Listen, learn and talk - that's our route to ending family violence in our communities.
Each year, starting 30 August, 1000s of runners and walkers from around the globe come together in teams of up to 20 people to participate in the Run Against Violence Virtual Team Challenge. The teams race each other online for 19 days, covering a route of 1300km. This podcast captures the very personal stories of the event participants. These stories inspire us all to be better people and play our role in the prevention of family violence.
The party is over. Now that the Run Against Violence Virtual Team Challenge has finished for another year, we look back and reflect on the 2022 challenge and remember why it’s important to continue shining a light on domestic and family violence in our communities.
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The first Run Against Violence Virtual Team Challenge was held in 2017. 5 years on, we speak with 3 of our original Team Captains, Margie, Ben and Belinda about why they are still passionately involved with the Run Against Violence and how conversations in their community have changed over that time.
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The Katherine Women’s Legal Service (KWILS) is a not-for-profit community legal centre based in Katherine in the Northern Territory that provides free legal services in the Katherine region. In fact, they cover an area the size of Victoria & Tasmania combined!
Siobhan Mackay is the CEO of KWILS and has a unique insight into the challenges faced by domestic and family violence victims, and the support services available to them, in remote and regional communities (and our First Nations and Indigenous women in particular).
Also in this episode, you'll meet Belinda from the Dead Ringers in our Team Spotlight.
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Run Against Violence partners with the National Association for Prevention of Child Abuse and Neglect (NAPCAN) to help ensure that every teenager in Australia has the opportunity to learn about what healthy relationships look like for them. Over the last 2 years, the RAV has donated $200,000 to NAPCAN to enhance and expand its Love Bites program (and 100% of funds raised in 2022 will be donated too).
Madelene McGrath is the National Stakeholder Manager and NAPCAN and Dr Brenda Dobia is an Adjunct Fellow, with the School of Education at the Western Sydney University and has worked with NAPCAN for many years to adapt, expand and develop Love Bites. Today they join us to talk about Love Bites, including how the money raised by RAV has and will be used to expand and enhance the program.
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The co-founders of Run Against Violence, Kirrily Dear and Brad Smithers, return today to lift the lid and take you behind the scenes of the Run Against Violence. Together they share the financial report for the 2020 - 2021 Financial Year.
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How do we change our way of life, one conversation at a time? Today we’re joined by two women - Kathy Kelly and Jane Caro - who have, in their own ways, played a pivotal role in changing the culture in our community in different ways.
Kathy Kelly is mum to Thomas and Stuart Kelly and in 2012 received that phone call every parent dreads. Thomas had been killed after an unprovoked and fatal attack at Sydney's Kings Cross. Four years later their younger son, Stuart, took his own life. Both boys were 18 years old. After Thomas was killed, Kathy and her husband Ralph began speaking started speaking about their experience, which gathered community support leading to widespread changes around alcohol-fuelled violence.
Jane Caro is a Walkley Award winning columnist, author, broadcaster, documentary maker, feminist and social commentator. She shares her views on how the language and stories we share need to change if we are to see an end to domestic and family violence in our community.
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Pat Farmer is a multiple world record holder for endurance running. He has run the length of India and Vietnam, through the Middle East, across Australia, around Australia and across America a couple of times. And, wait for it, from the North Pole to the South Pole.
In this episode, he helps us celebrate the start of the 2022 Run Against Violence today. Pat shares his advice on how to achieve your goal for the Challenge and what to focus on when times get tough.
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The theme of this year’s RAV Virtual Challenge is today’s conversation is tomorrow’s way of life. But how do the conversations we have today shape our community and our lives? We explore this question in this episode. You’ll hear from:
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Sue and Lloyd Clarke became passionate and vocal advocates for the criminalisation of coercive control after their daughter Hannah and Hannah’s 3 children Aaliyah, Laianah and Trey were murdered by Hannah’s estranged husband in February 2020 in a case that shocked and galvanised the nation.
Hannah had been a victim of coercive control for many years. Coercive control is a phrase we all recognise but many of us don’t understand what it is.
In this episode, Sue and Lloyd explain what coercive control is and Hannah’s experience of it, as well as the status of the laws around the country and the work they now do via the foundation they established, called Small Steps 4 Hannah, to end family and domestic violence in Australia.
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Do conversations have the power to create real change to our way of life? Are they the key to ending domestic and family violence within our community? In this special episode, Jen Brown, the host of the 2022 RAV podcast shares her thoughts and reflects on what she’s learnt from the Run Against Violence community about the power of conversations.
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How do we create real change in our community around family and domestic violence? That’s what we explore in this episode of the Run Against Violence where you’ll meet the dynamic duo of Robyn Harmon and David Harmon. Robyn is a school teacher, Assistant Principal and facilitator of the Love Bites program that Run Against Violence proudly supports. David has led the charge via the Rotary Club in Ballina to change the culture around family and domestic violence in their local community.
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The 2022 Run Against Violence Virtual Challenge is fast approaching. So in this episode, we explore how to not only survive but thrive during the challenge with our guests; run coach Lyndal Maloney from Serotonin Running, busy mum and business owner Tara Edwards and the Silver category age record holder, Judith Dear who is a spritely 79 years of age.
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If you or someone close to you is experiencing family violence, please talk to someone. You can call 1800 RESPECT (Australia only) if you would like to talk to a professional service or if there is an immediate threat to safety call the police on Triple Zero (000) (Australia only).
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In April 2022, Sandy Suckling set out to run 1,100km from Broken Hill to Melbourne to raise funds for and awareness of the Run Against Violence. In this episode, Sandy shares her experience of escaping from family violence, what she’s learnt about the power of conversation and why she describes running as therapy.
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So registrations for the 2022 Run Against Violence Virtual Challenge are open and pouring in. Teams are being registered. People are looking for teams and teams are looking for people. So let’s chat to 3 people about how they rally the troops. In this episode, you’ll meet Sammy Bruderer, Mark Grima and Natalie Bartolo and hear as they share their experience with the Virtual Challenge, how they find and organise their teams and how they keep themselves and their teams connected and motivated during the challenge.
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You can support the efforts of Run Against Violence by donating at https://www.runagainstviolence.com/donate
If you or someone close to you is experiencing family violence, please talk to someone. You can call 1800 RESPECT (Australia only) if you would like to talk to a professional service or if there is an immediate threat to safety call the police on Triple Zero (000) (Australia only).
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Welcome to the first episode of the Run Against Violence for 2022. In this episode, you’ll hear from Run Against Violence co-founders Kirrily Dear and Brad Smithers. In 2014, Kirrily set out to run 860km over 12 days through regional New South Wales. Kirrily and Brad share how that run changed the course of their lives.
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If you or someone close to you is experiencing family violence, please talk to someone. You can call 1800 RESPECT (Australia only) if you would like to talk to a professional service or if there is an immediate threat to safety call the police on Triple Zero (000) (Australia only).
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The party that was the 2021 Run Against Violence Virtual Team Challenge is over. Now the crowds have left, the Aussie Runner Podcast team pulls up a chair with RAV co-founders Kirrily Dear & Brad Smithers, and chat about all that happened during this year’s event.
During the 19 days of the event, RAV participants walked and ran the equivalent of 11.4 times around the Earth. But by far the most powerful steps taken were those that progressed our collective learning on how to prevent family violence.
We hand over to everyone’s favourite sideline commentator, David Attrill for the final word. He shares his musings on the event as he puts the bins out and closes the doors for this year.
See you in 2022!
If you or someone close to you is experiencing family violence, please talk to someone. You can call 1800 RESPECT (Australia only) if you would like to talk to a professional service or if there is an immediate threat to safety call the police on Triple Zero (000) (Australia only).
A massive thanks to Damo and Jez from the Aussie Runner Podcast (https://aussierunnerpodcast.libsyn.com/) who are donating their time and expertise to make this possible.
You can support the efforts of Run Against Violence by donating at https://www.runagainstviolence.com/donate
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Welcome to the finish line episode for the 2021 Run Against Violence Virtual Team Challenge.
There are some very strong stereotypes and myths that are informing people’s opinions on family violence in indigenous communities.
RAV co-founder Kirrily Dear and Indigenous community worker, mediator, and educator Melissa Stubbings continue their conversation to clear away the stereotypes as to why Aboriginal women and children continue to be over-represented in family violence statistics.
While many of us feel physically and emotionally far removed from the problems in our indigenous communities, there are simple steps we can all take that will vastly improve the outcomes for Aboriginal women and children. You may be surprised that many of those steps can be fun, enjoyable, and enlightening.
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If you or someone close to you is experiencing family violence, please talk to someone. You can call 1800 RESPECT (Australia only) if you would like to talk to a professional service or if there is an immediate threat to safety call the police on Triple Zero (000) (Australia only).
A massive thanks to Damo and Jez from the Aussie Runner Podcast (https://aussierunnerpodcast.libsyn.com/) who are donating their time and expertise to make this possible.
You can support the efforts of Run Against Violence by donating at https://www.runagainstviolence.com/donate
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Fifty percent of children in out-of-home care in Australia are Aboriginal. Aboriginal women are 35 times more likely to experience intimate partner violence than non-Aboriginal women.
Ask a non-Aboriginal Australian why family violence rates are so high in Indigenous communities, and you’ll hear comments like…
This 2-part series is a frank and honest chat between two women. RAV co-founder Kirrily Dear talks with Indigenous community worker, mediator, and educator Melissa Stubbings, to peel back the layers of complexity that are keeping Aboriginal women and children trapped at the bottom rung of family violence.
While this conversation ranges over terrain that is uncomfortable and confronting for all Australians, ultimately, it's message is one of hope, celebration, and new directions.
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If you or someone close to you is experiencing family violence, please talk to someone. You can call 1800 RESPECT (Australia only) if you would like to talk to a professional service or if there is an immediate threat to safety call the police on Triple Zero (000) (Australia only).
A massive thanks to Damo and Jez from the Aussie Runner Podcast (https://aussierunnerpodcast.libsyn.com/) who are donating their time and expertise to make this possible.
You can support the efforts of Run Against Violence by donating at https://www.runagainstviolence.com/donate
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In 2014, Travis Ireland decided he wanted to run a marathon. Giving himself a 12-month preparation, Travis went in search of a training program that would keep him motivated and on track for the whole year. When he couldn’t find a solution, Travis developed his own and invited 50 friends to join him for a virtual run around Australia.
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If you or someone close to you is experiencing family violence please talk to someone. You can call 1800 RESPECT (Australia only) if you would like to talk to a professional service or if there is an immediate threat to safety call the police on Triple Zero (000) (Australia only).
A massive thanks to Damo and Jez from the Aussie Runner Podcast (https://aussierunnerpodcast.libsyn.com/) who are donating their time and expertise to make this possible.
You can support the efforts of Run Against Violence by donating at https://www.runagainstviolence.com/donate
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The dots only ever connect looking backward. It was a long period after leaving her abusive ex-husband and seeking counselling that Anna was finally able to confidently name what she had lived through. Gaslighting is a subtle and insidious form of emotional abuse that can leave the victim believing they are worthless and going insane.
Occasionally Anna would chat with girlfriends about things that were happening in her relationship. The responses of those friends, and what Anna learned one day in a high school workshop, set Anna on her path to freedom.
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If you or someone close to you is experiencing family violence please talk to someone. You can call 1800 RESPECT (Australia only) if you would like to talk to a professional service or if there is an immediate threat to safety call the police on Triple Zero (000) (Australia only).
A massive thanks to Damo and Jez from the Aussie Runner Podcast (https://aussierunnerpodcast.libsyn.com/) who are donating their time and expertise to make this possible.
You can support the efforts of Run Against Violence by donating at https://www.runagainstviolence.com/donate
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Matt is a lawyer practicing in the field of child protection and adoption law.
In this episode, Matt gives us the behind-the-scenes view of the extreme highs and lows of his chosen path. We learn about the processes within our court system that are designed to protect children and Matt shares the stories of the families he assists.
“One of the messages that I would like to share today is a story of resilience. There certainly are children and families who have faced a lot of suffering, because of family violence. But coming from that are stories of children who have learned to overcome and families who have put measures in place to get themselves out of that cycle.”
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If you or someone close to you is experiencing family violence please talk to someone. You can call 1800 RESPECT (Australia only) if you would like to talk to a professional service or if there is an immediate threat to safety call the police on Triple Zero (000) (Australia only).
A massive thanks to Damo and Jez from the Aussie Runner Podcast (https://aussierunnerpodcast.libsyn.com/) who are donating their time and expertise to make this possible.
You can support the efforts of Run Against Violence by donating at https://www.runagainstviolence.com/donate
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Margie Lewis has dedicated her professional and personal life to helping others within her community.
In this interview, Margie helps us all be that bit braver and explores the realities of life for children who live within family violence.
Children exposed to violence will often exhibit challenging behaviours and become labeled with psychological disorders, or criminal records, that can define their path for life.
“Labels are for jars, not for people. [These children] are given a diagnosis but the diagnosis is situational. In another situation, that child wouldn’t have that diagnosis.
Some kids will retreat but others will go on to [use violence] and end up in the juvenile justice system.
The role Love Bites and RAV can play is to cut through that cycle and teach these kids what healthy relationships look like.”
If you or someone close to you is experiencing family violence please talk to someone. You can call 1800 RESPECT (Australia only) if you would like to talk to a professional service or if there is an immediate threat to safety call the police on Triple Zero (000) (Australia only).
A massive thanks to Damo and Jez from the Aussie Runner Podcast (https://aussierunnerpodcast.libsyn.com/) who are donating their time and expertise to make this possible.
You can support the efforts of Run Against Violence by donating at https://www.runagainstviolence.com/donate
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Pat Farmer drops in to give you a pep talk.
Meet the students and supporters at Redeemer Lutheran College and learn why they are participating in this year's Run Against Violence.
Our sideline commentator, David Attrill provides a recap of the antics and achievements from Day 1 of RAV 2021.
Feel like you’re running with a wetsuit on? Rachel Stanley peels back the layers of why it’s happening and what to do about it.
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Kylie Brown is one of the instigators of Run Against Violence in Port Macquarie, NSW. Kylie confesses that it’s not her ‘love’ for running that brings her back to the RAV Challenge each year, it’s the power of the conversation that unfolds.
Shortly after marrying at 25 years old, Kylie and her husband took custody of Kylie’s three stepsisters and raised them as their own.
Kylie’s crazy large heart, her love for her family and community, is a guiding light to us all.
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If you or someone close to you is experiencing family violence please talk to someone. You can call 1800 RESPECT (Australia only) if you would like to talk to a professional service or if there is an immediate threat to safety call the police on Triple Zero (000) (Australia only).
A massive thanks to Damo and Jez from the Aussie Runner Podcast (https://aussierunnerpodcast.libsyn.com/) who are donating their time and expertise to make this possible.
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· Meet Team Twisted Sisters and the sisterhood that has grown from taking steps together
· Countering a common belief, Rachel Stanley answers the question; “Are humans born to run?”
· “You’ll never end family violence”, RAV co-founder Kirrily Dear shares how together we will all achieve what other people believe is impossible.
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In 2017, Dani was interstate visiting a friend when she received a phone call from the police. Six detectives had arrived at her house that morning and arrested her controlling, abusive ex-husband.
In this episode, Dani publicly shares her story for the first time. She details her life before that day, her shock and bewilderment of what she learned from the police and her steps since to recover her physical, mental and emotional health.
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If you or someone close to you is experiencing family violence please talk to someone. You can call 1800 RESPECT (Australia only) if you would like to talk to a professional service or if there is an immediate threat to safety call the police on Triple Zero (000) (Australia only).
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Australian Olympic marathoner, Ellie Pashley gives a shout out to all the RAVers
Dani shares personal story so we can learn how to be better friends and a stronger community for people who have experienced violence
David Attrill, RAV’s finish line commentator from 2019 and 2020 is back to rev you up for the Challenge ahead
Sophie introduces Team Finish What You Started, a veteran team of the RAV Virtual Challenge who have managed to live up to their name each year.
RAV Co-Founder Kirrily Dear answers the burning question on everyone’s lips – Why Broken Hill to Sydney?
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Belinda Seaman spied a Facebook advertisement for the inaugural 2017 Run Against Violence Virtual Team Challenge, bounced the idea around her running group and days later had two teams of 10 ready to participate.
“We put some articles in the local paper and contacted the radio station to let people know what we were doing.
As a result of that, I had friends that I had known for years, stop and chat and tell me their stories.
These were people that you never would have guessed in a million years that they had been through what they had been through.”
Within a short time, Belinda’s love for running had shattered the silence in her South Australian community.
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Dean Karnazes drops in to wish you the greatest success as you take on the RAV Challenge
Belinda Seaman takes steps to prevent family violence in Mt Gambier
The Red Hot Chilli Stepper Moles team take you on a tour of their backyard
Resident physio Rachel Stanley answers the question “Is running once a week enough?”
Co-founder Kirrily Dear shares WHY they started Run Against Violence
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Run Against Violence co-founders, Brad Smithers and Kirrily Dear woke up at around 4:30 am on a stinking-hot November morning in the town of Manila, NSW. Their simple plan for the day was to run an ‘easy marathon’ into Tamworth and attend the White Ribbon Cup football match. But those simple plans were about to change the course of their lives forever.
Thanks to Damo and Jez from the Aussie Runner Podcast for donating their time and expertise to be the hosts and producers for the RAV Podcast.
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In this episode:
RAV Co-founders, Brad Smithers and Kirrily Dear share the moment they "woke up" to the problem of family violence in Australia
The history of the RAV Virtual Team Challenge and how it is ripping down social barriers
What's ahead for the RAV Podcast
Team Spotlight - Meet Tammy, the Team Captain of Not Fast, Just Furious
Fit Tip by our resident Physio Rachel Stanley - Are You Too Fit or Too Old to Run?
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