Heartdrops with Suess: Recent Episodes
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Have you met couples who are so different from each other? Are you one of them? Is being different from your partner such a bad thing, or can it help your relationship be better?
It's our second year anniversary today. Whew! The past two years feel like 2 months and 2 decades at the same time.
On this episode, we spoke about how we met (my version is the correct one), what our relationship has been like and how we got back together after we broke up 5 years ago.
This episode is low-key chaotic because my roommate is a hoodlum as you will soon find out.
Marriage is an incredible journey, and we are grateful to experience its joys and challenges firsthand. In this episode, we discuss some unexpected aspects of marriage and how we navigated those initially murky waters.
This episode is a must-listen for anyone planning to tie the knot. If you're preparing for your upcoming wedding, this conversation provides valuable insights to help you and your future spouse embark on the beautiful journey ahead.
Tune in to our podcast on any of the streaming platforms, and be sure to share it with everyone in your circle. Discuss it with your partners and friends, and we welcome your feedback on our Instagram page (@heartdropswithsuess).
Let's keep the conversation going and support one another in building strong and fulfilling relationships.
Long time no solo episode ๐๐ฝ๐๐ฝ
I know I canโt be the only one who believed some of these myths and even projected them. Thank Jesus for wisdom. Which of these myths did you believe? Which ones were new to you?
Have you seen the Netflix series? Yes? No? Not to worry, we dey for you. Join us on this special episode as we discuss our favourite characters and the relationships in The Queen Charlotte series. It is definitely worth a listen.
Meanwhile, NEPA and my neighbours almost frustrated me on the day we recorded, but I prevailed.
From sibling squabbles to genotypes and relationship values, Dami and I share our experiences in our past and current relationships. Listen on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts or your browser.
From lack of confidence to body odors, we shared our thoughts on church boys and why they no longer "enter our eye". Spiritual fervency is great but women have other needs. Listen and be blessed ๐
It looks like love is hard to find in churches of all places. I asked Yinka why most 'church boys' would rather date baddies than church girls. What seems to be the missing ingredient?ย
If you find it hard to make friends or you think you need to be a better friend, this episode is for you. On this episode, Justina and I talk about friendship shots that have backfired and how hidden resentments can ruin beautiful friendships.
We've heard so much about red flags and how to run miles away from them. Let's talk about green flags; signs that your relationship is healthy and loving. What were those things that made you realize your partner was "the one"?
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This episode is an attempt to explain the break in transmission. I also tried to gist you guys about my Christmas and birthday "plans", New Year's resolutions and other random stuff. Enjoy..ย
"A true friend accepts who you are, but also helps you become who you should be" Can you honestly say you've been a good friend, or that you have good friends?
Answer the important questions in this episode to find out.
Have you experienced a cycle of bad break-ups? Or do you have that one friend who seems unlucky when it comes to love and romance? Having gone through my fair share of heartbreaks, l have listed a couple of reasons why I saw shege in my early twenties. Hopefully, you'd learn from my mistakes and won't repeat them.ย
In this episode, Faith and I discuss salient issues such as when to choose love over ego/pride in order to maintain peace in our relationship, and how conflicts can make our relationships better.
In this episode, Jae and I discuss our thoughts on Anikulapo as well as important relationships in the movie. Whether you're team Arolake, team Saro, or totally indifferent I think you'd love this episode. ๐
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In this episode, Ore and I share some stories about our marital journey. if you're currently in a relationship or getting ready to tie the knot, here are a few things to note before you say "I do". We wish we knew these things sooner, but God dey. ๐คง๐๐
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What is better than 1 story time? 2 story times! Habibi, travel with me to Dubai ๐๐พ๐๐พ
In this episode, I share highlights from my recent Zanzibar honeymoon trip. I tried to give as many details as possible so you could imagine and travel with me. I've been told that I'm a good storyteller sha ๐๐ This one is for all my wanderlust geng members, I'm sure you will enjoy this episode.
This episode was inspired by my wedding anniversary. It feels surreal to be celebrating this milestone in a couple of days. I shared stories of my journey from singlehood to married life and how I "prepared" for marriage. It's been a wonderful journey so far, and I hope you enjoy listening to this episode.
In this episode, Tomi and I tried to answer hard questions like, "Should rape survivors or underage girls be allowed to terminate pregnancies?" "Should there be legal punishments for the male partner of a woman who unlawfully terminates a pregnancy and many more.
Are there behaviors or traits that are affecting your relationship? Do you keep repeating cycles in different relationships? Is it you or is it them? It's time to do some introspection and answer some questions.
In this episode, I ask cogent questions to test our reasons for wanting relationships. Are you seeking a significant other who will complete you or make you feel less lonely? Whatever your reason is, answer the questions honestly and to the best of your ability.
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Which relationship is more important to you? Your friendship or your dating relationship? Do you value your partner more than your friends or vice versa?
Listen on Spotify, Anchor, Apple Podcasts or Google Podcasts.ย
Many say there's a thin line between love and obsession. In this episode I share my thoughts on love versus obsession in relationships and signs should you look out for.
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In this episode, I share my thoughts on the different ways we can feel safe and secure in our relationships. Put your relationship to the litmus test today. Is your relationship safe and supportive or do you need to make changes?
In this episode, we address stereotypes that are common in present-day relationships. We answered questions like, "Who cheats more? What women bring to the table and many more. Which of them do you agree or disagree with?
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Breakups don't have to be sad and heart-wrenching, but what happens when that is the case? How do you recover and find ways to live your best life regardless?
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Welcome back guyzzzzzz!! I missed you so much and I'm glad we're back. I'm super excited about this new season and I hope you are too. To set this season in motion, I'd be answering some questions so you all get to know me a little better. Thanks to everyone who used the link, I hope I answered to your satisfaction. Enjoy ๐๐
It's the last episode of the Abuse Awareness series but this is probably my favorite one so far.
In this episode, I share my thoughts on abusive actions and behaviors that potentially destroy our own happiness.
Are you guilty of any of them?
Have you ever been in an abusive friendship? How could you tell?
Are you an abusive friend? What are the signs to look out for and how do you move forward in that type of situation?
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In this episode, I featured Darrel, a sex and relationship therapist and we shared our thoughts on domestic violence and itโs prevalence in our culture. What is domestic violence and what are some signs we ought to look out for.
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April is Child Abuse Prevention and Sexual Assault Awareness Month. In this episode, I share pointers to child abuse and how we as a society can prevent it.ย
This episode is based on the Netflix series Young, Famous and African. We talked about the characters and then focused on Annie Idibia, how she was portrayed and lessons we learned from her being on the show.
Have you heard the saying, โnever waste a good opportunity to learn from a bad bossโ? What could you possibly learn from an unhealthy work environment? Find out on this weekโs episode.
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On this episode, I share 3 pointers to insecurities and a few tips on how to unpack emotional baggage from previous relationships.
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Have you seen the popular Netflix drama series? What are your thoughts? In a society that celebrates colorful and expensive lifestyles, how does one stay happy and content within their current means?
On this episode, we share our thoughts on romance frauds and how prevalent it is in our society. We also gave pointers on how to avoid the Simon Levievs of this world.
On this episode, I share my thoughts on singleness and the undue pressure for people to be in relationships. In a society that praises relationship goals, it can be hard to be single but I have some tips on how to take the pressure off yourself.
If you are single, this episode is definitely for you, and if you're not, please share with your single friends.
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On this special episode, I tried to answer a few Valentine's Day questions. However you spent your day yesterday, there's something here for you.ย ๐ Listen on Spotify, Apple podcasts, Google podcasts or your browser.
On today's episode, we address simple transactions gone terribly wrong between vendors and customers. We would also listen to a customer's side of the story as well as a vendor's.
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On this episode, we answered two important questions when it comes to third-party interference in relationships. Would you tell your friend that their partner is cheating? Would you stop being friends with someone if your partner asks you to.
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Breakups are inevitable and sometimes it sucks to start from scratch. But what if your new relationship could be better, wayyy better than the last?
It's true that no relationship is perfect, but it is also true that you could sabotage a potentially great relationship or stay in an unnecessary one.
Listen on Anchor, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts or your browser.ย
New year, new me and other nursery rhymes. How was your 2021? can 2022 be better? What do you need to stop doing or start doing differently? Listen as I share my thoughts on how to make 2022 a truly amazing year! Welcome back to your favorite relationship podcast guys! Happy New Year everyone.
Ladies and gentlemen of great taste in podcasts, I welcome you to the final episode of the year on Heartdrops with Suess. Wow!
What has your 2021 journey been like? Hope you enjoyed the highs and found the strength you needed in the lows.
This week, we take a peek into my journey as I share 3 words that sum up my 2021 experience. I enjoyed recording this and I hope you enjoy listening as always.
Out on all platforms now. Listen on Anchor, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Google Podcast, Podopolo or your browser. Gracias.
Today's episode focuses on Phlegmatic and Sanguine temperaments. Now that you understand yourself and your behavioral patterns, how about others? Your lover, friends, parents and colleagues? How do you relate with the different temperaments in your life? How can you communicate better and balance their strengths and weaknesses? Listen on Anchor, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, Podopolo or your browser.
Now that you understand yourself and your behavioral patterns, how about others? Your lover, friends, parents and colleagues? How do you relate with the different temperaments in your life? How can you communicate better and balance their strengths and weaknesses? This episode focuses on Choleric and Melancholic temperaments. Listen on Anchor, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, Podopolo or your browser.
What are temperaments and how important are they in relationships? Why do we act the way we do? Is it possible to change one's temperament or personality? This episode will help you answer important questions about you and your loved ones and how to balance strengths and weaknesses.
To flee or not to flee? Do you have the greener pasture syndrome? Is "abroad" the solution to our problem? Listen as we share our thoughts on migration and its pros and cons.
Is jealousy necessary in love and romance? Should there be boundaries in relationships? What are the signs that you are a jealous partner?ย
Are all bodies truly beautiful? Is it bad to want to change your appearance? Listen to our positions on body shaming towards men and women.
If "love don't cost a thing", why should I pay bride price? What is the difference between bride price and dowry? What is the purpose and significance of bride price in Nigerian culture? Listen to our thoughts and perspectives on this popular topic of debate. Please listen, share and give feedback. Thank youuuuuu.
On today's episode, we answered a few questions, reacted to some comments and told our heartbreak stories. We hope they help with whatever stage of heartbreak you're dealing with.
Most of us are familiar with heartache and the anxiety that comes with it. But what do we do with those feelings and more importantly, how can we move on from heartbreaks in relationships, friendships and situationships.
Standards are a must and expectations are normal, but it is possible to sabotage a potentially great relationship.
Bullying doesn't always happen within our school walls. Some times, it's in our homes and among our friends. How do we handle emotional and verbal bullies in our close relationships?
โHad it been I knowโ and other short stories. What are some of those signs you missed in your previous relationships?
Does age really matter in relationships? What are your thoughts on women dating/marrying younger men and men dating/marrying older women?
The ever juicy conversation at any table. Listen to opinions and arguments from your friends on whether they think you should date their exes or not. ๐๐
You love your friends, so why do they have to be so annoying?! Here are a few tips on how to manage the inevitable conflicts that happen in friendship.
On this episode, I shared my thoughts on five frequently asked questions on Relationships. I hope you find answers that resonate with you.
In this episode, we answered 5 questions on Relationships. We hope you find the answers you were looking for.
Get a peek into the โmysteriousโ world of women. Listen as we discuss some of the things that can make your woman truly happy. ๐
Can men truly be satisfied? How do they want to be loved and treated by their significant others. Hereโs a manโs perspective..
Did you have a complicated relationship your father when you were younger? Does your love/hate for your father influence your relationships? Come sip tea with me..
If you are wondering whether to remain friends with your ex, take back an ex or if you are stuck on them, here are a few questions you should answer honestly.
What are your thoughts on in-laws? A terrible idea, a necessary evil or additional allies?
Are your bad habits affecting the people you care about? Does it matter if your partner or a love interest has vices? Will it be a problem in your relationship?
Should lovers live together before they get married? Does it foster intimacy or ruin privacy?
Are you single by choice or circumstance? Are you tired of your friends neglecting or frustrating you? We gather dey.
Why do people cheat? Have you been cheated on? What is the way forward after cheating has occurred in a relationship?
Petty reasons you wouldn't date someone vs valid boundaries that should not be crossed.
"After all I've done for you" and other sad songs. Should relationships be transactional and what happens when such relationships come to an inevitable end?
Another sex for grades episode? Tertiary institutions have barely resumed activities but this lecturer allegedly made time for his extra-curricular activities. Meanwhile Bobrisky's "leaking ass" is being dragged on the streets of Instagram.
What was your Valentine's Day experience? Were you a participant or a spectator? Is Valentine's Day even necessary?
The circumstances surrounding the kidnap and murder of the Enugu based makeup artist. Was it really about a boyfriend? Where does the story go from here?
What do you think about money in a relationship? Why is there a margin? What do you think about joints accounts?
Whether you want to have children or not, what are your reasons? Many parents are so abusive or absent from their children's lives, you wonder why they even bothered.
Body Positivity vs. Profanity. Different reactions to the videos on the latest Twitter trend.
Unrealistic expectations for life and love as handed down by down by our favorite animations movies.
If you could put yourself up for sale, what features would you advertise? Where does you self worth come from?.
Do you have prefered features you'd like in a partner? Should you influence your partner to change certain things about them?
In light of recent events, here's a message to our dear friends who aren't having a great time being alive. It truly does get better and you'd be happy you stayed. To their friends and families, find out how you can help.