Mother and Mind: Recent Episodes
Namita Das
Join us on "Witty and Whimsy Tales" for a delightful journey into the world of "Raj, Ravi, and the Broken Happy Pencil: A Lesson in Classroom Cooperation."
In this enchanting story, listeners will follow the escapades of Raj and Ravi, two young boys caught in a comical rivalry over a special pencil. As their tussle leads to an unexpected mishap during a crucial math test, laughter ensues, and valuable lessons about friendship, cooperation, and the consequences of competition are learned.
Discover the heartwarming yet humorous tale that emphasizes the importance of camaraderie and following the rules in a classroom setting. Tune in for a blend of laughter, life lessons, and the charm of childhood antics in this captivating episode of "Witty and Whimsy Tales." đâ¨
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Join me in the enchanting world of Witty and Whimsy Tales for an extraordinary journey filled with adventure, magic, and a heartwarming twist. This episode presents "Fluffy's Surprise: A Tale of Misjudgment and Redemption."
In this captivating tale, you'll meet Raj, a courageous adventurer on a relentless quest to track down a legendary monster wreaking havoc across the land. Villages in ruins, crops trampled, and an unstoppable reign of terror. But as Raj finally confronts the beast, he discovers that appearances can be profoundly deceiving.
Prepare to be swept away into a realm where empathy and friendship bloom in the most unexpected places. "Fluffy's Surprise" is a heartwarming reminder that understanding and kindness can bridge even the widest divides.
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So, gather around, let your imagination soar, and prepare for a tale that will stay with you long after the final word. Welcome to the world of "Fluffy's Surprise."
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đ Welcome to 'Witty and Whimsy Tales,' where imagination knows no bounds! In this enchanting episode, prepare to embark on a whimsical journey to a sun-soaked beach, where magic, family, and a touch of Bollywood create an unforgettable adventure.
Join our host, Namita, as we dive into 'Sam's Endless Summer: A Beachside Bollywood Adventure.' In this heartwarming tale, we meet Sam and his vibrant family on the vacation of a lifetime. They've built sandcastles, devoured ice cream and pizza like champions, and experienced a sunset. But when the sun decides to join their beach party, the real adventure begins!
This story celebrates wishes coming proper, endless summers, and the joy of family bonding. Prepare for sandcastle showdowns, beach volleyball tournaments, and dance-offs under the starry night sky. Will the sun ever set, or will their vacation last forever?
Tune in to immerse yourself in a world of wonder, laughter, and the magic of storytelling. Subscribe to 'Witty and Whimsy Tales' for more captivating stories that transport you to realms where dreams take flight.
⨠Don't miss this heartwarming episode that reminds us all that sometimes, the universe has a whimsical way of making our wishes come true.
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Prepare for a whimsical journey through unexpected wonders and zesty giggles! In this enchanting episode of 'Witty and Whimsy Tales,' join us as we delve into the story of Lila, a spirited young girl with a zest for life and a love for lemons.
Lila's backyard lemon tree holds more surprises than she could ever imagine â from lemons that look like they've caught chicken pox to unexpected guests hiding inside! What happens when Lila discovers a mischievous mouse living inside a lemon? And what's the deal with a banana showing up where it doesn't belong? Get ready to giggle and gasp as we journey through a tale that celebrates curiosity, friendship, and the joy of embracing the unexpected.
Narrated by Namita, this delightful tale is perfect for young listeners who crave laughter, wonder, and a touch of magic. Tune in as we explore a world wherelemons aren't just fruits â they're gateways to the hilarious and heartwarming. Share this episode with the little ones in your life, and let the adventure begin!
Subscribe to 'Witty and Whimsy Tales' so you never miss a story that tickles your imagination and brings a smile to your heart. Stay curious, stay whimsical, and stay tuned for more enchanting tales!
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Welcome to another enchanting episode of âWitty and Whimsy Tales.â In this heartwarming episode, weâre thrilled to present âBonu's Thrilling Delhi Adventure.â Join us as we journey alongside Bonu, a curious young adventurer, on a quest that takes us beyond the ordinary and into a world of vibrant colours, unexpected friendships, and the joy of discovery.
Bonu's tale begins in the bustling city of Delhi, where he finds himself staying with his aunt and uncle. However, Bonu longs for excitement and adventure beyond his daily routine. Sneaking out on a daring expedition, he discovers a hidden marketplace that separates two parts of the city â one dull and grey, the other a burst of colourful life. This discovery leads Tommy to explore the unknown side of the town, where he makes new friends, shares laughter, and finds the treasure of a joyful heart.
As you listen to âBonu's Thrilling Delhi Adventure,â be prepared to be transported into a world where curiosity reigns supreme, and the magic of exploration brings to life the vibrant tapestry of our imagination. Join us in celebrating the wonder of embracing new horizons and experiencing the joy of discovering the unexpected.
Tune in to this episode and let your imagination soar as we embark on a journey of curiosity, friendship, and the sheer delight of venturing into the unknown. Subscribe to âWitty and Whimsy Talesâ for more captivating stories that inspire curiosity and wonder in listeners of all ages.
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Welcome to "Witty and Whimsy Tales," where imagination takes centre stage, and stories come to life! In this heartwarming episode, we invite you to join us on a captivating journey with two adorable Indian kittens, Fluffy and Fuzzy. In "Fluffy and Fuzzy's Fiery Fiasco," we follow the mischievous duo as they explore the corners of their home and stumble upon a cosy fireplace. Eager curiosity leads them to an unexpected adventure involving fiery fascination and an essential lesson in caution. As we narrate their whimsical escapade, you'll be transported to a world where innocence and wisdom intertwine. Through playful moments and unexpected twists, Fluffy and Fuzzy's story reminds us of the value of listening to advice, family bonds' significance, and experiences' transformative power. Join us for a tale that will warm your heart and ignite your imagination. Whether young or young at heart, "Fluffy and Fuzzy's Fiery Fiasco" promises laughter,reflection, and a reminder that every adventure carries a lesson.  So, snuggle up, press play, and let the enchantment begin. Share this delightful episode with fellow story lovers, and remember to stay curious, stay imaginative, and keep embracing the whimsical tales that make life all the more magical. Stay connected with "Witty and Whimsy Tales" for more heartwarming stories that touch the soul and inspire the mind. Subscribe, listen, and let your imagination soar! đâ¨--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/namita-das8/message
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Join us in this enchanting episode of "Witty and Whimsy Tales" as we follow Raju, a clever little rooster from the bustling village of Bantupur. Raju isn't your ordinary rooster âa feathered philosopher with an insatiable curiosity and a beak for books!
In "Raju's Cosmic Quest," Raju stumbles upon a dusty old book in the barn that ignites his curiosity about the universe. He shares his newfound cosmic knowledge with his clucky companions in the chicken coop with boundless enthusiasm. But can he convince them of the fantastic secrets he's uncovered, or will his feathered friends dismiss his discoveries as nothing more than a flight of fancy?
This heartwarming tale takes us on a journey of friendship, laughter, and the joy of learning. As Raju seeks to bridge the gap between his cosmic revelations and his sceptical chicken friends, he learns valuable lessons about embracing curiosity, open-mindedness, and the beauty of genuine camaraderie.
Get ready to spread your wings and join Raju on an egg-citing adventure that will leave you with a smile and a warm feeling in your heart. Perfect for listeners of all ages, "Raju's Cosmic Quest" is a whimsical story that reminds us of the magic that can be found in even the most unexpected places.
Tune in to "Witty and Whimsy Tales" and let your imagination take flight as we dive into the captivating world of Raju and his cosmic curiosity! Don't forget to subscribe and share the joy of storytelling with friends and family.
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Join us on a whimsical adventure with Ravi, the rockstar musician, and Priya, the brilliant scientist, in this heartwarming tale titled "Tuk Tunes & Science Dreams: An Unlikely Journey to Friendship."
Living in Bangalore with big dreams and tiny budgets, Ravi and Priya embark on a unique road trip to Mumbai, the city of stars. Their mode of transportation? A colourful tuk-tuk named 'Tuk Tunes' is adorned with music notes and scientific symbols, representing their contrasting yet complementary personalities.
As they hit the road, their journey is filled with humorous banters, contrasting interests, and quirky stops at fascinating places across India. While Ravi grooves to Bollywood beats and entertains with his guitar, Priya immerses herself in her laptop, exploring the wonders of science.
Despite their differences, they discover a more profound connection beyond their passions. Along the way, they witness breathtaking Indian landmarks, experience the joy of shared discoveries, and form an unlikely friendship that will warm your heart.
In this episode of 'Witty and Whimsy Tales,' listeners will witness the power of understanding, embracing diversity, and the magic of forming connections with those who might seem different at first glance.
So, get ready to laugh, learn, and feel the charm of India through the eyes of Ravi and Priya. Tune in to this enchanting story of 'Tuk Tunes & Science Dreams' and discover the beauty of an adventure that brings two souls closer, reminding us all that dreams are worth chasing. Friendships can bloom in the most unexpected places.
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Welcome to "Witty and Whimsy Tales," where imagination and magic intertwine! In this enchanting episode, we invite you to join us on a delightful journey to the vibrant land with our heartwarming tale, "The Sweet Symphony of Dreams: Embracing the Sweetness of Life Through Passion and Dreams." Meet Meera, a young and talented baker whose passion for creating scrumptious cakes knows no bounds. She dreams of becoming the reigning queen of cake bakers and sets her sights on the prestigious Mithai Mela (Sweet Festival). As she practices day and night, perfecting her flavours and decorations, shediscovers that chasing dreams requires determination and sacrifice. "The Sweet Symphony of Dreams: Embracing the Sweetness of Life Through Passion and Dreams" is a captivating story that reminds us of the true essence of life beyond achievements and trophies. Along Meera's baking adventure, she learns to cherish the moments shared with loved ones, find joy in simple pleasures, and embrace the magic surrounding her. This heartwarming tale celebrates the power of passion, perseverance, and the sweet rewards of following one's dreams. Join us as we uncover the flavours and the inspiration that can be found in every delectable creation. Tune in to this episode of "Witty and Whimsy Tales" to experience the enchanting world of " The Sweet Symphony of Dreams: Embracing the Sweetness of Life Through Passion and Dreams." So, grab your headphones, find a cosy spot, and let your imagination soar as we embark on this delectable adventure together! đ°â¨--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/namita-das8/message
Join us for a captivating journey into the magical world of 'Witty and Whimsy Tales' with our latest episode, "Rainbow and Mithoo: Adventures Beyond the Rainbow Road." In this heartwarming tale, you'll meet Rainbow, a curious young unicorn from a rosy-pink land filled with rainbows, unicorns, and delightful cupcakes. But she discovers a gloomy and unexpected world below when her adventurous spirit leads her beyond the rainbow road.
As Rainbow explores the unfamiliar territory, she stumbles upon an unlikely friend, Mithoo, a witty and clever cat who calls the dark world his home. Together, they embark on a whimsical adventure filled with laughter, creativity, and valuable life lessons. Rainbow and Mithoo learn to appreciate the magic in the most unexpected places, from making music with tin cans to finding hidden treasures in dumpsters.
This heartwarming story celebrates the power of friendship, the joy of discovery, and the beauty of embracing diversity. Join us as we explore the vibrant and enchanting rosy-pink world alongside the intriguingly gloomy lands and uncover the magic within the unlikeliest friendships.
So, gather around, young and young-at-heart, as we dive into "Rainbow and Mithoo: Adventures Beyond the Rainbow Road." Get ready to be enchanted, delighted, and inspired by the captivating world of 'Witty and Whimsy Tales.'
Hosted by Namita, 'Witty and Whimsy Tales' is a family-friendly podcast with imaginative and humorous stories that will spark your imagination and warm your heart. Stay tuned for more enchanting adventures, and don't forget to subscribe and share the magic with friends and family!
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đđ§ Welcome to "Witty and Whimsy Tales," where enchanting adventures come to life! đ Join us on this captivating episode as we present "The Enchanting Moustache of Mysteries: An Adventure of Curiosity and Magic." In this delightful tale, we follow young Arjun in the vibrant streets as he sets off to the neighbourhood park, brimming with excitement. Little does he know that this sunny day holds a magical encounter that will leave him spellbound! Curiosity leads Arjun to a fascinating man with a magnificent, twirled moustache. What makes this moustache extraordinary? Prepare to be dazzled as the man reveals its secretsâmagical powers that can produce vibrant flowers, delectable sweets, and captivating storybooks! In a world where wonders can be found in the most unexpected places, Arjun's journey celebrates the joy of curiosity, the thrill of imagination, and the delight of surprises. đđŠ Immerse yourself in this heartwarming and whimsical tale, perfect for children and the young. Join us for a charming storytime experience that will leave you with a smile and a renewed sense of wonder. Don't miss this enchanting episode of "Witty and Whimsy Tales"! Hit that subscribe button or follow us on your favourite podcast platform to never miss another delightful adventure. Hosted by Namita, "Witty and Whimsy Tales" is here to spread joy and magic to listeners of all ages. So, let's embark on this wonderful journey together! đđ Stay tuned for more captivating tales celebrating the power of curiosity and the magic surrounding us daily! đâ¨--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/namita-das8/message
Welcome to 'Witty and Whimsy Tales,' where imagination knows no bounds! In this enchanting episode, join us on a thrilling adventure of science, fun, and heartwarming surprises in "Adventures in the Wacky Lab: A Tale of Super Animals and Ordinary Surprises."Meet Riya, a spirited journalist with an insatiable curiosity for science and technology. When she receives a mysterious email inviting her to a secret lab in a remote forest, she can't resist the temptation to discover what lies within. Led by the eccentric scientist Dr Ravi, Riya enters a fantastical world of mind-boggling inventions, peculiar gadgets, and... super animals! Prepare to be amazed as she encounters the extraordinary from a flying cat with elegant wings to a monkey sporting a human-like face with an IQ that'll leave you in awe. But hold on tight because not everything in this wacky lab is as it appears. Amidst all the marvels, Riya encounters one lovable surpriseâa seemingly ordinary penguin named Percy, who may not have any extraordinary powers but has the most heartwarming charm. In this tale of wonder, we celebrate the magic of imagination, reminding us that sometimes, the most extraordinary things can be found in the simplest places. Join us as we embark on this whimsical journey, where the line between ordinary and extraordinary blurs, laughter and joy abound. 'Adventures in the Wacky Lab' will leave you with a smile and a newfound appreciation for life's enchanting surprises. So, fasten your seatbelts as we dive into this delightful adventure that'll tickle your imagination and warm your heart. Don't forget to share this episode with fellow adventurers, and subscribe to 'Witty and Whimsy Tales' for more captivating stories that will transport you to magical realms.Get ready to uncover the wonders of 'Adventures in the Wacky Lab: A Tale of Super Animals and Ordinary Surprises'âwhere science meets whimsy and joy meets laughter!--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/namita-das8/message
Welcome to "Witty and Whimsy Tales," where imagination knows no bounds! In this captivating episode, we invite you on an extraordinary adventure filled with colours, laughter, and discovering hidden talents. In "Brushstrokes of Magic," we follow the endearing journey of Riya, a shy and quiet girl with an incredible gift for art. With her sketchbook bursting with whimsical drawings, Riya hesitates to share her creations, fearing ridicule and criticism. However, everything changes when her eccentric art teacher, Mr Kumar, recognizes and helps her cultivate her hidden potential. Through gentle encouragement and a magic touch, Mr Kumar inspires Riya to unveil her artwork to the class. What unfolds is a heartwarming tale of self-discovery, as Riya's vibrant painting captures nature's beauty and reveals a subtle, enchanting glow. With newfound confidence and a joyful spirit, Riya embraces her unique talent. She learns the power of sharing her creative magic with others. Join us on this whimsical journey as we explore themes of self-expression, embracing one's uniqueness, and the extraordinary wonders that can unfold when we let our imaginations run wild. "Brushstrokes of Magic" will warm your heart, uplift your spirits, and remind you of the incredible power of creativity and self-belief. So, get ready to be enchanted and inspired by this delightful tale. Tune in to "Witty and Whimsy Tales" as we invite you to immerse yourself in the world of Riya and discover the magic within us all.--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/namita-das8/message
Welcome to "Witty and Whimsy Tales," the podcast that invites you to embark on enchanting storytelling journeys. Join us for a delightful adventure in this episode through "The Mighty Mouse and the Witty Bird: A Tale of Friendship and Adventure."In this heartwarming tale, we meet Manu, a mischievous mouse, and his clever feathered friend Mita. Living in a big house, Manu and Mita face a playful cat named Raju. They embark on an extraordinary escapade with bravery, teamwork, and a touch of wit, teaching us the power of friendship and strength in unlikely companionship.Narrated by Namita, this whimsical tale will transport you to a world filled with laughter, colourful characters, and a reminder that true friendship knows no boundaries. From the cosy hole in the wall to the daring chase scenes, every moment captivates your imagination and leaves you with a smile.Get ready to unleash your imagination and join us on a journey of friendship and adventure with "The Mighty Mouse and the Witty Bird: A Tale of Friendship and Adventure." Tune in to "Witty and Whimsy Tales" and let the magic begin! We hope you enjoy this whimsical episode of "Witty and Whimsy Tales", and join us for more captivating stories in the future. Don't forget to subscribe and share the joy with friends and family. Happy listening!--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/namita-das8/message
In this captivating episode of "Witty and Whimsy Tales," join host Namita as she takes you on a magical journey through the hilarious and enchanting story of Veer, a sorcerer with an uncanny knack for mischief. Veer's dreams of becoming a police officer in the lively village of Surya Nagar may sound outlandish. Still, his determination, quick wit and a pinch of magical flair set him on a path filled with surprising twists and uproarious turns.Narrated with whimsy and charm, this tale explores Veer's quest to prove that being different can be an extraordinary advantage. Armed with his trusty wand and an infectious sense of humour, Veer confronts the notorious bandit Kaliya Daku and his gang, weaving a spellbinding narrative that will keep you hooked until the end. Discover how Veer's unconventional approach to law enforcement and clever magic tricks turn the tables on his sceptics and captivate the villagers' hearts. With every misfire and explosion of hilarity, Veer proves that dreams can be achieved, heroes can arise from unexpected places, and a little magic mixed with wit can make all the difference.Prepare to be enchanted as Namita takes you through Veer's whimsical misadventures, leaving you with a heartwarming message about embracing your unique talents and never giving up on your dreams. Prepare to be enchanted by "Sorcery and Shenanigans: The Magical Misadventures of Veer the Witty Wizard Police Officer" as you sip your tea and relax.(Note: This episode contains humour, delightful moments of wit, and a sprinkle of magic that may cause spontaneous bursts of laughter and a renewed belief in the extraordinary.)--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/namita-das8/message
In "The Bunny Teacher: A Tale of Hopping Misunderstandings and Heartwarming Lessons," join a group of mischievous children on a whimsical adventure filled with laughter, imagination, and valuable life lessons. When they overhear their teacher's exciting news, a hilarious case of mistaken identity ensues, leading the kids to believe their beloved teacher will bring a bunny into the classroom. As the rumours spread like wildfire, their imaginations run wild with tales of bunny tricks, flips, and even shape-shifting magic! But when the truth is finally revealed, the children learn a valuable lesson about the importance of verifying information and respecting others. This enchanting story celebrates the joy of storytelling, the power of imagination, and the significance of embracing laughter and learning in our lives. Prepare for a delightful journey that will leave you smiling and inspired long after the last page.--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/namita-das8/message
Lack of stimulation is one of the causes of speech delay but overall parenting style doesnât impact a childâs speech and language development.
There are 4 parenting styles -
- Authoritarian - these are more like disciplinarians, high expectations, low flexibility, one-way communication, super strict.
- Permissive - more like friends instead of being parents, child driven, limited guidance, low expectations, super lenient.
- Uninvolved - less interested or unsure about parenting, limited communication, no discipline style, no expectations.
- Authoritative - reasonable, nurturing, frequent communication, high and clear expectations, and the most beneficial style for children.
Any of these styles will cause to set a particular behaviour but would not impact speech development.
Please donât blames parents wrongly for a childâs developmental delays. Every parent dreams and wants their child to be a star and it is disheartening to see their child struggling for something completely out of their control.
Mother in mind is a podcast where we talk about motherhood. It's not the bookish motherhood things but everything that is in reality. Whatever is being told here is totally a personal experience, either of my own or from my mommy friends. And to some extent from a few fathers too. I have been thinking the whole last week about what should be the topic for this podcast. What aspect of the motherhood journey should we discuss? After a whole lot of pondering, I thought let's talk about the toughest phase of the motherhood journey. Now I am wondering which one is it? Is it the birthing process or it is something that comes after the birthing process? I know I know a few of you are rolling your eyes right now, especially the ones who are trying to conceive or are pregnant waiting for the due date or the ones who just turned into a new mom. You are going to say, of course, that the birthing process is the toughest of all. But if there are any seasoned moms here listening, they will understand what I'm trying to say. And hey, whoever you are or whichever phase you are in, I am with you. You have my full support; I know it is not easy. If you wish to share your thoughts, do write to me at namita@penitratherkeyit.com
In today's episode of Mother and Mind, I have decided to compare Mothers to Jackals. Intriguing, isn't it? Also, to let you know, my Namita means Jackal as well. Again, Interesting, isn't it? My parents always told me that I represent my name very well. Namita means humble and I always loved these good girl compliments. Lately, I discovered my name also means Jackal or Hyena; and I thought - no way, I am not cunning. Then I started to read about this species. I found that these animals are clever. They are sneaky but skilled. They are small but smart. Yet they are portrayed as cunning. I realized a common thing between these animals and a mother. Whenever a new mother(small animal), finds a way around parenting (smart work); it gets hard for older generations(big animals) to accept it. Some say that she is lazy and taking the easy way out, cheating the child with lousy parenting, some say it's not the right way (even if the professionals recommend it), and some might just call her ignorant, disobeying and rude. While all this time, the mother (small animal) was working on clever sustainability, especially if she is a single mother or living in a nuclear setup. Despite giving their 100%, itâs tough for the mothers to change the perception of society. Mothers then get two choices - either keep proving to society that they are genuine and sharp. Or stay unaffected by being called names and continue the brilliant work until these remarks wonât make any sense. Because one day, the grown child will speak for themselves, that they have the best mother in the world. Let me know how you feel about this. If there is anything you would like to share do email me at namita@penitratherkeyit.com
Mother and Mind is a podcast where we talk about Motherhood in reality. The topic of the day - Who is better? Stay-at-home Mom or Working Mom. When Kuku was first diagnosed with speech and language delay, everyone from close friends to family, blamed me for leaving a 6-month-old with a babysitter. I was deemed selfish to have put my career over my son. When I quit my job, I was told I am not doing justice with my qualifications. Some even said itâs so enjoyable sitting at home and lazing around the whole day. I have had it both and trust me, none of them is as it seems. Itâs not easy. Please, I just have to say, stop these unsolicited remarks. A womanâs life does not end after she has a baby. Of course, she gets into a new role, of a mother but thatâs a part of her life. AND, itâs her choice how she wants to lead it. A mom is always a mom; be it inside or outside the house. She is doing her best for her kid. Stop judging a mother. PLEASE! If there is anything you would like to share do email me at namita@penitratherkeyit.com
Mother and Mind is a podcast where we talk about Motherhood in reality. The topic of the day - Emotional Availability.
âEnjoy till it lastsâ - my mom would say, whenever I cribbed about lack of privacy after Kuku came into my life. As Kuku is growing, I can sense his urge to be independent. Although I try to help (which ideally I shouldnât for his benefit), there are a few things he insists on doing himself. Gradually he will be a grown-up man and would not need me for anything, still, I will always be available for him - emotionally. There is one thing I missed from my parents in my growing years, i.e. emotional support. I took decisions under pressure and failed. Did succeed in a few yet was unhappy at the end of the day. I felt hopeless and depressed. I only wanted to be understood by my parents but they had their prejudices about how one should only make society approved life choices and always succeed in it. I do not blame them for the attitude, because they had grown up with this mental conditioning. That failure is unacceptable at any stage of life. Itâs difficult to change oneâs mindset after a certain time, and for a child (read - an adult) trying to condition his/her parents mentally. Unimaginable for our generation, at least in the circle of people I know. I want to break this stigma around failure. Itâs nothing to be ashamed of if one fails. Failure is a part of our life and we learn from failures. I want Kuku to make choices and fail, rather than lead a life pressurized by societal norms. I wonât tell him how to live his life but would support and guide him with my life experiences. He may take my advice or leave it, again his choice.
What do you think about this approach? Email me at namita@penitratherkeyit.com
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