be honest about it?
In this episode of the Bearing, we are asking if it is okay for couples to open up to their partner about their cheating spree.
As the 2023 general elections are fast approaching, Nigerians are asking question on how prepared the Independent National Electoral Commission truly is.
In this episode of our weekly podcast, The Bearing, Media trust has a 30 minutes chat with the INEC chairman, Professor Mahmood Yakubu on what to expect come 2023.
Nigeria’s population is estimated at over 200 million, which means the country has skilled and unskilled labor in abundance, over 205 ethnic groups, the most linguistically diverse country in the world, with over 500 languages spoken and much more.
62 years down the line, Nigeria has stayed resilient in the face of ethnic and religious divides, economic crises, insecurity and political instability.
In this Independence Day special of The Bearing, we are looking at how Nigeria has stayed resilient despite predictions that it would disintegrate
First born are unique in a family system, They are the only children who have their parents exclusive focus, time and energy.
With this unobstructed resource of parental attention the first born gets, comes high expectations.
In this episode of The Bearing, we will be asking if being a first born is a blessing or a curse.
Children can be confident, and that's a great thing, but often the line between confidence and arrogance is a thin one.
In a society like ours, how can parents draw the line between confidence and rudeness when raising their kids?
In this episode of The Bearing, we look at why confident kids are sometimes seen as rude our society.
The stigmatization of children and women as witches is not a recent phenomenon in Nigeria.
Those accused are usually ostracized or in extreme cases killed.
In this episode on The Bearing, a grandson shares a sad tale of how he lost his Mother/grandmother and aunt in less than 24 hours as a result of witch branding.
By nature, women are beautiful in and by themselves. There however is a Hausa saying that even if you are beautiful, you should also take bath.
Could that be the reason why women always wear make-up?
The Bearing speaks to women to find out if that is the case, and to men to find out whom they prefer – a woman who wears make-up or that who does not.
Some women feel it’s okay to get attracted and depend on rich men because they have what it takes to be attracted to them.
Why is it so? Is it so from the beginning? Some people are of the opinion that it is the culture that made it this way.
Today on the Bearing, we speak with men, women, and experts to find out why it is so.
Often, you hear people saying, I can forgive, but I can’t forget. Still, so many people find it difficult to forgive. Why is that so? Why is forgiveness so difficult a thing to do?
Today, on The Bearing, we speak with Nigerians, psychologists and religious leaders on the subject matter.
Everyone behaves badly sometimes, even good people. Unfortunately, when you’re faced with owning up to bad behavior, you have to apologize because it makes everything better.
How many people know how to make an honest apology?
In this episode of The Bearing, we look at a genuine apology is important in our day-to-day lives.
This emotion called Jealousy is normal and is experienced by humans, a little jealousy, can even be a healthy emotion.
But when it comes to marriage and relationship, Is jealousy healthy?
In this episode of The Bearing, we look at why jealousy is dangerous for marriages and relationships.
Breakfast in Nigeria today, means Heartbreak and It could be serve steaming hot, iced cold or on a full platter!
At some point, in search of a life partner, heartbreaks happen.
In this episode of The Bearing, we look at how to heal from heartbreaks, as Nigerians share their worst heartbreak experiences.
Choosing the person, you want to spend your life with, is a big decision that should never be taken lightly.
Hence, the reason why people set up standards in the name of husband or wife material.
In this episode of The Bearing, we look at what Husband and Wife material truly means.
Every state and city in Nigeria have men in black and white uniforms or orange uniforms who are called Vehicle Inspection Officers (VIO).
There have been complaints about the encounters with these officers. Is safe to say that almost every driving Nigerian has a negative tale to tell about the VIO?
In this episode of The Bearing, we look at why the VIO and Nigerians find it difficult to co-exist peacefully.
The pride of being in a boarding school knew no bounds coupled with the thrill of being the lord and master of your provision and allowances made it more exciting.
Are boarding schools the same today?
In this episode of The Bearing, we look at why the trend of boarding schools is dying.
Nowadays, body enhancement is no longer news, where women undergo plastic surgeries to beautify several parts of their bodies. To make some larger, and others smaller.
Why actually do people do body enhancements? Is it to meet society’s standard of beauty, or for their personal gains?
In this episode of the Bearing, we look at the real reasons why women undergo plastic surgery in Nigeria
Courting and marriage have changed from waiting at doorsteps and sending beautifully scented letters to sliding into DMs.
Has the availability of social media made or marred relationships and marriages?
In this episode of The Bearing, we look at dating dating and courtship have been upended by the availability of social media
The tug-of-war between a mother and daughter-in-law is an age-old phenomenon and has stood the test of time.
Do all women have a hard time with their mothers-in-law?
In this episode of The Bearing, we look at why daughters-in-law and mothers-in-law live in rivalry
Coping with the loss of someone or something you love is one of life’s biggest challenges.
How do you completely heal from grief?
In this episode of The Bearing, a widow tells us how she survived the heartbreak of loosing her husband.
Friendship is such a wonderful thing, having someone like a close friend a.k.a. Best Friend Forever (BFF) within your support system is beneficial in so many ways.
Is it okay for married couples to have a best friend of the opposite gender?
In this episode of The Bearing, we will be looking at the dangers friends of the opposite gender pose to married couples.
For Nigerian parents, your wedding day is more like their own.
Hence the child’s dream wedding is thrown to the back burner because the parents usually want something different
In this episode of The Bearing, we will be finding out who owns weddings – the couple or the parents?
One of the most prominent features of weddings and other events in Nigeria is the use of colourful uniforms called asoebi which are worn to show support and solidarity to the celebrant or celebrants.
Over time, asoebi has turned into a money-making venture for some people; others see it as a form of discrimination at events.
In this Episode of The Bearing, we look at how a piece of clothing can ruin relationships.
Ramadan is over, it is usually accompanied by the eid el fitr celebration to mark its end.
Years back, the celebration was very loud and colourful with so many activities especially in the Northern Nigeria, which generated revenue for the country at some point. Can Nigeria ever go back to those glory days?
in this episode of Nigeria Daily, we discuss how?
Over the years, the boy child has been excused for whatever behavior he puts up, under the guise of ‘Boys will be boys.’ Hence more attention is given to the girl child.
Advocacy for the girl-child is prevalent in many societies today with little for the boy child, yet they co-exist in the same society.
In this episode of The Bearing, we look at why society has neglected the boy child.
Teenagers go through anxieties, uncertainties, and emotional turmoil for varied reasons, a whole new world opens up to them at this point in time.
In the fast-evolving world of today, how do you understand your teenage girl?
In this episode of The Bearing, we will be looking at what parents should know about their teenage girls.
People get into marriage for different reasons - some for companionship, and some for peace.
But what happens when the marriage is marred by violence and abuse?
In this episode of The Bearing, we look at why women stay in abusive marriages.
For a long time now, there have been debates about whether women must change their surnames on getting married.
In this episode of The Bearing, we find out what the women themselves think about the issue.
A child’s personality and outlook are usually shaped by the mother in their formative years.
Is there a rule book for raising a child in today’s society?
In this episode of The Bearing, we look at how mothers have “failed” in raising respectable members of society.
Women have in one way or another excelled and proved society’s negative expectations wrong.
But in politics, they are being grossly underrepresented and seem to be struggling.
In this episode of the Bearing, we will find out if women have what it takes to be at the helm of affairs of the country politically.
In the modern world women are found in careers previously seen as the sole preserve of men.
Can we look onto the media landscape and say the same thing?
In this episode of The Bearing, we will be looking at how women are thriving in media.
Being a woman in Nigeria has its challenges but, despite these, we still find women who have pulled through and stand out.
How do they make it against all odds?
In this episode of The Bearing, we hear the stories of women who have excelled in business.
In a patriarchal society like Nigeria where certain gender expectations exist, being a woman comes with a lot responsibility, restriction and high expectations.
How has this affected the Nigerian woman?
In this episode of The Bearing, some women share their stories on the challenges of being a woman in Nigeria.
We live in a society where men are pictured as strong and powerful. As soon as a man breaks down, we don’t spare a second before calling him womanish or unmanly.
Our upbringing has taught us that since men have to protect their families, they have to be strong, emotionless and not cry.
In this episode of The Bearing, we will be looking at the society's perception of men who show emotions and cry. We will also be looking at why men should cry a lot more.
Recently, there’s been an upsurge in the number of phone robbery case in Kano, Northern Nigeria’s commercial center.
From attacking people in isolated places, the robbers – mostly young people – are now attacking their victims in traffic in broad daylight.
As if that is not bad enough, they have started moving house-to-house to perpetrate the crime.
In this concluding episode of our series on the rampant cases of phone snatching in Kano City, we listen to those who survive speaking about how they now manage to go through life with defects of sorts.
Recently, there’s been an upsurge in the number of phone robberiy cased in Kano, Northern Nigeria’s commercial centre.
From attacking people in isolated places, the robbers – mostly young people – are now attacking their victims in traffic in broad daylight.
As if that is not bad enough, they have started moving house-to-house to perpetrate the crime.
In this episode, The Bearing, unravels the problem.
Recently, a number of young people have been arrested in connection with suspected cases of ritual killings “in a quest to get rich quick.”
In this episode of the Bearing, we will be asking: Who is to be blamed for the get rich quick mentality amongst some young people? The society or it’s just who they are?
In our society today, not every dangerous person looks dangerous; some are actually nice close friends or even family members.
What do we tell our children about strangers and close uncomfortable family acquaintances?
In this episode of The Bearing, we are asking is "Do not talk to a stranger enough"?
In most homes in Africa, women take up the responsibility
of undergoing family planning procedures. But, why can't men?
Should men’s involvement in family planning go beyond moral support and picking the right family planning procedure for their wives
In this episode of The Bearing, we ask Nigerian men if they are ready to take the bull by the horns and undergo birth control procedures, including vasectomy
As 2023 is fast approaching, one of the major issues many Nigerians are concerned about is security, economy, and the general elections. Already some political elites are declaring intention to vie for political positions.
What do these issues has to do with 2023? that was the topic of discussion at the 19th edition of the Daily Trust Dialogue.
In this episode of Nigeria Daily, we discuss the issues highlighted and solutions proffered at the Dialogue.
Birth control measures are used mostly by women to prevent pregnancy.
Although these measures are effective, they come with side effects.
In this episode of The Bearing,we will be look at the side effects of birth control, as some women share their stories.
Waists beads and anklets are fashion ornaments that have been worn by women from time immemorial.
They have always been part of the African culture. But in recent times, a certain negative label has been attached to women who wear waist beads or anklets.
Why do we have such labels attached to these fashion items that have been in existence? Who created these labels?
In this episode of The Bearing, we will be looking at how waist beads and anklets lost their true meaning and why these labeling exists.
New Year is usually an opportunity people use to start off a clean slate and start afresh. So making New Year resolutions comes with the New Year package as people make commitments to be better or achieve new things in the year to come
Unfortunately, most of the set down goals are rarely achieved, as people just flow with the year. Why is that?
In this episode of the Bearing, we look at why people fail to keep to their New Year goals and resolutions and what can do to achieve their set down goals.
We know all too well that while raising a child in a two-parent household is tough, raising a child solo is a whole different ballgame.
How do single parents cope, especially in Nigerian society?
In this episode of The Bearing, we look at what single parents go through and the attitude of the society towards them.
Being a woman in every society comes with its own perks of difficulties, especially society’s “unrealistic” standards on what a woman should be.
How can women rise against the difficulties of society if they do not support one another?
In this episode of The Bearing, we look at if women truly support each other in the society.
Childbirth is a period that is filled with pain and joy for every woman. Why then do some caregivers "Midwives" inflict more Pain by physically abusing women?
In this episode of The Bearing, we would be looking at why Midwives beat women during childbirth as some women share horrific birth experiences.
With the three major languages spoken in Nigeria facing possible extinction, what is the Fate of minor languages?
How many young people can actually speak their mother tongue?
In this episode of The Bearing, we will be looking at the Fate of minority languages in Nigeria.
Hausa is a Chadic language, which is spoken as a first language by no fewer than 35 million people and as a second language by at least 41 million people.
One of the beauties of the Hausa language is the fact that it is spoken even by people from other ethnic groups.
can the Hausa language ever go extinct?
A typical Hausa man is highly protective about his language.
But how many young Hausawa can speak the language fluently without mixing a twist of Ingausa in it.
Will Ingausa see to a possible extinction of the Hausa language?
In this episode of the Bearing, we look at how westernization has affected the Hausa language.
Language is no doubt the most effective medium which messages or thoughts are expressed, hence it is very important to human existence. But how many Nigerians can speak their mothers tongue?
The Yoruba people are known for their love of and pride in their music, culture and tradition. How many of them understand the language, music and culture completely? Is the Yoruba language near extinction? Has civilization affected the Yoruba language?
On the Bearing, on our 4 part series on "The extinction of our indigenous languages" in this episode, we will be focusing on the Yoruba language and its possible extinction.
Language is a means of cultural preservation, It symbolizes identity.
Traditionally, the Igbo man is known for his pride in his language and cultural heritage. But how many can today boast of having knowledge of their mother tongue? With the world now a digital village, how many Igbos of this day can proudly and fluently speak the Igbo language? Or even write it?
On the Bearing, we will be starting a 4 part series on "The extinction of our indigenous languages" in this episode, we will be focusing on the Igbo language.
How many Igbo speaking youth can actually speak and write fluently in their Mother tongue?
Ever called someone blacky, dudu osun, too cute to be black? burnt offering, Yellow fever, yellow paw paw, oyinbo pepper? As Nigerians, at some point in our lives, we’ve made such derogatory and discriminatory statements about our skin tone or someone else’s.
What impact do these statements have on the individuals concerned?
In this episode on the Bearing, we look at society’s attitude towards light and dark skin tone and its booming effect on the bleaching cream industry.
Proposing is a huge decision, one that can shape the rest of your life. When it comes to who should propose, many people still follow the traditional model where men do all the heavy lifting but that seems to be changing. Should women propose to men?
In this episode of the Bearing, we will be sharing opinions from different generations on women making the first move in relationships.
Back in the day, community living was the order of the day, where your child is everybody’s child. Dating back thousands of years to somewhat recently, people lived in communities for safety, socialization, and shared resources.
Some people believe that new generation parents are spoiling their kids and not making them ready for the life ahead. And others believe that most old generation parents ruined their kids, to what style of parenting should we tilt to raise a child that is balanced in today’s society?
In this episode of “The Bearing,” we discussed with the some parents on where they belong to, the old generation or the new generation when it comes to raising their children.
The Pandora Papers project, the biggest cross-border collaboration of journalists in history to investigates hidden offshore companies and expose secret assets, has uncovered some covert deals and hidden fortunes of world leaders, including Nigerians.
Some of the top Nigerian elites mentioned in the Pandora Papers include Peter Obi, ex-governor of Anambra state; Abubakar Bagudu, governor of Kebbi State; Stella Oduah, a former minister and serving senator; Mohammed Bello Koko, NPA acting DG; and Gboyega Oyetola, governor of Osun State among others.
In this episode of The Bearing, we take a deeper look at how, why, and where these happened and what can be done now that the cat is out of the bag.
When marriage happens, the next expectation from society is childbearing and when it doesn’t come, excessive pressure is placed on both man and wife.
Infertility is something most couples deal with and it causes a huge strain on the marriage.
On this episode of the Bearing, we will be looking at infertility and the perception of the society
It is estimated by the United Nations that over 200 million girls and women alive today have undergone female genital mutilation? What is their survival story?
On the Bearing, we will be listening to the survival stories of some women who underwent female genital mutilation and how it can be put to a complete stop.
In marriage, everyone expects fidelity and commitment, but if one partner is unfaithful, it breaks the bond and vows taken.
In this episode of The Bearing, we look at what infidelity truly means, and how it affects marriages and relationships.
Some times marriages encounter challenges when it comes to who pays for what.
Should two pockets become one after tying the knot?
In this episode of The Bearing, we will be talking about these challenges and how to overcome them.
Marriage, they say, is bliss and, at the same time, not a bed of roses.
But how can the spark be maintained in marriage to make it flow with milk and honey?
In this episode of The Bearing, we talk about the importance of intimacy in marriage.
A secret is a piece of information that is only known by one person or a few people and should not be told to others.
Every person has secrets they are keeping to themselves. Some tend to share with their close friends or a family member, while some would rather die with their secrets.
But when it comes to marriage, the concept of secrets can be a little dicey.
In this episode of The Bearing, we ask if it is okay to keep secrets from your spouse.
To have a child or children is the ultimate source of joy for many women.
While some realise this dream "easily", others are yet to get there.
Among the latter are those who see a glimmer in the distance, but do not get to hold the bundle of joy because of miscarriage.
Those who do not experience it may not know, but these women go through certain levels of pain which can change them and the society as a whole.
In this episode of The Bearing, we get to hear the stories of some of these women and the pains that come with miscarriages - which are often hushed.
According to the United Nations Office on Drugs and Crime, one in seven persons aged 15-64 years in Nigeria had used a drug at some point in their lives.
In this episode of The Bearing, we look at how substance abuse wrecks the lives of these Nigerians, including making one to sell her baby to buy drugs.
We also look at the role we can all play to curb substance abuse in our society.
There are over 2.9 million internally displaced persons (IDPs) living in several camps in different parts of Nigeria under deplorable conditions.
Apart from the government and a few charities, how many people actually help the IDPs?
Inmthis episode of The Bearing, we will be talking about what we can all do to better the lives of the internally displaced.
According to official statistics, food prices have increased by more than 22 percent since the spread of the COVID-19 pandemic to the country.
The costs of commodities have almost tripled, with traders, consumers, and even farmers complaining about the negative impact of the development on them.
In this episode of The Bearing, we talk about the hike in food prices, how it affects citizens, and its implication on the country's economy and security.
Mental health is rarely, if ever, discussed in Nigeria, even though, according to the World Health Organisation (WHO) a significant number of Nigerians suffer from one mental issue or another.
On this episode of The Bearing, we will be talking about the facts, the myths and the misconceptions surrounding mental health.
The media, as the fourth estate of the realm, have as one of their responsibilities holding the government accountable at all times.
In this episode of “The Bearing”, we will be talking about the role journalists are playing in fighting, or aiding, corruption – depending on how some Nigerians look at it.
Corruption is a canker-worm that has eaten deep into the fabric of Nigerian society, and in one way or another, we have all been tainted by it.
On this episode of The Bearing we will be talking about corruption.
But we would be asking one question: are we all corrupt? Can the Nigerian society ever be cured of corruption?
Across many societies in Nigeria, young people (both men and women) have been talking about marriage with keen interest – especially when it comes to the amount spent in observing certain rites.
In our third episode on the cost of marriage, “The Bearing” seeks to find out what it takes to get married in the western part of Nigeria.
By the way, what does it take to host a typical Yoruba wedding party?
We thank Damilola Victor Dare, who sang the Oríkìfor us.
Across many societies in Nigeria, young people (both men and women) have been talking about marriage with trepidation – especially when it comes to the amount spent in observing certain rites.
In our second episode on the cost of marriage, “The Bearing” seeks to find out what it takes to get married in different parts of northern Nigeria.
Is it too expensive or relatively easy to tie the knot in the North?
Across many societies in Nigeria, young people (both men and women) have been talking about marriage with trepidation - especially when it comes to the amount spent in observing certain rites.
In Igbo land, the complaint centres mostly around "The List", which a run down of items the prospective groom is expected to buy for the parents, grandparents, aunts, uncles, brothers, and other kinsmen of the prospective bride.
Some allege that "The List", which they say is "Outrageous, unfair, and unnecessary", contains items like the bike bought for the prospective bride when she was a girl and even the diapers she wore as a baby.
In a series on the "prohibitive" cost of marriage in Nigeria, "The Bearing" starts from the south eastern part of the country in this episode.
In this sequel episode of “The Bearing” on the rise in cases of abduction across the country, security analysts give tips about possible solutions to the problem.
They speak about what can be done better and differently.
What has democracy done for Nigeria?
In the spirit of Democracy Day, this week’s edition of “The Bearing” will be talking about democracy and Nigeria.
And we will be asking, of what benefit is democracy to Nigeria and Nigerians over the past 22 years of uninterrupted of democratic experiment.
Have you ever wondered how a person on a wheel chair moves around in Nigeria where there are few or no ramps to help?
How does a pregnant woman with impaired hearing receive antenatal classes? Do we have sign language experts in our hospitals?
On this episode of “The Bearing”, we talk about the challenges that come with living with disability in Nigeria and how the society and the government can create an enabling environment for the differently abled.
Abduction is becoming a lucrative business in Nigeria, according to some secirity expects.
In this episode of "The Bearing", we look at how the problem is ballooning and why, and ways of arresting the situation.
Being Igbo and Muslim in South-East Nigeria is so difficult that some of those who choose Islam as a religion say they are forced to practice secretly or relocate to the North. Let's take a trip to the region to find out why.
This is to let you know what we will be doing on this podcast. This introductory episode gives you an insight into all the interesting, educating and mind blowing conversations we will be having on "The Bearing". And who we are.