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Evan Marc Katz

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I may be a dating coach for women but that doesn't mean that all men are wrong in all situations. Drunken hookups are a perfect example. So...to cover my bases, ALL sexual assault is wrong and should be punishable to the fullest extent.

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This New York Times piece by Kim Tingley (great name, if you're writing about sex!) tried to come off as neutral but the structure of the piece - specifically the beginning and end - make it clear that the author very much WANTS men and women's brains to approach sex similarly and DOESN'T want to discover that men and women are different.

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But desire is something that's more primal - a drive towards sex - that makes a couple's physical relationship to a whole new level. The hard part is that desire usually drops due to hedonic adaption - the longer you have something, the less you desire it.

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It's a bit of a trick to make someone you've been with for a long time feel desirable, but it's vital to the health of the relationship. Sex with a monogamous partner will rarely feel "new" but it can - and should be - mutually satisfying, no matter how long you're together.

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There are the sexually liberated women who have sex with men and are disappointed when sex doesn’t lead to a relationship. Advice: stop having sex with men who aren’t your boyfriend.

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The first time I remember hearing about consent guidelines was in 1990. I was a freshman in college - binge-drinking, flirtatious, virginal freshman - when I read a story about Antioch College's radical new sexual harassment policy in which men would have to ask a woman for verbal consent...

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I am 31 and in an early, but exclusive (5 month) relationship with a wonderful man. He's 33, good looking, tall, he's very considerate, generous, loves dogs, gets on with my mother, tick, tick, tick. We have a very, very good sex life too. He's just the best. There is one thing that I find bothers me.

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I met a man online last year who has treated me wonderfully. He is everything my ex’s have not been. He treats my child as his own. He is transparent (opens all accounts, phones, computers), honest, loyal, caring.

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I don't know if I should have sex. Over a six-month period he's broken up with me on 4 occasions due to my celibate status. I am recently divorced, but a practicing Catholic observing chastity and trying to date.

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Sexually transmitted diseases are on the rise in America, according to new data from the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. In fact, nearly 2.3 million cases of chlamydia, gonorrhea and  syphilis were diagnosed in the U.S. in 2017, surpassing the record set in 2016 by more than 200,000.

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I met a great guy on Match two months ago and we've been spending a good amount of time together since. We have great conversation, and have fun together no matter what we do. He values me for who I am, and it feels great that I can completely be myself around him.

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The debate rages on in this surprising Slate article from earlier this summer. Can porn be addictive? Sure can.

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A few years back I found the man of my dreams, a man that was a leader, intelligent, caring, great with my kids and attractive. When I first met him, he was going through the outcomes of celiac disease...

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This observation from an article by Jia Tolentino blew me... READ POST

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I didn’t write about the Aziz Ansari thing for a... READ POST

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I’ve never cheated on anybody. Nor, to my knowledge, have... READ POST

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You don’t hear too many people write about the good... READ POST

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I have kind of a delicate question that I can’t... READ POST

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I’ve been spending a lot of time with an attractive,... READ POST

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I’m not pro-porn. I’m not anti-porn. Porn exists and many,... READ POST

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“It’s complicated.” It may  feel wishy-washy and dissatisfying, but  often that’s the... READ POST

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Ah, casual sex… Back when I was depressed, unemployed, and... READ POST

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When you blog twice a week for 10 years, you’re... READ POST

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I’m a 34-year old woman living in New York City,... READ POST

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I have found the perfect man on paper but he... READ POST

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Apparently, hundreds of millions of people think you can. According... READ POST

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I’m getting married this Halloween. I love my husband-to-be very... READ POST

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Dear Evan, I’m a couple of years from 30 and... READ POST

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I just started casually dating a really great guy, he... READ POST

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I’ve had two dates with a man that I met... READ POST

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Read enough relationship on the Internet and you’ll often hear... READ POST

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Here’s the latest video from the series I created with... READ POST

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I read your article on male celibacy and it was... READ POST

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Sex makes people happy. And why not? It’s fun.  It’s intimate.... READ POST

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I have been dating a man for 3 years. He’s... READ POST

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Let’s start with one thing: Just like every  study  ever conducted, just... READ POST

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…but not that differently. That’s the big takeaway I got... READ POST

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It’s a joke that men brag about how much sex... READ POST

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My boyfriend and I are in our late twenties, live... READ POST

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This is going to be such a bizarre question and... READ POST

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I am 22 years old and in a relationship of... READ POST

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I’ll admit, I’ve avoided putting this post up for a... READ POST

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Lots has been written about casual sex and the hookup... READ POST

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Here’s the downside of writing blog posts six weeks in... READ POST

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I’ve done no shortage of posts on sex and hook-up... READ POST

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First off, I’m glad to have found your site. Your... READ POST

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I’ve only done this twice before: once, in a post... READ POST

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If you’ve ever wondered why it seems that men are... READ POST

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As you may know, I’m really big on statistics, metrics,... READ POST

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My husband wants me to have an affair and has... READ POST

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I’m an EMK junkie, rely on Why He Disappeared, divorced... READ POST

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There’s been a lot of talk – including talk on... READ POST

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I’m a man who helps women understand men. Not all... READ POST

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The confirmation bias is a tendency to prefer information that... READ POST

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The old stereotype where the man wants sex and the... READ POST

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A recent study in the American Sociological Review titled “Religion... READ POST

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In the latest “Water is wet; News at 11” report,... READ POST

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Hi Evan! I have been seeing this fantastic guy for... READ POST

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Hi Evan, Love your blog! It seems that, after searching... READ POST

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I just broke up with my boyfriend of almost three... READ POST

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What can I say? These two hyperliterate women make me... READ POST

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My husband and I haven’t had intercourse lately because I... READ POST

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I really enjoyed this piece Salon.com, challenging the idea that... READ POST

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Here’s the (not-so) funny thing about online dating: The majority... READ POST

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I’m going to tread lightly on today’s post. Rape is... READ POST

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I love it when science confirms things that I’ve already... READ POST

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Evan, I meet a man via an online dating site,... READ POST

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Hanna Rosin is the author of the new book, “The... READ POST

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A recent Spanish study reveals that while men and women... READ POST

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Evan, In your book “Why He Disappeared,” on page 63,... READ POST

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I think you all know this by now, but it... READ POST

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In an article for Wired, author Jonah Lehrer concedes that... READ POST

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Journalist Susannah Breslin has started a compelling site called Letters... READ POST

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My boyfriend and I have been dating for 3 years... READ POST

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Writer Kendra Holliday has been with her partner for four... READ POST

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Several online articles have appeared recently regarding “sperm snatching,” including... READ POST

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In a Huffington Post article, New York comedian Juliet Jeske... READ POST

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A friend on Facebook sent me a link to a... READ POST

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Hello Evan, I have a tough question. I have been... READ POST

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Sex-Advice columnist Dan Savage, best known for his It Gets... READ POST

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Evan, My boyfriend and I have been dating for 7... READ POST

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For their new book A Billion Wicked Thoughts, neuroscientists Ogi... READ POST

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OKTrends released a study last week after compiling observations and... READ POST

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A study published this month by Australian researchers finds that... READ POST

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You know what it’s like to get devastated when a... READ POST

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With women beginning to outnumber men in college and the... READ POST

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How do you ask a guy friend to sleep with... READ POST

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Hi. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost... READ POST

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I am 30, not married, and have been in 2... READ POST

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How does a man, age 30, gain sexual experience when... READ POST

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Evan, I have a hell of a relationship conundrum and... READ POST

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This is a question that is a response to ‘My... READ POST

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Ran across this AOL article with a great first line:... READ POST

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I’m no sexologist but I find studies like this compelling,... READ POST

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Dear Evan, If you’re looking for a long term relationship…... READ POST

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We’re constantly on the go, busy from dawn ’til dusk... READ POST

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Just came back from the gym and heard an interesting... READ POST

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Hello Evan, I’ve been in love with my friend for... READ POST

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Dear Evan, There is this guy whom I like. Mark... READ POST

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Dear Evan, I broke up with my girlfriend of 11... READ POST

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Hi Evan, I’ve been online dating for a while now,... READ POST

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About four months ago, I reconnected with a college boyfriend... READ POST

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Hi Evan, How do you avoid putting “notches on your... READ POST

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I’m 25, and Jewish but totally secular and non-practicing. I’ve... READ POST

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I’m a 31-year old woman, and have been dating a... READ POST

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What is wrong with me?? I have been searching for... READ POST

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Dear Evan, I really hope you can help me with... READ POST

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Dear Evan, I have a problem with my boyfriend and... READ POST

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As a woman going through some much desired transformation, I... READ POST

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I’ve been dating this girl for two and a half... READ POST

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Hey Evan, My boyfriend and I have been dating for... READ POST

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Hi Evan – Really enjoy your blog. I found out... READ POST

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I’ve been reading for a while, and I find myself... READ POST

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I’d like to hear your take on how a guy... READ POST

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You saw “When Harry Met Sally…” but have you lived... READ POST

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Topic: Is there anything wrong with a person in a... READ POST

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Evan, Please help me. I have a friend who sleeps... READ POST

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The end of Wednesday’s blog post brought up a very... READ POST

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Dear Evan, I am 27 and a virgin. I am... READ POST

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Dear Evan, So what is it with guys who just... READ POST

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(by Elise Nersesian from Match.com’s Happen Magazine) These days, should... READ POST