She Finds Joy: Recent Episodes
Kim Strobel
The She Finds Joy Podcast, for women who are ready to reclaim their joy and identity in order to show up for themselves in a BIG WAY! Your Happiness Coach, Kim Strobel, is here to help you ask for what you want while living a big, bold, brave life. In each episode she’ll challenge you to find the truest sense of who you are while incorporating wellbeing and learning how to see your brilliance and use it to impact the world. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
I have decided to take a break from podcasting. After much reflection, I can see that my mind is exhausted from all of the content creation I do on a weekly basis. I write to emails/blogs. I create video clips for courses. I create slide decks for presentations. I create contact for my Facebook Group and try to engage with them. And I create this podcast, which includes recording an episode, getting it transcribed, writing shownotes, video-editing, social media creations, etc.
And I’ve decided it’s time to simply parts of my business and all of the “creating” I do in a week. This is not an easy decision because I feel like I’m letting all of you down. But for now it feels like the one that will most serve me when I ask myself, “How do I want to feel in my life.”
What’s in the episode:
- How our inner critical fights back when we make decisions that serve our mental health
- Why rest is a right and not a reward
- How to make hard decisions and stop dealing with all the “shoulds”
- How to dial back while also dialing in to your inner self.
“It’s time to replace the “shoulds” in our lives and ask ourselves, “How do I really want to feel in my life?”
If you enjoy this episode and it inspired you in some way, I’d love to hear about it and know your biggest takeaway. Take a screenshot of you listening on your device, post it to your Instagram Stories and tag me, @kimstrobeljoy.
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Vaughn Rush is a liberated, black, gay man who served as a behavioral specialist in the Army serving in Iraq. He’s also an entertainer and go-go dancer who travels the world performing. I met Vaughn in Stowe, Vermont, while he was vacationing, and I was on a sabbatical writing my book. We instantly connected over having real conversations and sharing our most authentic truths.
In this episode, Vaughn opens up about his bipolar disorder and what it means to navigate life by loving all parts of himself. He gets very vulnerable about what it means to be a gay, black man, endure mental health struggles, and advocate for himself and countless others.
What’s in the episode:
- Vaughn’s time in the military as a gay, black man
- What it means to feel supported in WHO you are
- Why being open about mental health is so important
- His mental illness challenges
- Strategies he uses to navigate the dark times
“In a way, I feel very blessed for my mental health struggle because I've had a lot of things along the way that safeguarded me and kept me alive.” - Vaughn Rush
If you enjoy this episode and it inspired you in some way, I’d love to hear about it and know your biggest takeaway. Take a screenshot of you listening on your device, post it to your Instagram Stories and tag me, @kimstrobeljoy.
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You can follow Kim’s journey on Instagram at @KimStrobelJoy, and in the free private, She Finds Joy Facebook community.
Connect with Vaughn Rush
About Vaughn Rush
Vaughn Rush, professionally known as Sean Vaughn Carter is an Army Veteran, entrepreneur, Male Lead & Entertainer, go-go dancer and international traveler. He currently lives in New York City and San Diego California, although frequently traveling the states and abroad. Vaughn graduated from Frank Sinatra School of the Arts High School in New York City and is currently pursuing his Master of Social Work at Fordham University.
Vaughn served in the United States Army for 7 years, deploying to Iraq in 2011 as a Behavioral Health Specialist and medic. For 6 years prior to the Covid pandemic, Vaughn owned ad operated a backpackers hostel in San Diego California. Currently, you can catch Vaughn, or Sean Vaughn Carter, go-go dancing in New York City, San Francisco, Long Beach, and abroad, as well as a Male Lead in pageants, nightclubs, and Brunch drag shows. Vaughn’s passions include travel, mental health, physical fitness, gay pride, and authenticity.
In our everyday lives, we spend a great deal of time telling ourselves that we aren't good enough, smart enough, talented enough, or thin enough. Our minds tell us we don't deserve the things we want. Our desires will never come true; even if they do, they will disappoint us. It’s called the inner critic―that part of us that judges us, shames us, and makes us feel inadequate And it affects us in very powerful ways.
In this episode, Kim explains we get messages from our primary caregivers, society, and our community that tell us how we are supposed to operate in the world. There are invisible rules and expectations of how we are supposed to “do life.” In order to protect ourselves, our inner critic shows up to keep us in line. But the inner critic exaggerates and judges, and while it has our best interest at heart, it doesn’t help us or motivate us to change. Instead, it keeps us from being true to ourselves.
Kim walks you through 4 layers of self-talk, according to Jack Canfield, and how we can coach ourselves in a positive and more rewarding way.
What’s in the episode:
- The role of the inner critic
- How we are living in the emotional traps we grew up in
- How our beliefs shape our perceptions of how we show up in the world
- The 4 layers of self-talk to overcome your inner critic
“When guilt and shame are used to control you, you become someone you’re not. ”-Kim Strobel
If you enjoy this episode and it inspired you in some way, I’d love to hear about it and know your biggest takeaway. Take a screenshot of you listening on your device, post it to your Instagram Stories and tag me, @kimstrobeljoy.
I would also love if you subscribed to the podcast and left a review!
Kim's Happy Academy is Open Now! If you’re tired of putting yourself on the back-burner and ready to learn powerful strategies for increasing your happiness levels and reclaiming your life, you might want to grab a spot on the Happy Academy Waitlist. Over 17,000 people signed up for this 10-month program last year, now it's your turn! Register at the link below!
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You can follow Kim’s journey on Instagram at @KimStrobelJoy, and in the free private, She Finds Joy Facebook community.
We all struggle with the fear of not being enough. We are good at faking it. We go through the world smiling, acting as if we are okay when in reality, we might be inwardly struggling. Perfectionism is striving for flawlessness by setting unrealistically high standards for ourselves.
We use perfectionism as a shield to avoid rejection, shame, criticism, and failure. We try to be the perfect worker, spouse, parent, follow the rules, and so on, yet it leaves us feeling exhausted.
In today’s episode, Kim explains how perfectionism shows up in our lives and provides insight into how to rewrite our stories and begin living a bigger, bolder life full of imperfection that is a truer version of yourself and feels so much better.
What’s in the episode:
- What is behind our “not-enoughness”
- The definition of perfectionism and why it keeps us stuck
- How the fixed mindset and getting praised for achievements create perfectionism
- What perfectionism is actually hiding
- How to rethink our stories and embrace our authentic selves
“When you start to make decisions that are more aligned with who you are at your core, you will probably outgrow a lot of people ” -Kim Strobel
If you enjoy this episode and it inspired you in some way, I’d love to hear about it and know your biggest takeaway. Take a screenshot of you listening on your device, post it to your Instagram Stories and tag me, @kimstrobeljoy.
I would also love if you subscribed to the podcast and left a review!
Kim's Happy Academy is Open Now! If you’re tired of putting yourself on the back-burner and ready to learn powerful strategies for increasing your happiness levels and reclaiming your life, you might want to grab a spot on the Happy Academy Waitlist. Over 17,000 people signed up for this 10-month program last year, now it's your turn! Register at the link below!
Register for The Happy Academy now!
You can follow Kim’s journey on Instagram at @KimStrobelJoy, and in the free private, She Finds Joy Facebook community.
Shame is a powerful emotion and happens to all of us. It involves looking inwardly in a harsh way with a critical eye while we beat ourselves up even for the smallest mistakes.
We are so overly critical of ourselves, and then we hide or bury our feelings of shame when we need to learn to release them with people who have earned the right to hear our stories.
Through sharing our stories, we free ourselves from some of the pain we are carrying and holding inside of ourselves.
What’s in the episode:
- Why shame needs words and a voice to be free
- Hustling for worthiness to account for our believed inadequacies
- Six types of people not to share your shame story with
- How to exercise compassion towards ourselves and others
“You have to love yourself enough to reach out for help and support when going through hard things. ”-Kim Strobel
If you enjoy this episode and it inspired you in some way, I’d love to hear about it and know your biggest takeaway. Take a screenshot of you listening on your device, post it to your Instagram Stories and tag me, @kimstrobeljoy.
I would also love if you subscribed to the podcast and left a review!
Kim's Happy Academy is Open Now! If you’re tired of putting yourself on the back-burner and ready to learn powerful strategies for increasing your happiness levels and reclaiming your life, you might want to grab a spot on the Happy Academy Waitlist. Over 17,000 people signed up for this 10-month program last year, now it's your turn! Register at the link below!
Register for The Happy Academy now!
You can follow Kim’s journey on Instagram at @KimStrobelJoy, and in the free private, She Finds Joy Facebook community.
Are you afraid of making decisions? Asking your boss for a raise? Launching your own business? Asking for what you want in your relationship? What prevents us from taking the actions we need in our lives to get to the next level? FEAR!
Fear is one of the greatest obstacles to our success because with fear comes uncomfortableness and many people wait for uncomfortableness to leave before they act. In this episode, I’m going to teach you why you must learn to feel uncomfortable, to feel the fear, and do it anyway!
What’s in the episode:
- Why “action” is the bridge between our inner world and outer world
- The inner journey it takes to get the outer results we want
- How to move from stuckness to action
- The mindset it takes to play in the arena of bigness
“Many times our fears are so strong and dramatic that they keep us stuck. ” - Kim Strobel
If you enjoy this episode and it inspired you in some way, I’d love to hear about it and know your biggest takeaway. Take a screenshot of you listening on your device, post it to your Instagram Stories and tag me, @kimstrobeljoy.
I would also love if you subscribed to the podcast and left a review!
Kim's Happy Academy is Open Now! If you’re tired of putting yourself on the back-burner and ready to learn powerful strategies for increasing your happiness levels and reclaiming your life, you might want to grab a spot on the Happy Academy Waitlist. Over 17,000 people signed up for this 10-month program last year, now it's your turn! Register at the link below!
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You can follow Kim’s journey on Instagram at @KimStrobelJoy, and in the free private, She Finds Joy Facebook community.
Ep 80| How Gratitude Increases Happiness
Dr. Masuro Emoto discovered that molecules in water are affected by our thoughts, words, and feelings. Humans are made up of 70% of water, which means the words we expose ourselves and others to have an impact on them.
He discovered that crystals formed in frozen water with positive words written on them formed brilliant, clear, snowflake patterns while negative words directed toward water formed fragmented, dark crystals.
This research proves that when we practice gratitude and send that positive energy towards ourselves, mostly made of water, we get positive results and feel happier in our lives.
What’s in the episode:
- The science between thoughts and water
- How our thoughts affect our lives in big ways
- The practice of gratitude creates positive emotions and feelings.
- How to practice gratitude
“It’s time to build a life you don’t feel you have to regularly escape from.” Kim Strobel
If you enjoy this episode and it inspired you in some way, I’d love to hear about it and know your biggest takeaway. Take a screenshot of you listening on your device, post it to your Instagram Stories and tag me, @kimstrobeljoy.
I would also love if you subscribed to the podcast and left a review!
Kim's Happy Academy is Open Now! If you’re tired of putting yourself on the back-burner and ready to learn powerful strategies for increasing your happiness levels and reclaiming your life, you might want to grab a spot on the Happy Academy Waitlist. Over 17,000 people signed up for this 10-month program last year, now it's your turn! Register at the link below!
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You can follow Kim’s journey on Instagram at @KimStrobelJoy, and in the free private, She Finds Joy Facebook community.
Is it possible to create more happiness in our life? Should we be interested in happiness, or is that silly?
I feel like we all want to be happier, but we are a bit afraid to admit it because it makes us feel like something is wrong in our lives. But creating intentional happiness habits in our lives improves every area of our lives. But are we focusing on the wrong things?
Yes, we are much of the time, but I’m about to give you an education on the Science of Happiness.
What’s in the episode:
- The things we chase in hopes of fulfillment
- Understanding the components of happiness
- The control you have over your happiness
- A happiness strategy to help when you feel down
“We get to create our happiness from the inside out.” - Kim Strobel
If you enjoy this episode and it inspired you in some way, I’d love to hear about it and know your biggest takeaway. Take a screenshot of you listening on your device, post it to your Instagram Stories and tag me, @kimstrobeljoy.
I would also love if you subscribed to the podcast and left a review!
Kim's Happy Academy is Open Now! If you’re tired of putting yourself on the back-burner and ready to learn powerful strategies for increasing your happiness levels and reclaiming your life, you might want to grab a spot on the Happy Academy Waitlist. Over 17,000 people signed up for this 10-month program last year, now it's your turn! Register at the link below!
Register for The Happy Academy now!
You can follow Kim’s journey on Instagram at @KimStrobelJoy, and in the free private, She Finds Joy Facebook community.
Ep 78| How to get through hard things.
Don’t take anything personally. That’s the second agreement of Don Miguel Ruiz’s classic, “The Four Agreements.” He states, “Whatever happens around you, don’t take it personally. Nothing other people do is because of you. It is because of themselves.”
I’ve been criticized many times in my life. Many times it absolutely consumed me. But in this episode, I hope to share some insight I’ve learned over the years and hopefully give you a path through your pain and get you to evaluate it from a new perspective.
What’s in the episode:
- A very hard thing I recently went through.
- How to move through the pain and muck others throw at you
- How to deal with petty trolls
- What I differently now when it comes to criticism.
“Within every struggle, every obstacle, every challenge, every injustice, we get a choice to decide how we're going to react and how we're going to let it affect us.”- Kim Strobel
If you enjoy this episode and it inspired you in some way, I’d love to hear about it and know your biggest takeaway. Take a screenshot of you listening on your device, post it to your Instagram Stories and tag me, @kimstrobeljoy.
I would also love it if you subscribed to the podcast and left a review!
Kim's Happy Academy is Open Now! If you’re tired of putting yourself on the back-burner and ready to learn powerful strategies for increasing your happiness levels and reclaiming your life, you might want to grab a spot on the Happy Academy Waitlist. Over 17,000 people signed up for this 10-month program last year, now it's your turn! Register at the link below!
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About Kim Kim Strobel is Chief Happiness Officer at Kim Strobel Live Events and Retreats. She is a teacher, consultant, motivational speaker, happiness coach, and a mission-minded person whose passion helps others overcome their fears and discover their joy!
You can follow Kim’s journey on Instagram at @KimStrobelJoy, and in the free private, She Finds Joy Facebook community.
Burnout is a kind of exhaustion that seeps into every aspect of your life. Even though I travel around the country teaching teachers, business people, and more about how to overcome burnout, I can tell you that I, too, have been experiencing it lately. For me, burnout looks like:
- The inability to shut work off, even when I should be enjoying time off
- An incessant need to keep checking my emails
- The feeling of obsessively thinking about "everything that needs to get done"
- Tiredness, irritability, and frustration with people around me
I recently asked others in my Facebook Group what burnout out looks like to them and got these responses:
- Knots in my stomach the closer I get to work, despite LOVING my job.
- Never having satisfaction with my job and never feeling like I’m doing enough.
- Letting down all of the teachers I’m supposed to be leading, and I feel hopeless.
- Dreading going to work every day and counting the days until break.
- Never feeling like I’m meeting expectations.
- Being so overwhelmed with tasks and asks that I don’t even know where to start.
- Lost desire, unable to focus on anything, and no amount of time off or other activities.
- Investing in my own business so I can leave my current profession.
- Overworked (worked daily my entire sick leave), underpaid (completely revamped teaching during COVID/no overtime, no bonuses), and not thought of as a real person.
You are allowed to have heavy emotions. It’s important to give ourselves the grace to feel the way we do and practice some self-compassion.
Even though I sometimes enter the burnout stage, I recognize the signs of when it’s coming on, and I have a set of habits that get me out of the gutter quicker. You are not alone in the struggle. I am there too.
What You’ll Learn From This Episode: * How to identify burnout when it’s first setting in. * Why it’s so hard to get off the hamster wheel of life. * Why I created a program focused on shifting the inner blueprint of our life. * How to leverage your mindset and overcome limiting beliefs. * Why our relationship with ourselves is our biggest asset. * How to take action to become who you want to be. * How to step forward with confidence and discover your greatness..
“If you can’t see your own value, the world can’t give you value back.” - Kim Strobel
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About Kim Kim Strobel is Chief Happiness Officer at Kim Strobel Live Events and Retreats. She is a teacher, consultant, motivational speaker, happiness coach, and a mission-minded person whose passion helps others overcome their fears and discover their joy!
You can follow Kim’s journey on Instagram at @KimStrobelJoy, and in the free private, She Finds Joy Facebook community.
As a coach, I’ve seen that women don’t invest in themselves enough. Whether it’s time, money, a new pair of workout shoes, or a household nick-nack, women always have a reason why they are not allowed to invest in themselves. As women, we are trained and shown by the other women in our life that we are to take care of everyone else BEFORE we are allowed to honor our own needs. We spend a LOT of time investing in other people – our children, our families, our communities, our schools… but when it comes to investing in ourselves? Forget it. But it’s time to flip the script and know that we can value and love ourselves enough to invest in ourselves. We are worthy of starting right now.
What’s in the episode:
- Why women struggle to invest in themselves
- Overcoming feelings of guilt
- Why self-care and self investing are not selfish
- Learning to establish boundaries and create space
- Why you are worth loving yourself
“When you take good care of yourself and put resources toward your well-being, your happiness, your success, it means the people in your life get the very best of you.” - Kim Strobel
If you enjoy this episode and it inspired you in some way, I’d love to hear about it and know your biggest takeaway. Take a screenshot of you listening on your device, post it to your Instagram Stories and tag me, @kimstrobeljoy.
I would also love if you subscribed to the podcast and left a review!
Kim’s Happy Academy Waitlist! If you’re tired of putting yourself on the back-burner and ready to learn powerful strategies for increasing your happiness levels and reclaiming your life, you might want to grab a spot on the Happy Academy Waitlist. Over 17,000 people signed up for this 10-month program last year, so you are gonna want to be one of the first to know when we open the doors! Get on the waitlist here.
You can follow Kim’s journey on Instagram at @KimStrobelJoy, and in the free private, She Finds Joy Facebook community.
Sandy Forster is the money mindset mentor for women worldwide who are ready to experience more abundance and freedom in their life. Sandy went from welfare to millionaire, been featured in Oprah’s Aussie Secret, and loves inspiring and empowering women to break through their blocks, manifest more money, and create a life they’re truly passionate about.
Sandy went from having over $100,000 in debt to creating an income of $150,000 the next year. And now she is a multi-millionaire and she didn’t graduate high school. Our relationship with ourselves is the key to wealth and abundance. However, this isn’t the path most of us follow. We think we have to work like crazy just to get ahead. But it actually starts with going within ourselves and changing our internal blueprint to become co-creators of our lives. It starts with taking on the identity, experiences, and opportunities right now that will bring you more of what you want to accomplish and achieve. It started with the inside of ourselves first. Sandy walks us through what it truly means to become an active participant in designing a life of great success and fulfillment.
What’s in the episode: * Why learning and understanding the Law of Attraction, quantum physics, and neuroscience are important in achieving true abundance in life; * Understand why you should take action as you do the mindset work when walking the path towards change * Discover how you can shift from welfare to millionaire through tips and insights based on science and a millionaire’s experience. * How to align your body, mind, and spirit to achieve and succeed in your goals. * Powerful daily practices to embody your abundance and success.
“You can’t just think and visualize your goals. You have to embody and take action.” Sandy Forster
If you enjoy this episode and it inspired you in some way, I’d love to hear about it and know your biggest takeaway. Take a screenshot of you listening on your device, post it to your Instagram Stories and tag me, @kimstrobeljoy.
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Sandy’s Links
Sandy’s Website
Sandy’s Wildly Weathy Bundle
Sandy’s Facebook
Sandy’s Instagram
Kim’s Happy Academy Waitlist! If you’re tired of putting yourself on the back-burner and ready to learn powerful strategies for increasing your happiness levels and reclaiming your life, you might want to grab a spot on the Happy Academy Waitlist. Over 17,000 people signed up for this 10-month program last year, so you are gonna want to be one of the first to know when we open the doors! Get on the waitlist here.
You can follow Kim’s journey on Instagram at @KimStrobelJoy, and in the free private, She Finds Joy Facebook community.
Wow! My interview with my 1992 high school classmate, Angie Carlson, was heartwarming, inspiring, and thought-provoking. Shortly after giving birth to her son, Angie was diagnosed with multiple sclerosis (MS) 30 years ago. This disease has left her using a walker, sometimes a wheelchair, and the smallest of tasks takes a monumental effort.
It’s easy to look at Angie’s everyday life and the obstacles she deals with, but she chooses to see her life differently. While she doesn’t deny the extreme fatigue, her limitations, or the hardness of it all, she maintains that she is happy in her life because she CHOOSES to be. She describes her highs, lows, and personal triumphs.
What’s in the episode: * Why we must ask ourselves, “How do we want to feel?” * Understanding how our thoughts create our feelings. * Embracing what is and not resisting. * Making conscious decisions that support how we want to live our lives. * Advice on how to see things from a different perspective? * Choosing abundance, joy, and happiness in the midst of hardness.
“I feel like there is no other choice. That's the only choice I choose because I don’t want to be unhappy.” Angie Carlson
If you enjoy this episode and it inspired you in some way, I’d love to hear about it and know your biggest takeaway. Take a screenshot of you listening on your device, post it to your Instagram Stories and tag me, @kimstrobeljoy.
I would also love if you subscribed to the podcast and leave a review!
Kim’s Happy Academy Waitlist! If you’re tired of putting yourself on the back-burner and ready to learn powerful strategies for increasing your happiness levels and reclaiming your life, you might want to grab a spot on the Happy Academy Waitlist. Over 17,000 people signed up for this 10-month program last year, so you are gonna want to be one of the first to know when we open the doors! Get on the waitlist here.
You can follow Kim’s journey on Instagram at @KimStrobelJoy, and in the free private, She Finds Joy Facebook community.
About Angie:
After graduating high school, Angie Carlson earned an AAS degree in Medical Office Assistant and then joined the military. She spent 11 years in the Air Force, where she met her husband. In 2004, they had a son, and two months later, she was diagnosed with Multiple Sclerosis. She lives in Maine with her husband, son, and faithful furry friend, Rascal.
In this interview, I talk with Dr. Melissa Hankins, a 17-year Harvard-trained psychiatrist and certified executive coach. We had a very open conversation about what trauma is, how it affects our lives, and what we can do to heal ourselves.
We have all experienced some form of trauma, and many times that trauma plays out in our adult lives. It might affect how we react to our spouse, how we parent our children, and how we navigate our work lives. As Dr. Hankins explained, trauma can affect us in big ways, such as anger, violence, or yelling, but also in not so obvious ways, such as perfectionism, workaholism, and lack of boundaries. Many times it’s the root of our very deep wounds, but we can work to heal ourselves and become better for ourselves.
What’s in the episode: * What is trauma, and how does it affect our lives? * The difference between Big T and Little T trauma. * What is a trauma response, and why would someone have one? * What is the key to reshaping our lives? * How can we approach trauma, understand its effect, and move beyond to heal?
“Even though we are not responsible for the traumas that happened to us as children, as adults, we are responsible for healing them.” Dr. Melissa Hankins
If you enjoy this episode and it inspired you in some way, I’d love to hear about it and know your biggest takeaway. Take a screenshot of you listening on your device, post it to your Instagram Stories and tag me, @kimstrobeljoy.
I would also love if you subscribed to the podcast and left a review.
Kim’s Happy Academy Waitlist! If you’re tired of putting yourself on the back-burner and ready to learn powerful strategies for increasing your happiness levels and reclaiming your life, you might want to grab a spot on the Happy Academy Waitlist. Over 17,000 people signed up for this 10-month program last year, so you are gonna want to be one of the first to know when we open the doors! Get on the waitlist here.
You can follow Kim’s journey on Instagram at @KimStrobelJoy, and in the free private, She Finds Joy Facebook community.
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About Dr. Melissa Hankins
Dr. Melissa Hankins is the founder and CEO of Melissa Hankins Coaching. She is a Mindset and Success Coach for physicians and other high-performers who may “look great on the outside” but are struggling on the inside. Her clients typically struggle with burnout, perfectionism, workaholism, “trying to do all the things” and feeling completely overwhelmed in the process while doing their best not to show it.
When we are uncomfortable setting boundaries, it's easy to fall into patterns like people-pleasing to make sure everyone else is happy. However, this becomes the breeding ground for resentment and anger in our lives.
Many of us suffer from our people-pleasing ways. We do it for several reasons: To be accepted and belong, to receive love, and to find validations. We worry that people may not like us, creating a life of self-abandon and resentment.
In this episode, Kim speaks to Krista Resnick about creating boundaries to protect our space and our relationships. It’s great to make other people happy, but it’s more important to please ourselves first by making self-honoring choices.
Here are the things to expect in the episode:
- Are you for yourself, or are you against yourself?
- Establishing boundaries and aligning with your purpose
- Why self-compassion and self-care is essential to your success
- Choosing kindness over judgment
- And much more!
What’s in the episode: * How do you know when to set a boundary? * What fears stop people from setting boundaries? * How to lean into discomfort. * Krista’s top 2 tricks for starting to set boundaries in your life. * How to quit abandoning yourself for the sake of pleasing others so you can be free.
“Too many times we self-abandon for the sake of pleasing others?” Krista Resnick
If you enjoy this episode and it inspired you in some way, I’d love to hear about it and know your biggest takeaway. Take a screenshot of you listening on your device, post it to your Instagram Stories and tag me, @kimstrobeljoy.
I would also love if you subscribed to the podcast and left a review.
Kim’s Happy Academy Waitlist! If you’re tired of putting yourself on the back-burner and ready to learn powerful strategies for increasing your happiness levels and reclaiming your life, you might want to grab a spot on the Happy Academy Waitlist. Over 17,000 people signed up for this 10-month program last year, so you are gonna want to be one of the first to know when we open the doors! Get on the waitlist here.
You can follow Kim’s journey on Instagram at @KimStrobelJoy, and in the free private, She Finds Joy Facebook community.
Connect with Krista
WEBSITE
The Secret to Empowered Boundaries
Permission Granted Podcast
About Krista:
Krista Resnick is a Master Certified Coach, a podcaster, sought after speaker and mother to 3 boys.
She is a powerhouse of soul, fun, compassion, and vibrancy. Her honest and curious approach guides the women she serves in a way that is both real, true and supportive.
Her work empowers women to stop settling, and put themselves BACK on the priority list. Krista supports women by helping them break free of codependent and people pleasing patterns so they can set healthy boundaries and master the art of speaking their truth
Krista is a walking permission slip, inspiring women to show up unapologetically and create the space they need and the connection they crave.
Gay Hendricks wrote this amazing book called “The Big Leap”. In it, he explains that as humans we all have what he calls an “Upper Limit Problem.”
Basically, we have an internal thermostat in our body that says, “I have limited tolerance, for feeling good in my life, I have limited tolerance for how much happiness, I am willing to let myself feel how much love, I'm willing to let myself feel how much success, I'm willing to let myself feel.” Because of our Upper Limit Problem, when things are going good for us, we will self sabotage our ability to all the goodness we want to feel in our life.
He explained that have limited tolerance for allowing our life to go well, for a period of time. And when we hit that internal thermostat of being able to feel good or feel success, we do something that stops our positive forward trajectory. The good news….we can change our internal thermostats and reset them to higher levels of success.
What’s in the episode: * What is the Upper Limited Problem and how does it show up in our lives? * The ways we self-sabotage and why do we do it. * The four zones of work identified by Gay Hendricks * The zone of incompetence: In this zone, you are engaging in something you are simply not good at. This is me trying to dance in the ballet. * The zone of competence: You can get the job done, but no better than the next person. * The zone of excellence: In this zone, you are doing something you are very, very good at compared to most other people. * The zone of genius: When you’re in your genius zone, are in what author Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi calls “flow.” You’re taking advantage of your natural talents and doing what you earnestly enjoy. You have what could almost be called an “unfair advantage” over your competition.
“Our internal thermostat setting determines how much love success, creativity, happiness, well-being we allow in our life.” Kim Strobel
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Kim’s Happy Academy Waitlist! If you’re tired of putting yourself on the back-burner and ready to learn powerful strategies for increasing your happiness levels and reclaiming your life, you might want to grab a spot on the Happy Academy Waitlist. Over 17,000 people signed up for this 10-month program last year, so you are gonna want to be one of the first to know when we open the doors! Get on the waitlist here.
You can follow Kim’s journey on Instagram at @KimStrobelJoy, and in the free private, She Finds Joy Facebook community.
Kim reflects on a lesson she took to heart this past year, and she reflected on year 48 of her life and what is taught her, how she grew, and the work she’s done on herself. She worked on Radical Acceptance, which means that she is working on releasing bitterness and resentment over things she couldn’t and can’t control.
It wasn’t easy work, but once she quit resisting the way certain things or people were in her life, she experienced a whole new level of peace and freedom. And because she did this work on herself this last year, she has experienced new levels of abundance, happiness, peace, and wellbeing.
What’s in the episode: * What is radical acceptance and why does it work? * How does practicing acceptance free us from the binds that keep us in bitterness? * How can we accept ourselves and our situations while also wanting to change in positive ways? * What gets in the way of our ability to accept and how to break free. * Where our power lies and how to step into it.
“I've discovered is that I'm a lot happier and more at peace when I accept people or circumstances or situations as they are rather than wishing it was different.” Kim Strobel
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Kim’s Happy Academy Waitlist! If you’re tired of putting yourself on the back-burner and ready to learn powerful strategies for increasing your happiness levels and reclaiming your life, you might want to grab a spot on the Happy Academy Waitlist. Over 17,000 people signed up for this 10-month program last year, so you are gonna want to be one of the first to know when we open the doors! Get on the waitlist here.
You can follow Kim’s journey on Instagram at @KimStrobelJoy, and in the free private, She Finds Joy Facebook community.
A mindset is simply a set of thoughts and beliefs that shape how you make sense of the world and yourself. It influences how you think, feel, and behave. Stanford psychologist Carol Dweck says, “Your beliefs play a pivotal role in what you want and whether you can achieve it. It has a significant role in determining your achievement and success.
In this episode, Kim dives into why change is hard and goals keep getting left in the dust. Most of us approach change and goals backwards. We use our logical, conscious mind and think if we can yield enough willpower, we can make it happen. But Kim shares why this doesn’t work and the formula she has used to create massive success in her life. She will talk you through Robert Dilts’s “Hierarchy of Change” and show you how to reverse engineer the formula for how you go about achieving your goals and creating more success in life.
What’s in the episode: * How our mindsets drive our actions and behaviors. * Why you are not your thoughts! * The hierarchy of change and the six layers of thinking. * Learn to take on the identity right now of who you wish to become
“Our beliefs about ourselves greatly influence our life.” Kim Strobel
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Kim’s Happy Academy Waitlist! If you’re tired of putting yourself on the back-burner and ready to learn powerful strategies for increasing your happiness levels and reclaiming your life, you might want to grab a spot on the Happy Academy Waitlist. Over 17,000 people signed up for this 10-month program last year, so you are gonna want to be one of the first to know when we open the doors! Get on the waitlist here.
You can follow Kim’s journey on Instagram at @KimStrobelJoy, and in the free private, She Finds Joy Facebook community.
From an early age, we are taught to color inside the lines, and any color that strays outside the lines is considered a mistake to be avoided. We are supposed to do everything right, which carries over into adulthood. Perfectionism is a naturally limiting mindset. Imperfection, however, frees us to live outside the lines, where possibilities are infinite, mistakes are allowed, and self-judgment is minimal.
It’s not easy to let go of our need for perfection or the old tapes that play in our head that remind us we are supposed to act, do, and perform in a certain way. In this episode, Kim shares her struggle when things appear to go astray and how she is working to transform how she handles challenges in her own life. When we learn to let go of our “expectations” of ourselves, we begin to see that we have the ability to feel better about just being human beings. We can learn to take back our power and plant the seeds of transformation and inner freedom.
What’s in the episode: * What perfectionism looks like and how it shows up in our life. * How to pivot when dealing with hard things. * Learn to manage your feelings better. * Understand how belief systems drive the inner critic * The art of allowing our heavy feelings. * Three ways to practice self-compassion
“We must learn to process our heavy feelings rather than avoid them.” Kim Strobel
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Kim’s Happy Academy Waitlist! If you’re tired of putting yourself on the back-burner and ready to learn powerful strategies for increasing your happiness levels and reclaiming your life, you might want to grab a spot on the Happy Academy Waitlist. Over 17,000 people signed up for this 10-month program last year, so you are gonna want to be one of the first to know when we open the doors! Get on the waitlist here.
You can follow Kim’s journey on Instagram at @KimStrobelJoy, and in the free private, She Finds Joy Facebook community.
Rosanna Berardi is the Managing Partner of Berardi Immigration Law and the CEO of High WireWoman, where she helps working women create a blueprint to living their lives in a simpler way and take back their most precious commodity: their time.
After saying goodbye to a lucrative corporate gig—and a promising career as an immigration lawyer for the U.S. government—she built a successful, multi-million dollar corporate immigration law firm on her own terms while helping transform people’s lives as they pursue their version of the American Dream.
In this episode, she shares that while these are difficult times and we can’t quit our jobs, we can create simple life hacks that make our lives feel so much better. We can tap into the world of convenience and start outsourcing our “motherly, wifey, worker bee” job to free up space for time, pleasure, and ourselves.
What’s in the episode: * How women can make their lives easier * Why it’s not selfish to pay for convenience * Stop the martyrdom of “do everything yourself” * How she outsources 90% of her life * Embrace and lean into modern-day working and mothering.
“I outsource 90% of the things in my life, so I have time to enjoy the things I love.” Rosanna Berardi
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Rosanna’s Links
High Wire Woman Podcast
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Have you ever wondered why some marriages seem to flourish while others seem to continually flounder? Do you have a desire to make your marriage stronger and more connected?
Research tells us that strong marriages have high levels of friendship and emotional connection at their foundation. But how do we do this when we are trying to raise our kids, work full-time jobs, and manage all of our other responsibilities?
In this episode, I interview the dynamo couple, Tarsha and Stan Davis. They are focused on inspiring others to create strong marriages and feel “married alive'' versus the ball-and-chain “buried alive” version. They challenge us to create not “good enough” marriages, but exceptional marriages!
What’s in the episode:
- Two important building blocks of a successful and happy marriage.
- Why active listening and looking for perspective creates trust in relationships.
- Understanding how our expectations can be honored.
- Why we need to stop comparing our marriage to others.
- Conversations make the biggest difference in getting to know your spouse’s character and creating emotional intimacy.
“You haven’t reached the finish line just because you had a wedding day. That’s when the work begins.” Stan Davis
“We are husband and wife first. Parents second.” Tarsha Davis
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Stan and Tarsha’s Link
Married Alive Instagram
About Kim
Kim Strobel is Chief Happiness Officer at Kim Strobel Live Events and Retreats. She is a teacher, consultant, motivational speaker, happiness coach, and mission-minded person whose passion is helping others overcome their fears and discover their joy!
You can follow Kim’s journey on Instagram at @KimStrobelJoy, and in the free private, She Finds Joy Facebook community.
About Stan and Tarsha and Married Alive
Who says happily ever after only exists in the movies? Lasting happiness CAN and SHOULD be the goal of every marriage and that’s why Stan and Tarsha Davis created their Married Alive brand.
They’re coming up on their 25th wedding anniversary and have been boyfriend and girlfriend for 31 years now. With two children and a cozy home in Florida, they aim to normalize that marriage can be fun.
Some of the their foundational philosophies are to Celebrate everything, relax and enjoy, and actively build lasting happiness.
Cassie Parks is the fairy godmother for people who want to be better with money. She has helped thousands across the globe change their money stories so that they can welcome more money into their lives. Often, we feel like there's never enough money because we’ve become accustomed to that stress of money.
In this episode, Cassie and I discuss the money stories we all tell ourselves and how these stories are the very thing that keeps us from attracting money with ease and flow or actually repelling money. Many of us have felt that there’s never enough money, but that’s because we’ve become accustomed to the stress of money.
I’m most excited because Cassie discusses the four money story archetypes and helps us identify where we are in our own money story and what we need to do to move out of it and into abundance.
What’s in the episode:
- Change your thoughts so you approach money differently
- Be open to creating more wealth and achieving your dreams
- Rethink your approach to money and wealth
- Identify your money mindset archetype
- Recalibrate your money mindset
“A lot of times, we learn there's never enough money because you've become accustomed to that stress of money.” Cassie Parks
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Cassie’s Links
Cassie’s Website
Cassie’s Facebook
Cassie’s Instagram
About Cassie
Cassie Parks is the fairy godmother for people who want to be better with money.
Through her positive reality podcast, books, and online coaching program, she shakes up your approach to creating powerful money stories while making it all feel easy, practical, and of course, fun.
Her insights have been featured on Colorado’s best in the Huffington Post and one of the most downloaded episodes of Primal Blueprint.
About Kim
Kim Strobel is Chief Happiness Officer at Kim Strobel Live Events and Retreats. She is a teacher, consultant, motivational speaker, happiness coach, and mission-minded person whose passion is helping others overcome their fears and discover their joy!
You can follow Kim’s journey on Instagram at @KimStrobelJoy, and in the free private, She Finds Joy Facebook community.
In this episode, thought leader and manifestor guru, Suzanne Adams, shares her knowledge on the Law of Attraction and how we can use it to manifest our biggest desires. I loved Suzanne’s vulnerability in sharing her breakthrough moment while being in the throes of her own ‘dark night of the soul,’ which led her to understand energy and create a life full of her biggest desires.
Suzanne discussed how our bodies, minds, and souls are made of energy, and we can use that energy to reach our wildest dreams. She gives tips and specific strategies for raising your vibe and stepping into your potentiality, all while creating a life that you love.
She also shared the importance of honoring our heavy emotions to process and shift to high-vibe emotions. And that our vibration frequency attracts the people, circumstances, and opportunities into our lives.
What’s in the episode: * What are our biggest dreams, and how do we begin to call them in? * How to ask ourselves what our heart and soul desire to create. * Utilize the tools of Quantum Physics to make our dreams a reality * Shift our consciousness through thoughts, feelings, and emotions * Align our internal blueprints to manifest more of what we want
“You have the ability to embody a frequency that matches your dreams. .” Suzanne Adams
"When we chase the very thing that lights us up, we step into our potentiality.” Kim Strobel
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Kim’s Create Massive Momentum: Law of Attraction and Vision Board Workshop 2022! Ready to Create Massive Momentum in 2022 and make your dreams a reality? Register for my once-a-year Create Massive Momentum: Law of Attraction and Vision Board Workshop on Jan. 5, 2022! If you're unable to make the live workshop, the REPLAY will be available!
Suzanne’s Links
Suzanne’s “Turn up your vibes” meditation: https://www.suzanneadamsinc.com/vibesmeditation/
Suzanne’s “Turn up your vibes” Facebook community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/325198818483203
Suzanne’s Tedx Talk: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2RuCfTiCDjs&t=3s
About Suzanne
As a seasoned speaker who has taken the mic on NBC, The CW, and Fox—as well as on stages ranging from TEDx, Mindvalley, The American Heart Association, Lulu Lemon, and many more—Suzanne Adams is creating a powerful ripple of inspiration and positivity. She is on a mission to help you reach your highest potential. Suzanne is a bestselling author of Girl Awakened and has impacted thousands through speaking, her books, events, and programs across the globe. She is a thought leader in the field of personnel development, leadership, and consciousness and can’t wait to help you manifest your dreams.
About Kim
Kim Strobel is Chief Happiness Officer at Kim Strobel Live Events and Retreats. She is a teacher, consultant, motivational speaker, happiness coach, and mission-minded person whose passion is helping others overcome their fears and discover their joy!
You can follow Kim’s journey on Instagram at @KimStrobelJoy, and in the free private, She Finds Joy Facebook community.
In this episode, you meet Tracy Nolin Beerman, a Vision-Driven Mom who has over 30 years of yoga practice on the mat. The problem was that she wasn’t taking that high-vibe energy from her yoga mat into the other areas of her life.
Tracy knows all too well the challenges of raising kids and being true to herself at the same time. Her three-year-old son painfully showed her that her life wasn’t working and how her own self-loathing and negativity was affecting her son, who then mirrored her behaviors and outlook on life back to her.
She explains how she learned to monitor her feelings and emotions to become more aware of how she was truly showing up in her life.
Kim’s Create Massive Momentum: Law of Attraction and Vision Board Workshop 2022! Ready to Create Massive Momentum in 2022 and make your dreams a reality? Register for my once a year Create Massive Momentum: Law of Attraction and Vision Board Workshop on Jan. 5, 2022! If you're unable to make the live workshop, the REPLAY will be available!
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What’s in the episode: * What a vision-driven life is and means * Why we create our lives through our energy flows and emotions * How to generate more confidence in our lives * Aligning ourselves on the inside so we can attract more of what we want on the outside * Why our emotions are constantly creating our experiences * The hierarchy of emotions and their vibrational frequency * Why gratitude is the back door to abundance * Why you must claim your desires until you become the
“Gratitude is the back door to abundance.” Tracy Nolin Beerman
Helpful Links Waitlist for Create Massive Momentum Workshop 2021
Tracy’s Website: http://www.visiondrivenmom.com
Tracy’s Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/visiondrivenmoms
Tracy’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/visiondrivenmom/
VIBE CARE TOOLKIT: A MOM'S GUIDE TO TAKING YOGA OFF THE MAT AND INTO LIFE http://www.vibecaretoolkit.com
About Tracy
Do you ever wish there was a way to take your yoga off the mat and into your life?
After decades of yoga and mind/body exploration, Tracy Nolin Beerman uses her unique combination of experiences as a Vibe Coach, a certified Life Mastery Consultant, and almost 30 years on the yoga mat to help moms keep their yoga vibe flowing both on and off the mat no matter what comes next.
About Kim
Kim Strobel is Chief Happiness Officer at Kim Strobel Live Events and Retreats. She is a teacher, consultant, motivational speaker, happiness coach, and mission-minded person whose passion is helping others overcome their fears and discover their joy!
You can follow Kim’s journey on Instagram at @KimStrobelJoy, and in the free private, She Finds Joy Facebook community.
What would you change about your life at this very moment? What are your biggest dreams?
Do you want a different job, a romantic relationship, to lose 15 pounds?
We all do it. We all think about the various things we are missing in our lives. The things we don’t have and wish would happen for us. When hoping, wishing, and praying, and dreaming aren’t enough any more- the universe comes to our rescue. Here’s the trick: If you want to change your current circumstance, you must disregard your current state and ignore how others see you. You have to devote all your attention and all that energy you put into hoping and praying into focusing on the life you want.
When you shift your focus, you change your vibration. This shift is more than just daydreaming about your perfect life- you have got to go all in. You have to think, walk, talk, and act exactly like the person who has achieved and obtained all those dreams and wishes you hold on to. “Acting as if” sends a powerful message to your subconscious mind that the impossible is possible. Your mind begins to truly believe your dreams are reality and your mind will do the hard work of finding new and creative ways to achieve your goals.
It’s time to walk the walk, and live the life you have always dreamed. Are you ready to get everything you have ever wanted?
Are you ready to Create Massive Momentum this year? Be the first in line when the program opens by joining the waiting list at https://kimstrobel.com/vision-board-waitlist/
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What’s in the episode: * One of my top secrets for using the Law of Attraction to manifest your dreams. * The power behind how a vision board works. * Why your subconscious mind is driving your success! * How to see your goals starting right now! * Clarity on what you really want and the power to achieve it. * How to back your dreams out into action steps.
“Discovering the Law of Attraction 15 years ago is the very thing that dramatically shifted my life.” Kim Strobel
Helpful Links Waitlist for Create Massive Momentum Workshop 2021
Instagram: @kimstrobeljoy
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/SheFindsJoy
Email: kstrobel@strobeleducation.com
About Kim
Kim Strobel is Chief Happiness Officer at Kim Strobel Live Events and Retreats. She is a teacher, consultant, motivational speaker, happiness coach, and mission-minded person whose passion is helping others overcome their fears and discover their joy!
You can follow Kim’s journey on Instagram at @KimStrobelJoy, and in the free private, She Finds Joy Facebook community.
Hopefully, you listened to episode 60 already because this episode is a follow-up to learning about the Law of Attraction (LOA) and why it works. The energy you put out into the world comes back to you in what you attract. At this moment, your life is determined and influenced by universal forces and the most powerful law called LOA. Every thought and feeling you are having is creating your future right now.
In this episode, Kim explains how you have the power to manifest your wildest dreams. When you deliberately focus on what you do want, you automatically attract opportunities, circumstances, and people in your life to help you achieve those goals.
Are you ready to Create Massive Momentum this year? Be the first in line when the program opens by joining the waiting list at https://kimstrobel.com/vision-board-waitlist/
If you enjoy this episode and it inspired you in some way, I’d love to hear about it and know your biggest takeaway. Take a screenshot of you listening on your device, post it to your Instagram Stories and tag me, @kimstrobeljoy.
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What’s in the episode: * Discover how to use LOA to manifest your dream life. * Use your thoughts, beliefs, and actions to become a magnet for your life. * How to manifest anything you desire. * Embodying the future version of yourself right now. * Stop limiting yourself and step into your power
“You are the driver of your life and you have the power to change your destiny.” Kim Strobel
Helpful Links Waitlist for Create Massive Momentum Workshop 2021
Instagram: @kimstrobeljoy
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/SheFindsJoy
Email: kstrobel@strobeleducation.com
About Kim
Kim Strobel is Chief Happiness Officer at Kim Strobel Live Events and Retreats. She is a teacher, consultant, motivational speaker, happiness coach, and mission-minded person whose passion is helping others overcome their fears and discover their joy!
You can follow Kim’s journey on Instagram at @KimStrobelJoy, and in the free private, She Finds Joy Facebook community.
Our thoughts have more power than we ever realized. We are like magnets. We attract the circumstances of our lives, both positive and negative. Through our thoughts, actions, and perspectives, we have the infinite power to dramatically change our lives and circumstances. This is the Law of Attraction. Practiced by some of the most successful celebrities and entrepreneurs, The Law of Attraction shows us how our own vibrational frequency is important to make the impossible possible.
In this episode, Kim discusses how she has harnessed the power of the Law of Attraction for the past 15 years to create the life of her dreams. Kim remembers discovering the Law of Attraction when she needed it most- living paycheck to paycheck, working in a toxic environment, struggling in her marriage, and completely exhausted. Through the Law of Attraction, Kim has created the life she thought was impossible. Tune into today’s episode to learn how to use the power of the Law of Attraction to create the life of your dreams and attract the abundance and joy you truly deserve.
Tune into this episode to learn... * What exactly is the Law of Attraction?’ * How your thoughts and emotions are tied to what you are experiencing in your life. * Your vibrational frequency is important to create what you want in life. * How to use the Law of Attraction to create big things in your life * Why successful people practice this law and what they’ve achieved.
Are you ready to Create Massive Momentum this year? Be the first in line when the program opens by joining the waiting list at https://kimstrobel.com/vision-board-waitlist/
If you enjoy this episode and it inspired you in some way, I’d love to hear about it and know your biggest takeaway. Take a screenshot of you listening on your device, post it to your Instagram Stories and tag me, @kimstrobeljoy.
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“Discovering the Law of Attraction 15 years ago is the very thing that dramatically shifted my life.” Kim Strobel
Helpful Links Waitlist for Create Massive Momentum Workshop 2021
Instagram: @kimstrobeljoy
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/SheFindsJoy
Email: kstrobel@strobeleducation.com
About Kim
Kim Strobel is Chief Happiness Officer at Kim Strobel Live Events and Retreats. She is a teacher, consultant, motivational speaker, happiness coach, and the mission-minded person whose passion is helping others overcome their fears and discover their joy!
You can follow Kim’s journey on Instagram at @KimStrobelJoy, and in the free private, She Finds Joy Facebook community.
Jill Krzyzanowicz is an author, accomplished educator, and personal empowerment mentor who is currently enrolled in my 90 Day Coaching program. Through our conversations, we’ve discussed how Jill embodies the idea of “stepping into the Arena of Bigness.” From growing up in a chaotic house filled with violence, battling cancer, multiple weight-loss surgeries, and a newly sober lifestyle, Jill explains how within every adversity lies a silver living.
She shares her personal story of being raised by a mother who couldn't love, and how she was able to eventually forgive her mother and come to understand her soul and journey. Jill is also simultaneously aware that her mother is exactly why she is the woman, mother, speaker, and author she is today.
What’s in the episode: * The trauma of Jill’s childhood and how it taught her self-love and self-loyalty. * The story of Jill’s spiritual awakening, which gave her a new perspective on the lingering trauma from her mother. * How she used forgiveness to heal her own life. * Why Jill chose not to visit her mother on her deathbed. * How she stays grounded in her own boundaries, beliefs, and self-respect while navigating hard things.
“My third-grade teacher, Mr. Messina, was not all about academics. He was all about relationships and that changed my life...” - Jill Krzyzanowicz
Helpful Links Website: www.justbeingjill.com
Instagram: @justbeingjill
Facebook: www.facebook.com/groups/justbeingjill
Email: Jill Krzyzanowicz
About Jill After 22+ years in public education, Jill Krzyzanowicz decided to use her master’s degree and extensive teaching experience to become a personal empowerment mentor. Last year, Jill began writing her personal self-help memoir. This soon-to-be-published book outlines a lifetime of challenging situations and the tools she used to overcome adversity. She is the creator of the blog site, justbeingjill.com where followers can find motivation and inspiration for everyday, real-life connections.
About KimKim Strobel is Chief Happiness Officer at Kim Strobel Live Events and Retreats. She is a teacher, consultant, motivational speaker, happiness coach, and mission-minded person whose passion is helping others overcome their fears and discover their joy!
You can follow Kim’s journey on Instagram at @KimStrobelJoy and in the free private She Finds Joy Facebook community.
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Ep 58 | How to Make Some Noise: Speak Your Mind & Own Your Strength Andrea Owen has a new book: Make Some Noise: Speak Your Mind and Own Your Strength. In this week's interview with Kim, Andrea walks us through the anger she has felt by “being raised in a culture that told me to quiet down—that my voice, my spirit, my ambition, my most everything was too much.”
In the interview, Andrea discusses why we hold back in our lives and how to use the fire in our bellies to burn the whole damn “quiet” culture down. As she states in her book, “Women have been socialized to not make too much noise, put everyone else before us, and to make everyone else comfortable. All of this at the expense of our own values, desires, and dreams. Many times, we don’t even consciously realize this is happening. But unconsciously we know. It manifests as resentment, poor boundary setting, lashing out, negative self-talk, unnecessary apologizing, people-pleasing, and approval seeking. And that feels like shit.”
Listen to the full episode to…
- Andrea’s book came from her own anger from playing it small throughout her life.
- Why it’s past time for women to start taking up some damn space and to start asking for everything they want.
- What it means to shine bright and why women need the courage to do it in our lives.
- How to remember our inner wisdom and start using it.
- Discover "The Unlearning,” Andrea’s four-step process for unlearning patterns and behaviors.
- Understand that when you put yourself out there, you are risking failure and criticism—and why it’s worth it.
- How a drug deal at night in Tijuana, Mexico led to a spiritual experience for Andrea.
- Strategies to stop ignoring the brainwashing that is making you smaller in life (and why it’s time to burn it down).
“Women are taught at a young age to take care of everyone else’s feelings and not make other people uncomfortable. We dance around things by tampering down our own values for the sake of the comfort of other people.” - Andrea Owen
Helpful Links https://www.amazon.com/Make-Some-Noise-Speak-Strength/dp/0593328744/ref=tmm_hrd_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=1630942376&sr=8-1Make Some Noise: Speak Your Mind and Own Your Strength by Andrea Owen
About Andrea Andrea Owen is an author, global speaker, and professional certified life coach who helps high-achieving women maximize unshakeable confidence, and master resilience. She has taught hundreds of thousands of women tools and strategies to be able to empower themselves to live their most kick-ass life through speaking, her books, coaching, and her wildly popular podcast with close to three million downloads.
She is the proud author of two books, which have been translated into 18 languages and are available in 22 countries. Her latest book, Make Some Noise: Speak Your Mind and Own Your Strength is coming in August 2021.
About KimKim Strobel is Chief Happiness Officer at Kim Strobel Live Events and Retreats. She is a teacher, consultant, motivational speaker, happiness coach, and mission-minded person whose passion is helping others overcome their fears and discover their joy!
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Ep 57 | Men, Sex, & Testosterone with Dr. Adam Brockman
Testosterone. It’s one of the key hormones that drives some masculine behaviors, such as sex drive and libido. What many don’t realize is that testosterone plays a key role in many other factors—muscle tone, belly fat, energy and motivation levels, and sleep. For the last 60 years, testosterone levels have been decreasing for men of all ages, and now many men are now seeking help for low testosterone (or low T).
Most men hold a lot of shame when it comes to low testosterone levels as if they have to check their man-card at the door when this topic is brought up. For most men, sexuality and virility are deeply intertwined and any hint of dysfunction or waning testosterone levels is frightening and embarrassing. Many times, it leads to a diminished sense of self-worth and low self-confidence.
In this episode, Kim is joined by natural health physician and chiropractor, Dr. Adam Brockman. Dr. Brockman de-mystifies the idea of “being a man,” while helping us understand that low T is much more than low sex drive and libido. He explains the reasons for low T and how men experiencing this are far from alone in their struggles. Dr. Brockman provides both natural and scientific ways to increase wellness and vitality.
Kim and Dr. Brockman dig into the benefits of having optimal testosterone levels and how it begins with a simple blood test. They also get into brass tacks advice on what you can do to raise your T levels naturally and when you should visit a doctor for testosterone replacement therapy.
Tune in to learn… * What testosterone really is and how it functions in the body. * Why testosterone steadily decreases with age. * Common symptoms of low testosterone and the impacts of low T as men age. * Demystifying men, sex, and testosterone. * What causes erectile dysfunction in men as early as their 20’s. * How to increase testosterone levels through natural supplements, and other options if supplements aren’t enough. * The various benefits of optimal testosterone levels. * What you can do as a significant other to support your man.
“It’s normal for testosterone levels to begin to decrease as men age. There is nothing wrong with them.” - Dr. Adam Brockman Helpful Links Dr. Brockman’s website
Dr. Brockman’s Toll Free Line: 877-927-1001
Dr. Brockman’s Recommended Multivitamin for Men
How to Make Some Noise Meditate: Speak Your Mind and Own Your Strength by Pema Chodron
About Dr. BrockmanDr. Adam Brockman, DC ND, is a natural health physician and chiropractor. He is the founder and CEO of Complete Wellness, INC., a National Best and Brightest in Wellness company three years in a row, with multidisciplinary clinics in Kentucky, Indiana, and Florida.
Dr. Brockman has invented or developed over 25 natural health products that have won national gold medals. His online store donates a portion of every sale to impoverished areas of the U.S. and other countries working to improve nutritional deficiencies in those areas. He has developed protocols in the fast-growing field of regenerative medicine, which includes treatments such as stem cell therapy.
He has spoken at national and state conferences for natural health providers and chiropractors. He is the Vice President of the Kentucky Chiropractic Society. In his spare time, he enjoys coaching his kids, doing outdoor activities, and being around family, which includes Megan (a nurse practitioner at Complete Wellness) and their five (soon-to-be six) kids.
About KimKim Strobel is Chief Happiness Officer at Kim Strobel Live Events and Retreats. She is a teacher, consultant, motivational speaker, happiness coach, and mission-minded person whose passion is helping others overcome their fears and discover their joy!
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Ep 56 | The System’s Mindset: It’s Not Willpower, That’s the Problem This is the last episode of the Mindset Series. We’ve covered the Happiness Mindset, the Self-Care Mindset, the Belief Mindset, and the Manifestor’s Mindset. Now we bring it all together in the System’s Mindset.
People feel frustrated when they can’t take the actions they need to make sustainable progress in their lives. It’s not that we lack the ability or the willpower to make healthy changes in our life—it’s that we don’t have systems or blueprints to follow. We need accountability and a vision for who we want to become.
Take a look at the stats. According to The American Society for Training and Development, of people who...
- Consciously decide to set a goal, only 25% achieve their goal.
- Decide when they will do it, 40% achieve their goal.
- Plan how they will do it, 50% achieve their goal.
- Commit to someone else they will do it, 65% achieve their goal.
- Have a specific accountability appointment with the person they committed to (a coach), 95% achieve their goal!
We gravely overestimate the effect of tiny, small changes in our lives and we give up way too easily because we aren’t seeing results fast enough. Believe it or not, you don’t have to take massive action to get massive results. In fact, you can treat your life like compound interest and stay laser-focused on an area of improvement, taking small actionable steps to create a ripple effect in your life. Becoming the best version of yourself requires you to continuously extract your old beliefs, and to download a new set of beliefs that match up with the reality you want to create.
Tune in to learn more about… * Why it's not your willpower that’s preventing you from reaching your goals. * If you’re having trouble with incorporating habits in your life, your system is the problem. * How tiny changes create remarkable results. Remember that success is the product of daily habits—not once-in-a-lifetime transformations. * The purpose of building a system. * How to build good habits and break bad ones. * How to shift your internal blueprint to create results.
“You do not rise to the level of your goals. You fall to the level of your systems.” - James Clear Register for the Happy Academy! Schools and teachers register here
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Atomic Habits by James Clear
About KimKim Strobel is Chief Happiness Officer at Kim Strobel Live Events and Retreats. She is a teacher, consultant, motivational speaker, happiness coach, and the mission-minded person whose passion is helping others overcome their fears and discover their joy!
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Ep 55 | The Manifestor’s MindsetMost of us create our lives by default. We haven’t learned how to manifest our desires through the magic of the Universe. We haven’t learned how to access the power of our thoughts and our mind. Ever wanted to know the secret to not just settling, but actually ACHIEVING your BIGGEST goals without working yourself to the ground?
In today’s episode, Kim discusses the Law of Attraction—the idea that everyone has a unique vibration that attracts other people, circumstances, and opportunities with the same vibration. If you want to change your life and empower yourself to create an amazing future, then you need to understand your role in the Law of Attraction. Tune into this episode to learn the secret to living life intentionally, to create your future by using the magic of the Universe, and to harness your thoughts to build a life you truly love.
What You’ll Learn From This Episode * How to stop recycling old thoughts and beliefs no longer serve you… and how to create new patterns that help you grow. * How to put fear aside and step into action. * How to tap into Universal Intelligence and begin creating a life that feels really good. * Ways to stop living your life on default and begin creating your life intentionally * Methods to unlock your potential and ramp up your success. * Why you need to take responsibility for your life and be an active participant in the creation process.
“You are constantly creating your life through your vibrational frequency.” - Kim Strobel The Happy Academy is open for registration! Doors close on August 31st!Register for the Happy Academy!
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About KimKim Strobel is Chief Happiness Officer at Kim Strobel Live Events and Retreats. She is a teacher, consultant, motivational speaker, happiness coach, and mission-minded person whose passion is helping others overcome their fears and discover their joy!
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Ep 54 | The Belief Mindset: Change Your Thoughts & Change Your Life To put it bluntly: if you don't have an internal belief system that supports your goals, you won’t be able to achieve those goals. Your beliefs are always driving what you can and cannot achieve in life.
Most humans have approximately 70,000 thoughts running through their minds on a daily basis. And from the research, we know that 5% of how you show up in life comes from your logical, thinking mind and 95% of how you show up in life comes from your subconscious mind. Your beliefs reside in your subconscious mind, but most of us aren’t even aware of those beliefs because they were formed before we were even six years old.
The good news is you can extract old, limiting beliefs and download a new set that will serve every part of your life going forward.
What You’ll Learn From This Episode * The differences between fixed mindset and growth mindset. * The benefits of adopting a growth mindset in your life and strategies to embrace a growth mindset. * How mindsets work in our lives—including the role they play in affecting your actions and behaviors. * The science behind rewiring your brain. * How changing your mindset can lead to more success in your life.
“Your beliefs are affecting the way you live your life.” - Kim Strobel The Happy Academy is Open for Registration! Doors close in two weeks. Register for the Happy Academy!
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About KimKim Strobel is Chief Happiness Officer at Kim Strobel Live Events and Retreats. She is a teacher, consultant, motivational speaker, happiness coach, and mission-minded person whose passion is helping others overcome their fears and discover their joy!
You can follow Kim’s journey on Instagram at @KimStrobelJoy and in the free, private She Finds Joy Facebook community.
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Ep 53 | The Self-Care Mindset & Why It’s Critical to Your Health Many of us feel overwhelmed and defeated by life. And we certainly don’t feel like we have the time to even think about our own needs. Loving ourselves is a foreign concept for too many of us. Why can we so easily love our children, our parents, and our dogs, but we struggle to love ourselves?
Yet, the most important relationship you will ever have is the one you have with yourself.
Without adequate self-care, we’re unable to handle the stressors that come our way when we're depleted by physical and emotional exhaustion. On the other hand, we’re more resilient and capable when we feel our best both physically and emotionally.
In today’s fast-paced, high-demand world, it’s harder to just stop, breathe, and live in the moment. With the right tools and some simple strategies, one has the power to greatly decrease the negative effects of stress and increase personal health, happiness, and wellbeing. This workshop will investigate burnout, how to prevent burnout, and happiness and wellbeing strategies to help you create work-life flow.
What You’ll Learn From This Episode: * Why you are worthy of self-care * How to develop a self-care plan that fits in your schedule * Why you have to start scheduling yourself first * How self-care impacts every aspect of our lives * How to be more loyal to yourself * How to replace feelings of guilt with empowerment * Ways to implement emotional and physical self-care
“We are worthy of investing in ourselves.” - Kim Strobel The Happy Academy is open for registration! Doors close soon!Register for the Happy Academy!
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About KimKim Strobel is Chief Happiness Officer at Kim Strobel Live Events and Retreats. She is a teacher, consultant, motivational speaker, happiness coach, and mission-minded person whose passion is helping others overcome their fears and discover their joy!
You can follow Kim’s journey on Instagram at @KimStrobelJoy and in the free, private She Finds Joy Facebook community.
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Ep 52 | The Happiness Mindset: Your Happiness Matters All of us want to be happy, even if we don’t want to admit it or we feel like it’s a frivolous thing to talk about. Some of us want professional success, to find the right partner, spiritual fulfillment, and others yearn for passion and purpose in their life. However, what holds true among almost everyone is that our culture looks at the happiness formula backward. We think, “If I get that job, then I’ll be happy,” or “When I get married, then I’ll be happy.” It’s a backward mindset.
See, when we take the time to recognize the opportunities, abundance, and blessings in our life, we begin to attract strong, better relationships. We begin to grow in our personal lives and our careers. It’s important that we let go of the unhealthy, deep-seated assumptions about what happiness looks like and start focusing more on what makes you happy in the here and now.
We need to make happiness a priority in our lives. To put it at the forefront of everything we do.
What You’ll Learn From This Episode: * How to shift to a happiness-focused mindset. * Simple happiness habits you can form to build your happiness. * Why your happiness changes every single outcome—career, business, relationships, money, creativity… * How happiness helps you attract your wants and desires. * What our happiness baseline is and where it comes from. * The Pie Chart of Happiness: 50% genetic; 10% circumstances; and 40% thoughts, behaviors, and actions.
“When your brain is positive, you shift every single outcome in your life.” - Kim Strobel Helpful Links Get on the waitlist for The Happy Academy now!
About Kim Kim Strobel is Chief Happiness Officer at Kim Strobel Live Events and Retreats. She is a teacher, consultant, motivational speaker, happiness coach, and mission-minded person whose passion is helping others overcome their fears and discover their joy!
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Ep 51 | The Arena of Bigness: How to Live a Braver Life Many times we think we are overwhelmed… when in fact we are also underwhelmed. I believe burnout comes from both. When we feel underwhelmed, we feel lost from who we used to be, we no longer know what our hobbies are, or the dreams we want to pursue. Feeling underwhelmed keeps us tied to a job that sucks our soul or stuck in a relationship that continues to bleed us dry.
Which is why it’s time to step into the Arena of Bigness.
The Arena of Bigness is scary. It’s where you will fail. It’s full of uncertainty and risks. It’s where you fall face down in the dirt and wonder, “Will I ever get up again?” But, it’s also where you find your true gems, your true potential. It’s where you step out with courage and allow yourself to get uncomfortable because you know that’s what it takes to get where you need to go. On the other side of fear, vulnerability, risk, and uncertainty, lies greatness.
It’s time to step into our bigness, together.
If you don’t step forward with confidence, believing in the power of your dreams, you risk sitting on the sidelines your whole life. You risk never seeing your dreams manifest into reality. Playing small does not serve the world. The world needs your magic.
What You’ll Learn From This Episode: * How to show up, be seen, and live a braver life—you can overcome self-doubt and discover your potential. * Why feeling overwhelmed might not be the cause of your discouragement. * How courage changes the way we experience life, especially when you no longer care what other people think of you. * Understand how your core values lead you to fulfillment or dissatisfaction. * Why 90% of your potential is still up for grabs. * The price we pay when we choose safety and comfort over risk and uncertainty. * How to get off the sidelines of your life and step into the Arena of Bigness.
“On the other side of your fear lies greatness.” Kim Strobel Helpful Links Get on the waitlist for The Happy Academy now!
About Kim Kim Strobel is Chief Happiness Officer at Kim Strobel Live Events and Retreats. She is a teacher, consultant, motivational speaker, happiness coach, and mission-minded person whose passion is helping others overcome their fears and discover their joy!
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Ep 50 | Burnout & Why I Created The Happy Academy Burnout is a kind of exhaustion that seeps into every aspect of your life. Even though I travel around the country teaching teachers, business people, and more about how to overcome burnout, I can tell you that I, too, have been experiencing it lately. For me, burnout looks like:
- The inability to shut work off, even when I should be enjoying time off
- An incessant need to keep checking my emails
- The feeling of obsessively thinking about "everything that needs to get done"
- Tiredness, irritability, and frustration with people around me
I recently asked others in my Facebook Group what burnout out looks like to them and got these responses:
- Knots in my stomach the closer I get to work, despite LOVING my job.
- Never having satisfaction with my job and never feeling like I’m doing enough.
- Letting down all of the teachers I’m supposed to be leading, and I feel hopeless.
- Dreading going to work every day and counting the days until break.
- Never feeling like I’m meeting expectations.
- Being so overwhelmed with tasks and asks that I don’t even know where to start.
- Lost desire, unable to focus on anything, and no amount of time off or other activities.
- Investing in my own business so I can leave my current profession.
- Overworked (worked daily my entire sick leave), underpaid (completely revamped teaching during COVID/no overtime, no bonuses), and not thought of as a real person.
You are allowed to have heavy emotions. It’s important to give ourselves the grace to feel the way we do and practice some self-compassion.
Even though I sometimes enter the burnout stage, I recognize the signs of when it’s coming on, and I have a set of habits that get me out of the gutter quicker. You are not alone in the struggle. I am there too.
What You’ll Learn From This Episode:* How to identify burnout when it’s first setting in. * Why it’s so hard to get off the hamster wheel of life. * Why I created a program focused on shifting the inner blueprint of our life. * How to leverage your mindset and overcome limiting beliefs. * Why our relationship with ourselves is our biggest asset. * How to take action to become who you want to be. * How to step forward with confidence and discover your greatness..
“If you can’t see your own value, the world can’t give you value back.” - Kim Strobel Helpful Links Get on the waitlist for The Happy Academy now!
About Kim Kim Strobel is Chief Happiness Officer at Kim Strobel Live Events and Retreats. She is a teacher, consultant, motivational speaker, happiness coach, and a mission-minded person whose passion helps others overcome their fears and discover their joy!
You can follow Kim’s journey on Instagram at @KimStrobelJoy, and in the free private, She Finds Joy Facebook community.
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Ep 49 | How to Stop Feeling Overwhelmed in Motherhood with Dr. Nicole Calloway Rankins Today on the She Finds Joy podcast, Kim sits down for a conversation with Dr. Nicole Calloway Rankins. Nicole is a board-certified, practicing OB/GYN and mom of two girls who empowers first-time moms to feel supported and prepared for pregnancy and birth. Over the last 15 years, she’s helped more than a thousand babies come into this world and has demystified pregnancy and childbirth for thousands of women through her 5-star rated All About Pregnancy & Birth podcast, her free online birth plan class, and her signature online program - The Birth Preparation Course.
Interviewing Dr. Nicole Rankins was such a pleasure. I mean, she’s delivered over a thousand babies! Can you imagine? Dr. Rankins authentically shares her own experiences with her two daughters and how the trauma of her first baby’s birth informs why and how she shows up to support, nurture, and educate expectant mothers.
Dr. Rankins is also an integrative health coach, which means she supports mothers from every aspect of their lives: physical, relational, spiritual, emotional, and financial. Honestly, these are the pillars we should all take a reflective look at in our own lives.
On top of delivering babies and coaching women, she is a high-achieving, career-oriented woman who desires to serve in a very big way. But, she is also a mother and a wife. She explains some of her favorite tips for juggling all of her roles, while also honoring and loving herself in the process.
What You’ll Learn From This Episode: * The traumatic birthing experience of her firstborn and how that changed her. * The top fear of expectant mothers. * Why giving mothers choices is so important. * How to advocate for yourself in your healthcare. * The value of an integrative health coach during pregnancy. * Why we feel overwhelmed in motherhood and what we can do about it. * How to create a wellness plan that supports all pillars of our wellbeing and health.
“The number one thing a mother can do is ask for help.” - Dr. Nicole Calloway Rankins
Helpful Links Website: www.ncrcoaching.com
Instagram: @drnicolerankins
Facebook: www.facebook.com/ncrcoaching
Twitter: @NCRCoachMD
Book: “How to Meditate: A Practical Guide to Making Friends with Your Mind”
Huffington Post article: “Why You don’t Have a Health Coach (and Why You Should)”
About KimKim Strobel is Chief Happiness Officer at Kim Strobel Live Events and Retreats. She is a teacher, consultant, motivational speaker, happiness coach, and a mission-minded person whose passion helps others overcome their fears and discover their joy!
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Ep 48 | Create a Sustainable, Healthy Lifestyle to Reach Your Wellness Goals with Cassie Riley Part 2 Cassie Riley is a Certified Integrative Nutrition Health Coach who works with clients by helping them reach their specific wellness goals through healthy meal plans, nutritious food choices, and movement. She helps create positive behavior change through sustainable health habits that go deeper than just diet and exercise alone. Cassie helps clients grow their confidence and respect for their bodies and power through disordered eating struggles and patterns.
In this episode, Kim and Cassie continue their conversation about ditching everything you have learned about diet culture. Now, they explore how to eat intuitively and listen to our bodies. Cassie explains why what others have taught us in the past demolishes our metabolism and lowers our metabolic flexibility, which means we end up worse than before we started “the diet.”
Cassie provides her top tips for creating sustainable, healthy eating habits that can help boost your metabolism. She explains why maintaining your blood sugar levels throughout the day can help you feel satisfied, energetic, and happier. Plus, she shares a seven-minute video for strength training that can be done anywhere!
Tune in to learn more about… * How to keep your cravings under control without feeling hungry. * Why it’s not about the number on the scale; it’s about your body composition. * Options for getting protein, healthy fats, and fiber in each meal. * Why reading labels is important because companies are sneaking ingredients into products to trick you into thinking they are healthy. * How tiny tweaks to our meals lead to big changes. * How you can begin to have a healthier relationship with food starting now. * The #1 exercise for fat loss!
“The #1 exercise that is best for fat loss is any exercise you enjoy doing.” - Cassie Riley
Helpful Links Cassie’s Email for her Free Smoothie Recipes: be.nutritiated@gmail.com
Cassie’s Instagram: @be_nutritiated
The Seven Minute Strength Building Video
About KimKim Strobel is Chief Happiness Officer at Kim Strobel Live Events and Retreats. She is a teacher, consultant, motivational speaker, happiness coach, and a mission-minded person whose passion helps others overcome their fears and discover their joy!
You can follow Kim’s journey on Instagram at @KimStrobelJoy, and in the free private, She Finds Joy Facebook community.
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Ep 47 | Tools to Help You Ditch Diet Culture with Cassie Riley Part 1 In this episode of the She Finds Joy podcast, Kim speaks with Cassie Riley. Cassie is a Certified Integrative Nutrition Health Coach who works with clients by helping them reach their specific wellness goals through healthy meal plans, nutritious food choices, and movement. She helps them create positive behavior change through sustainable health habits that go deeper than just diet and exercise alone.
How many times in your life have you tried to lose weight using restrictive diets such as keto, Weight Watchers, the no-carb diet, and so on? How many times have you told yourself, “I’ll start again on Monday?” How many Januarys are you going to restrict yourself from carbs and cookies? For the majority of the people, this never works. Fad diets and diet culture deliver false promises and show us testimonials of former clients on Day 28, but they don’t talk about what happened on Day 31.
In this episode, Kim and Cassie discuss why women need to do the inner work of understanding and nurturing our bodies and how to get off the struggle bus when it comes to achieving our wellness goals. Cassie's approach is centered around not counting calories, not stepping on a scale daily, and not restricting ourselves from certain food groups. Instead, she offers us a healthy, feel-good solution to achieving our optimal health and wellness goals. She explains why we must stop utilizing a “one-size-fits-all” approach when trying to lose weight and instead create a sustainable lifestyle that truly fuels us.
Tune in to learn more about:
- Why it’s important to dissociate diet with body image and body size.
- Why diet culture and fad diets are terrible for you and why they don’t work.
- Why cutting out entire food groups and restricting yourself leads to future weight gain and feelings of guilt, shame, and depression.
- What companies and culture do to trick you into thinking certain food is healthy.
- The simple formula for creating nutrient-rich, balanced meals that maintain blood sugar levels and keep you satisfied.
- The protein - healthy fats - fiber formula that will blow your mind when it comes to meal planning and staying satiated.
- Why building lifelong sustainable healthy habits is possible without all of the guilt and the strict rules.
- A simple plan for achieving your wellness goals.
“Are you truly building lifelong, sustainable health habits or are you finding a quick fix diet for 30 days, and on Day 31, you run out to grab a box of doughnuts because you’ve completely restricted yourself for the last month? This approach doesn’t work.” - Cassie Riley
Helpful Links * Cassie’s email for her free smoothie recipes: be.nutritiated@gmail.com * Cassie’s Instagram: @be_nutritiated * Cassie’s favorite protein powder: https://glnk.io/y7z/cassie2 * Enter Code: CASSIER15 to get a 15% discount
About KimKim Strobel is Chief Happiness Officer at Kim Strobel Live Events and Retreats. She is a teacher, consultant, motivational speaker, happiness coach, and a mission-minded person whose passion helps others overcome their fears and discover their joy!
You can follow Kim’s journey on Instagram at @KimStrobelJoy, and in the free private, She Finds Joy Facebook community.
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Ep 46 | Angela Robeck: Releasing People-Pleasing
Angela Kelly Robeck is well versed in teaching and school leadership, having been a teacher for over 15 years and a school principal for six years before moving into a district-level position.
She is a certified coach of The Life Coach School and completed the life coaching program from Martha Beck International, and is the founder of Angela Kelly Coaching. She specializes in helping leaders navigate the job demands to lead with confidence while also having a life outside of their jobs.
In this episode, Angela explains why it’s crucial for us as mothers to stop doing all the crap we hate and start doing the things that bring us joy. She discusses why we should create our definition of what we believe a good mom is, and not focus on the definition society has fed us. She asks the important question, “Do you want to be the mom who is modeling to her children what it looks like to enjoy being a mother? Or do you want to model motherhood that is stressful and exhausting, where you are doing things out of obligation rather than because you want to?”
What You’ll Learn From This Episode:
- Why we have to stop the people-pleasing mentality.
- Why our thoughts create our emotions, which cause our results.
- How you can self-check your thoughts when we are telling ourselves lies.
- Why it’s not that you are overwhelmed—it’s that you are underwhelmed.
- Why you should stop doing the tasks that don’t make you feel good and do the ones you enjoy.
- Why, as mothers, we must begin to invest money, time, and effort into ourselves starting now!
“As women, we should value our own opinion, equally or greater than we value the opinions of others.” - Angela Robeck
Helpful Links
Website: https://angelakellycoaching.com
Podcast: https://angelakellycoaching.com/blog/
Email: angelakellycoaching@gmail.com
About Kim
Kim Strobel is Chief Happiness Officer at Kim Strobel Live Events and Retreats. She is a teacher, consultant, motivational speaker, happiness coach, and a mission-minded person whose passion helps others overcome their fears and discover their joy!
You can follow Kim’s journey on Instagram at @KimStrobelJoy, and in the free private, She Finds Joy Facebook community.
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Ep 45 | Tara Martin: Overcoming Trauma, Advocating for Kids, and Bringing Your REAL Self
Tara grew up in a very chaotic and abusive home. She was an “at-risk” student whose life was changed by one caring, kind, and very REAL teacher, which is why she now advocates for every single student and empowers educators across the country to be REAL. REAL Educators are relatable, they expose vulnerability by sharing their experiences, they are approachable, and they learn through life.
She shares how we must embrace the hand life dealt to us in order to fulfill our purpose and inspire those we serve to do the same.
If you enjoyed this episode and it inspired you in some way, we’d love to hear about it and know your biggest takeaway. Take a screenshot of you listening on your device, post it to your Instagram Stories and tag me @kimstrobeljoy and Tara @taramartin.real.
What You’ll Learn From This Episode:
- Why school was the safest place for Tara while growing up.
- How we must embrace the hand life dealt us to fulfill our purpose and inspire those we serve to do the same.
- The power of being true to yourself and finding the courage to “cannonball” into the adventures that life offers.
- How to make “REAL” connections with others and dare to make a difference.
- Why you can do hard things.
“You were not born to sit on the sidelines and watch the jumpers. You were born to jump.” - Tara M. Martin
Helpful Links
- Twitter: @TaraMartinEDU
- Instagram: tarammartin.real
- Website: tarammartin.com
- Podcast: The REAL Journey Show
- REAL Talk with Tara Facebook Page
About Tara
Tara Martin is an educator, author, leader, and hugger. Teaching is hands down her purpose in life, next to being a mom! She considers herself an instructional coach by default because leading by inquiry tends to bleed over into any role she has had the honor to serve.
One of my favorite things about Tara is she thrives on change and refuses to settle for the status quo.
About Kim
Kim Strobel is Chief Happiness Officer at Kim Strobel Live Events and Retreats. She is a teacher, consultant, motivational speaker, happiness coach, and a mission-minded person whose passion helps others overcome their fears and discover their joy!
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Ep 44 | Boundaries, Expectations, and Manuals with Susie Pettit
Susie Pettit has been helping women live lives they love for over 10 years. She is the host of the podcast Love Your Life Show and owner of the wellness company Strength: Mind & Body, LLC.
Susie is passionate about helping women live lives that feel as good on the inside as they look on the outside. She spent more than half her life living a life she did not love; as a people pleaser, codependent perfectionist, trying desperately to win an award for “Martyr of the Year.”
Tune in to learn:
- How being raised by controlling and manipulative parents impacted many of Susie’s major life decisions.
- How she stopped looking for external validation and found peace within herself.
- Why people pleasers are actually people deceivers
- The thought model think-feel-act that can give you control, even in the most challenging moments in your life.
- How to get out of your own way during challenging communication with others.
- Why we must create boundaries that honor our values.
- How to stop taking everything so personally!
“Anything you judge is a reflection of your own insecurity.” - Susie Pettit
Helpful links:
- Susie’s Website: SMB
- Susie’s Podcast: Love Your Life Show
- Check out Susie’s Thought Model
About Susie
Susie Pettit has been helping women live lives they love for over a decade. She is a certified Life + Wellness Coach and a mom of three teenage sons.
Susie is passionate about helping women live lives that feel as good on the inside as they look on the outside. She spent more than half her life living a life she did not love. Luckily, she hit rock bottom and now has the breadth of experience to teach first hand about setting healthy boundaries, beating your inner critic, conscious parenting, and how to use mindfulness-based tools to beat overwhelm and anxiety. She uses two foundational frameworks: Her 5 Pillars of Wellness and the Thought Model.
About Kim
Kim Strobel is Chief Happiness Officer at Kim Strobel Live Events and Retreats. She is a teacher, consultant, motivational speaker, happiness coach, and a mission-minded person whose passion helps others overcome their fears and discover their joy!
You can follow Kim’s journey on Instagram at @KimStrobelJoy and in the free private She Finds Joy Facebook community.
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Ep 43 | Steve Bollar: How to Embrace Your Uniqueness as a Leader
Steve Bollar, a.k.a. Stand Tall Steve, is an educational thought leader, former Superintendent of Schools, principal, author and a culture and motivation expert. At 6’7, everyone assumed he would become a basketball player, but instead he pursued a career as an art teacher and eventually as a motivational speaker.
In this episode of the She Finds Joy podcast, Steve and Kim discuss how we are told that in order to be a leader, you need to have certain attributes. Leaders are often expected to show little emotion, always be serious, not to have fun, and definitely never reveal their vulnerabilities. But, in reality, when you take the magic of who you are and integrate that with real leadership skills, you are able to maximize results and become a leader who is truly connected to your people.
“I’ve always done things differently and I say ‘Why not me?’” - Steve Bollar
Tune in to learn about:
- Steve’s journey from art teacher to motivational speaker.
- The importance of understanding what you respect and value, and how that leads to your decisions.
- How to do things differently than what others expect from you.
- Ways you can find the courage to show up as your most authentic self.
- Why you aren’t supposed to blend in with the crowd.
- How to stand tall in your life and have confidence in everything you do.
- How to have a vision instead of blindly stumbling through life.
Helpful Links
- Steve’s Twitter
- Steve’s Facebook
- Steve’s LinkedIn
About Kim
Kim Strobel is Chief Happiness Officer at Kim Strobel Live Events and Retreats. She is a teacher, consultant, motivational speaker, happiness coach, and a mission-minded person whose passion helps others overcome their fears and discover their joy!
You can follow Kim’s journey on Instagram at @KimStrobelJoy, and in the free private, She Finds Joy Facebook community.
About Steve
Steve Bollar is an educational thought leader, former Superintendent of Schools, principal, author and a school culture and motivation expert. He is known for his quick wit, creative thought, and humorous personality.
Steve is the author of the leadership book Stand Tall Leadership, school culture book Ideas, Ideas, Ideas!, and is a contributing author in the book School Climate 2.0: Preventing Cyberbullying One Classroom at a Time.
Steve openly shares his knowledge, experiences and creativity with others. He currently speaks to students, staff and communities throughout the country about how to think differently about schools, education, and life.
Social Media:
Twitter: @standtallsteve
Instagram: @standtallsteve
Facebook: Stand Tall Steve https://www.facebook.com/standtallsteve1
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/standtallsteve/
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Ep 42 | Amanda Thebe: How to Thrive During Menopause
Amanda Thebe is a force of nature for women who are experiencing menopause hell and want to start feeling healthy and fit in their 40s and beyond. With over 20 years of experience in the fitness industry, Amanda is a highly regarded expert on women’s fitness and health. She brings a refreshing humor and no-nonsense approach to subjects usually shrouded in shame.
In this episode, Amanda gets real and vulnerable about her struggles with bouts of depression and hopelessness in relation to her perimenopausal and menopausal journey. You’ll hear Amanda discuss mental health in relation to a woman’s menopausal journey. She gives real-life strategies and helpful advice for women who need to know how and where to get help.
In this episode of the She Finds Joy podcast, learn about:
- Amanda’s personal journey through menopause.
- How can women understand what is happening to their bodies during perimenopause and menopause?
- The signs and symptoms of perimenopause.
- The mental health aspect of perimenopause and menopause.
- Helpful tips and advice for diet, lifestyle, and exercise.
- Amanda’s book, Menopocalyse, explains how she dealt with menopause symptoms and offers solutions to these problems.
“We need to remove the stigma around mental health. Mental health is an invisible disability because no one can see it, but it’s there and we should talk about it.” - Amanda Thebe
Helpful Links
- Amanda’s podcast
- Amanda’s Instagram
- Amanda’s Facebook
- Amanda’s Facebook community
- Amanda’s Twitter
- Amanda’s 12-week core program, ABS ON FIRE
- To find a menopause practitioner
- Telehealth menopause provider
About Amanda Thebe
Amanda is a highly regarded expert on women’s fitness and health. A popular guest on podcasts and online summits, she brings a refreshing humor and no-nonsense approach to subjects usually shrouded in shame. Through her frank articles, hilarious social media posts and inspirational and entertaining talks, Amanda continually inspires the loyal readers of her website, FitnChips.com.
Her exercise workouts and fitness tips have been featured in Shape, Prevention, Health Line, Global News Canada, Lifehacker, Breaking Muscle, Girls Gone Strong, and Ultimate Sandbag Training. She lives in Houston, Texas.
About Kim
Kim Strobel is Chief Happiness Officer at Kim Strobel Live Events and Retreats. She is a teacher, consultant, motivational speaker, happiness coach, and mission-minded person whose passion is helping others overcome their fears and discover their joy!
You can follow Kim’s journey on Instagram at @KimStrobelJoy and in the free private She Finds Joy Facebook community.
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Ep 41 | Jill Angie: Lessons from a Plus-Size Runner
Jill Angie of Not Your Average Runner is a certified life and running coach who wants to live in a world where everyone is free to feel fit and fabulous at any size. She started Not Your Average Runner in 2013 to help women gain confidence and self-esteem through running. She herself is a plus-size runner who helps women of all shapes and sizes start running and bust through the limiting beliefs in their head that tell them they can’t do it.
Jill paints a picture of possibility for what we can achieve in our lives. She also helps us understand why we are hesitant when it comes to trying new things, and how we can use our mindset to build our confidence. This confidence will start to spill into other areas of our lives and help us grow and succeed.
In this episode of the She Finds Joy podcast, learn about:
- Jill’s personal journey to becoming a plus-size runner.
- What drove Jill to become an athlete, instead of continuously telling herself she can’t do it.
- Why we have to be okay with trying new things and failing ourselves to success.
- How to become a happy and healthy runner.
- Solutions for how to begin running.
- Why the medal at the end of a race isn’t always the real prize—it’s more about the person you become during the process.
- Why we are so much more capable than what we tell ourselves.
“It’s not about goals. It’s about the person you become in the journey towards your goals.” - Jill Angie
Helpful Links
- Jill’s Instagram
- Jill’s FB group
- Jill’s 30 Day Running Start Plan
- Link to Jill’s Recommended Running Bra
About Jill Angie
Jill is a certified life and running coach who wants to live in a world where everyone is free to feel fit and fabulous at any size. She started Not Your Average Runner in 2013 to help women gain confidence and self-esteem through running. She is the host of the Not Your Average Runner Podcast, and the creator of the Rebel Runner Roadmap, a revolutionary 30-day class that helps women of all shapes and sizes start running.
About Kim
Kim Strobel is Chief Happiness Officer at Kim Strobel Live Events and Retreats. She is a teacher, consultant, motivational speaker, happiness coach, and mission-minded person whose passion is helping others overcome their fears and discover their joy!
You can follow Kim’s journey on Instagram at @KimStrobelJoy and in the free private She Finds Joy Facebook community.
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Ep 40 | Laura Cathcart Robbins: What it Feels Like to be the Only One in the Room
Laura Cathcart Robbins is a writer and the host of the popular podcast, The Only One In The Room. In 2018, she attended a much-anticipated famed writers’ retreat led by two powerhouse authors, Elizabeth Gilbert and Cheryl Strayed. To her dismay, she left the retreat feeling unseen and hurt by their dialogue. She was one of two black women at the retreat, making her feel alone—or like the only one in the room.
After the retreat was over, she felt inspired to write about her ‘only one’ experience in The Huffington Post. The article went viral and comments began flooding in from people from all races, ethnicities, creeds, and nationalities who had felt ‘othered’ in their lives.
This led her to go on a mission to educate others to change their perspectives on how we see, hear, and interact with one another and how to be conscientious of our differences. Laura hopes to make you think twice before judging the person standing next to you at a party, in the pick-up line at school, or in a crowded subway car.
Tune in to hear about:
- Laura’s experience at a famed writers retreat.
- The isolation of onlyness—and the antidote.
- What it feels like to be the only one in the room, and how we’ve all been the only one in the room at some point.
- How to create opportunities and cultivate your biggest gifts from your onlyness.
- The difference between visible onlyness and invisible onlyness—like addiction, divorce, infertility, or having a child with special needs.
- How to authentically tell your story and use it to initiate change.
- Social injustices and exclusivity.
“Once you understand an injustice or an exclusion, should you not then be obligated to consider how things feel for them?” Laura Cathcart Robbins, The Only One in the Room
Helpful Links
- The Only One In The Room Podcast
- Laura’s article in the Huffington Post
- Laura on Instagram
- Laura on Facebook
About Laura Cathcart Robbins
Laura is a freelance culture writer and host of the popular podcast, The Only One In The Room, living in Studio City, California. She has been active for many years as a speaker and school trustee and is credited for creating The Buckley School’s nationally recognized committee on Diversity, Equity, and Inclusion. Her recent articles in the Huffington Post on the subjects of race, recovery, and divorce have garnered her worldwide acclaim. She is a 2018 LA Moth StorySlam winner and currently sits on the advisory board for the San Diego Writer’s Festival and the Outliers HQ podcast Festival. Laura is also a founding member of Moving Forewords, the first national memoirist collective of its kind.
About Kim
Kim Strobel is Chief Happiness Officer at Kim Strobel Live Events and Retreats. She is a teacher, consultant, motivational speaker, happiness coach, and mission-minded person whose passion is helping others overcome their fears and discover their joy!
You can follow Kim’s journey on Instagram at @KimStrobelJoy and in the free private She Finds Joy Facebook community.
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Ep 39 | Lindsay Bryan-Podvin: How to Reshape Your Money Mindset
In this episode, Kim interviews Lindsay Bryan-Podvin, a licensed financial therapist. She helps people get their mind and money in balance using financial psychology.
Lindsay explains our mindsets around money and how psychology and emotions play a bigger role than we think—it’s not all budgeting and bookkeeping. Kim and Lindsay break down some of the limiting beliefs we all tend to hold about money, and dig into how they affect our ability to find peace, freedom, and happiness.
Tune in to hear Lindsay share:
- Why money is mostly emotional and psychological, and less about the strategy of bookkeeping.
- The four financial archetypes and how they shape our relationship to money.
- Why wanting and having money isn’t a bad thing!
- What things from your past could be impacting your relationship with money and your money mindset.
- What women need to know when it comes to breaking down old social constructs and systemic beliefs around money.
- The research on correlation between the amount of money you earn and your levels of happiness.
“Understanding money is more than financial literacy, although that is important. It’s deeper and has much to do with your mindset.” - Lindsay Bryan-Podvin
Helpful Links
- Website www.mindmoneybalance.com
- Instagram @mindmoneybalance
- LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/lindsaybryanpodvin/
- Podcast: www.mindmoneybalance.com/podcast1
- Lindsay’s Quiz: www.mindmoneybalance.com/quiz
About Lindsay
Lindsay Bryan-Podvin is a biracial financial therapist, speaker, podcaster, and author. As the first financial therapist in Michigan, she combines financial literacy with the emotional and psychological side of money. She's passionate about helping couples and individuals learn how to get their mind and money in balance. In addition to her clinical work, she also helps other private practice therapists cultivate a healthy relationship with money so they grow sustainable and profitable businesses!
About Kim
Kim Strobel is Chief Happiness Officer at Kim Strobel Live Events and Retreats. She is a teacher, consultant, motivational speaker, happiness coach, and mission-minded person whose passion is helping others overcome their fears and discover their joy!
You can follow Kim’s journey on Instagram at @KimStrobelJoy and in the free private She Finds Joy Facebook community.
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Ep 38 | Why Grit and Productive Struggle Lead to Growth Mindset
In today’s episode of the She Finds Joy podcast, Kim talks all about Angela Duckworth. She’s a professor of psychology at the University of Pennsylvania and in her research she has stated that it is neither talent, nor physical strength, nor intelligence that leads to outstanding achievement and success in life. The secret is grit.
Duckworth defines grit as “Passion and sustained persistence applied toward long-term achievement, with no particular concern for rewards or recognition along the way.” In this episode, Kim discusses Duckworth’s research on grit and how it can be the number one determiner of why some people fail—while others succeed—at accomplishing their goals and dreams.
Listen in to learn:
- What grit is and how you can start being grittier in life.
- How you can grow your mindset to remove limiting beliefs.
- Why you should embrace productive struggle—it’s the path to success.
- Why we must learn to do hard things.
- The five characteristics of gritty people.
- How mindsets can be changed over time.
“Grit is passion and perseverance for very long-term goals.” - Angela Duckworth, University of Pennsylvania Professor of Psychology.
Helpful Links:
- Grit: The Power of Passion and Perseverance, Angela Duckworth
- Angela Duckworth’s TED Talk on Grit. So good!
About Kim
Kim Strobel is Chief Happiness Officer at Kim Strobel Live Events and Retreats. She is a teacher, consultant, motivational speaker, happiness coach, and mission-minded person whose passion is helping others overcome their fears and discover their joy!
You can follow Kim’s journey on Instagram at @KimStrobelJoy and in the free private She Finds Joy Facebook community.
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Ep 37 | Growth Mindset vs Fixed Mindset: How They Shape Our Lives
Carol Dweck, synthesized in her remarkably insightful book, Mindset: The New Psychology of Success — an inquiry into the power of our beliefs, both conscious and unconscious, and how changing even the simplest of them can have profound impact on nearly every aspect of our lives.
Dweck reveals in her research that the “fixed mindset” is the attitude or belief that we are born with a certain skill set, aptitude, intelligence, or talent and that we can’t really do much to change or cultivate it. This keeps us from realizing our true potential because we fear failure and truly don’t believe in ourselves. A growth mindset, on the other hand, believes that through effort, perseverance, grit, and determination one can cultivate and improve many of their skills, amplitudes, and intelligence.
Mindsets begin at a very young age and they develop certain beliefs about ourselves or create internalized stories that prevent us from being uncomfortable, being willing to stretch and grow ourselves so we can truly find the hidden gems inside of ourselves and step into our bigness.
In this episode of the She Finds Joy podcast, learn:
- How a fixed mindset limits your success.
- How to foster a growth mindset to unlock your potential.
- The brain is malleable and can grow and change.
- Why you’re underestimating your ability and it’s causing “stuckness.”
- Your thoughts are the driving force of your beliefs.
- Your beliefs become your actions, and then your habits.
- Why you must embrace effort, perseverance, determination, and uncomfortableness to grow.
“The view you adopt for yourself profoundly affects the way you lead your life.” Carol Dweck, Stanford Psychology professor.
Helpful Links:
- Mindset: The New Psychology of Success, by Carol Dweck
- A Whole New Mind: Why Right Brainers Will Rule the Future, Dan Pink.
About Kim
Kim Strobel is Chief Happiness Officer at Kim Strobel Live Events and Retreats. She is a teacher, consultant, motivational speaker, happiness coach, and mission-minded person whose passion is helping others overcome their fears and discover their joy!
You can follow Kim’s journey on Instagram at @KimStrobelJoy and in the free private She Finds Joy Facebook community.
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Ep 36 | Changing Yourself By 1% Part 2
The reason you can’t create behavior change or habit change in your life has nothing to do with you or your willpower. It has to do with your system. Having a goal isn’t enough to achieve the result. And the size of your goal doesn’t correlate with the size of your results.
Instead, put your energy into building a system to support your success in your habits. You might have a system for reading each night before you go to bed. A system for when, how long, and where you exercise. Creating systems is the foundation to you implementing new behaviors and habits in your life. This is where you need to spend your energy—in the system.
In this episode of the She Finds Joy podcast, learn why:
- It’s not about goals, it’s about systems.
- The problem isn’t your willpower; it’s your system. Are you creating an environment or ritual that sets you up for success?
- Breakthroughs come suddenly after repeating a system, not all at once while chasing a goal.
- Habits act like compound interest when it comes to getting results.
- Your outcomes directly correlate with the measure of the habits that you have in your life.
- Downloading a new set of beliefs changes your next right action.
- The trick isn’t to have massive willpower; the trick is to create an environment where it’s easier to make the right choices. This is your system.
“You don’t rise to the level of your goals, you fall to the level of your systems.” James Clear, Atomic Habits
Helpful Links
- Here’s the link to Atomic Habits, by James Clear.
About Kim
Kim Strobel is Chief Happiness Officer at Kim Strobel Live Events and Retreats. She is a teacher, consultant, motivational speaker, happiness coach, and mission-minded person whose passion is helping others overcome their fears and discover their joy!
You can follow Kim’s journey on Instagram at @KimStrobelJoy and in the free private She Finds Joy Facebook community.
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Ep 35 | Changing Yourself By 1%
When it comes to change, you don’t need to take massive, gigantic action. You only need to implement tiny, 1% shifts in your life to grow yourself.
Tiny habits are the compound interest of the self-improvement world. Human beings struggle to develop and maintain habits. We do things like work out like crazy for a week or so, and then stop completely. We go on a super strict diet where we eat like rabbits only, to find ourselves engulfing a chocolate cake by the weekend. We get so overwhelmed and “go all in” that we don’t realize the power of consistency and 1% changes. If you consistently do something, even in small things, it acts as compounding interest in your life.
Tune in to hear Kim share:
- What money and compound interest have to do with your personal development goals.
- Why you are giving up on your goal too quickly and the profound power of consistency.
- How bite-sized habits work to create real change.
- Even if change isn’t noticeable, it’s creating a ripple effect that will pay off in the long-run.
“The difference a tiny improvement can make over time is astounding. Here's how the math works out: if you can get 1% better each day for one year, you'll end up thirty-seven times better by the time you're done.” - James Clear
About Kim
Kim Strobel is Chief Happiness Officer at Kim Strobel Live Events and Retreats. She is a teacher, consultant, motivational speaker, happiness coach, and mission-minded person whose passion is helping others overcome their fears and discover their joy!
You can follow Kim’s journey on Instagram at @KimStrobelJoy and in the free private She Finds Joy Facebook community.
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Ep 34 | The Value of Self-Loyalty with Nancy Jane Smith
In this episode of the She Finds Joy podcast, Kim has the distinct pleasure of talking with Nancy Jane Smith. Nancy is a Licensed Professional Counselor with thirteen years in private practice, and has spent an impressive 20-plus years working as a counselor and coach. She has written three books on living happier, most notably The Happier Approach: Be Kind to Yourself, Feel Happier and Still Accomplish Your Goals. Nancy is also a certified Myers-Briggs®, Strong Career Assessments®, and Daring Way™ Facilitator.
In this episode, Nancy explains the term “self-loyalty.” In her work, she finds that loyalty is one of her clients’ highest core values. “We know how to be loyal to our mothers, fathers, spouses, children, friends, work, organizations, etc. We can give loyalty to other people, but we struggle to give it to ourselves.”
Nancy breaks down this term and helps us understand how to practice more self-compassion while giving us strategies for dealing with our inner critic so we can begin to choose self-loyalty.
Tune in to hear Nancy share:
- How self-love and self-loyalty go hand-in-hand.
- Why the root of our problems always come back to self-loyalty.
- Why self-compassion is difficult for us.
- Strategies to change our inner critic voice.
- How to not turn your back on yourself.
“Self loyalty is not turning your back on yourself.” - Nancy Jane Smith
Helpful Links:
- Nancy’s Website
- Nancy’s LinkedIn
- The Happier Approach: Be Kind to Yourself, Feel Happier, and Still Accomplish Your Goals
About Kim
Kim Strobel is Chief Happiness Officer at Kim Strobel Live Events and Retreats. She is a teacher, consultant, motivational speaker, happiness coach, and mission-minded person whose passion is helping others overcome their fears and discover their joy!
You can follow Kim’s journey on Instagram at @KimStrobelJoy and in the free private She Finds Joy Facebook community.
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Ep 33 | Renea Fieck: Overcoming Overwhelm as a Mother
In today’s episode of the She Finds Joy podcast, Kim speaks with Renae Fieck. Renae is a shameless mom of three, an occupational therapist, and an advocate for moms who desire more grace, space, and rest within their lives. She has found strength beyond her own to navigate life’s struggles—multiple miscarriages, life with three kids, working mom life, stay-at-home mom life, and a husband suffering a brain tumor and seizures.
Renae is the founder of the Rising Moms Club. It’s a community for moms who are ready to RISE ABOVE the chaos and overwhelm of life and busy days, and trade exhaustion and the never-ending to do list for a life with more joy! She is also the host of the annual More than Mom Summit, The Great Clutter Clear Out Challenge, and the Rising Moms Podcast.
In this episode of the She Finds Joy podcast, listen to Renae share:
- Her rockbottom moment as a mother.
- How to create your mom-life with intention.
- How to keep your house somewhat clean and keep your sanity in just 15 minutes per day.
- Why shedding physical items will help you declutter your mental health and get your house back.
- Why you should say “no” to things in order to free up your calendar.
“Taking care of yourself as a mother matters.” - Renae Fieck
Helpful Links
- Connect with Renae
- Renae on IG
- Rising Moms on Facebook
- Free 5 Steps to Declutter
About Kim
Kim Strobel is Chief Happiness Officer at Kim Strobel Live Events and Retreats. She is a teacher, consultant, motivational speaker, happiness coach, and mission-minded person whose passion is helping others overcome their fears and discover their joy!
You can follow Kim’s journey on Instagram at @KimStrobelJoy and in the free private She Finds Joy Facebook community.
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Ep 32 | Using a Poison Pen Letter to Heal Hurts
When we hold on to negative energy, it saps us of our creativity, health, and well-being. We let it steal our joy. We become so wrapped up in the wrong that was done to us that we can’t enjoy the present. When we hold onto unforgiveness, it can bring bitterness and anger into our experiences and relationships with others.
“Holding onto anger is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to die.” Buddha
In this episode, Kim discusses the effects of holding onto grudges when they are, in fact, quite painful to maintain:
- Why do we keep wounds open and active, living in past experiences of pain which prevent new experiences?
- What keeps us stuck when we want to move on?
- Why we all need to write a poison pen letter to release the people who have wronged us. In the end, we can free ourselves.
Helpful Links
- Many Lives, Many Masters: The True Story of a Prominent Psychiatrist, His Young Patient, and the Past-Life Therapy That Changed Both Their Lives Paperback by Brian Weiss
- Same Soul, Many Bodies: Discover the Healing Power of Future Lives through Progression Therapy by Brian Weiss
About Kim
Kim Strobel is Chief Happiness Officer at Kim Strobel Live Events and Retreats. She is a teacher, consultant, motivational speaker, happiness coach, and a mission-minded person whose passion is helping others overcome their fears and discover their joy!
You can follow Kim’s journey on Instagram at @KimStrobelJoy and in the free private, She Finds Joy Facebook community.
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Ep 31 | My Journey to Become Anti-Racist
In this episode of the She Finds Joy podcast, Kim takes on the difficult topic of racism. This episode is different and hard, but necessary.
Kim states her core values and support for the Black Lives Matter movement. She explains a few ways we can show up for people of color and do the work that is necessary to dismantle systemic racism. Kim believes we all must stand up and protect Black lives and human rights.
This episode is an invitation to join Kim in open conversation about the state of existence in America and the reignited revolutionary action that’s taking place. America was built on enslavement and it’s up to us to make the necessary changes that will protect Black lives in communities across the country. Racism is not an individual concept, but a deeply-embedded institution of power that seeps into every corner of this country and we must acknowledge it and fight for change.
Inside This Week’s Episode
In today’s episode, Kim discusses...
- How white people benefit from a system built by and for other white people.
- The barriers that people of color have faced and continue to face every day.
- The responsibility we have to educate ourselves and be willing to see new perspectives, get new information, and rethink our beliefs.
“...Individuals might be against racism, but they still benefit from a system that privileges whites as a group.” Robin Diangelo
Helpful Links
Go download one of these audiobooks or podcasts and listen & learn:
- Me & White Supremacy: Combat Racism, Change the World, Become a Good Ancestor by Layla Saad
- I’m Still Here: Black Dignity in a World Made For Whiteness by Austin Channing Brown
- So You Want To Talk About Race by Ijeoma Oluo
- This Body Is Not An Apology by Sonya Renee Taylor
- Good Ancestor Podcast with Layla Saad
- First Name Basis Podcast with Jasmine Bradshaw
- Seeing White Podcast
About Kim
Kim Strobel is Chief Happiness Officer at Kim Strobel Live Events and Retreats. She is a teacher, consultant, motivational speaker, happiness coach, and mission-minded person whose passion is helping others overcome their fears and discover their joy!
You can follow Kim’s journey on Instagram at @KimStrobelJoy and in the free private She Finds Joy Facebook community.
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Ep 30 | Dream, Fears, & Uncomfortableness
In this episode of the She Finds Joy podcast, Kim discusses having a vision for your life and the importance of following your dreams.
Kim discusses how, as women, we need to build our confidence and begin to really listen to the part of our soul that is begging to come forth. We can all take little actions towards our dreams, even if it means we feel uncomfortable or fearful. In this episode, she explains how to stop playing the “if/when” game and two steps that will light your soul on fire. Kim adamantly believes that you must have a vision for your life, but must not tie your happiness to the results of that vision.
In today’s episode, Kim talks about…
- Why we must step into uncomfortability and walk through fear.
- How to listen to the whisper in your soul that wants your dream to come forward.
- Why we need to change the trajectory for future generations of girls and women.
- How to follow our dreams while still being happy in the now.
- How to escape mediocrity and come into our greatness.
- Two ways to achieve exceptional fulfillment.
“We must listen to the whisper of our soul and follow our dreams.” - Kim Strobel
Helpful Links
This is the Steve Harvey book, Act Like A Success Think Like a Success, which Kim mentions.
About Kim
Kim Strobel is Chief Happiness Officer at Kim Strobel Live Events and Retreats. She is a teacher, consultant, motivational speaker, happiness coach, and mission-minded person whose passion is helping others overcome their fears and discover their joy!
You can follow Kim’s journey on Instagram at @KimStrobelJoy and in the free private She Finds Joy Facebook community.
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Ep 29 | Leaning Into Emotional Disruption with Shannon Jamail
In this episode of the She Finds Joy podcast, Kim has a conversation with Shannon Jamail—the founder and creator of Mind & Body Complete. She is a best-selling author, podcast host, and therapist turned performance coach on a mission to elevate women in mind and body in order to connect, grow, and thrive.
Shannon found traditional therapy to be extremely helpful, but realized that when we treat the person from a holistic standpoint, that significant changes can happen.
In this episode, she explains that we all have emotional disruptions in our life, whether it’s at work, in our relationships, in our thinking, or a trauma we are dealing with. She also explains her three step system for making our way through our emotional disruptions that can lead to happiness and more fulfillment.
In today’s episode, Kim and Shannon talk about…
- The reasons we get triggered by others’ actions and behaviors.
- Three ways of dealing with emotional disruption and getting through it.
- Why it’s so important to feel our feelings and not ignore them or bury them deep inside.
- Strategies for using the right side of your brain to regain emotional balance and stabilize the parasynthetic nervous system.
- Why your vagus nerve is so important to your emotional states.
“...the only reason we get triggered by others is because it’s an insecurity within us…” - Shannon Jamail
Helpful Links
Check out www.mindbodycomplete.com to learn about Shannon’s retreats and coaching practice.
About Shannon
Shannon Jamial is the founder and creator of Mind & Body Complete. She is a best-selling author, podcast host, retreat leader, therapist turned performance coach and tequila connoisseur (not really but she does enjoy sipping on a good pour). Shannon has a passion and a mission to elevate women in mind and body in order to connect, grow, and thrive through her programs and intentional products. She lives on her ranch with her family in the Hill Country of Texas. Find out more about her at www.mindbodycomplete.com
She also hosts her podcast, https://mindbodycomplete.com/podcast/. You can follow her on Instagram, Facebook, or check out her book!
About Kim
Kim Strobel is Chief Happiness Officer at Kim Strobel Live Events and Retreats. She is a teacher, consultant, motivational speaker, happiness coach, and mission-minded person whose passion is helping others overcome their fears and discover their joy!
You can follow Kim’s journey on Instagram at @KimStrobelJoy and in the free private She Finds Joy Facebook community.
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Ep 28 | Building Greatness from Feelings of Unworthiness with Delia Perry
In this episode of the She Finds Joy podcast, Kim talks with Delia Perry, the host of the weekly podcast Girls 4 Greatness. Her popular podcast aims to build listeners’ personal confidence and belief in their ability to change, grow, and live the life they were truly meant to live.
In the first part of the episode, Delia shares her struggles with self-esteem and worthiness that she’s experienced throughout her life. For much of her life, she felt like the way she looked controlled everything—even her marriage. Today, Delia leads us to rediscover the greatness we have inside of ourselves and helps us bring it into the world. She walks us through how to tune into our authentic selves and find where our strengths lie.
In today’s episode, Kim and Delia talk about…
- Why Delia’s appearance became such a big part of who she is, why it carried into her marriage.
- The comparison game that destroys us from the inside out.
- Where our thought patterns come from and how to transform them.
- Why we need to take 100% responsibility for our lives.
- How to choose warriorhood over victimhood.
- How to stop self-sabotage and get back to your “real” self.
“It’s so important for women to get in touch with the little girls they were and to find those dreams again.” - Delia Perry
Helpful Links
Website
Podcast
About Delia
Delia Perry has always had a passion for motivating and encouraging others. She was thrilled to bring her strengths to her podcast, Girls 4 Greatness. On this weekly podcast, Delia interviews other women who have overcome their own struggles in order to find success and fulfillment in their life. She highlights how her guests are using their own greatness to make an impact in the world. Girls 4 Greatness exists to build confidence and belief in others ability to change, grow and live the life they were truly meant to live.
About Kim
Kim Strobel is Chief Happiness Officer at Kim Strobel Live Events and Retreats. She is a teacher, consultant, motivational speaker, happiness coach, and mission-minded person whose passion is helping others overcome their fears and discover their joy!
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Ep 27 | Finding Purpose in Your Pain with Ashlee Bruggenschmidt
In this episode of the She Finds Joy podcast, Kim has a conversation with Ashlee Bruggenschmidt, a former teacher turned principal. Ashlee also runs the Play for Kate Foundation in honor of her 11 year old daughter who tragically passed away in July of 2015 from an ATV accident.
Ashlee and Kim talk in-depth about how we can all overcome hard things and still reach for joy in our lives. Ashlee’s actions show that she continues to choose hope every day, even as she navigated some of the darkest times of her life.
In this interview, Ashlee discusses firsthand what the days following the tragedy were like for her as a mother. She also describes the social support system made up of her family, friends, and community and how this helped her heal. This support was exactly what led her to her mission and the Play for Kate Foundation, which honors her daughter through numerous acts of service. Ashlee’s story is one of courage, faith, resilience, and taking darkness and turning it into passion and purpose. She chooses HOPE each and every day.
Inside This Week’s Episode
In today’s episode, Kim and Ashlee talk about…
- Grief—what it looks like, feels like, and how it continues to show up.
- Why you need a support system to help you navigate through difficult times.
- How to take trauma and turn it into a positive mission.
- Coping strategies Ashlee found helpful during her darkest days.
“...Once I got a purpose, I could start to see the light from the darkness…” - Ashlee Bruggenschmidt
Helpful Links
Check out Play for Kate. This is the foundation that was founded to honor Ashlee’s daughter Kate and all that she embodied. Kate made such a difference in the lives of those who knew her. She was selfless, caring, energetic, and driven. The foundation built a playground in Kate's memory in Boonville, Indiana, as well as supports student scholarships. The foundation worked to pass HEA 1200—Kate's softball number was 12—into law, which dictates that all ATV riders younger than 18 must wear a helmet, both on public and private land.
About Ashlee
Ashlee is an elementary principal, President of the Play for Kate Foundation and has received many recognitions including Indiana Elementary Principal of the Year and Healthcare Hero in Evansville, IN. She’s also an activist working to ensure children’s safety and is determined to use her tragedy as a way to celebrate the life of her daughter, Kate.
About Kim
Kim Strobel is Chief Happiness Officer at Kim Strobel Live Events and Retreats. She is a teacher, consultant, motivational speaker, happiness coach, and mission-minded person whose passion is helping others overcome their fears and discover their joy!
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Ep 26 | Why Our Eating Habits are Mostly About Our Behaviors with Monica Reinagel
In this episode of the She Finds Joy podcast, Kim talks with Monica Reinagel. Monica is a talented nutritionist who teaches self-love and how to form healthy eating habits that are sustainable in the long-term.
Monica has her work cut out for her when Kim tells her about her old daily habit—eating four Hostess cupcakes before bedtime. Kim still struggles with that sugar addition. But Monica doesn’t like to call it an addiction. Instead, she shifts the focus toward strengthening mindsets, building an environment that supports goals, and creating healthy habits and a lifestyle that leads to healthy body weight without dieting. We focus too much on what we eat, rather than on how we can change our behavior and the driving forces behind our behaviors.
Monica wants to end fad diets once and for all. Remember—anything that you don’t think you can do for the rest of your life is barely worth doing in the first place.
Creating Healthy Eating Habits and Mindsets
In today’s episode, Kim and Monica talk about…
- Why people know what to do when it comes to healthy eating habits, but they can’t seem to make it happen.
- Why very little of this has to do with what you do or don’t know about nutrition.
- The science of behavior changes.
- How to create sustainable habits and outcomes.
- Letting go of black-and-white thinking when it comes to enjoying food.
“People usually know what to do when it comes to eating habits, the problem is they struggle to consistently do it.” - Monica Reinagel
Helpful Links
Website/Newsletter: Nutritionovereasy.com
Nutrition GPA App - It can help you make better food choices in a more consistent and nonperfectionist way. (NutritionGPA.com).
7-day Mindset Reset Video Series - Lose the dieter's mindset that can be counterproductive to health.
Monica has two podcasts
Nutrition Diva
Change Academy
About Monica
Monica Reinagel is a licensed nutritionist and host of the Nutrition Diva podcast. Through her online workshops and coaching programs, she helps people make positive and lasting changes in their health, nutrition, and eating habits.
About Kim
Kim Strobel is Chief Happiness Officer at Kim Strobel Live Events and Retreats. She is a teacher, consultant, motivational speaker, happiness coach, and a mission-minded person whose passion is helping others overcome their fears and discover their joy!
You can follow Kim’s journey on Instagram at @KimStrobelJoy and in the free private, She Finds Joy Facebook community.
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In this episode of the She Finds Joy podcast, Kim talks with Ticora Davis—an attorney, author, and speaker pushing culturally-relevant legal representation to black women and creatives of color. As a "purpose activator", Ticora seamlessly blends her knowledge of creative business law with her passion for pushing women to birth their dreams and achieve economic freedom.
Ticora gets personal and shares her experience of working in a toxic environment as an attorney while pregnant. She felt great stress and anxiety, and when she went back to work after giving birth to her baby boy she was told by her male boss to “stay home and get over your pregnancy brain”.
She describes her journey from desperately trying to make a living, to hearing the voice inside her encourage her that she was made for more. She talks people through their fears to pursue goals and chase after dreams. Ticora brings her spirituality front and center in both her business and her life.
In today’s episode, Kim and Ticora talk about…
Toxic work environments and the stress and anxiety that comes from them.
Stepping through fears into your mission.
The power of writing your dreams down and using affirmations to create your life.
How to push yourself to produce God’s greatness inside of you.
Unleashing your spirituality and tapping into your Higher Power.
“The power of dreaming helps pull you through “those” seasons” - Ticora Davis
Helpful Links
Check out Ticora’s book, Planted to Produce.
Kim and Ticora also talk about Big Leap by Gay Hendricks.
About Ticora
Ticora Davis is an attorney, author, and speaker pushing culturally relevant legal representation to black women and creatives of color. As a "purpose activator," Ticora seamlessly blends her knowledge of creative business law with her passion for pushing women to birth their dreams and achieve economic freedom. You can find her at www.creatorslawfirm.com or on Instagram.
About Kim
Kim Strobel is Chief Happiness Officer at Kim Strobel Live Events and Retreats. She is a teacher, consultant, motivational speaker, happiness coach, and mission-minded person whose passion is helping others overcome their fears and discover their joy!
You can follow Kim’s journey on Instagram at @KimStrobelJoy and in the free private She Finds Joy Facebook community.
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In this episode of the She Finds Joy podcast, Kim has a conversation with Leslie Tagorda, an accomplished brand astrologer who uses her skills to help women entrepreneurs find direction and inspiration in their businesses. She helps women show up as leaders and uncover hidden truths about themselves.
Ep 24 | Using Astrology to Become Visible In Your Brand with Leslie Tagorda
In today’s episode, Kim and Leslie talk about…
- The science of astrology and how to understand your natal chart.
- How our natal chart impacts various intricacies of our personalities, and how to use that knowledge to show up as a more confident leader.
- Why it’s so important to understand and embrace our unique emotional needs.
“...when you're meeting your emotional needs, you can work and be so much more productive and self-confident…” - Leslie Tagorda
Helpful Links
Check out astro.com to learn about your own natal chart.
About Leslie
Leslie Tagorda is a brand astrologer and designer. She helps women-owned businesses and nonprofits shine brightly online. She created AstroBrand framework that combines brand strategy and precise astrological insight to help businesses. She offers strategy astrology sessions for businesses.
She also hosts her podcast, The Savvy Luminary. You can follow her on Instagram or check out her website here.
About Kim
Kim Strobel is Chief Happiness Officer at Kim Strobel Live Events and Retreats. She is a teacher, consultant, motivational speaker, happiness coach, and mission-minded person whose passion is helping others overcome their fears and discover their joy!
You can follow Kim’s journey on Instagram at @KimStrobelJoy and in the free private She Finds Joy Facebook community.
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In this episode of the She Finds Joy podcast, Kim sits down for a heart to heart with Andrea Owen about self-love, breaking out of our comfort zones, and putting our own happiness and fulfillment first. Andrea is a globally-known speaker, two-time author, life coach, and totally badass mom.
In today’s episode, Kim and Andrea talk about…
- How to realize when it’s time to make a change in your life, before you ever hit “rock bottom”.
- Why we all need to take radical responsibility for our lives and our actions—it’s hard work, but it’s necessary to live the lives we want.
- How talking about the “hard stuff” can help us finally break unhealthy familial patterns, whether it be addiction or mental disorders.
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In this episode of the She Finds Joy podcast, Kim speaks with Danielle Savory. She’s a certified sex coach for women who works hard to help women everywhere discover the joys of sex. Danielle and Kim talk about what “sexy” means to us women, and how we can work to embrace our sensuality.
In today’s episode, Kim and Danielle discuss…
- How women can step into their inner sexual confidence by honoring themselves and their bodies.
- Ways you can embrace your sexuality—maybe you don’t need lace and corsets to feel sexy. Do what makes you feel sexy!
- Why your mind-body connection is crucial to your sexuality. It’s important to be in touch with the sensations that turn you on.
About Danielle
Danielle Savory is a master certified coach specializing in helping women have a better sex life. She uses her background in neuroscience and mindfulness to help women unpack what is holding them back from pleasure and how to connect more deeply with their bodies. Visit her website at Daniellesavory.com, or follow her on Instagram or add her on Facebook at Danielle Savory.
About Kim
Kim Strobel is Chief Happiness Officer at Kim Strobel Live Events and Retreats. She is a teacher, consultant, motivational speaker, happiness coach, and mission-minded person whose passion is helping others overcome their fears and discover their joy!
You can follow Kim’s journey on Instagram at @KimStrobelJoy and in the free private She Finds Joy Facebook community.
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In this episode of the She Finds Joy podcast, Kim speaks with Kelly Travis—a renowned health and success coach, athlete, business woman, and single mom! They talk about Kelly’s path to becoming a health and success coach for women (which even involved recovering from a severe eating disorder), as well as how to change our mindsets about the world and our lives.
In today’s episode, Kim and Kelly talk about…
- Why we need to give up our “good enough” attitudes about our lives. It’s important to pursue the BEST person we can be, the best marriage we can have, and the most rewarding career out there.
- Strategies you can use to visualize a better life. Ask yourself, “How do I want to feel? How do I want to feel when I wake up in the morning?”
- Why it’s important to acknowledge your feelings and accept them. Remember—we cannot have happiness without sadness.
Kelly’s top tips for letting go of “good enough”:
- Recognize when you’re unhappy—and admit it. Women often struggle to admit when they aren’t happy, but it’s an important first step to take.
- Understand that you can be grateful for what you have, but also want more from life!
- Allow yourself to dream, without any restriction, about what your ideal life looks like. And then follow that dream.
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In this special episode of the She Finds Joy podcast, Kim talks about the global coronavirus pandemic, her anxiety disorder, and methods she’s using to stay grateful and centered during this stressful time. If you’re feeling confused, scared, or overwhelmed by the COVID-19 outbreak, you’re not alone—give this episode a listen to learn how you can make the most out of this time.
In this episode, Kim talks about…
- Why she’s limiting the amount of time she watches the news each day, and how that practice has helped relieve some of her anxiety.
- How she’s practicing gratitude for the good things in her life in order to remain positive, and strategies for you to do the same.
- Why we should all use this time to take a step back from the “hamster wheel” of life and reevaluate our priorities and re-center ourselves.
- How to find the silver linings of this stressful time, like spending more time with family, reconnecting with your business goals, and taking the time to be outdoors in nature.
Are you struggling to find your own silver linings? Here are a few things you might be grateful for during this time:
- Spending time with family
- Reconnecting with your spouse/partner
- Getting outdoors for hikes and walks
- Finishing projects around the house
- Taking the dogs out for more walks and playtime
- Reading that book that’s been sitting on your nightstand
- Watching a new series on TV
- Chatting with friends and family—virtually!
About Kim
Kim Strobel is Chief Happiness Officer at Kim Strobel Live Events and Retreats. She is a teacher, consultant, motivational speaker, happiness coach, and mission-minded person whose passion is helping others overcome their fears and discover their joy!
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In today’s episode of the She Finds Joy podcast, Kim speaks with Laura Wagner about their shared experiences overcoming panic disorders, having families, and blossoming into totally badass women. Laura is a psychotherapist, life coach, fitness guru, model, writer, and speaker… basically, there’s nothing she can’t do! And she uses that attitude to help other women create extraordinary lives, too.
In this episode, Kim and Laura talk about…
- Progress versus perfection—how important it is to recognize all the things you’ve accomplished, no matter how “small” they may seem.
- Understanding that your value and self-worth are not determined by your accomplishments, and how difficult it can be to shift to that mindset.
- Laura’s emotional battle to recover from multiple miscarriages, and her current struggle with degenerative arthritis and chronic pain, and how she learned to be resilient in the face of hardship.
- You can be a badass woman and still have vulnerabilities—that’s what makes us all human.
About Laura
Laura Wagner is a licensed psychotherapist, life coach, and fitness professional—essentially
a personal development blonde bombshell—on a mission to inspire and teach women how
to empower their minds and bodies, and create an extraordinary life. Whether she’s working with her 1:1 clients, teaching online courses, or coaching people to move their bodies and blow their minds through group exercise and personal training, Laura brings her vibrant energy and contagious motivation anywhere she lands in life. She is also a writer and speaker; and, at the age 46, was “discovered” and signed as a fashion model for a regional talent agency—once again proving her proclamation that “it’s never too late; you’re never too old, and nothing is ever too good to be true.”
Follow Laura on Facebook or Instagram, or go check out her website at www.Laura-Wagner.com.
About Kim
Kim Strobel is Chief Happiness Officer at Kim Strobel Live Events and Retreats. She is a teacher, consultant, motivational speaker, happiness coach, and mission-minded person whose passion is helping others overcome their fears and discover their joy!
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In this episode of the She Finds Joy podcast, Kim sits down to talk with Maggie Reyes about how couples can develop thriving relationships. Maggie is a Life Coach and Marriage Mentor who helps couples build the most nurturing and loving relationships possible.
In this episode, Kim and Maggie talk about…
- The importance of actively building your life and pursuing the things you want—you either happen to life, or life happens to you.
- Why we need to set goals and choose priorities. Your goal may be happiness, or a better marriage, or owning your own business, but no matter what it is, you have to work for it.
- How crucial it is to form a partnership in your marriage. You’re in this life together, after all!
Maggie’s top tips for improving your marriage:
- Understand that you need to actively decide to make your marriage better. It’s not going to happen on it’s own.
- Know that you deserve a five-star, luxurious marriage that fills you with joy.
- Develop a deep friendship with your partner—it’s the core of every thriving, loving relationship.
- Realize that there are three legs to every marriage: partnership, perspective, and pleasure.
- Practice playfulness in your marriage! There’s no reason to take everything too seriously.
About Maggie
Maggie Reyes is a Life Coach and Marriage Mentor who specializes in helping driven, ambitious women create the marriages of their dreams. Her playful and practical approach to love and marriage takes the principles of cognitive psychology and luxury hospitality and uses them to teach her clients the most effective ways to break destructive patterns and develop the mindsets and habits that make relationships thrive. Maggie lives in Miami with her husband, Mariano, whom she met on Christmas Day. If you want to learn how to stop doing the things that poison the love in a relationship and start doing the things that make love stronger, you can find the tools to start becoming your best loving self at MaggieReyes.com.
About Kim
Kim Strobel is Chief Happiness Officer at Kim Strobel Live Events and Retreats. She is a teacher, consultant, motivational speaker, happiness coach, and mission-minded person whose passion is helping others overcome their fears and discover their joy!
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In this episode of the She Finds Joy podcast, Kim speaks with Katie Hornor—blog coach, teacher, businesswoman, and prolific author of an impressive collection of books. Katie talks about how she was inspired to start her homeschooling business in Mexico and the many struggles she went through to get to where she is as a business owner today.
In today’s episode, Kim and Katie talk about…
- Why it’s so important to pursue your dream and your message, even when people discourage you or you feel as though you’re not “qualified” enough.
- How Katie continued to go after her dreams, even when setbacks and roadblocks seemed never-ending.
- You don’t always need to be a people-pleaser—sometimes it’s more important to stand up for yourself and your beliefs.
- Perfection isn’t everything. Sometimes, it’s more important to just start, wherever that may be.
About Katie
Katie Hornor of handprintlegacy.com transforms Christian women with a message into queenly business owners so they can get their message out, grow their income, and make a bigger legacy impact on the world. She's been an expat in Mexico for 12+ years, a business coach for six, and is also leading the homeschool movement in the Spanish-speaking world. Katie's newest book, Faith Like Flamingos: The Christian Business Guide to Walking Out Your Faith in Bold Color is out this spring, encouraging business owners everywhere to embrace their uniqueness, their faith, and their unique purpose in the marketplace.
Follow Katie on Instagram at @KatieHornor, or on Facebook at KatieHornorVisionary. Her website is Katiehornor.com, and she even has an amazing podcast, For Your Success, which you can listen to at KatieHornor.com/podcast.
About Kim
Kim Strobel is Chief Happiness Officer at Kim Strobel Live Events and Retreats. She is a teacher, consultant, motivational speaker, happiness coach, and mission-minded person whose passion is helping others overcome their fears and discover their joy!
You can follow Kim’s journey on Instagram at @KimStrobelJoy and in the free private She Finds Joy Facebook community.
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In this episode of the She Finds Joy podcast, Kim Strobel discusses tools we can use to retrain our brains with positive beliefs. Our beliefs drive everything in our lives: what we think we’re capable of, how much value we think we can command, and even how we show up for ourselves and others. Developing a growth mindset is key to overcoming negative beliefs.
In today’s episode, Kim talks about…
- How your belief system drives your perceptions of the world and how you experience life.
- The way that self-doubt undermines our abilities—you totally have the skills to open that business you’ve always dreamed of!
- How you can quit sabotaging yourself with negative thoughts and peel back the golden nuggets within yourself.
- The way that affirmations can help you realize your full potential.
Kim’s top tips for positive affirmations:
- Your words are powerful—choose your words carefully, especially the words you use when you talk to yourself.
- Don’t let other peoples’ opinions of you change your opinion about yourself.
- Select the people you spend your time and energy on carefully. You should never waste your time on people who don’t want to help you celebrate your wins and triumphs.
- Write your affirmations every day. They help to retrain your brain to believe that those big dreams of yours are really, truly, possible.
About Kim
Kim Strobel is Chief Happiness Officer at Kim Strobel Live Events and Retreats. She is a teacher, consultant, motivational speaker, happiness coach, and mission-minded person whose passion is helping others overcome their fears and discover their joy!
You can follow Kim’s journey on Instagram at @KimStrobelJoy and in the free private She Finds Joy Facebook community.
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In this episode of the She Finds Joy podcast, Kim Strobel talks fear, and how our fears are often the reason we do not pursue our dreams. Before she tore down the walls created by fear, Kim struggled to move out of her comfort zone. Today, she explains how you can face your own fears and start living your life to the fullest.
In today’s episode, Kim talks about...
- Life’s many fears and how they prevent many of us from taking action and showing up for the things that matter the most to us.
- How it’s totally normal to feel fearful, but we can’t let it control our lives.
- Kim’s experiences with her panic disorder and the very hard work she needed to put in to overcome it and shine brighter than ever before.
- The importance of putting your own well being first, no matter how scary it might be.
Kim’s top tips to face your fears:
- Lean into productive struggles—you will need to go through difficult situations in order to grow as a person, and that’s alright.
- Understand that you have a right to ask for what you need, whether it’s in your marriage, your friends, or even from your hairdresser. Never make yourself smaller to please others.
- Know that it is always worth it to try—and fail—rather than never try at all.
About Kim
Kim Strobel is Chief Happiness Officer at Kim Strobel Live Events and Retreats. She is a teacher, consultant, motivational speaker, happiness coach, and mission-minded person whose passion is helping others overcome their fears and discover their joy!
You can follow Kim’s journey on Instagram at @KimStrobelJoy and in the free private She Finds Joy Facebook community.
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In this episode of the She Finds Joy Podcast, Kim and Sara tackle the subject of infertility and the heavy weight it puts on the shoulders of hopeful parents and goal-driven women. Sara Dean is a renowned podcaster, entrepreneur, advocate for women, and a mother.
In this episode, Kim and Sara talk extensively about...
- How having children (and not having more children) has impacted the trajectory of their careers.
- When Sara managed her own business and had a newborn baby at the same time and how she made time for what mattered most to her.
- The ways that coping with infertility affected Sara, and how she rediscovered herself and her passion after the birth of her son.
- The wonderful yet stressful parts of motherhood, and why we all need to take moments to appreciate the little things (like taking the kids to soccer practice!)
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In this episode of the She Finds Joy podcast, life coach and life-long entrepreneur Brenda Florida talks about how her relationship with money—and herself—has evolved over the years. She tackles the heavy topic of money and wealth, and why so many women don’t feel worthy of the money they’ve worked so hard to earn.
In today’s episode, Kim and Brenda talk about…
- How Brenda became more comfortable with money—as well as how to be more financially responsible.
- Why women need to incorporate self-affirmation in their everyday lives.
- What “imposter syndrome” really is (and how to know when you’re experiencing it).
Brenda’s Top Tips to Reclaim Your Power
- Call yourself out! If you realize that you’re suddenly questioning yourself and your abilities, you’re probably experiencing imposter syndrome. It’s important to identify and break this cycle before it spirals.
- Never be afraid or ashamed to talk about your accomplishments, career highlights, and other exciting things happening in your life.
- Break the habit of assuming that you’re “doing something wrong” when things don’t always go perfectly in your life. That’s just how life works—it has nothing to do with you.
You can follow Kim’s journey on Instagram at @KimStrobelJoy and in the free private, She Finds Joy Facebook community at kimstrobel.com/shefindsjoy. And don’t forget to like, share, and subscribe to the podcast!
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In this episode of the She Finds Joy podcast, Kim gets real about why we say yes to things we don’t want to do, why we need to stop doing that so much and what happens when we start saying yes to ourselves.
If you find you’re saying yes to all the things, missing out on what matters to you and feeling all the feelings when your needs aren’t being met, this episode will help you break that pattern and start putting yourself first more often.
In this episode, Kim takes on…
Reasons moms say yes when they would rather say no
Why reluctant yeses are a self-love issue
How increasing your happiness level can shift your life and how saying no can help do that
How to decide when to say yes and when to say no
Top Tips from Kim:
Sometimes saying yes to things we don’t want to do is about the kind of person that we are. We all want to be helpful and do the right thing. Doing the right thing also includes taking care of ourselves and making sure we don’t get depleted. That’s our responsibility too. You need to evaluate the cost of your “yes” and know when you say “yes” to something, you’re saying “no” to something or someone else (and often as moms that’s ourselves and our own happiness.) You need to move yourself up your own priority list and start seeing your own value. You’ll be glad you did!
You can follow Kim’s journey on Instagram at @KimStrobelJoy and in the free private, She Finds Joy Facebook community at kimstrobel.com/shefindsjoy. And don’t forget to like, share, and subscribe to the podcast!
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In this episode, Kim and Colene are talking about…
- Ways that women downplay their own abilities and achievements (and why we need to stop!)
- How Colene carved a path as a successful HR professional as a black woman in corporate America
- Why it’s so important to practice forgiveness rather than let anger and bitterness consume us—and why sometimes forgiveness is not a one-time process
“I think it's okay to feel hurt and pain and not want to forgive someone. I don't think that there has to be this blanket apology and forgiveness that you spread out across the world. But I do think you have to reign it in because if not, it's easy to let that snowball and all of a sudden you're walking around angry and mad and overwhelmed because you're holding on to all of this, all of this that's not meant for you to hold onto.”
- Colene Elridge
Colene’s Best Advice for Forgiving Ourselves and Others
- We don’t need to forgive everyone all at once—it’s a process, and it’s perfectly okay to not be ready to forgive someone. However, try not to actively dislike more than three people at one time.
- Sometimes, certain things will trigger us and we will need to go through the forgiveness process again. When you choose to forgive someone again, you are growing and progressing as a person.
- We need to allow ourselves to feel the gross, unappealing feelings that go hand-in-hand forgiveness process.
Links
Monday Morning Pep Talks by Colene Elridge
About Kim
Kim Strobel is Chief Happiness Officer at Kim Strobel Live Events and Retreats. She is a teacher, consultant, motivational speaker, happiness coach, and mission-minded person whose passion is helping others overcome their fears and discover their joy!
You can follow Kim’s journey on Instagram at @KimStrobelJoy and in the free private She Finds Joy Facebook community at https://www.facebook.com/groups/SheFindsJoy/.
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In this episode of the She Finds Joy podcast, Kim is taking on a topic near and dear to her heart: embracing the truth that we are all allowed to cultivate our own paths.
If you’ve been struggling with the social pressure to be a certain way that doesn’t feel authentic to your path, this episode will help you overcome those influences and be true to yourself.
In this episode, Kim chats about…
- Why your enthusiasm should be celebrated, not suppressed
- How you can leverage the labels others put on you to find your strengths
- The negative patterns our own insecurities create in us
Kim’s Top Tips
- The only way we get better is by demanding that we get better.
- You – and only you – are the one who gets to decide whether you allow the labels others give you to stick.
- The more we embrace the person we truly are inside, the more we see the hidden jewels she offers.
Links
You Are Special by Max Lucado
About Kim
Kim Strobel is Chief Happiness Officer at Kim Strobel Live Events and Retreats. She is a teacher, consultant, motivational speaker, happiness coach, and mission-minded person whose passion is helping others overcome their fears and discover their joy!
You can follow Kim’s journey on Instagram at @KimStrobelJoy and in the free private She Finds Joy Facebook community at https://www.facebook.com/groups/SheFindsJoy/.
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In this episode of the She Finds Joy podcast, Kim sits down with Felecia Hatcher – White House Award winning entrepreneur, total badass business rainmaker, and the bestselling author of Start Your Business on a Ramen Noodle Budget.
In this episode, Kim and Felecia are taking on…
- The question adults commonly ask children that shuts down their ability to get creative with their opportunities
- The tough lessons Felecia learned early in her entrepreneurial career that helped set her up for success as a leadership speaker
- Why it’s so important to act on the ideas, inspiration, and intuitions you receive
Top Tips from Kim and Felecia
- Give yourself permission to chase after the things you’re passionate about.
- If you can’t be number one or two in a niche, build your own niche.
- When you see an answer to a social problem and can’t answer the question “if not me, who else can do this?” – that’s your moment of obligation to bring that solution to fruition.
About Felecia
Felecia Hatcher is a White House Award winning entrepreneur, badass business rainmaker, bestselling author of Start your Business on a Ramen Noodle Budget, globally sought-after speaker, media darling, mother, and Founder of Tribe CoWork and Urban Innovation Lab,Code Fever and BlackTechWeek. She is also the rather awesome former Chief Popsicle at Feverish Pops, a gourmet ice pop boutique and manufacturing brand with a Fortune 500 client roster that would make your head spin prior to becoming an entrepreneur Felecia was a marketing executive working for big brands like Nintendo, Sony, Wells Fargo, Mckee Foods and the NBA.
You can connect with Felecia at her website, www.feleciahatcher.com, as well as on Facebook, Instagram, and YouTube. Her awesome program, No Introduction Required, is all about helping people speak their way to coins, power, influence, and their passion; the No Introduction Required community can be found on Facebook at https://www.facebook.com/groups/NOINTRODUCTIONREQUIRED/.
About Kim
Kim Strobel is Chief Happiness Officer at Kim Strobel Live Events and Retreats. She is a teacher, consultant, motivational speaker, happiness coach, and mission-minded person whose passion is helping others overcome their fears and discover their joy!
You can follow Kim’s journey on Instagram at @KimStrobelJoy and in the free private She Finds Joy Facebook community at https://www.facebook.com/groups/SheFindsJoy/.
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In this episode of the She Finds Joy podcast, Kim sits down with Radiah Rhodes to dive into the power of Being and stepping into our intention and well-being.
If you’ve ever wondered how it is that you do everything that’s expected of you but still find yourself on the wrong side of your own life, this episode will help you let go of the lie that we can ‘achieve’ our way out of pain.
In this episode, Kim and Radiah chat about…
- How achievement becomes an addiction that leads to false expectations
- The two energies that make up your intention (and how they impact where you are on the intention scale)
- Why taking pride in ‘striving’ is actually keeping you trapped (and what you can do to move above it)
- How developing an offensive approach to boundaries can help you avoid sacrificing what’s most important
- Where to start to move out of suffering and toward healing and elevated intention
Radiah’s 3-Step System To Help You Elevate Your Intentions And Create More Space In Your Life
- Authenticity: Be authentic and truthful with yourself about where you are on the intention scale as you define where you want to be.
- Alignment: Bring your most valuable resources into alignment with what you’ve authentically defined for yourself.
- Authority: Be willing to show up with commitment to become the person you authentically know yourself to be in the way you’ve aligned your life.
About Radiah
Radiah Rhodes is a visionary, entrepreneur, designer, engineer, and coach. After two decades of experience leading small businesses and Fortune 100 companies in the beauty and information technology industries, Radiah became known for her strategic insights, impeccable design aesthetic, and natural ability to connect, lead, and get results. She has led and coached many executives and organizations to deliver exceptional business results and launched a strong portfolio of multi-million dollar products and services around the globe.
Most recently Radiah authored the book, Being is the New Doing: A Divine Guide to Owning
Your Energy, Time and Peace of Mind. She also launched a collection of brands and products designed to transform and expand your intention and well-being.
As an entrepreneur, corporate leader, wife, and Shameless Mom to two amazing and active children, Radiah knows what it takes to be extraordinary in life and leadership. She trains clients on how to tap into and leverage their intention as the fuel and fire to create any desired outcome with ease and authenticity.
You can connect with Radiah at her website, www.evoklife.com, in her free Facebook group, The Evok Experience, or by email at radiah@evoklife.com.
About Kim
Kim Strobel is Chief Happiness Officer at Kim Strobel Live Events and Retreats. She is a teacher, consultant, motivational speaker, happiness coach, and mission-minded person whose passion is helping others overcome their fears and discover their joy!
Follow Kim’s journey on Instagram at @KimStrobelJoy and in the free private She Finds Joy Facebook community at https://www.facebook.com/groups/SheFindsJoy/.
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In this episode of the She Finds Joy podcast, Kim dives into how we can manifest and co-create in our lives.
This episode will show you how you can effectively implement manifestation to help you break negative patterns and create a higher vibrational frequency in your life.
In this episode, Kim chats about…
- The biggest misconception most people have about manifestation
- Why some people leap to the worst case scenario while others filter information differently
- How your stories and conditioning are keeping you trapped in unhealthy patterns
- The simple step you can take today to start creating the life you really want
Kim’s Top Tips
- As you become cognizant of how you use your thoughts, you can start creating space between your thoughts.
- If you’re going to make it through your feelings, you have to be able to feel them – that’s the only way to come out the other side.
- When you raise the vibrational frequency of your body and your thoughts, you’ll start to attract better things in your life.
Links
You can follow Kim’s journey on Instagram at @KimStrobelJoy and in the free private She Finds Joy Facebook community at https://www.facebook.com/groups/SheFindsJoy/.
About Kim
Kim Strobel is Chief Happiness Officer at Kim Strobel Live Events and Retreats. She is a teacher, consultant, motivational speaker, happiness coach, and mission-minded person whose passion is helping others overcome their fears and discover their joy!
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In this episode of the She Finds Joy podcast, Kim sits down with Susan Hyatt, a master certified life and business coach whose mission is helping women get more of whatever they crave.
If you’ve been wondering how to raise the ceiling on what is possible in your life, this episode will help you create that capacity for change.
In this episode, Kim and Susan are taking on…
- Why we tell ourselves we “just need more willpower” (take this simple step instead to create the energetic space to get more done)
- The surprising effects of adding more pleasure and fun to your life (chances are you've been spending way too much time and money chasing these)
- How your brain is wired to sabotage your dieting efforts (and what you can change to rewire it)
- Three simple things you can start doing today to free up mental capacity to show up in your life in all the ways you really want to be showing up
Kim’s Top Tips
- Every time you say yes to something you don’t want to do, you’re saying no to something you really want to do.
- Complimenting our children on their resourcefulness, creativity, perseverance, and how they handle a challenge teaches them to value growth.
- Learn to love ourselves and put ourselves first opens the doors for exponential change in all the other areas of our lives.
Links
You can find Susan’s podcasts and their Facebook groups here:
The Bare Podcast
Rich Coach Club
Susan also has a paid membership group called Bare Daily, as well as masterminds where she mentors female entrepreneurs and helps them make more money. Learn more and connect with Susan at her website: https://shyatt.com/.
You can follow Kim’s journey on Instagram at @KimStrobelJoy and in the free private She Finds Joy Facebook community at https://www.facebook.com/groups/SheFindsJoy/.
About Kim
Kim Strobel is Chief Happiness Officer at Kim Strobel Live Events and Retreats. She is a teacher, consultant, motivational speaker, happiness coach, and mission-minded person whose passion is helping others overcome their fears and discover their joy!
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In this episode of the She Finds Joy podcast, Kim is giving you permission… to stop asking for permission!
The most successful people have one thing in common: they don’t ask for permission. Instead, they take action.
So as you reviewing your personal goals as we near the end of the year, it’s time to change your mindset around asking for permission for the things you want to achieve in life.
In this episode, Kim chats about…
- What you’re really telling yourself and others when you ask for permission
- How to bring stakeholders into the conversation without giving up your power
- Why women have been trained for generations to ask permission
- Who in your life gets to have an opinion on what you want to do with your life
Kim’s Top Tips
- Make the switch from “can we…” to stating your point.
- Be kind enough to have the difficult conversations and get your partner’s input, but be sure to initiate those discussions by stating very clearly what it is that you want.
- Love yourself enough to make the shift so you’re not acting out of an ‘asking for permission’ mentality.
Links
You can follow Kim’s journey on Instagram at @KimStrobelJoy and in the free private She Finds Joy Facebook community at https://www.facebook.com/groups/SheFindsJoy/.
About Kim
Kim Strobel is Chief Happiness Officer at Kim Strobel Live Events and Retreats. She is a teacher, consultant, motivational speaker, happiness coach, and mission-minded person whose passion is helping others overcome their fears and discover their joy!
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In this episode of the She Finds Joy podcast, Kim is talking about how you can start to make magic happen in your life!
If you’ve been wondering whether it’s possible to find and reignite the powerful, purposeful individual inside you (even though you may be going through struggles and adversity), tune in to this episode to learn about how you can move become a super attractor and start to manifest amazing things in your life.
In this episode, Kim chats about…
- Her journey to creating her business as a motivational speaker
- The relationship between your beliefs and your reality
- The thing you’re probably doing that’s keeping you in struggle and away from becoming who you’re meant to be
Kim’s Top Tips
- Start calling yourself the thing you are becoming – you have the ability to create that vision in your life.
- Embrace who you really are – give yourself permission to go after your big dreams.
- Share your wins – when we let our light shine, we give everyone else permission to do the same!
Links
You can follow Kim’s journey on Instagram at @KimStrobelJoy and in the free private She Finds Joy Facebook community at https://www.facebook.com/groups/SheFindsJoy/.
About Kim
Kim Strobel is Chief Happiness Officer at Kim Strobel Live Events and Retreats. She is a teacher, consultant, motivational speaker, happiness coach, and mission-minded person whose passion is helping others overcome their fears and discover their joy!
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In this episode of the She Finds Joy podcast, Kim is taking on how to break the perfectionist cycle and learn to value ourselves.
If you’ve ever felt guilty for needing to take time out from your family responsibilities to take care of yourself, consider this episode your reminder from the Universe that your needs matter.
In this episode, Kim is chatting about…
- Why changing roles and expectations of women are causing us to feel lost from ourselves
- How we can start putting out the right energy so the world can give us value back
- Why putting yourself first is actually the least selfish thing you can do
Kim’s Top Tips
- The most important thing you can model for your children is loving yourself enough to take care of yourself.
- Schedule at least one hour of daily “me time.”
- Remember that you matter – outside of motherhood, your marriage, your career – and your wellbeing and your happiness should be a priority.
Links
You can follow Kim’s journey on Instagram at @KimStrobelJoy and in the free private She Finds Joy Facebook community at https://www.facebook.com/groups/SheFindsJoy/.
About Kim
Kim Strobel is for the joy-seekers. The go-getters. And the real, messy women who want so much MORE from their lives. As a nationally-recognized speaker & happiness coach, Kim is all about empowering others to live bigger, bolder, bravery lives.
When she’s not rescuing dogs or drinking lavender tea, Kim’s contagious, high-energy style has the unique ability to embolden her audiences. Motivational, inspirational, and always approachable, Kim’s “real talk” attitude is a refreshing approach that authentically connects with hearts & humans everywhere.
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Have you ever wondered why, in an age of abundance, we’re actually less happy than we were 50 years ago? In this episode of the She Finds Joy podcast, Kim is busting the myths and lies we’ve been told about what brings us happiness, so we can move past the myths and start inviting greater levels of happiness into our lives.
In this episode, Kim chats about…
- How being told to “just be positive” is counterproductive to becoming happy
- Why “if only” statements are a moving target
- How to stop the hedonic adaptation cycle and start focusing on things that create a measurable boost in happiness levels
- Why happy people are the most successful – NOT the other way around
Kim’s Top Tips
- Start incorporating happiness habits in your life.
- Learn to find your happy in the Now.
Links
You can follow Kim’s journey on Instagram at @KimStrobelJoy and in the free private She Finds Joy Facebook community at
About Kim
Kim Strobel is for the joy-seekers. The go-getters. And the real, messy women who want so much MORE from their lives. As a nationally-recognized speaker & happiness coach, Kim is all about empowering others to live bigger, bolder, bravery lives.
When she’s not rescuing dogs or drinking lavender tea, Kim’s contagious, high-energy style has the unique ability to embolden her audiences. Motivational, inspirational, and always approachable, Kim’s “real talk” attitude is a refreshing approach that authentically connects with hearts & humans everywhere.
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In this episode of the She Finds Joy podcast, Kim is taking on the idea that being “happy” is something only people without problems can experience.
If you’ve ever felt it was impossible for you to find joy in your life while you’re dealing with struggles, suffering, darkness, or pain, this episode will help you work through that limiting belief so you can stop letting it rob you of your happiness.
In this episode, Kim chats about…
-Her lifelong struggle with panic disorder
-The moment of clarity that finally inspired her to reach out for help
-How comparative suffering keeps us trapped
-Why it’s important to embrace all of the parts of who we are
Kim’s Top Tips
-Brain science shows that only 10% of your long-term happiness comes from your external circumstances – don’t let external circumstances steal more than 10% of your joy.
-Research shows that every human being has the ability to increase their happiness levels by up to 40%. That means we can go through hard things and still raise our happiness levels and live a more joyful life!
Links
Connect with other joy seekers just like you in the free private She Finds Joy Facebook community at www.kimstrobel.com/shefindsjoy. You can follow Kim’s journey on Instagram at @KimStrobelJoy.
And don’t forget to like, share, and subscribe to the podcast!
About Kim
Kim Strobel is Chief Happiness Officer at Kim Strobel Live Events and Retreats. She is a teacher, consultant, motivational speaker, happiness coach, and mission-minded person whose passion is helping others overcome their fears and discover their joy!
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Welcome to the She Finds Joy podcast! This mini episode will give you a quick introduction to what this podcast is all about.
On today’s episode, host and happiness coach Kim Strobel provides the background and context behind the She Finds Joy podcast. She describes her journey to helping women to create more joy in their lives… and why she’s passionate about sharing the lessons she’s learned along the way. Here are some of the awesome things you’ll hear in this episode:
- The overlooked factor that traps us in a life where we’re surviving instead of thriving
- What’s holding you back from reclaiming our space, joy, relationships, and dreams
- The power of stepping into our whole selves (in spite of our flaws and mistakes)
Are you ready to regain the deep sense of connection you’re yearning for? Check out this mini episode to find out how this podcast can help you discover the courage to be who you really are… without the fear of failure that’s been keeping you from finding more joy.
Start here…
Connect with other joy seekers just like you in the free private She Finds Joy Facebook community at www.kimstrobel.com/shefindsjoy.
And don’t forget to like, share, and subscribe to the podcast!
About Kim
Kim Strobel is for the joy-seekers. The go-getters. And the real, messy women who want so much MORE from their lives. As a nationally-recognized speaker & happiness coach, Kim is all about empowering others to live bigger, bolder, bravery lives.
When she’s not rescuing dogs or drinking lavender tea, Kim’s contagious, high-energy style has the unique ability to embolden her audiences. Motivational, inspirational, and always approachable, Kim’s “real talk” attitude is a refreshing approach that authentically connects with hearts & humans everywhere.
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