Most of us think we are above-average listeners, but in truth, we all could be better. In this episode, listening expert Oscar Trimboli tells us why Deep Listening is a game-changing skill, and how listening can change individuals and cultures.

SHOW NOTES

• How a difficult international meeting led Oscar to become an expert on listening

• Why aren't we taught how to listen?

• Everyone thinks they are a good listener

• Most of us listen in black and white

• The biggest challenge we have with listening

• The 125/400 Rule

• We are programmed to be distracted

• The most important person you need to listen to is yourself

• Three tips for Level 1 Listening

• Your ability to be present doubles when you turn your electronic devices off

• The link between hydration and listening

• The deeper you breathe, the deeper you listen

• Listen carefully for what's not said

• The 125/900 Rule

• You have an 11% chance that what you are saying is what you are thinking

• Don't assume that the first thing someone says is really what they mean

• Three phrases to get to the heart of the matter

• The danger of only listening to those who have a strong opinion

• Ask the Eileens of the world

• Are you listening to all of the opinions in the room?

• How deep listening can change a "disaster movie" culture

You can connect with Oscar and get free listening tips at www.listeningmyths.com

You can connect with Brian at www.brianrollo.com