First Stone: Recent Episodes
First Stone
Growing up Christian has not been the easy and with the changing landscape of society there are more challenges to come. Join us as we navigate life, discussing all things serious and current through a Christian lens without any of the fluff.
In this episode we talk the friendship between Kendrick Lamar and Lecrae and what it's means for Christians to uphold their beliefs and act on them when they are in the midst of a secular culture. We also explore the question of whether men should accumulate their wealth prior to marriage or if it is better for them to get married and then begin to accumulate their wealth.
In this episode, we discuss the Old Testament's importance, its lessons, and the behaviour and nature of man's disobedience towards God. We also discuss the contrast between how the Old Testament represents God the Father in both his mercy and judgement towards his chosen people and how the New Testament represents God the Son in the love and embrace that he has towards making everyone his chosen people.
In this episode we talk about why we believe, as Christians, that the Triune God is the one and only true ruler. We talk about our perspectives on this belief and why other gods are imitations of his power and being.
In this episode, we talk about the importance of repentance and what it means to truly repent from your sins. We talk about the steps one can take and the importance of listening to and adhering to your convictions when they appear.
In this episode, we discuss investing back in our home country of Burundi and the harsh realities and obstacles surrounding such a venture. We talk about what is holding us back from taking the leap and how investment in the country's progress is better than investment in only gaining profit.
In this episode, we discuss the expectations and realities of hard work. We discuss the challenges we have endured as we progress in our careers and journey and what we have learnt. Additionally, we talk about the importance of doing work to glorify the Lord and the rewards that come with it.
In this episode, we answer questions brought up throughout the month. Be sure to continue sending in your questions and we will answer them.
In this episode, we discuss the controversy surrounding the Olympic opening ceremony. We talk about how openly Christianity is mocked and how we as Christians need to uphold our faith in the face of persecution. We also discuss the importance of understanding your place in this world and how, although difficult, it is one of the best times to be of the Christian Faith.
In this episode, we discuss the viral sensation that is "Pop the Balloon". We talk about the difference between dating and courting in today's age versus our parent's generations and the things that can be learnt between the two generations.
In this episode we explore our perspectives on marriage ceremonies, what we think is right and wrong with them and what we wish to see occur at our weddings in the future. We discuss the importance of being surrounded by people who care about you and are willing to support you on such an important day.
In this episode, we answer questions brought up throughout the month. Be sure to continue sending in your questions and we will answer them.
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This episode discusses the importance of rebuking and calling out false and misleading doctrine. We talk about the importance of speaking out against those who misuse the Word of God and our duty as Christians to stay true to what is written, even when those who are misusing it are the very leaders of the church we may attend.
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In this episode, we discuss the importance of financial stability and answer whether or not money equals happiness. Spoiler alert it doesn't, but it does help make life easier. We also talk about the strategies that we have implemented in our lives to ensure that we stay on top of our expenses, save money and not live paycheck to paycheck.
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In this episode, we discuss the viral question women have been asking their friends, parents, siblings and partners. We discuss the intention behind the question, the consequences surrounding it, and people's responses to it online. We also tackle the implications that this discourse will have on the relationships and interactions between men and women.
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In this episode, we answer questions brought up throughout the month. Be sure to continue sending in your questions and we will answer them.
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In this episode, we share our thoughts about a college graduation speech that sparked outrage and conversation online and in the media. We talk about the importance of understanding and embracing the role that God has provided a man and a woman within a family setting and the power and honour that comes with it.
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In this episode, we talk about the importance of finding and understanding your purpose, and how that helps to shape your life and allow you a path to follow. We talk about the benefits of having one and the problems that could occur if you don't have one.
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In this episode we talk about the impact that pride can have in your life. How it can destroy you, cause you to lose friends and family and ultimately be the downfall of your success. We talk about the importance of being humble and allowing yourself to continuously learn from others and your surroundings. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/firststone/message
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In this episode we talk about the importance of affirming your boundaries and how that can help you to avoid unwanted and regrettable situations. We also discuss why actions speak louder than words when it comes to what people expect to happen in relationships vs was really ends up happening.--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/firststone/message
In this episode, we talk about the prevalence of cosmetic beauty and the growing reliance on makeup, surgery and filters. We discuss the issues around people not wanting to be average and needing to be "8, 9s and 10s" and the importance of loving yourself, how you look and embracing the average.
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In this episode we talk about the issues that come with attending and having "mega" churches. We talk about the importance of being able to feel connected to the church that you go to and having access to your pastors in times of need. We also discuss why mega churches aren't able to provide their members with the needs they require spiritually.--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/firststone/message
In this episode, we discuss our struggles with comparison and how it has affected us in our daily lives. We discuss the issue of comparing yourself to the people around you and the importance of always remembering where you came from and what you have already accomplished rather than focusing on what others are doing in the present.
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In this episode, we talk about the importance of celebrating and keeping the tradition of Easter, the impact that Jesus has had on the world and how he is the factor that differentiates the beliefs of Christians, Muslims and Jews.
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In this episode, we answer questions brought up throughout the month. Be sure to continue sending in your questions and we will answer them.
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In this episode, we talk about parents raising their kids with devices. We talk about the problems associated with kids using them at an early stage and the problems they develop as they get older. We also discuss our plans and actions for raising our own kids in the future.
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We discuss the responsibilities that gospel/christian artists have when it comes to representing christ in the world. Whether it be at award shows or in their music videos, we talk about how people in these position have to hold themselves to account in they way they represent the body of christ.--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/firststone/message
In this episode, we explore the importance of relationship boundaries and how modern society has watered down the need to enforce them. We talk why it is importance to enforce your boundaries and what can happen when people don't do so.--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/firststone/message
In this episode, and as part of a new segment of the podcast, we answer some questions regarding our faith, what we believe and how we view Christianity.
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In this episode, we dive into what we believe it means to be a good Christian, the difference between the newer and older generations of Christians, their approaches to their faith and what they can learn from each other. We also provide some insight into our favourite bible passages and what they mean to us and how they help shape our lives.
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In this episode John talks about his experience as a worship leader, how he's had to learn to teach and lead differently to how he would normally want to and the appreciation that he has gained for people in positions of leadership within the church. We also explore the different styles that people can lead or be lead in and why it's important to finish what you start, to see it through and not quit. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/firststone/message
In this episode, we catch up on what we've been up to in the past year, our goals for the coming year and what we hope to achieve. We also discuss the prevalence of AI in the art and relationship space and Althemon talks about his experience of having gone clubbing and how God helped him to navigate and understand it.
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We are back with a brand new Season!! Welcome back everyone, we have so much to talk about and explore in this new season and we can't wait to share that with you. God bless you for joining us once again and strap in for the journey!!
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We've all heard the saying that singleness is a gift - everyone should cherish their season of singleness before getting married. How biblical is the Christian cliché "singleness is a gift"? In this episode, we discuss aspects of marriage and conclude as to whether "singleness is a gift".
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It’s of the utmost importance to place yourself in environments that are conducive to spiritual/mental/physical growth. Do you ever find yourself at tables with people who question all your endeavours - instead of speaking life into your dreams and aspirations, they crush them? In this episode, we discuss why it's important to know and understand who your true friends are, how to find them and what can happen if the right people are not around you. We also discuss the 7 things that God has promised for our life.
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Sometimes you can have the best of intentions but execute them in the worst possible ways. In this episode, we discuss Ye and how his message got lost in his inability to properly articulate himself and his position. We discuss the importance of being able to humble yourself and have humility in listening to the advice of others and how that will ultimately help you to gain a better understanding of things and help to deliver the message that you are trying to convey.
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Church hurt can leave us in a state of disgust and spiritual uneasiness. Severe church hurt can create wounds that leave us scarred and physically sick at the thought of church or corporate worship. For most of this episode, we discuss our personal experiences with church hurt and how we have abided in Christ to heal.
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In this episode, we talk about the importance of learning to serve and being a servant. We discuss how not everyone is meant to be the main character and that God will place you in areas and spaces that are best suited for you and your gifts.
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Alongside our first guest, we dive into the issues of men being emotionally expressive, finding the silver lining in rejection, and discuss why Christians might be getting married young.
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One of the most imperative things as a growing Christian is the attendance and commitment needed to be a part of a church. Some believe that "you don't need to go to church to be a Christian" but we believe otherwise. In this episode, we talk about what it means to attend and be a part of a church community and the benefits that come with it. We outline how one can find a church that for them and why you don't necessarily have to leave your current church if they offended you.
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Celebrity relationships are often looked at by many as an example of what to do, but in this episode, we discuss three different celebrity relationships, how they differ from one another and how they ultimately compare to most real-world relationships. We also discuss the sacrifices that are made by spouses for the sake of the family and who is most likely to make the greater sacrifice.
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We have all heard the following, either directly or indirectly: “be a man” “men don’t cry” “quit whining and man up”. In this episode, we talk about the negative impact of bullying and pushing young boys to meet a standard of pseudo-masculinity. We also provide examples from our own lives and speak about how we plan to do things for our children in the future.
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In this episode, we discuss the news surrounding Matt Chandler and his leave of absence from his position as lead pastor of this church, The Village. We discuss the situation that surrounded his stepping down and ultimately discuss whether males and females can truly be friends in singleness, dating and marriage.
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In this episode, we talk about the cancellation of Andrew Tate, and how he represents and signifies the lack of masculine leadership in the world and the lives of many young men. We talk about our definition of masculinity and give examples of real and authentic men in the bible and what they stand to represent in the present culture.
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In this episode, we dive deep into the unbiblical nature that is the prosperity gospel. We discuss how pastors and churches have used it to prey on the weak and vulnerable in their church and how it can ultimately cause more harm to you and your relationship with God.
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In this episode, we discuss the surprising news of Michael B Jordan and Lori Harvey's breakup. We unpack what may have caused their relationship to fall apart and dig deep into the importance of your season of singleness and how that can benefit you when it comes time to pursue a Godly relationship.
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In this episode we talk about what it means to love your neighbour, the challenges that come with it and the purpose behind being a good neighbour as a christian.
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In this episode, we talk about young Pastors and the responsibilities that lie with being the spiritual leader of a church. Is the burden of spiritually leading a congregation too great a burden to bear for a young man? Does life experience matter? Come find out.
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In this episode we discuss what we currently bring to the table and what that means. We delve into and unpack what being “sacrificial and submissive” means - and what we look for in a woman that we want to pursue for marriage (dating for marriage is and always should be the objective). Further, we discuss what we believe are key characteristics/qualities that both men and women should look for in a partner.
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In this episode we talk about dating expectations. We delve into how much is too much or too little on a first date and are people really who they say they are, or is it all a facade.
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In this episode we discuss nature of "African time" and its consequences, the importance of committing to the plans and promises that you have made and why following through is important. We talk about the dangers of being double minded in your walk of life and the give biblical examples of people who were double minded or didn't follow through their commitments.
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In this episode we discuss the rising challenges that come when you decide to follow Christ and what occurs when you are in the world and not of it. We also discuss the toxic nature of the hustle culture, how it affected us and our walk with Christ, how it affects others and how we can find greater meaning and purpose in Christ.
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This is the episode to go to when you want to learn about us and who we are individually. Learn the reason why we do this and what we hope to get from this journey that we have started.
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