GIRL CODE by Ladies First: Recent Episodes
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GIRL CODE is a podcast hosted by Jasmine and Tasha of the hit YouTube channel, Ladies First. In this series, they discuss love, sex, relationships and how to navigate life.
Fear is one of the big factors that can hold us back from living life to the fullest. Having fears can affect your mental health and hinder you from doing simple things like talking to people. Abbey, Diana, and Juhi shares their biggest fears and how they overcame them.
Is growing older just feeling your back hurting all the time? Or meeting more and more people each day? Or is it the lessons you learn throughout the years? Abbey, Juhi, and Diana share their experiences with getting older and the physical, emotional, and mental changes they go through.
What exactly are sparks? Do you feel it when you kiss someone? Or is it the instant connection you have when you see meet someone? How often have you heard, 'My feelings for you are fading'? Abbey, Juhi, and Diana share their experiences with sparks in a relationship and what it means to lose that spark.
Are you planning to travel anytime soon? Need recommendations on where to go to? Or things to bring? More importantly, what should you look out for and what should you avoid? Diana, Abbey, and Ben are here to share some tips, tricks, or maybe even inspirations on solo traveling.
What do you feel when you look at yourself? Do you like what you see? Is there anything you wish you could change? Abbey, Ben, and Diana break down their struggles with their bodies and their mental health, and how it has shapes the way they see themselves.
Is there a difference between loving someone and being IN love with someone? How do you know the difference? And what is the perfect partner to you? Does the perfect partner even exist? Liz, Burqq and Amander shares what the meaning of love and the perfect partner means to them. More importantly, how did THEY find the perfect partner?
What is the biggest change that can happen to a woman? Is it her getting her first boyfriend? Is it getting married? Or is it her becoming a mother? Liz, Burqq and Amander talk about the biggest change in their lives that changed them mentally, emotionally, and physically.
Is being single a choice? Yes? But is it your own choice? Sam, Ferina and Diana explains the reason on being single but unavailable.
Do you ever wonder why we need girl friends in our lives? Maybe it's for the detective work they do? Or maybe it's the emotional support they provide? Burqq, Ferina and Diana shares their stories of their girl friends and what it means to them.
Is the person you're calling truly a drama queen? Or are you simply invalidating their feelings? How do you identify the differences? And what does that mean to the person emotionally and mentally? Find out more with Burqq, Diana and Ferina!
Christina Aguilera recently dropped a new music video for her song beautiful released in 2002. But what exactly does it mean for us in the context of today? Join Ferina, Diana and Burqq as they talk about the reality of social media and their struggles with perfectionism.
In this episode of Girl Code, our hosts decides if personality or looks are more important when it comes to finding a partner. Join Ridhwan, Liz, Diana and Sam as they evaluate their factors when looking for a partner.
In this episode of Girl Code, Diana, Sam, Ridhwan and Liz discuss best friends of the opposite gender, boundaries in friendships and what that could mean in a relationship.
In this episode, we dive into the topic of whether men still need to make the first move? what does it mean for women if they made the first move? listen in as we discuss these ideas of chivalry and the idea of making the first move.
In this episode, we talk about what it means to truly love your job, whether there are ups and downs at the jobs we work at, are we still happy?
In this episode of Girl Code, we explore and discuss the standards we need in life to be able to be ready to have children! Do you feel you are ready to have kids?
Enjoyed listening to the first part of 'Reality of Being a Teacher'? Join Amander, Nicole, Yahya and Denise in this episode as they debunk some myths about being a teacher and give personal advices to aspiring teachers out there!
In this episode, we invited Yahya, a former public school teacher under MOE and Denise, a current private educator to talk about their experiences being a teacher as well as discuss the differences between teaching in a public setting and private setting.
Wonder why life feels like it's always getting harder? Fret not, because we think the same too! Join Amander, Diana and Nicole as they discuss their life challenges back from their childhood till adulthood.
What do you mean? When you nod your head yes, but you want to say no. What do you mean? In this episode, hosts Amander and Nicole give Vincent a lecture on what women really want.
Is sex always good? Does it always hurt the first time? In this episode, Nicole, Amander and Vincent discuss about their personal experiences with sex. Time to get spicy!
Nicole and Amander are thinking of having babies? How's it like working at Titan? In this episode, we are going to update you on what's happening!
Ever experienced a crazy relationship? In this episode, Jasmine and Diana discuss about their personal experience of having a crazy relationship! Listen now and see if you can relate!
Is becoming an influencer really all sunshine and rainbows? In this episode, Rus and Jasmine talks about the real truth behind becoming an influencer!
In this episode, Jasmine and Vincent delve in deeper into first dates, and whether or not they would have sex on the first dates. Would you have sex on the first date?
BDSM? Cosplay? CNC?! In this episode, we invited Vincent to share a little bit more about his sex life and sexual fantasies. Is Vincent a masochist and does Jasmine love men in uniforms? Tune in to this juicy episode now.
In this episode of Girl Code, we invited Crystabel to share more about her long term relationship! Jasmine soft launches her relationship?
In this episode of Girl Code, we have Amander back as a guest host! Alongside with Jasmine, they are going to talk about Open Relationships! Are you for or against Open Relationships?
In this episode of Girl Code, Our Hosts talk more about family moments and how friendships are important to them as a whole. Want to find out their thoughts about this topic? We also have a special announcement for you!
In this episode of GIRL CODE, Jasmine and Tasha discussed more of their childhood. They talk about the memories that were dear to them and also how they impacted their lives.
In this episode of GIRL CODE, our hosts JASMINE AND TASHA talk about their social batteries during the pandemic and what has changed from before the pandemic. Dating, conversations with others?
Building a family and stay-at-home moms? Our hosts, JASMINE and TASHA, talk more about their ideas and fantasies of their future. Responsibilities play a big part in our lives and it is something our hosts also share more about. What are their thoughts about the future? Listen to find out more!
In this episode of GIRL CODE, our hosts Jasmine and Tasha talked more about their high school lives facing difficult situations and also some bittersweet memories that happened throughout their high school lives. how good was your high school lives?
In this episode of GIRL CODE, our hosts talk more about their first periods and their experiences with cramps, migraines, and many more. Can you relate to their period stories?
In this episode of GIRL CODE, Jasmine and Tasha talk about their firsts. First Jobs, first crush, first drinks, and many more. What do you think, do all firsts shape you into who you are today?
In this episode of Girl Code, we touched on something a little different — True Crimes. We've invited over Amander to dig deep and uncover the conspiracies of Jeffery Epstein with our hosts.
In this episode of GIRL CODE, Jasmine and Tasha reminisces the times they got to travel before the pandemic hit. They share some of their best travelling experiences to their worst.... what do you think happened during their trip?
In today's episode of GIRL CODE, we talk about maintaining long term relationships! This time, we've invited Crystabel to share with us how she's been keeping her long term relationship interesting, and just how she spice things up! She also shares with us how she sustains her relationship from such a young age.
Is it possible to overcome your biggest fears? It seems like something so much easier said than done! Tune in to this episode of Girl Code where Jasmine and Tasha reveals their biggest fears, and trying to overcome it!
A lot has changed ever since the pandemic and going into quarantine, but what happens to a relationship when you're not able to meet your partner as and when you want to? In this episode of Girl Code, Jas and Tasha shares stories on how they kept their partners close even during quarantine and also a few ways you can have fun with your partner apart!
Have you ever experienced contracting UTIs (Urinary Tract Infection)? In this episode, both Jasmine and Tasha share their very interesting stories about the times when they've contracted UTI, and even talk about a few home remedies and prevention methods for you!
For most people, there comes with so many struggles to be 'beautiful' in society's' eyes, which is why today we've invited over Grace, to share with us some of her challenges faced growing up whilst adapting to asian beauty standards.
The pandemic has soon become a new normal in our everyday lives, but what does it mean for freelancers? Today's episode we have invited Abbey, who freelances in music to share with us her struggles during this time of chaos and what we can do to help.
So how does public relationships and private relationships defer from each other? What are the pros and cons? Join us in this episode of Girl Code where we've invited over Jodi, to share some of her experiences and thoughts being in a public & private relationship!
Have you ever wondered what goes on behind the scenes of social media? Who exactly handles our talents, and what they post?Today we've invited over our talent manager, Kexin, who has been in this industry for almost five years— who first started off with only managing 10 talents, to almost 80 over talents now, to share with us some of her experiences and struggles being a talent manager.
The term 'witch' may come off scary to some of us, but what does it really mean? In today's episode of GIRL CODE, we've invited over a modern witch, Nara, to share her journey of being a modern witch and what she does.
Have you ever heard of the term 'love language'? In this episode of Girl Code, we've invited Sierra over to chat about everything we need to know about the different types of love language someone needs, to the types of love language we give out. The importance of love language is crucial in improving the relationships with the people around us, and to understand them better.
In light of Sexual Awareness month, we invited two guests from AWARE SG, to share about the shunned topic of sexual violence. We discuss personal experiences, victim blaming, and how to move forward.
Getting your mental health affected is never easy. It takes out so much in you and sometimes, people around you just don't get why you're being like this too. Going for therapy may be a great way to counter your problems but some people may feel that it might not be necessary as well. We invited Sierra to the studio to give her views on mental health awareness, share some of her own problems and how she manages it.
Helping couples and singles boost confidence and provide resources towards achieving a healthy sexual lifestyle? In collaboration with Horny.sg, we have invited a sexologist, Dr Martha over to discuss everything about sexual health and the benefits of using sex tech. Stay tuned to the end for a special giveaway! If you're keen to learn more about your body, do check out Horny.sg and use the promo code "LF15OFF" to get 15% off their products on top of the current promotions that are ongoing!
Have you ever felt like you didn't have enough time for anything? And finding troubles juggling between meeting your friends and your partner, while also having to get some personal time? We invited Liz down to the studio to give her thoughts on caring for her young child, spending time with her husband Maxi, meeting her close friends and also getting some personal alone time.
What if you're living comfortably and you were asked to move to a completely different country? Will you get adapted to the new surroundings, the culture or even the food? We invited Kevin, who was born in Indonesia, to share his experiences about growing up there and moving to Singapore as a young kid for a better education and future.
Wonder how much do streamers earn on Twitch? How do they plan their contents if they are streaming almost daily? How does streaming affect their daily lives? Add another twist, being a female streamer. Do they face any gender criticisms or any insults that girls do not know how to play games at all? We have invited Jacey, also known as Clover, to the studio to find out her thoughts of being a female streamer.
Acnes breaking out randomly? Hair starts growing in places you'd never imagined? Height starts to increase drastically in a period of a few months? Puberty hits you without any warnings and you may feel embarrassed or insecure that these changes are affecting you or even your daily routines. We invited Danial Ron to the podcast as he gives his views on going through puberty in his teenage years.
A relationship is full of happy moments, butterflies in the tummies and lifelong memories that cannot be easily replaced. But what if parents start to personally take control of your relationship? From not being able to stay out for too long to endless of phone calls asking you to go home, these situations can be quite a bother. In this episode of GIRL CODE, we invited Crystabel down to share what her parents think of her dating and how she truly feels being tied down to many restrictions.
Have you ever find yourself drained out after talking to a friend? If so, they might be someone you consider 'toxic', but what really draws the line to toxicity? In this episode of GIRL CODE, we've invited one of our producers, Fatayn, to share with us her experience on unhealthy friendships and how she coped with it!
Valentine’s Day is approaching and whether you’re happily single or crazily in love, frantically planning for a date or clueless in gift giving, it’s the season of love! In this week’s episode of GIRL CODE, we have invited our special guest, Leonard, over to share his thoughts on the topic and what it’s like being single.
Chinese New Year is just around the corner, which means that there are so many exciting things to look forward to. There are many traditions to abide by when bringing in the New Year, but in this time and age, many practices have lost their meaning through modernisation. In this episode of GIRL CODE, our special guest, Amander Liew, shares her thoughts on the topic, and how she's celebrating the festive season in 2021.
Ever heard of the saying "Home is where the heart is"? As much as we all want to travel and live abroad, we can't deny that there are things and people back home that can't be replaced. In this episode, Amander shares her experience being away from important events and having trouble adapting to the new environment and culture when she was in China.
We've all wished we looked like someone at some point in time and with the advanced resources that we have today, almost anything is possible. From semi-permanent non-surgical procedures to going under the knife, our options are endless. Jasmine and Vanessa both disclose their stories on having personal experiences in this highly controversial topic especially in Asian culture. What are their reasons for having it done and what were the factors to properly consider before they made their decisions?
Ever felt lost when making your new year resolutions? We've all low-key struggled with setting our goals for the year at some point in time. On our first episode for 2021, we're sharing with you how you can better identify the aspects in your life that you can consider working on throughout the year and ensure that it aligns with your personal objective because not every resolution suggested on the Internet is a one-size fits all.
2020 wasn't the best year for most of us due to the pandemic and we have had a lot of time in solidarity to take things slow and reassess the things going on in our lives. Instead of purely resolutions for 2021, we're talking about all the things that we want to do before we hit the big three. Debbie joins the girls in our last episode for this year and shares about her future goals like having more kids and renovating her own house.
This time round, we're tackling the social stigma of what it means to be a young mum. In today's society, we may be more open to this issue but we cannot deny that it still holds some sort of taboo. Debbie, who is a young mum herself, has come to share with us her motherhood journey that started when she was 21.
'Tis the season to exchange our fondest Christmas stories and memories with one another. The girls mention about how they have been celebrating Christmas growing up. From choosing trees to decorating their houses to playing Secret Santa with their friends and even choosing the right Christmas gifts. And with Liz joining us again on this episode, she shares her festive plans with her son, Reign, for the first time this year.
Do you get frustrated with how your parents deal with certain things? Our parents will always have our best interests at heart even if their approach is not the best and this episode, Liz, who has recently became a mother to a cute and healthy baby boy, joins us to discuss about how parenting styles have changed from back in her days.
All of us define love differently when we're at different phases in our life. Just because we were very young and still in school, it doesn't invalidate your feelings when the relationship ended. This time, Grace joins the girls to share about her first heartbreak when things didn't work out with her best friend whom she had feelings for. Do you remember the first person that had a special place in your heart?
It's all fun and games until someone asks "What are you?". Being a child whose parents come from different cultures and backgrounds, it can get pretty complicated growing up as you come to terms with your identity. This episode, we have Sierra over to share more about being a Chinese-Hispanic person living in Singapore and the contrast between the parenting styles she faces.
Day by day, the number of people being active users of social media increases. With that being said, just how much power does social media have on us? This episode, Shannon joins us to discuss on the bane of social media that is preventing human interaction on dinner tables, having to deal with negativity from other users and being more particular about how our pictures look like to the mass.
Walking away from a toxic relationship isn't easy. In fact how can you even tell that this person you're in love with has become toxic? In this episode, Juhi shares with our hosts how she stands her ground and walks away. Ghosting, physical abuse, and overly possessive behaviour are obvious signs, but here's how to spot the red flags before things start going downhill.
The nightlife scene is all fun and games until you encounter upon a potential love interest. This episode, Vincent along with our two frequent clubber hosts, gather to talk about how the dating game is like when you're in the club. Are you always the one downing the shots or busy shooting your shot?
Sexual harassment can happen to anyone, no matter the gender. There are cases that took place on campus which have placed student victims in a tight spot. This episode, Michelle is back to bravely open up on her traumatising school days where she was taken advantage of. On top of that, Jasmine and Tasha shared their personal stories from when they were young.
Boo! This spooky season, we've gathered spine-chilling stories from our guest, June, and the hosts to share on this Halloween special episode. From spirits on the plane to hotel rooms in Japan and even the most haunted place in Singapore, Old Changi Hospital.
Almost every girl has dreamt of being a flight attendant before and this dream became a reality for our special guest, June, who has flown in service for one of the top airlines in the world. She shares more about being in the industry from their high grooming standards to emergency procedures onboard in which, she faced a near-death experience while on a flight to Melbourne.
Most of the time, we fall prey to our own judgment about our insecurities and appearance. In this episode, Abbey joins us again to share similar experiences with Jasmine and Tasha on how they grew up getting teased for how they looked and how it is important to manage the media content we're consuming and feeding our minds.
Life is short but having to cope with grief and loss makes you question if there even is a purpose to keep going. Hakim joins us on this episode and bravely shares about how he lost his brother to cancer almost a decade ago. He opens up about how he has to live life in the 'new normal' without the presence of his brother.
Dating apps aren't all bad. There are couples out there who have made wholesome connections through such apps. In this episode, one of the producers from Ladies First, Michelle, shares about her experience using dating apps, how she met her boyfriend and all the weird dates she's been on.
Speaking of unconventional career paths, we've invited over Abbey for this episode to lay out in details how working in the music industry is like here in Singapore. Get to know more about how she started being active in the scene, her struggles and weird experiences while performing gigs.
Most of us know how stereotypical Asian parents can be like. On this episode, Danial Ron is back again to share his childhood stories and how he grew up under a strict Malay-Muslim household. Jasmine also opens up on several events when she was younger that got her into big trouble with her parents.
For the first time on GIRL CODE, our special guest, Danial Ron opens up about his previous high-profile relationship where he got cheated on and shares how he dealt with public speculation. Meanwhile, Tasha dishes on how she got accused of being a cheater in the past.
They always say "Age is just a number" so in this episode of GIRL CODE, our special guest, Vicky discloses the little bits about being in a relationship with Hakim who is eight years older than her. She shares how they make things work despite being in different phases of life and ensure they are on the same page in terms of their future.
Is it okay to date someone of a different race?
In this episode of GIRL CODE, our special guest, Vicky shares with us what it's really like being in an interracial relationship, and how she navigates traditional parents, stereotypes and judgment, and how Hakim and her have learnt to love through it all.
In this episode of GIRL CODE, our special guest, Cherylene shares with us how she copes with anxiety through meditation and therapy. Jasmine also shares about how she deals with being an influencer with social anxiety and learning to be confident and the TRUTH behind what influencer events are really like.
Everyone says puppy love doesn't last forever, but in this episode of GIRL CODE, our special guest, Vanessa Teo shares with us how she met her boyfriend in middle school, and how they've made it last for the past TEN years. From going through puberty, sending him to the army, and moving in, she shares how she keeps both the physical and emotional spark burning strong.
In this episode of GIRL CODE, our special guest, Cherylene Chan shares with us how she grew up constantly getting compared, pulled herself out of a toxic relationship, and learned to be kind to herself. Jasmine and Tasha also share about body dysmorphia and the unrealistic expectations of social media - and how to be confident and love yourself the way you are.
In this episode of GIRL CODE, our special guest, Amander Liew shares with us how she deals with her long distance relationship. From not seeing each other for six months, living in different countries, and loving each other from afar.
In this episode of GIRL CODE, our special guest, Denise Soong shares with us what dating in high school was like as an awkward student, and how the relationship and breakups helped her grow.