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What happens when you put together an aspiring artist and a computer engineer?

lurkers is the #1 (and only) podcast where a millennial couple discusses the internet's top relationship problems IRL and provide their unsolicited advice. Every Sunday, get real with Rafi and Lily as they discuss the top weekly posts from r/relationship_advice.

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What do you do when your girlfriend becomes hot? How do you support your husband when you can't work? What does any of this have to do with balance??? Tune in and get real with the lurkers as they discuss this week's top posts from the r/relationship_advice subreddit. Tune in to discuss, dissect, and share some laughs IRL with your favorite millennial couple, Rafi and Lily. New episodes every Sunday at 9am EST!

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What could go wrong deepfaking your deceased grandfather? What is wife material? Plus we give some great tips on how to get better sleep! Get real with the lurkers as they discuss this week's top posts from the r/relationship_advice subreddit. Tune in to discuss, dissect, and share some laughs IRL with your favorite millennial couple, Rafi and Lily. New episodes every Sunday at 9am EST!

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Love comes in all flavors, but the flavors of this week some find unsavory. There is a fine line between cheating and polyamory, especially when it involves your parents! We also debate the difference between self-love and a selfish lover. Get real with the lurkers as they discuss this week's top posts from the r/relationship_advice subreddit. Tune in to discuss, dissect, and share some laughs IRL with your favorite millennial couple, Rafi and Lily. New episodes every Sunday at 9am EST!

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How ambitious is too ambitious? Should you block your ex? How would a teenage boy handle relationship-shattering information? Get real with the lurkers as they discuss this week's top posts from the r/relationship_advice subreddit. Tune in to discuss, dissect, and share some laughs IRL with your favorite millennial couple, Rafi and Lily. New episodes every Sunday at 9am EST!

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WE'RE LIVE AGAIN and ~uncensored~ Check out the video version on our Instagram page or listen here but either way... Get real with the lurkers as they discuss this week's top posts from the r/relationship_advice subreddit. Tune in to discuss, dissect, and share some laughs IRL with your favorite millennial couple, Rafi and Lily. New episodes every Sunday at 9am EST!

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After a long week of moving, the lurkers sit down and well... let's just say they're a little loopy. Listen to them try to discuss tales of a judgemental bf and a famous SO. Get real with the lurkers as they discuss this week's top posts from the r/relationship_advice subreddit. Tune in to discuss, dissect, and share some laughs IRL with your favorite millennial couple, Rafi and Lily. New episodes every Sunday at 9am EST!

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Live(mostly) and uncensored again!!! This time due to having little time due to big moves! Our first couple is deciding how to split rent. What do you do when your husband can't get you... excited? Get real with the lurkers as they discuss this week's top posts from the r/relationship_advice subreddit. Tune in to discuss, dissect, and share some laughs IRL with your favorite millennial couple, Rafi and Lily. New episodes every Sunday at 9am EST!

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Live and uncensored! (well…kinda) This week we test out some Pavlovian punishments to stop cursing. Our first couple is struggling with a quid pro kink situation. What do you do when your conservative Karen becomes a woke AF SJW?Get real with the lurkers as they discuss this week's top posts from the r/relationship_advice subreddit. Tune in to discuss, dissect, and share some laughs IRL with your favorite millennial couple, Rafi and Lily. New episodes every Sunday at 9am EST!

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Not gonna lie, the people surrounding our OPs this week SUCK! Is it okay for an underage girl to move into a house full of twenty-something men (TLDR: No.)? How should you deal with a plagiarizing partner? Get real with the lurkers as they discuss this week's top posts from the r/relationship_advice subreddit. Tune in to discuss, dissect, and share some laughs IRL with your favorite millennial couple, Rafi and Lily. New episodes every Sunday at 9am EST!

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Watch out for snakes! What is the best way to deal with petty b!tches? Is accepting birthday cash from your ex okay? Get real with the lurkers as they discuss this week's top posts from the r/relationship_advice subreddit. Tune in to discuss, dissect, and share some laughs IRL with your favorite millennial couple, Rafi and Lily. New episodes every Sunday at 9am EST!

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What do you do when your boyfriend is a little tooooo sensitive? How do you confront your boyfriend when he heavily edits your appearance on social media? Get real with the lurkers as they discuss this week's top posts from the r/relationship_advice subreddit. Tune in to discuss, dissect, and share some laughs IRL with your favorite millennial couple, Rafi and Lily. New episodes every Sunday at 9am EST!

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If mirrors are real, should our kinks be real? Is kink-shaming okay? Get real with the lurkers as they discuss this week's top posts from the r/relationship_advice subreddit. Tune in to discuss, dissect, and share some laughs IRL with your favorite millennial couple, Rafi and Lily. New episodes every Sunday at 9am EST!

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Ex-best friend trying to get revenge? Did you marry a racist prankster? Get real with the lurkers as they discuss this week's top posts from the r/relationship_advice subreddit. Tune in to discuss, dissect, and share some laughs IRL with your favorite millennial couple, Rafi and Lily. New episodes every Sunday at 9am EST!

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Sneezing every time you’re horny? The IRL mods get into a HEATED debate over what makes a lie. Get real with the lurkers as they discuss this week's top posts from the r/relationship_advice subreddit. Tune in to discuss, dissect, and share some laughs IRL with your favorite millennial couple, Rafi and Lily. New episodes every Sunday at 9am EST!

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Road rage? More like not on the same page! How does one decipher a risqué text from their stepdaughter? Get real with the lurkers as they discuss this week's top posts from the r/relationship_advice subreddit. Tune in to discuss, dissect, and share some laughs IRL with your favorite millennial couple, Rafi and Lily. New episodes every Sunday at 9am EST!

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Content Advisory: Contains profanity, explicit language, and potentially triggering content. Having conversations with loved ones and friends in these times can be difficult and painful, but hold the capacity to affect real change. We needed to take a pause this week to reflect on what has been happening in the news in America and in the second half of the episode, we provide advice and tips for approaching and navigating conversations around these issues. Tune in to discuss, dissect, and share with your favorite millennial couple, Rafi and Lily. New episodes every Sunday at 9am EST.

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If you can’t handle us at our worst... Does size really matter? Is anyone completely straight? Get real with the lurkers as they discuss this week's top posts from the r/relationship_advice subreddit. Tune in to discuss, dissect, and share some laughs IRL with your favorite millennial couple, Rafi and Lily. New episodes every Sunday at 9am EST!

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*cue Cardi B voice That’s suspicious…* What do you do when your brother starts dating your ex? Is there such a thing as a shotgun artificial insemination? Get real with the lurkers as they discuss this week's top posts from the r/relationship_advice subreddit. Tune in to discuss, dissect, and share some laughs IRL with your favorite millennial couple, Rafi and Lily. New episodes every Sunday at 9am EST!

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We've got beef! Do women know how to treat a man these days? How do you know when it's time to leave? Get real with the lurkers as they discuss this week's top posts from the r/relationship_advice subreddit. Tune in to discuss, dissect, and share some laughs IRL with your favorite millennial couple, Rafi and Lily. New episodes every Sunday at 9am EST!

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Cheating comes in many forms... What is just an emotional affair? Can ~sexytime~ be plagiarized? Get real with the lurkers as they discuss this week's top posts from the r/relationship_advice subreddit. Tune in to discuss, dissect, and share some laughs IRL with your favorite millennial couple, Rafi and Lily. New episodes every Sunday at 9am EST!

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So you've heard of helicopter moms, but have you encountered a lawnmower mom? Is there a limit to a mother's love? Get real with the lurkers as they discuss this week's top posts from the r/relationship_advice subreddit. Tune in to discuss, dissect, and share some laughs IRL with your favorite millennial couple, Rafi and Lily. New episodes every Sunday at 9am EST!

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Someone grab salt bae, this one needs all the spice. How do you add some new life into some rigid bedsprings? Is there a respectful way to beat the daylights out of your sister? Get real with the lurkers as they discuss this week's top posts from the r/relationship_advice subreddit. Tune in to discuss, dissect, and share some laughs IRL with your favorite millennial couple, Rafi and Lily. New episodes every Sunday at 9am EST!

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Y'all, get ready for some deep-fried f#!$ery. What should a young girl do when her parents side with a pervy pastor? What should a grown woman do when her husband is a prospective Proud Boy? Get real with the lurkers as they discuss this week's top posts from the r/relationship_advice subreddit. Tune in to discuss, dissect, and share some laughs IRL with your favorite millennial couple, Rafi and Lily. New episodes every Sunday at 9am EST!

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In this episode, we've got a very dirty boy! We also advise a man who's cleaned up his act but is now under fire from his... mom? Get real with the lurkers as they discuss this week's top posts from the r/relationship_advice subreddit. Tune in to discuss, dissect, and share some laughs IRL with your favorite millennial couple, Rafi and Lily. New episodes every Sunday at 9am EST

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Bow chicka wow-wow! It is Valentine's Day and we're about to dive in! What happens when an Ambien-induced egg sandwich turns into a very pragmatic rambling on ginormous members? Where is your SO really up to when they say: "Don' worry about it"? Get real with the lurkers as they discuss this week's top posts from the r/relationship_advice subreddit. Tune in to discuss, dissect, and share some laughs IRL with your favorite millennial couple, Rafi and Lily. New episodes every Sunday at 9am EST 

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Is it inappropriate to tell your escort you caught the feels? How would you break it to your parents that they can’t follow you to grad school? Get real with the lurkers as they discuss this week's top posts from the r/relationship_advice subreddit. Tune in to discuss, dissect, and share some laughs IRL with your favorite millennial couple, Rafi and Lily. New episodes every Sunday at 9am EST Connect with the lurkers on Instagram @lurkerspodcast Submit your relationship questions anonymously Professional Resources: https://warmline.org/ https://www.7cups.com/ https://www.nami.org/Home


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Don't let the title fool you, this episode is heavy! We are talking about some hot and HEAVY topics this week so trigger warning What do you do when a pandemic interrupts the only thing keeping your partner's sadistic urges in check? How far would you go in a McDonald's parking lot? Get real with the lurkers as they discuss this week's top posts from the r/relationship_advice subreddit. Tune in to discuss, dissect, and share some laughs IRL with your favorite millennial couple, Rafi and Lily.

New episodes every Sunday at 9am EST

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What happens when your family gets too comfortable? What do you do when you realize your girlfriend is a Grade-A Karen? Get real with the lurkers as they discuss this week's top posts from the r/relationship_advice subreddit. Tune in to discuss, dissect, and share some laughs IRL with your favorite millennial couple, Rafi and Lily.

New episodes every Sunday at 9am EST

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How should a parent handle finding a note that was not meant for their eyes? What do you do when your older sister is a total homewrecker? Get real with the lurkers as they discuss this week's top posts from the r/relationship_advice subreddit. Tune in to discuss, dissect, and share some laughs IRL with your favorite millennial couple, Rafi and Lily.

New episodes every Sunday at 9am EST

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Get real with the lurkers in their Pilot episode as they discuss two juicy posts from the r/relationship_advice subreddit. Dive into some of the internet's messiest relationship issues IRL with your hosts, millennial couple Lily and Rafi. What should you do when you find NSFW pictures of a friend on Reddit (hint: it involves this gif)? How does a married couple even the score after a spontaneous hot tub swinger's session? Tune in to discuss, dissect, and share some laughs with the lurkers.

New episodes every Sunday at 9am EST

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This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app