In a world racing toward smarter machines, empathy speakers and authors Rob Volpe and Maria Ross get curious in this limited subseries about what only humans can feel, do, and be — and why that's our greatest competitive advantage. Enjoy this limited subseries here on The Empathy Edge.

Aspiration, Hope, Free Will & the Future-Oriented Mind

Humans don't just live in the present. We imagine futures that don't exist yet, then try to build them, and we do it using the same neural machinery that lets us remember our past.

Maria Ross and Rob Volpe explore what psychologist Endel Tulving called mental time travel: the brain's unique ability to simulate scenarios that haven't happened using a network that overlaps almost entirely with episodic memory. We can't dream forward if we can't look back. Yet, our memories can be unreliable, causing us to build narratives around what actually happened or how it impacted us. Are we the only species who can do this? That sets up the harder question: do we actually choose, or does it just feel like we do?

Finally, we discuss the difference between hope and optimism. When humans are at their best, they describe aspiration, vision, and forward motion, but humans in survival mode, who cannot access hope or aspiration, are equally human. What does that tell us about how fragile, and how earned, this superpower really is?

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"We don't just react to the present like many species. We reflect on the past. We imagine the future." — Maria Ross

Episode References:

  • Endel Tulving on mental time travel and episodic memory: pnas.org/doi/10.1073/pnas.1301195110
  • Neuroscience News on the contested legacy of Libet's free will experiment: neurosciencenews.com/libet-free-will-23756
  • Daniel Dennett, Freedom Evolves
  • Rebecca Solnit, Hope in the Dark
  • Finding Your Roots with Roy Wood Jr., "Laughing on the Inside," Season 7, Episode 10: pbs.org/video/laughing-inside-gble34
  • IEQ9 Integrative Enneagram: IEQ9.com
  • Harry Pickens leadership work on self-regulation in challenging times and working with AI to build your human capacity: strategicneuroregulation.com
  • Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs: simplypsychology.org/maslow.html
  • The AI Doc: Or How I Became an Apocaloptimist

About Maria Ross:

Maria Ross is a speaker, author, empathy strategist, and host of The Empathy Edge podcast, now in its sixth year. She believes cash flow, creativity, and compassion are not mutually exclusive™, and has spent decades helping leaders balance empathy with accountability to drive better results, stronger teams, and lasting impact. She is the author of four books, including the award-winning The Empathy Dilemma, a Forbes.com contributor on Workplace Empathy, and creator of two LinkedIn Learning empathy courses.

About Rob Volpe:

Rob Volpe is the Founder/CEO of Empathy Activist and the creator of The 5 Steps to Empathy, which he chronicles in his award-winning book Tell Me More About That: Solving the Empathy Crisis One Conversation at a Time. He is a recognized thought leader, speaker, and consultant in the improvement of communication and collaboration in organizations of all sizes in all industries.

Connect with Rob Volpe:

Website: robvolpe.expert

Book: Tell Me More About That: Solving the Empathy Crisis One Conversation

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LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/rmvolpe

Facebook: facebook.com/EmpathyActivist

Instagram: instagram.com/empathy_activist

Connect with Maria:

Get Maria's books: Red-Slice.com/books

Hire Maria to speak: Red-Slice.com/Speaker-Maria-Ross

Take the LinkedIn Learning Courses! Leading with Empathy and Balancing Empathy, Accountability, and Results as a Leader

LinkedIn: Maria Ross

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