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Sarah Moloi
Heart to Heart Outreach is a ministry to women of all ages and cultural backgrounds. Listen to the latest inspirational and empowering message from Sarah Moloi and special guests.
As we continue with part 2 and conclude the teaching on one of the tactics narcissists employ to exert control and manipulation onto their targets, we will be looking at the different criteria that flying monkeys fall into, as well as how to deal with them.
You feel attacked. People are pointing at you and whispering. Some, are total strangers, and some are people you know. People you thought were your friends seem to be avoiding you lately. You hear that you’re being gossiped about. You’re being lied about. You start to feel like an outcast in your own social group. They spread lies about you and bash you in an attempt to tear you apart from the people and places you love.I hope you never experience this, but if you do, there is a good chance you are a victim of a narcissistic smear campaign.Narcissists recruit others to spread the lies, to actively participate in the damage to the target’s reputation. The psychological term for these associates is:FLYING MONKEYS.
Gaslighting is an abusive tactic aimed to make a person doubt their own thoughts and feelings. It is often subtle especially in the beginning when they're still grooming the target to believe the false narratives. For example, if the target tells a story, the abuser may challenge a small detail.
We will be looking at: -Where it originates from -Why abusers do it -Warning signs -Techniques used -How it affects you -How to overcome it
Once again let’s get informed and educated about abuse. Knowledge is power.
“My people perish because of lack of knowledge “ Hosea 4:6.
We will be learning about one of the abusive ways a narcissist employs to further torture their target during and after the relationship.
What is a smear campaign? It is the intentional and systematic dissemination of deceptive information designed to undermine, discredit, and further isolate you. The narcissist paints you in a misleading and toxic light using strategies including but not limited to exaggeration, instigation of rumours, slander, character assassination and lies.
To get you where it really hurts, they target any person available to them who matters to you. No one and nothing is off-limits to the narcissist. This encompasses your family members, all friends both mutual and non-mutual, employer, co-workers, and members of communities to which you belong (e.g.: neighbours, church, volunteering organisations, sports teams etc.). Anyone accessible to the narcissist in your professional and personal networks is fair game.
Now listen on, be informed and help raise awareness.
This podcast episode is the final part of the Narcissistic Personality Disorder and Abuse two-part series, focussing on narcissistic mothers.
In this episode we will be looking at: - types of wrong mother and son relationships - telltale signs that a man is having an incestuous relationship with his mother - what to do once a man(son)realises that his relationship with his mother is a bit awkward
Part 1 is available which is a good introduction to NPD, learn about more narcissistic parents, infantilisation and its causes and more.
I have started a 2-part teaching about narcissistic personality disorder and abuse. For this episode, I will use mother-son-relationship for the mere reason that narcissism affects men more and those men would have been raised by narcissistic mothers.
In part 1, we will be looking at: -Development of NPD -Types of narcissistic parents and their parenting styles. -Effects of these parenting styles -Facts about narcissistic parents -Infantilisation and its causes -How to know if you were raised by a narcissist
We often wonder what is the main problem in the life of a person with narcissistic personality disorder or traits. What went wrong in their childhood and early development.
The big problem in the life of a narcissistic person is the inability to deal with or handle shame which stemmed from childhood.
In this episode, we are going to look at the origin of this shame and how it determined the formation of the narcissistic personality disorder.
Previously in part 1 we looked at narcissism or narcissistic personality disorder and traits to see how they interact and function in relationships. In part 2 we will look at the mechanisms narcissists use to amplify abuse at their target and why they do what they do.
May is Mental Health Awareness Month. I wanted to bring some highlights on certain topics that are prevalent in mental health, especially in domestic abusive relationships. In part 1 of this video, we will be learning about narcissism or narcissistic personality disorder and traits to see how they interact and function in relationships.
In part 2 we look at the mechanisms narcissists use to amplify abuse at their target and why they do what they do.
In today’s world of public opinion and fear of offending, Christians can find themselves standing with their mics muted.
It is like Jesus Christ is still asking His Bride, the church the same question He asked His disciples: “Who do people say I am?” “Who you say that I am?”
In this podcast, we will look at the two questions and learn from them what Jesus really wanted to bring home to His disciples.
On this second last part of Rosemond's interview, we learn about the struggle she had trusting in men and how this was linked to the abuse. Rosemond also shares about her struggle to forgive her perpetrator, which ultimately lead to her complete healing. Sarah highlights lessons we can learn about helping others and how the church can support those in similar situations.
About Rosemond Omedi: Rosemond is a singer and songwriter and released her single 'YHWH' in 2021. She's currently working on her upcoming album project. She's part of the worship team at Kensington Temple and is the founder of Music Industry Fellowship, a Christian community for creatives & professionals within the UK music industry.
You can watch the video version here: https://youtu.be/lvJB89g4rgs
On this episode, Rosemond shares her story about being molested at a young tender age. Though she came from a good loving Christian family, this experience began to have a negative impact especially during her time at university. She shares about the moment she opened up to her parents and how Jesus began her journey of healing.
About Rosemond Omedi: Rosemond is a singer and songwriter and released her single 'YHWH' in 2021. She's currently working on her upcoming album project. She's part of the worship team at Kensington Temple and is the founder of Music Industry Fellowship, a Christian community for creatives & professionals within the UK music industry.
You can watch the video version here: https://youtu.be/pwFqyf3uQX0
Have you noticed that what tends to look like a disappointment or a setback in one’s life turns out to be God's appointment? We are going to be looking at a few Bible characters and how situations in their lives turned out to be an appointment with the Lord. May this encourage you, no matter which season you are in.
On this second last part of Paulette's interview, she shares about her struggle to leave a toxic relationship, the importance of forgiveness and how she had a difficult relationship with God. You will also learn about narcissistic personalities and how you can help others. Paulette today is a cell group leader of young girls at Kensington Temple, she writes inspirational blogs on Best Believe UK and reaching other broken women.
A Journey of a Thousand Miles is a video series by Heart to Heart Outreach, that features individuals with life-transforming stories and share how they overcame difficult situations. The show will also include professional experts sharing tips on a variety of topics, helping us to enjoy the life God has given us. We are all on a journey and it's a thousand miles.
Disclaimer: This programme focuses on sensitive topics including, domestic abuse, suicidal behaviour and an eating disorder. We encourage you to consider medical, mental health or pastoral support if these topics resonate with you.
You can watch the video version here: https://youtu.be/jqMJmUYabus
On this first episode, we meet Paulette Monteiro the author of Behind the Smile, sharing about the trauma she experienced at a young age from sexual abuse, domestic violence to an eating disorder. We will also learn about key things to be aware of in toxic relationships and be a good support to others in similar situations. Paulette today is a small group leader of young girls at her local church, she writes inspirational blogs on Best Believe UK and reaching other broken women.
A Journey of a Thousand Miles is a video series by Heart to Heart Outreach, that features individuals with life-transforming stories and share how they overcame difficult situations. The show will also include professional experts sharing tips on a variety of topics, helping us to enjoy the life God has given us. We are all on a journey and it's a thousand miles.
Disclaimer: This programme focuses on sensitive topics including, domestic abuse, suicidal behaviour and an eating disorder. We encourage you to consider medical, mental health or pastoral support if these topics resonate with you.
You can watch the video version here: https://youtu.be/fSZpy5TdJmo
On this episode, I would like to share about what happened on the Cross of Calvary. What the Word of God says about us and who we are in Christ. I also would like to share about what we benefited from the Cross and where we are right now as children of God. As well as how to hold fast our confession to receive all that God has for us.
Watch the video version here: https://youtu.be/t5itVrfv8Hg
On this episode, I would like to highlight the fact that everyone single one of us has a call of God upon their lives. A God-given and God-ordained purpose to fulfil His work here on the earth. We are on a journey and our finish line is the arrival and accomplishment of that purpose. This is so we call all, in the end, say: “I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race, I have kept the faith.” 2 Timothy 4:7 NKJV
You can watch the video version here: https://youtu.be/ek0xJz01KdM
On this episode, I am attempting to bring back to our minds, the main purpose of salvation. In as much as it is for sinners to be reconciled to God through Jesus Christ, it does not end there. We get saved for the main purpose of seeing other sinners saved too. This is what the Master said. That’s what He commissioned us to do.
But ye shall receive power, after that the Holy Ghost is come upon you: and ye shall be witnesses unto me both in Jerusalem, and in all Judaea, and in Samaria, and unto the uttermost part of the earth. Acts 1:8
You can watch the video version here: https://youtu.be/DO3KV7ok75s
Domestic violence has always been in the forefront with many causes of mental illness. As you may know that during the lockdown, the prevalence of domestic violence went higher to a point where currently residential rescue missions have run out of available rooms to accommodate new arrivals.
As a mental health professional and working at the forefront of things, we have seen a rise in attendance to the emergency department by those affected by domestic violence seeking help with their mental health.
It has become apparent that society at large, is somehow not knowledgeable about recognising potential abusers and also the potential victims lack self-awareness and tools that will help them avoid getting entangled in toxic relationships in the first place.
Prevention is always better than cure.
On this episode, I attempt to illustrate potential abusive personalities as well as potential victim personalities, their characteristics and causes.
You can watch the video version here: https://youtu.be/XA1bKuWSHcI
Disclaimer: We encourage our viewers to do their personal research and seek medical advice if any of these issues connect with you or a loved one. We also encourage you to speak with your local church and learn more about their support for domestic violence victims and mental health symptoms.