Sex isn’t just about sex! let’s be real. Stimulating the mind, body, and soul as a whole is truly a divine experience and I want to share that with you in todays episode! My husband & I continuously use our sexy time as a spiritual practice together and the deepness of our connection grows more and more each time. I’m curious to know your thoughts on the subject?
Whew. This is a difficult topic for me because I'm still healing from it. Many of us suffer from the Dad wound and we either let it break us or make us - I made the choice for this wound to push me forward and to prove to myself that despite me not receiving the love I deserved early on, I have a chance to create that love for myself and my family. Diary session #1?! Absolutely. When it comes to this, I am in need of deep healing but very much proud of how far I have came from talking about it out loud without crying LOL and even if I did cry, let it out girl! That's what this podcast is all about. The cries, the laughs, and the real REAL.
This week's episode is all about dimming your light for the sake of someone else's comfort in fear of judgement, what others will say about you and being afraid to step out of your comfort zone to do what it is your heart desires. I have struggled the majority of my life with the fear of going out and being my most authentic self, afraid to speak on things I am most passionate about because, let's be honest, some people (even those closest to you) don't want to see you doing better than them. Just putting on makeup for an outing has made me...uncomfortable?!? Why can't I just be ME? Why can't YOU just be whoever it is YOU desire to be without having to force it or because of the fear you have allowed yourself to hold onto all these years? This is what God created and blessed. Let's not dim our light to meet others where they meet themselves. Let's talk about it.
I personally did not value the true meaning of friendship until I started valuing the relationship I had with myself. Do you ever feel like you attract the most untrustworthy, unauthentic, far from genuine kind of friendships? Maybe you are feeling like you can't be alone and always need a companion to turn to but maybe you're just lacking a friendship within yourself. Lacking that trust and self love within yourself which, in turn, attracts the WORST kind of friendships towards you. I am in a new phase of my life where I know my truest bestie/besties are out there, we just haven't met yet. It's time for me to really get real with myself and be my OWN best friend first before the right kind of friends will come along. Let's talk about it girlfriend.