• Examine the WOUND: Do I KNOW the TRUE NATURE of the offense?

• Examine my HEART: Am I WILLING and READY to DEAL with the offense? — Matthew 5:23-24 NIV — Matthew 7:1-2 NIV

• Examine my APPROACH: HOW am I MOVING TOWARD my offender? — Luke 17:3 NIV

EXTRA RESOURCES "The Peacemaker" by Ken Sande "How to Stop the Pain" by Dr. James Richards "I Should Forgive, but . . ." by Dr. Chuck Lynch