Healing Every Day: Recent Episodes

Victor Pacini and Deanna Hynes

Each person has a unique path when learning to live alongside trauma. To us, healing is an ongoing process. We do not say, “We’re healed” or pretend to be happy all the time. Rather, we are finding our own creative way to cope and manage with the pain of our past. We’re not looking to be “healed.” We are Healing Every Day.

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In this episode of the Healing Every Day Podcast, Victor and Deanna discuss letting go and allowing their kids to be kids. 

TRIGGER WARNING: Mention of sexual abuse. 

To create your animated survivors story visit www.AnimatedSurvivorStory.com.

To learn more about the Be Seen and Heard curriculum visit www.ChildhoodVictories.com.

To learn more about Victor's products, visit www.212VictoryLane.com.

To listen to the Catch The Message Podcast, click here

FULL TRANSCRIPT.(The following is the full transcript of this episode of Catch The Message. Please note that this episode, like all HED episodes, features Victor and Deanna speaking extemporaneously–They are unscripted and unedited.)

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In this episode of the Healing Every Day Podcast, Victor and Deanna talk about the importance of parental involvement in preventing abuse. 

TRIGGER WARNING: Mention of sexual abuse. 

To create your animated survivors story visit www.AnimatedSurvivorStory.com.

To learn more about the Be Seen and Heard curriculum visit www.ChildhoodVictories.com.

To learn more about Victor's products, visit www.212VictoryLane.com.

To listen to the Catch The Message Podcast, click here

FULL TRANSCRIPT.(The following is the full transcript of this episode of Catch The Message. Please note that this episode, like all HED episodes, features Victor and Deanna speaking extemporaneously–They are unscripted and unedited.)

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In this episode of the Healing Every Day Podcast, Victor and Deanna discuss a message request Deanna received on instagram. 

TRIGGER WARNING: Mention of sexual abuse. 

To create your animated survivors story visit www.AnimatedSurvivorStory.com.

To learn more about the Be Seen and Heard curriculum visit www.ChildhoodVictories.com.

To learn more about Victor's products, visit www.212VictoryLane.com.

To listen to the Catch The Message Podcast, click here

FULL TRANSCRIPT.(The following is the full transcript of this episode of Catch The Message. Please note that this episode, like all HED episodes, features Victor and Deanna speaking extemporaneously–They are unscripted and unedited.)

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In this episode of the Healing Every Day Podcast, Victor and Deanna discuss how many survivors, in programs and in life, are inspired to come forward by hearing another person's story. 

TRIGGER WARNING: Mention of sexual abuse. 

To create your animated survivors story visit www.AnimatedSurvivorStory.com.

To learn more about the Be Seen and Heard curriculum visit www.ChildhoodVictories.com.

To learn more about Victor's products, visit www.212VictoryLane.com.

To listen to the Catch The Message Podcast, click here

FULL TRANSCRIPT.(The following is the full transcript of this episode of Catch The Message. Please note that this episode, like all HED episodes, features Victor and Deanna speaking extemporaneously–They are unscripted and unedited.)

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In this episode of Healing Every Day Podcast, Victor and Deanna revisit the topic of "our narratives": Stories or events we tell ourselves that ultimately have not come to fruition but the emotional response is very, very real. 

TRIGGER WARNING: Mention of threatened miscarriage and childhood trauma. 

To create your animated survivors story visit www.AnimatedSurvivorStory.com.

To learn more about the Be Seen and Heard curriculum visit www.ChildhoodVictories.com.

To learn more about Victor's products, visit www.212VictoryLane.com.

To listen to the Catch The Message Podcast, click here

FULL TRANSCRIPT.(The following is the full transcript of this episode of Catch The Message. Please note that this episode, like all HED episodes, features Victor and Deanna speaking extemporaneously–They are unscripted and unedited.)

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In this episode of Healing Every Day Podcast, Victor and Deanna welcome their next podcast guest Dawn Kohler.

Dawn Kohler was an award-winning entrepreneur in the computer industry when she was abruptly summoned to take a life-altering course.

What followed was an extraordinary healing journey that gave her profound insights and a deep understanding of the human dynamic and how it plays out at home, work, and in our communities. Combining these insights, and her business experience, Dawn became a sought-after Executive Coach helping leaders understand and enhance their impact on others and their contribution to the world.

Her clients have included many of the most influential women in entertainment, as well as senior leaders at such companies as Sony Pictures, NBCUniversal, Lionsgate, DreamWorks, Fox, Snapchat, Disney, and Amazon.

Dawn is the author of 3 books including her recent memoir, The Messages, a prophetic journey she experienced 25 years ago and how it has become relevant today. She serves on the Board of Step-Up, a non-profit organization to help mentor teen girls in low-income areas, and is passionate about the importance of our individual role in supporting the human awakening.

TRIGGER WARNING: Mention of child abuse and sexual violence.

To learn more about Dawn Kohler,
visit Dawn's website.

To purchase one of Dawns books
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To create your animated survivors story visit www.AnimatedSurvivorStory.com.

To learn more about the Be Seen and Heard curriculum visit www.ChildhoodVictories.com.

To learn more about Victor's products, visit www.212VictoryLane.com.

To listen to the Catch The Message Podcast, click here

FULL TRANSCRIPT. (The following is the full transcript of this episode of Catch The Message. Please note that this episode, like all HED episodes, features Victor and Deanna speaking extemporaneously–They are unscripted and unedited.)

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Language Evolution In Episode 27, Victor and Deanna dive into how language has evolved in their work and in parenthood. TRIGGER WARNING: Discussion of CSA, CSAM, and CSEM.

To create your animated survivors story visit www.AnimatedSurvivorStory.com.To learn more about the Be Seen and Heard curriculum visit www.ChildhoodVictories.com.
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In Episode 26 of the Healing Every Day podcast, Victor and Deanna share the new experiences that have changed their lives in the last two weeks. TRIGGER WARNING: Mentions of medical intervention & hospitals.

To create your animated survivors story visit www.AnimatedSurvivorStory.com.To learn more about the Be Seen and Heard curriculum visit www.ChildhoodVictories.com.
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In Episode 25, Victor and Deanna share some “red flag questions” students have had in presentations. They also shamelessly plug their program “Be Seen & Heard” a sexual abuse prevention and empowerment curriculum.

To create your animated survivors story visit www.AnimatedSurvivorStory.com.To learn more about the Be Seen and Heard curriculum visit www.ChildhoodVictories.com.
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In Episode 24, Victor and Deanna share about their last few weeks of life. Moving, out of state presentations, and rolling with the punches.

To create your animated survivors story visit www.AnimatedSurvivorStory.com.
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In Episode 23, Victor and Deanna dive into different triggers that impact their healing journey. Soccer, Christmas, and the movie Psycho are actually the greatest gifts.

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In Episode 22, Victor and Deanna dive into their favorite quotes for a third time.

To create your animated survivors story visit www.AnimatedSurvivorStory.com.
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In Episode 21, Victor and Deanna play clips from songs they live by. From Bob Marley to Sarah McLachlan, you’ll laugh and be empowered with them.

To create your animated survivors story visit www.AnimatedSurvivorStory.com.
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In Episode 20, Victor and Deanna share “Happy-Sad” moments they experience in life with kids, sports, and big changes.

To create your animated survivors story visit www.AnimatedSurvivorStory.com.
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In Episode 19, Victor and Deanna discuss the tough topic of grief. Victor shares about the loss of his parents and Deanna shares about the recent passing of her dog.

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In Episode 18 of the Healing Every Day podcast, Victor and Deanna share moments they have had to sit with being comfortable in the uncomfortable.

To create your animated survivors story visit www.AnimatedSurvivorStory.com.
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In Episode 17 of the Healing Every Day Podcast, Victor and Deanna share a powerful project they recently released. The Voice Box is a creative reminder to all who receive it that THEY MATTER!

To create your animated survivors story visit www.AnimatedSurvivorStory.com.
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In Episode 16 of the Healing Every Day Podcast, Victor and Deanna have the privilege of introducing Nicole, a survivor and lighthouse to all who see her light.

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To learn more about the Be Seen and Heard curriculum visit www.ChildhoodVictories.com.
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In Episode 15 of the Healing Every Day Podcast, Victor and Deanna share moments in both parenthood and life where they have to step back and accept they cannot always control outcomes.

To create your animated survivors story visit www.AnimatedSurvivorStory.com.
To learn more about the Be Seen and Heard curriculum visit www.ChildhoodVictories.com.
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In Episode 14 of the Healing Every Day Podcast, Victor and Deanna discuss experiences in life that didn’t meet expectations or, at times, exceeded them.

To create your animated survivors story visit www.AnimatedSurvivorStory.com.
To learn more about the Be Seen and Heard curriculum visit www.ChildhoodVictories.com.
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In Episode 13 of the Healing Every Day Podcast, Victor and Deanna welcome their first guest, Dannyris Powell, a survivor and someone who is definitely healing every day.

To create your animated survivors story visit www.AnimatedSurvivorStory.com.
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In Episode 12 of the Healing Every Day Podcast, Victor and Deanna settle in for an emotional retelling of the trial of her abuser.

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To create your animated survivors story visit www.AnimatedSurvivorStory.com.
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In episode 11 of the Healing Every Day podcast, Victor and Deanna return with another segment on Quotes they live by.

To create your animated survivors story visit www.AnimatedSurvivorStory.com.
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In episode 10 of the Healing Every Day podcast, Victor and Deanna revisit their experiences of reporting their abuse to law enforcement.

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In episode 9 of the Healing Every Day podcast, Victor and Deanna open up about why they delayed their disclosures of abuse.

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In episode 8 of the Healing Every Day podcast, Victor and Deanna take the time to share and discuss quotes that inspire them in life.

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To create your animated survivors story visit www.AnimatedSurvivorStory.com.
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In episode 7 of the Healing Every Day Podcast, Victor and Deanna share the common and unique ways they have created a healthy life out of their pain.

To create your animated survivors story visit www.AnimatedSurvivorStory.com.
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In episode 6 of the Healing Every Day Podcast, Victor and Deanna discuss how trauma has impacted their relationships. Both share how they are working on taking responsibility for their own roles in creating healthy bonds. 

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To create your animated survivors story visit www.AnimatedSurvivorStory.com.
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In the 5th episode, Victor and Deanna dive into the patterns of behavior their parents modeled for them as children. While both of them want to shift the paradigms that were not healthy, they end the episode sharing the personality traits they are proud to have now. 

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To create your animated survivors story visit www.AnimatedSurvivorStory.com.
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In episode 4 of the Healing Every Day Podcast, Victor and Deanna share their unique perspectives on what forgiveness means to them. While their thoughts on this topic differs, their respect for each other's choices is the same. 

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In this special episode, Victor and Deanna take a detour to spend a few minutes talking about their 2021 Holiday. From current happiness to pain of the past, they’re sharing how processing holidays has changed over the years.  

To create your animated survivors story visit www.AnimatedSurvivorStory.com.
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In episode 3 of the Healing Every Day Podcast, Victor and Deanna discuss Victor's childhood, young adulthood, and how he taken his past and used it to fuel his future. WARNING: Certain details may be triggering to some listeners.

Here are some of Victor's healing art projects from college.

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In episode 2 of the Healing Every Day Podcast, Victor and Deanna dive into Deanna's early life and the escape she made from her abusive childhood home the day after she turned 18. WARNING: Certain details may be triggering to some listeners.    

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In the first episode of the Healing Every Day Podcast, Victor and Deanna introduce themselves. From abusive childhoods to the prevention work they have now dedicated their lives to, they are sharing their journey of turning pain into power. 

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