Jeremy Indika Podcast: Recent Episodes
Jeremy Indika
I hope you are finding my work engaging. To see more - https://jeremyindika.com
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For those that missed the LIVE Q&A and catch up last week, I’ve recorded it and released it as a podcast episode. It went really well, we talked about the latest updates, a couple of things about my personal life and some new announcements on future plans.
I will be doing more of these so we can all get together in the live environment and chat.
My links
Website: https://jeremyindika.com
Podcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcast
Something to Say: https://somethingtosayofficial.com
To support
Merchandise: https://somethingtosayofficial.com
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Has the government gone mad? They intend to pass new guidance which includes the following,
• NO MORE education on sexual harassment to be taught before ages 11 (even though these children spend their life online)
• NO MORE discussion on sex before the age of 13 (even though some will have already done it and/or be watching hours of it on pornography sites)
So, we’re now leaving young people to navigate these situations on their own, instead of educating and empowering them to make informed and safe decisions?
What is this madness?!
Links mentioned in the podcast:
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The Conversation Article written Dr.Sophie King-Hill on how damaging the new draft will be if made statutory: https://theconversation.com/proposed-sex-education-guidance-in-england-goes-against-evidence-and-may-well-lead-to-harm-207248?
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National Organization fo the Treatment of Sexual Abuse (NOTA) article by Dr.Sophie King-Hill and Professor Kieran McCartan on the dangers of the new draft guidance: https://www.notaprevention.co.uk/2024/05/16/relationships-sex-and-health-education-policy-for-schools-will-inhibit-preventative-and-early-intervention-work-for-child-sexual-abuse-and-harmful-sexual-behaviour/
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The new draft RSHE Guidance and consultation (where you can contribute evidence): Rhttps://consult.education.gov.uk/rshe-team/review-of-the-rshe-statutory-guidance/
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Porn access in children and young people: Growing up with pornography: https://www.childrenscommissioner.gov.uk/blog/growing-up-with-pornography-advice-for-parents-and-schools/#:%7E:text=The%20CCo%20survey%20finds%3A,self%2Desteem%20as%20young%20adults.
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Ofsted Report in sexual harassment in schools: https://www.gov.uk/government/publications/review-of-sexual-abuse-in-schools-and-colleges
Dr. Sophie King-Hill bio and links
Sophie is an Associate Professor in the Health Services Management Centre at the University of Birmingham. She specialises in sexual behaviours and first point assessment in children and young people, sexual health, controversial issues and teenage parents. Sophie has an interest in policy implementation, transfer and success frameworks and evaluation strategies. Sophie leads a many projects that seek to understand what constitutes sexual behaviours – both online and offline – in young people.
Profile Link: https://www.birmingham.ac.uk/schools/social-policy/departments/health-services-management-centre/staff/profile?ReferenceId=170453
X: https://x.com/DrSophieKH
Instagram: @DrSophieKingHill
TikTok: @DrSophieKingHill
Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dr-sophie-king-hill-2659b651/
Professor Kieran McCartan bio and links
Bio: Professor Kieran McCartan is a professor of Criminology at the University of the West of England, Bristol. He specializes in the research and policy related to the prevention of sexual abuse and the treatment as well as risk management of people convicted of it. Professor McCartan is the deputy chair of NOTA, the chair of the board of trustees of Circles South West as well as a board member of the Risk Management Authority, Scotland. He advises the Council of Europe and the European Commission on policies and practices related to the prevention of child sexual abuse.
Profile Link: https://people.uwe.ac.uk/Person/KieranMccartan
X: https://x.com/ProfKMcCartan
Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kieran-mccartan-45b89813/
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How can I get people out of their head and into their heart? Many are still confused at why a child wouldn’t say something at the time. Or why they never showed us any signs.
I think people are forgetting what it used to be like, to be a child, and the puzzle I’m trying to solve is, how can I change that?
I’m developing a few ideas and I’ve revealed them on this to see what you think.
My aim is to get people saying ‘ahh now I understand it’.
Below are my links
Website: https://jeremyindika.com
Podcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcast
Something to Say: https://somethingtosayofficial.com
To support
Merchandise: https://somethingtosayofficial.com
Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/SomethingtoSay
Donate: https://jeremyindika.com/donate/
Social media
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeremyindika/
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LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeremy-indika-31673573/
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@JeremyIndika
Podcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcast
Something to Say links
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/somethingtosayofficial/
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You may think I’m crazy for doing this after what happened on Instagram with this question last week, but after the comments section got heated with people attacking each other, I decided that I want to give my thoughts.
Because I want everybody to remember, we are all on the same team here and to be fighting amongst ourselves is the least productive way forward.
And also, nothing ever got solved without a conversation to exchange ideas first. So let’s do that.
Below are my links
Website: https://jeremyindika.com
Podcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcast
Something to Say: https://somethingtosayofficial.com
To support
Merchandise: https://somethingtosayofficial.com
Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/SomethingtoSay
Donate: https://jeremyindika.com/donate/
Social media
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LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeremy-indika-31673573/
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@JeremyIndika
Podcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcast
Something to Say links
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/somethingtosayofficial/
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As we dive a little deeper into the process that the police go through, we can start to see more.
• Fighting against criminals who withhold all information.
• Searching for evidence, sometimes from decades ago.
• Interviewing children whose memory is not always linear.
Can you imagine trying to do this job?
That is why I’ve brought Detective Chief Superintendent, Martin Maclean, who spent 30 years in roles such as Head of Child Abuse Investigation onto my podcast to help us understand more - because I know that we’re angry, but there are reasons why it’s the way it is.
To all the police officers that do this job, thank you.
Martin's bio
Detective Chief Superintendent Martin MacLean LLB completed many roles in his 30 years of policing including, Head of the Public Protection Unit, responsible for the investigation of recent and non-recent rape & serious sexual crime against children & adults and also, Head of the National Child Abuse Investigation Unit, responsible for tackling Online Child Sexual Abuse & Exploitation.
Useful links
Stop It Now Helpline
The Stop It Now helpline provides confidential advice to anyone with concerns about child sexual abuse, including anyone struggling with their own or a loved one’s sexual thoughts, feelings and behaviours towards children: https://www.stopitnow.org.uk/helpline/
Stop It Now! Get Help
This provides information and support for people who are concerned about their online viewing of sexual images of children or people who have not looked at sexual images of children, but have an urge to do so: https://www.stopitnow.org.uk/concerned-about-your-own-thoughts-or-behaviour/concerned-about-use-of-the-internet/self-help/understanding-the-behaviour/
Parents Protect
The Parents Protect website has information and advice for all adults on how to protect children from sexual abuse and exploitation: https://www.parentsprotect.co.uk/
Shore
Launched in 2023, Shore is a website designed especially for young people concerned about their own or someone else’s sexual thoughts and behaviour: https://shorespace.org.uk/
Below are my links
Website: https://jeremyindika.com
Podcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcast
Something to Say: https://somethingtosayofficial.com
To support
Merchandise: https://somethingtosayofficial.com
Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/SomethingtoSay
Donate: https://jeremyindika.com/donate/
Social media
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeremyindika/
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LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeremy-indika-31673573/
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@JeremyIndika
Podcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcast
Something to Say links
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/somethingtosayofficial/
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Can you guess what the three situations below have in common?
1. On a tablet watching YouTube
2. Playing the Xbox on live
3. In a WhatsApp group
The answer is…we are not there.
So, if something pops up, like a message from someone suggesting something sexual, or a link that’s about something they like, but when you click, it goes to something else - maybe for something sexual - we are not there to intervene.
And with thes online, being part of our culturespace being, we need to move with the times and figure out the best ways to handle this.
That’s why I’ve brought Richard Pomfrett onto my podcast, who speaks to parents, teenagers and children on this topic and has valuable advice to give us.
Richard Pomfrett information
Since 2013 Richard’s passion for his work as pushed him to continually evolve and shape ‘Stay Safe! Workshops’ to fit the needs of young people today. It is through these specialised and unique sessions, that they aim to educate as many young people as possible. Raising awareness and passing on vital skills and knowledge at key stages in their development and helping prevent them from becoming part of the future dire statistics.
To find Richard Pomfrett
Website: https://thestaysafeinitiative.org.uk
Twitter: https://twitter.com/StaySafeCIC
Instagram : https://www.instagram.com/thestaysafeinitiative/
Facebook : https://www.facebook.com/thestaysafeinitiative/
LinkedIn : https://www.linkedin.com/in/richard-pomfrett-230b63189/
My links
Website: https://jeremyindika.com
Podcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcast
Something to Say: https://somethingtosayofficial.com
To support
Merchandise: https://somethingtosayofficial.com
Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/SomethingtoSay
Donate: https://jeremyindika.com/donate/
Social media
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeremyindika/
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LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeremy-indika-31673573/
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@JeremyIndika
Podcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcast
Something to Say links
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/somethingtosayofficial/
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LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/something-to-say1
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The pain this mother feels must be excruciating. But to see her explain what happened so bravely, so that we can understand what to look out for in our own families is a gift, given to us by her.
Thank you for doing this Nancy. We all appreciate it greatly.
To watch this on my YouTube channel - https://youtu.be/rQrcyrUPn_s
To subscribe to the Something to Say YouTube channel - https://www.youtube.com/@SomethingtoSayofficial
Below are my links
Website: https://jeremyindika.com
Podcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcast
Something to Say: https://somethingtosayofficial.com
To support
Merchandise: https://somethingtosayofficial.com
Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/SomethingtoSay
Donate: https://jeremyindika.com/donate/
Social media
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeremyindika/
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LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeremy-indika-31673573/
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@JeremyIndika
Podcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcast
Something to Say social media
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/somethingtosayofficial/
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I know I push the boundaries on certain conversations and I’m worried that it’s making schools stay away from me, even though they know it’s strictly storytelling when I visit them.
I’m caught in the middle here.
My links
Website: https://jeremyindika.com
Podcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcast
Something to Say: https://somethingtosayofficial.com
To support
Merchandise: https://somethingtosayofficial.com
Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/SomethingtoSay
Donate: https://jeremyindika.com/donate/
Social media
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeremyindika/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jeremyindika1
Twitter: https://twitter.com/jeremyindika
Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@jeremyindika
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeremy-indika-31673573/
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@JeremyIndika
Podcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcast
Something to Say links
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/somethingtosayofficial/
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LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/something-to-say1
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Before anyone says anything about guns, this discussion is about getting to these men before they commit any crime.
Shooting them can only happen once the crime has been committed and by then we’re too late.
I’ve interviewed an organisation on my podcast who work on the internet to encourage these men to come forward to work with them and I think we can all agree, if one child is saved using their methods then that is job done.
They are seeing great results.
Christoffer Rahm’s Research Group is at the forefront of efforts to prevent violence, with a specific focus on addressing sexual violence against children. Specializing in clinical research, the group is dedicated to improving our understanding of pedophilia and developing evidence-based treatments. Their research seeks to establish effective, safe, tolerable, and scalable interventions both online and offline for individuals at risk of committing child sexual abuse.
Prevent It: https://www.iterapi.se/sites/preventit/
Project Bridge: https://www.iterapi.se/sites/bridge/
My links
Website: https://jeremyindika.com
Podcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcast
Something to Say: https://somethingtosayofficial.com
To support
Merchandise: https://somethingtosayofficial.com
Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/SomethingtoSay
Donate: https://jeremyindika.com/donate/
Social media
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeremyindika/
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Twitter: https://twitter.com/jeremyindika
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LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeremy-indika-31673573/
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@JeremyIndika
Podcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcast
Something to Say links
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/somethingtosayofficial/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/somethingtosayofficial1
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/something-to-say1
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INSPIRATION!!! I know my podcasts are usually tough to get through, but this one’s different. Marisol speaks about how she will no longer be held hostage to the sexual abuse from her brothers and she will now let go of the family that told her to keep it quiet.
She is a source of inspiration and I feel honoured to review her story on my latest podcast.
If you would like to watch this on YouTube - https://youtu.be/36XJ8akXdFM?si=xhzUH8tMI_JTjdp5
Please support Soft White Underbelly YouTube channel - https://www.youtube.com/@SoftWhiteUnderbelly.
For original video: https://youtu.be/36XJ8akXdFM?si=60-ch1i3HiHg00er
My links
Website: https://jeremyindika.com
Podcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcast
Something to Say: https://somethingtosayofficial.com
To support
Merchandise: https://somethingtosayofficial.com
Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/SomethingtoSay
Donate: https://jeremyindika.com/donate/
Social media
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LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeremy-indika-31673573/
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCeM5j3x68j8gq3MHPSLzjmQ
Something to Say links
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LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/something-to-say1
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As you know, I’m trying to change the way we do things, so we can provide inspiration for other survivors and also for the younger generations who look up to us to set an example.
This episode comes with a visual on YouTube too, make sure you check that out here - https://youtu.be/3EVhUSYts0I
Please share this around to help raise awareness for the reality of this crime and help people protect the children in their own family.
My links
Website: https://jeremyindika.com
Podcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcast
Something to Say: https://somethingtosayofficial.com
To support
Merchandise: https://somethingtosayofficial.com
Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/SomethingtoSay
Donate: https://jeremyindika.com/donate/
Social media
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LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeremy-indika-31673573/
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCeM5j3x68j8gq3MHPSLzjmQ
Something to Say links
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Girls are making a lot of money starring in scenarios where they behave underage (speaking with high pitched voices, in colourful bedrooms, whilst holding teddy bears and having sex).
There are no laws against this, so no one is breaking any rules.
The girls are over 18 and the directors say, the younger they can make them look, the better, because the men love it and the views are going through the roof, which means everyone’s making a lot of money and no one’s getting hurt, so what’s the problem?
If you'd like to watch this podcast for the visuals, click here - https://youtu.be/C_enOcVeTTw
Link to the documentary - https://youtu.be/8d0l9G-KChM?si=fIj9nsAs1n4zSgDD
My links
Website: https://jeremyindika.com
Podcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcast
Something to Say: https://somethingtosayofficial.com
To support
Merchandise: https://somethingtosayofficial.com
Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/SomethingtoSay
Donate: https://jeremyindika.com/donate/
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LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeremy-indika-31673573/
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCeM5j3x68j8gq3MHPSLzjmQ
Something to Say links
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I know this is something that we never want to think about. But with children being naturally curious, and learning behaviours from what they are see on TV and online, they do things that they don't fully understand - this is more common than you think.
I've interviewed Dr. Sophie King-Hill onto this podcast, who's a leading researcher on this topic to help us understand more.
Sophie's bio
Sophie is an Associate Professor in the Health Services Management Centre at the University of Birmingham. She specialises in sexual behaviours and first point assessment in children and young people, sexual health, controversial issues and teenage parents.
Profile: https://www.birmingham.ac.uk/schools/social-policy/departments/health-services-management-centre/staff/profile.aspx?ReferenceId=170453
Twitter: https://x.com/DrSophieKH?s=20
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drsophiekinghill/
Mapping tool: https://www.birmingham.ac.uk/schools/social-policy/departments/health-services-management-centre/research/projects/2022/sibling-sexual-behaviour-mapping/index.aspx
Book: https://link.springer.com/book/10.1007/978-3-031-34010-9
My links
Website: https://jeremyindika.com
Podcast: https://shows.acast.com/the-something-to-say-podcast
Something to Say: https://somethingtosayofficial.com
To support
Merchandise: https://somethingtosayofficial.com
Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/SomethingtoSay
Donate: https://jeremyindika.com/donate/
Social media
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeremyindika/
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LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jeremy-indika-31673573/
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCeM5j3x68j8gq3MHPSLzjmQ
Something to Say links
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If I can turn this subject into something that people become interested in, rather than it being so uncomfortable that they turn away, we can make one massive step towards prevention as we get people talking/raising the awareness.
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When you think of 3-year olds, 5-year old, 7-year olds etc, you think why would anyone sexual abuse something so kind and innocent? And another question is, how could anyone even get aroused by doing such a thing? But whilst we’re asking those questions, it’s actually happening in real life, so I’ve brought a charity called Brave Futures onto my podcast who work with these children to give them a better life.
Caroline speaks about the techniques they use with children as young as 3-years old, the challenges of doing a job like this and much more.
To anyone that does this job. YOU ARE HEROES.
Brave futures website: https://bravefutures.org/
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Alcohol, cigarettes and films have age restrictions on them, but when it comes to pornography, everything changes.
We’ve now got 13-year old boys watching hours of extreme content, like girls being gagged so forcefully during oral that they can hardly breathe. And all of this before these boys have even kissed a girl in real life.
How is this changing their brains?
I’ve reviewed an article from The Guardian newspaper that tells of a rise in teenage sex offences where immoral, abusive and non-consensual behaviour is happening and the boys are putting it down to, ‘well, they do it in porn videos, so what’s the problem?’.
The Guardian article - https://www.theguardian.com/society/2023/sep/26/pornography-driving-teens-child-abuse-material-charities-police
Lucy Faithful Foundation - https://www.lucyfaithfull.org.uk
As you can see from my platforms, I’m involved in many activities from speaking in schools, creating YouTube videos, releasing podcast episodes, running the Something to Say platforms and much more.
My aim is to create something for everyone. To have content of different styles – video, audio, written, imagery etc, so that however you like to get involved in this project, there is something for you.
Jeremy Indika links,
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This is shocking I know. But I want to speak more on this. There are many situations where force and violence are not used. It can be gentle, considered as caring, making the child feel like they are doing a good thing by letting the adult touch them in between their legs.
Think about 5-years olds, 7-year olds etc, still so vulnerable, and I know this is uncomfortable, but if we don’t start unpacking the reality of this, we stand no chance.
Please support this podcast by leaving a review on your podcast app. This has to be a team effort if we stand any chance of success.
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If your hooking up with someone for the first time - maybe at a party or a night out - how would you get consent? Pull out a contract and ask them to sign it? Ask every 5-minutes ‘is it still a yes’?
Confusing right? And we’re the adults here, now imagine what it’s like to be a teenager, with the added pressure of schools telling you one thing, the law saying something else and the reality of the situation being completely different from both of these.
Dr. Emily Setty talks about all of this in this podcast episode.
Emily's links
Twitter: https://twitter.com/emilysetty
Email: emily.setty@surrey.ac.uk
Contact: https://www.surrey.ac.uk/people/emily-setty
Guidance for educators document: https://drive.google.com/file/d/14K8VwMaleoV4jS4n-gtQLzttX8afXo4G/view
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Sold for sex at 9-years old by her own mother, leading to extreme promiscuity as a teenager, leading to relationships with narcissistic men as an adult - everyone keeps knocking this young woman down but she keeps getting up, determined to make something out of her life.
YouTube version: https://youtu.be/bUt9cUQlJCQ?si=GRNgav9UduK_yRew
As you can see from my platforms, I’m involved in many activities from speaking in schools, creating YouTube videos, releasing podcast episodes, running the Something to Say platforms and much more.
My aim is to create something for everyone. To have content of different styles – video, audio, written, imagery etc, so that however you like to get involved in this project, there is something for you.
My two websites are below,
Jeremy Indika: https://jeremyindika.com/
Something to Say: https://somethingtosayofficial.com/
I’ve interviewed Dr. James Cantor, an internationally recognised sex researcher, neuroscientist and psychologist. He discussed his findings with paedophilia (when someone’s arousal comes from children) and how we stand the best chance, as a society, of ensuring the crime never happens in the first place.
And before anyone says ‘just kill em’, I’m not talking about our options AFTER the crime’s been committed, I’m talking about BEFORE. Can we reach that person when they’re a teenager, or even as soon as they start thinking about hurting a child for the first time.
And if you’re still saying ‘just kill em’, what are you actually suggesting here? That we go round holding a gun to everyone’s head asking if they think about children?
The man that had my 8-year old penis in his mouth did this for the first time to somebody. Where was everyone before he got to that person? All shouting ‘kill em’ - that did absolutely NOTHING to help me, or any of his other victims.
Take a listen to this podcast episode. You don’t have to agree with it. But as long as we can explore all avenues we can at least start moving towards protecting the children of today.
Dr. James Cantor info.
Website - http://www.jamescantor.org
Twitter - https://twitter.com/JamesCantorPhD
Bio - Dr. James Cantor is an internationally recognized sex researcher. As a psychologist and neuroscientist, Dr. Cantor is known for his research on the development of atypical sexualities, including the causes of sexual orientation, gender identity, and diagnoses motivating sexual offenses. Over his career, Dr. Cantor has served as Senior Scientist at the Centre for Addiction and Mental Health (CAMH), on the Faculty of Medicine of the University of Toronto, and as Editor-in-Chief of the peer-reviewed journal Sexual Abuse. Dr. Cantor is no stranger to controversial topics and the science behind them: CBC produced a full-length documentary about his research, and interviews with him have appeared on BBC, CNN, and The New York Times. He and his work are routinely cited in legal proceedings in court cases throughout Canada and the U.S.
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Paedophile’s ask why we only get involved once they’ve offended.
They’re asking why nobody answers their calls for help before it happens, why no therapist, no counsellor will work with them, leaving them to their own devices where offending becomes much more likely.
How are you feeling as you read this?
Whatever your emotions are, I urge you to go check out my new podcast episode where I review a documentary that questions, if as a society, we are serious about the safety of children, why the hell are we so focused on punishment?
By that point it’s too late, the crime has already happened, where we we in all the stages that led up to it, working towards prevention.
This documentary is going to blow your mind. I still can’t stop thinking about it. It challenged me in so many ways.
Original documentary: https://vimeo.com/181331200/23d324a611
My YouTube review: https://youtu.be/HBN82vSJFAw
For more info: www.jeremyindika.com
Does comedy have a place here or not? Can it be used to break the heaviness of this conversation and help it reach new audiences? This comedian, Jonny Pelham goes around the country making jokes about his own story to lighten the load.
I go through his work in my new podcast episode. Whether you disagree or not with his approach, check out what he’s got to say.
To see more of my work - https://jeremyindika.com/
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This was recorded in October 2022.
Thank you to Paper Sky Films for making this vision a reality. To see more of their work - www.paperskyfilms.com
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I believe the majority of us would respond with "YES" to this question, but I don't think it's as simple as that. As we look closer, there are many things to consider, for example, what happens if the offender was your son.
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Ex-police officer, Mike Brewer, speaks on the challenges involved when interviewing paedophile’s and also, the techniques used when gathering evidence from the children who have been sexually abused by these people.
This is heroes work and I don’t think we give the police enough credit for doing this job. Imagine waking up every morning knowing what the day ahead was going to bring.
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Do you ever think about inappropriate touch being children on children? We must start talking about these things.
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Being repeatedly abused by your own mother throughout your childhood. Monica explains how her career on OnlyFans is giving her the attention and validation that she never got when she was a girl. Be ready for this. It’s a hard hitting story that takes many twists and turns.
For original video see Soft White Underbelly on YouTube.
For more information on my work https://jeremyindika.com/
When you reflect on how you were as a teenager, eager to impress and looking for attention, you start to remember how vulnerable that stage of your life was. In fact, it’s quite scary to think, you honestly believed that you knew everything at that age.
I’ve now learnt how that attitude leaves a teenager open. Open to manipulation by adults who want to take advantage of them, especially online.
In my new podcast episode, I review a video from author Gavin de Becker, who explains a teenagers nature in more detail, why this is leaving them exposed and what we can do to help them.
To watch the original video, click here - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MHoRiv8tdtM&t=0s
To find Gavin De Becker, click here - https://gdba.com
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I'm worried about doing this. It's a discussion that's become hugely charged from both sides. Some people calling for the Dalai Lama to be prosecuted for his actions, whilst others saying how dare you accuse someone who's devoted their life to kindness of such crimes. After seeing how things have played out since the video clip of him asking the boy to suck his tongue went hugely viral all over the internet, I wanted to see if I could present both sides of the discussion so that we could talk about it together. Because if we can't talk about these things then how are we going to get anywhere with any of it.
Original videos
A Tibetan's Perspective - https://youtu.be/bT0qey5Ts78
Fauzia Lala - https://youtu.be/cK1DEKHA4hA
This is a job that no one wants but thankfully there are people out there that are doing it. Imagine waking up every morning knowing that your day is going to be filled with visiting offenders to ensure they are not re-offending.
Beth Hoel spent 25-years working with prisoners who had served their sentence and were now released back into the community. She explains some of the things she learnt along the way.
Thank you to everyone out there who does these jobs. We are grateful to you.
Beth's links and bio,
Website: www.bhgconsultinggroup.com
Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@bethandmissytalk...8357
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bhgconsultinggroup/
Beth Hoel spent nearly 25 years with the Maricopa County Adult Probation Department in Phoenix, Arizona. While working with the probation department, Beth spent the vast majority of that time supervising sexual offenders. Throughout her career, Beth became an expert in the field while honing her skills at assessing risk, identifying an offender’s driver and focusing on rebuilding the entire person. Instead of focusing on just the offence and the conditions of supervision, Beth developed a holistic and collaborative approach to supervision. Today, Beth utilises those same skills as an objective third-party without the constraints of governmental red tape.
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There’s problems with my school presentation. People are surrounding me with red tape telling me I need to do this and need to do that. Why do us adults complicate everything? I can engage a room full of teenagers into something that traditional classroom techniques cannot. That should be enough.
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I've tried to use hindsight to open a discussion on the crucial conversations we must have with children in today's world.
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Obviously, our answer to this is YES. But this lawyer comes onto national TV to explain why it's not possible. There are 100,000 convicted sex offenders currently on the register (walking our streets), and to put them all in prison for life would come at an astronomical cost that no one is prepared to pay for. Alongside the fact that our prison capacity is 85,000 and it’s already full with other criminals.
If you would like to watch the video that this audio is extracted from - https://youtu.be/SBpKIWgpFC0
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First things first, we hope they can stop themselves from re-offending, otherwise we’re doomed as their prison sentence finishes and they’re released back into our society. This man speaks openly about how he will never offend again and how’s he’s now 30 years clean (his words).
If you would like to watch the video that this audio is extracted from - https://youtu.be/M1dE7Xvvi_4
Credit: Soft White Underbelly - https://www.youtube.com/@SoftWhiteUnderbelly
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Emily Setty is Senior Lecturer in Criminology at the University of Surrey. Her research focuses on young people’s experiences of sex and relationships both online and offline. She is particularly interested in harmful and abusive behaviour between and affecting young people and her research seeks to identify how best to support them to address the issues and challenges they face.
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